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3 pointsI thought that you were going to say that he would pass out from all the blood rushing from his brain to his cock.
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2 pointsAlright, you faked a suicide attempt . You shouldn't even be thinking about Swinging for a very, very long time. It should't even be on the table until you both have seriously healed. I'm not asking you to feel badly about a faked suicide attempt, I'm saying that you're so far away from your marriage being a priority, much less THE priority, that you should not be seeking additional partners.
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2 pointsRednurse, these are real issues that you can work with your therapist upon. It's important to understand that swinging never solves anything. If there's going to be problems because you don't swing, there's going to be problems if you do swing. If he's going to slip up again because his patience runs out, there's no strong basis on which the two of you should be swinging. There's an oft quoted piece of advice here which rings absolutely true here; a couple needs to move into swinging at the speed of the slower of the two. It should never be pressured, it should never feel pushed. Couples usually do it by opening doors for each other, communicating at a very deep level, never engaging in any judgment of one another - most especially when these deepest thoughts and emotions are being brought out to the other partner. Right now, I would venture to guess that there are serious trust issues. The trust has to be built up again to the point where it's a given, and you can't imagine either of you ever doing something to damage it again. There should never be a question of why you're supposedly not good enough. It's perfectly well and good to analyze how you can be a better partner to your husband. That's a positive thing. Dwelling in self doubt about how good you are is counterproductive to yourself. If you truly believe you're not good enough, it's going to be a very, very bitter pill to see your husband having sex with another woman and enjoying it. Please do keep posting; we're happy to listen and offer what insight we can.
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2 pointsShe journals her life on a computer we share where she lets me read about her meetings. Since we are open about our life we know passwords we use, no hiding anything. I don’t journal the way she does, I just have emails she can read and has full access to this post. I once asked her why she journaled I was positive it wasn’t for me to read, it was for safety. She meets random men on a cheaters site so she would journal the who and the where she was meeting. Even her password to that site she uses is open to me. Her journal became more and more detailed bordering on pornography with some comedy with men who didn’t live up to their resume. We now play together at times and I look forward to reading her journal after those meetings.
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2 pointsThat is the perfect attitude and the perfect prelude to entering the lifestyle. Talking to make sure you are doing it for fun not revenge or because one is pressuring. After years of just sexual play we are now enjoying a more social aspect of the lifestyle. We had steered clear of any close relationships maybe out of fear of not wanting to be involved with other’s problems.
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2 pointsI think you hit the nail on the head. Everyone here to one level or another seeks and enjoys the openness, the laughter, the fun, the ability to talk about most anything at all. Oh yeah. There will be sex play at one level or another. This lifestyle is very social both in and out of the bedroom. There is no one definition the lifestyle is very all-inclusive of every gender, all adult accepted sexual practices. Each and every participant chooses for themselves what they may or may not want to try, experience, watch, explore, discover etc. that covers about 90 percent of all those that participate at any level. And then the other 10 percent. For all the wrong reasons they dabble, they hope it helps, they hope it will fix things, they hope it will change things, they hope to prove something, they hope to teach someone a lesson, they are looking to be treated as they believe they deserve, they love to pass judgement on others, they love drama, they want to set up there spouse/so for some personal reason, they are there hopefully just to please their spouse/so. Again the list is endless. And for the special 65 percent who can treat sex as an adult extracurricular activity to be shared and enjoyed……well…..life is full of spice.
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2 pointsI've never seen Daniela with a guy who has a really big cock or a really small one, all the men she's played/plays with who I have seen are average. She has told me about some others from before we met that were extremely large or small. She says that she has never failed to get off on a dick of any size, she sees it as a challenge. Daniela has told me that the guys who disappointed her were the ones who were quick to cum, then done, not giving her a chance to orgasm a third or even second time. Even a good dick sucking couldn't revive their interests. So for my wife, it isn't the size, it the duration.
