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I met a nice German couple who were swingers. When asked if they wanted to have some fun, they said,"Vee are here for sex! Vee are not here to have fun!"

I see from other posts of yours that you're a single male. I've written some advice for single males before, but I don't know that I can readily find it. Here's a few tips; There is far more supply of single males in the lifestyle than there is demand. That said, there are far fewer single males in the lifestyle who are good single males in the lifestyle, and I'd venture to guess that the supply of good single males more or less equals demand. So, how do you make yourself a good single male in the lifestyle? Generate a paid profile on swinglifestyle.com. If you go free, you won't be able to communicate. If you go free on any swinger site, no one will take you seriously. If you're paid, you show serious intent. Your profile puts your best foot forward. If you can't assemble a sentence or two about yourself in your profile, most couples won't pay any attention to you. Be clear about what you want, what you're offering, what kind of guy you are. This is your chance to advertise yourself. Don't **** it up by talking about how big your dick is and how you're the best swordsman out there. Be respectful of both the wife AND the husband. This should go without saying, but a lot of guys screw this up. You are being given a gift. Treat the experience as such. If you can't show respect to both the people in the couple, you're not going to get anywhere. Don't send dick picks. Few, if any, women want to see this. For some couples, this is a deal breaker as it shows you're the type of guy they don't want to play with. Don't be a flake. If you say you're going to meet a couple at a place at a particular time, be there on time. If you miss out, you're unlikely to be contacted again. Always, always, always wear condoms. Don't even ask not to. Understand your role. You shouldn't be in this for a relationship, and the couple in question isn't looking at you as a potential relationship. Know your boundaries; you are a toy. Sounds demeaning, but it isn't. You are a sexual fantasy being explored by the couple. Assuming you're straight, understand you're in the middle of this for her pleasure, not yours. If you focus on you, you won't ever see them again. Focus on her. Find out what she likes, what turns her off, what turns her on. There's lots more advice to give. You can search this forum for more. The above is a good place to start. Best of luck!

That is our view in our poly family, especially now that we all live in one large house and share children among us. In some ways it is a lot more work than a two person marriage, in other ways much easier, and not just in an economies-of-scale way. The disagreements among us are few and not very intense, the main reason being that the those having a disagreement have others to turn to for solace. The others never take sides, but provide comfort and it's quickly over. Two things that have cemented the overall relationship is the Lesbian attraction we women have for each other and having children with the same men together at about the same time. The children are all of our children and the children consider each of us adults their parents. What our arrangement does require are lawyers, accountants, insurance people, etc. to make sure that the children will be well provided for through college regardless of what happens. At first, a top concern was one or more breakups, but that doesn't seem like it is anywhere near happening; amazing considering that there are five strong-willed people involved. We have found a five-way match and have really bonded. The main concern now is the usual death or disability of one of us adults.

Menopause and lubricants launched into a new reality. Our home sex became primarily oral with the onset of dryness and soreness. We had plenty of time to play during lockdown and bought new toys and and lubricants every week. Our new home reality and talks led to my curiosity of adding others and me and a