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1 pointDidn’t know where to post this thought I had when I read about the fear of wife leaving for another woman she met alone. This may not pertain to all here. SEX is for Fun. We were not looking for love or romantic relationships. Think most here agree with that. We talked and talked and talked before taking that first step of just looking. We Love US. Forgive my ramble. Rocky plays guitar and sings but he’s no Dave Matthews. We will go to a concert but I will listen to Rocky for the rest of life. Rocky is extremely funny and witty yet we go to listen to many comedians who are hysterical. We both are pretty good cooks and then we go to restaurants. We still hire plumbers, electricians, gardeners and other tradesmen though we are capable to fix things. The pandemic gave us time to again talk and that led to a curiosity. I don’t consider myself Bisexual, others will say I fit a definition. That curiosity brought me to act out not change my preference. Possibly it was the rebel in me that had me go against what society says is wrong, what religion says is wrong. I can’t say if it was the openness of same sex relationships on TV and movies that made me curious. We made a decision together knowing I was taking a new step and Rocky would likely have sex with another woman. I brought up him having sex with a man that he had no interest in doing. I didn’t push him, we just talked about it. I wanted to fulfill a fantasy not find a lover. I wanted to have fun and I had fun. We had fun together with a couple and I had a number of firsts. That first time led to a first time with a friend and her husband. This was about sexual fun not anything more. I also had sex alone with my girlfriend with the husbands knowing. We did the same things alone as we did with the husbands watching. Back to the post about leaving your spouse after having sex without him being there, IT’S NOT HAPPENING.
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1 pointUntil you have COMPLETE trust in your partner, and you certainly shouldn't have that right now, swinging will not work for you. Every time you are with another person or couple, you will be thinking if he is planning on replacing you with that person. I glad to see that he wants to try and repair the relationship and that you are both getting counseling. I'm also glad to see that you have come back here and continue to follow up with what is happening...we appreciate that since so many times someone posts and ghosts. You ARE good enough...more than good enough. The problem is we become complacent with just about anything. If you drink only the finest, most expensive wine and nothing else, a glass of water (being that is something different) is going to taste wonderful...for awhile. The fault is not yours, it's just something that can happen unless you (and in this case, he) realize the rare gift that has been given and remembered, on a daily basis. Rarely a lesson that is easily learned. Just keep talking, as long as you are both talking, things should keep getting better. Good luck and we remain here for you.
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1 pointThe door opened and the three of us walked in the foyer of Susan’s home. Jenny was dressed in one of my swing dresses. Pleated, shoulder to thigh, deep v-neck in the front, open and backless from behind. Her breasts, while larger then mine, simply filled it out better. This dress, with her body, cried out the words ‘lust after me.’ She leans in and whispers, ”I can just have pure sex and just about anyone will say ’Yes!'?” Jenny asked. “I promise.” “Will you select the first man to fuck me tonight?” Jenny wanted to know. “It would be a privilege.” “He’ll know what to do?”Jenny wondered. “I’ll have him take you just like he took me.” “Oh my,” Jenny smiled. And with that we walk into the living room. Susan introduces Alex and I, though most everyone here knows us. There are two couples who look new. They should be fun. Susan turns to me and I introduce our friend Jenny and I notice the men more than swoon a little bit. Her body and my dress have done their work. Things are starting in a simple way. A kiss there, a gentle arm stroke there. Lots of smiling and laughing. There’s even a couple in heavy terry cloth bathrobes. They may have arrived ahead of schedule and had an early romp. I see Edison, Susan’s husband, and gesture for him to come by. “Hello Edison. This is Jenny.” “Welcome to our home. Susan is my wife,” Edison replied. I look at Jenny and give her a wink. She gives a nod back of approval. Edison is no fool and he’s patient with the moment. I lean over and whisper to him. “You are completely cleared to take her by the hand, lead her over to the couch, stand behind her, unzip her dress, strip her and just start fucking her just like you did when we first met.” “Hello Jenny,” he says. He lifts her hand, kisses it and she smiles. “Walk with me, “ he says and he begins to lead her. A fair share of eyes turn to see this moment. There’s a smidgen of voyeur in the best of us, isn’t there? Edison and Susan give each other free rein at their parties. They never need to check in with each other. At this type of party they are truly among their finest friends. Jenny stands tall, Edison strokes her shoulder, moving fingers to lift one shoulder strap, then another, rolling the dress downward. She’s wearing nothing underneath and at first her breasts are exposed, then her flat stomach, then gently past her hips. She shudders her hips slightly as Edison draws the dress the rest of the way downward, showing her pussy. Jenny steps out of the dress and Edison lays it on the couch. Jenny leans gently back into him, arching her back. Edison pulls his shirt off and has his pants fall to the ground. He’s promptly naked and he’s fully hard. I adore him as he strokes her back, gently guiding her body to rest over the overstuffed arm rest of the couch, which is wide and supports her body fully. His cock in hand he does as he was told and enters her and pushes in as deeply as he can go. He draws back and does so again. Jenny is already crazy for him, I knew she would be. She’s riding back, eyes closed yet with a wide, teeth-filled smile as she starts pushing back into him with every thrust he makes. Edison fucks her and she lifts her body at the waist and he reaches around, one hand across her breasts, the other stroking her clit. Jenny is crazy for Edison, even more than for my Alex. I walk over to the couple in the white terrycloth robes and before I can say hello, Susan appears from nowhere and introduces me to Nikki and Michael. Susan explains to them, ”If you’re smart you’ll just start with her now. She has my seal of sexproval.” She then leans over to me, ”Your husband is having a threesome and I’m going to go and join in.” I can tell from Nikki’s eyes that she’s bi. Lucky me. I lean in to kiss and she returns my intentions, licking my lips. As we start moving against each others bodies, I reach to her husband, through his bathrobe, and start stroking his cock as his wife lets her robe simply fall to the floor. She’s one of the most beautiful women I’ve had the opportunity to get naked. I certainly hope Alex gets to have her later. It’s rare that I describe a woman this way, yet, ”What a rack!” Nikki takes my hand and moves it to her pussy. I curve fingers into her as she grabs my hand pushing it even more deeply into her. My other hand pumps the surface of her breast and she’s grabbing my ass with both hands as I’m very nearly fisting her. I’m still reaching behind me stroking Michael’s ever hardening cock. He’s kissing my neck at the side being very careful not to interrupt his wife’s attentions to me. As Nikki starts undoing my blouse, a Michael unzips my jeans. Both are merely surface layers. Cool air hits my warm skin as both are elegantly drawn off me. There’s a massive sectional couch in the next room and we go there. I’m sprawled out and Nikki is completely over my body in short order. Kissing my neck and rubbing my neck as I continue the effort with fingers curled up inside her. Good girl. Michael straddles her from behind. I hear her almost chirp like a woman being newly penetrated, but I can’t feel his cock. Then I realize it. He’s buttfucking her while I nearly fist her. She’s taking her husband like a pro and my hands is wet with her pussy and my lips dripping from her tongue. I think she likes me. Nikki is amazing. She’s coming hard and not letting up on me. She gasps to her husband who is totally giving her an ass thrashing to give her a moment. Michael says he’ll clean up his cock and be right back. I’m glad because if I don’t fuck him soon I’m going to go insane. I’m so wound up. “Is it okay if I just kiss you?” she asks. "Of course," I agree and she melts her body into mine. Lips everywhere and fingers in my hair. I decide to go to it and stoke her pussy jack hammer style and she cums hard. As her body shudders I plunge my fingers completely into her again and she shakes and cums even more. She is so pretty. “Thank you. I love it, but getting it the ass is exhausting,” she explains. We chat and caress each other’s bodies. I tell her that when her husband gets back I’ll put on a show for her. Michael returns and I have Nikki roll to one side. I get on all fours and Michael grabs my hips; he’s in charge. As he enters me, he begins stroking my clit with one hand, his other hand is around my breasts and he pulls me back, hard and fast and he starts giving me my first fuck of the evening. I say out loud to him, ”I want you to take me.” ———————————————— Susan kisses me and says,”Remember what happened the first time we kissed?” With that I knew to fall to my knees and leaned forward stroking her legs as my tongue presses against her pussy, my tongue moving into her and tasting her wet. Like before, she runs her fingers into my hair, and pulls my head more closely against her. I open my mouth and totally engulf her pussy. I’m remembering my first moment realizing I was bisexual and reliving it going down on the same woman. It’s incredibly arousing. This time, though, it’s not a new experience and I know so much more. I’m still licking her and push two fingers up and into her to stroke her g-spot. —————————————— Ray is in his 50’s and I’ve had sex with him in the past. Once at a house party, twice; the other time we ran into each other and with my husband’s permission, with full abandon, got a hotel and fucked away an afternoon. It had been a couple of years since those amazingly great sexual experiences. Now he was here with his new wife. She is his age and looking great in a Mrs McCain sort of way. In other words, she rocked. As I said hello and he introduced his wife I was just thrilled for him and greeted her with a big hug and a smile. Without missing a beat he explained to her that we had met and played in the lifestyle in the past. Ray explained that Madeline had tried a couple of foursomes in the last year and this house party was new type of experience for her. They were both wearing the heavy white terry cloth bathrobes that had been provided for everyone. Madeline did not shy away from the conversation, and at that moment Alex walked up and gave me a hug at the waist, clearly claiming me as his wife. At that point Madeline said, ”And you would be the husband?” We made quick introductions of Alex as she continued, ”I’m not a prude, I’ve just never been walking around naked at a party before. And, ya know, I’m not the youngest woman here if you know what I mean.” Alex didn’t miss a beat, ”Yet certainly one of the most exquisite.” Oh my god, he wants to fuck her. How fun. We continued chatting, yet there’s that fine line between being sexually suggestive and being boorish. No one had crossed it, and we were perfectly positioned in the room to nearly have a private chat, while being in a public environment in the house. Of course I had a keen understanding of Ray and could pick up on his cues. In many ways, what happened next was up to Madeline and Alex, as any suggestions from Ray and I might appear self-serving. Alex began, ”For me, I soon realized I could be naked in a room, yet so focused on a woman I was oblivious. By the time I truly realized it, it was no big deal. I think you might find the same to be true.” And then he really took charge, ”I think we already know that Ray and Sandra enjoy each other. I know we’ve just met, yet I’d love to give it a go by kissing you and slowly slipping you out of your robe and it becomes too much, we all get a nice private room upstairs.” “I’d like to try that,” Madeline replied. Now before anyone thinks it too incredible. Alex is about thirty years younger than Madeline, looking really great, and wearing only a long towel. So, if she is really there to have sex, he’s not a bad choice to take from the room. Alex leans in to kiss her and she welcomes his body closer to hers. She leans back, composes herself, and says, ”Okay, he’s a really good kisser,” and laughs. Alex leans closer to her ear and I can just hear him say, ”In a few moments when I’m kissing and inside you, you’ll be even happier.” With that he kisses her and her hands move up to his shoulder, with one stroking his neck as he kisses her neck harder. I know he’s running his teeth along her skin, feeling her breath more heavily now. One of the most fun things in Swinging is watching a woman just melt into a man she barely knows who will be bringing her to orgasm. Alex gathers the front of her robe, yet exposes her shoulders as he kisses her mouth again. Her tongue is fully open his mouth. And she reaches his towel and it falls away as she strokes Alex’s very aroused cock. The robe has lowered itself further, her breasts are now exposed to the tops of her nipples. Her closest moment to public nudity. Ray is standing behind me and I turn to face him, just above a whisper I tell him, cupping his ear to my mouth, ”Thank you for letting Madeline have Alex. Take me any way you want.” I absolutely knew what was coming and I adored him for it. He unzipped my dress and his hands slid along he skin of my back, then to the flesh of my stomach with one hand moving to my breasts and the other finding me so wet and stroking my clitoris. He knew how to work me quickly. I like that in a man. Alex had Madeline’s robe to her waist, her naked torso with flat stomach looking just great. I could see other men looking her direction and I just knew they regret not being her first of the evening. That was my husband’s job. With a hand massaging each breasts, her own body writhing, she slid Alex’s cock into her and he pushed deeply. Madeline immediately grabbed his ass and wrapped her legs around him. It was perhaps five minutes from first kiss to entering her. Ray had now peeled my dress away and was licking my ass and rimming me. tongue hard against my ass he was driving me insane by spanking my pussy at the same time. His saliva filled my asshole and then he stood up behind me, robe completely off and I calmed my body, closed my eyes as his cock first rubbed against my asshole, I whispered aloud, ”do it,” and into my ass he went. …more later
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1 pointUnfortunately, we're not still together as a couple. We parted amicably, and the sex was never an issue. We've left the door open for each other if either wants to reach out. As to opening up an existing relationship, vs starting out that way... I think it's easier to start out open. But to those already in a relationship, that's not always an option. Certainly, it's better to get it out in the open as early as possible. But the reality is that many partners won't accept an open relationship, so you may have to face the hard decision.
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1 pointIt is all fun. My wife has been meeting men alone for years and hasn’t left me for anyone. It doesn’t bother me if she goes to a movie, a play, a dinner or to bed with a friend. I never asked her where she was going for most of the time she was meeting men who were mostly married men looking for their own fun. My big disappointment was not knowing she had threesomes because I would have enjoyed seeing her that first time with a woman. I still don’t consider her bisexual, the sex she had with another woman was for the fun of sex. Since we have been talking about our extramarital sex and sharing I have watched her with other women. Still it’s just fun.
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1 pointYour observation applies to more than people here. Most vanilla women and men have sex for fun before they marry while not looking for a relationship. Sometimes the fun is having sex with some person you would never want a relationship. Same with me (except I had sex with hubby's girlfriends) and fell in love. But that's ok, hubby and Red love them too. There's nothing wrong with caring.
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1 pointRednurse...sent you a PM a couple of days ago as well. Not sure you have seen it. Short answer, no. You mentioned you had already embarked on counseling together. As you are likely learning, you (plural) came to the crisis together, and you must emerge from it together. It's more than your actions and his actions, it's about how you see your (plural, shared) future. It's more than "seeing things from his point of view"; it's wanting to share a shared vision.
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1 pointThe issue isn't really one of swinging, it could be any undertaking that requires commitment and sacrifice from both of you. You could be posting on sailorsboard.com asking if buying a sailboat would be good for your relationship; it may or it may not. But both of you need to know what the other is thinking: how much to spend, how big a boat, a day-sailer or something to spend overnights? Maybe you should rent first. Same with opening up your sex lives. And if there are too many rules (more than one each) you're not ready. Neither of you can get upset or mad because your husband kissed her or you let some guy go into your bum. Finally, not all marriages are worth continuing. I don't understand all the couples who are proud that they put up with decades of misery in a loveless, sexless marriage, like their running a marathon. Think it all through.
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1 pointYou lack not only trust, but the mindset This isn’t a cure all This is a lifestyle
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1 pointSwingers MUST have an abundance of love, trust, and honesty to be successful. You are currently lacking seemingly all three. Cheating is NEVER swinging. Swinging is something that a couple does together (no matter if it is swinging as a couple, hot wife, cuck, open marriage, etc), in the open, with love and full knowledge of what is going on. Cheating is done alone, in the dark, and filled with lies and deceit. Cheating is the exact opposite of swinging. Swinging will make a rock solid, great relationship even better, but it does it by working as a magnifying glass. If there are ANY cracks or flaws it will magnify them, making them bigger and much easier to see. It WILL destroy a relationship that is already having problems. You are nowhere near ready to even be thinking about swinging. It will not solve your problems, just accelerate them. You need to be working on saving your relationship, if that is what you want to do. You may think that swinging will help 'save' your relationship, but it is just giving him a license to keep cheating on you. We wish you the best, and please know that we are here to listen and try and help as you go through this, but we cannot suggest you get into swinging at this time, or any time soon.
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1 pointMy SO is a small girl and the contrast of a big cock is hot. Seeing a big cock in her hand or a thick cock filling her mouth are hit to watch and fortunately she loves to play with big cocks.
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1 point"Joke 'em if they can't take a fuck" "What if the hokey pokey is what it is really all about?" =)
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1 pointWe saw one recently that stated "She's bi, he's a total lesbian".
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1 pointOur tag line on SLS for a little while was "Premium Poon at Wholesale Prices". We got quite a few hits from that. I'm good at these. Here are a few more off the top of my head: "We're not into pain or donkey shows...anymore" "Porn Stars sent back down to the Minors" "She likes it in the ass, he just is an ass" "Wife says I'm the best. Need a second opinion" "Now that my presidential campaign is over, time to play!" "Wife once blew Dale Jr." That would actually get you hits in the south! "If anybody finds a wedding band in their ass from last night, dial 555-7534" I'll have to think on it some more.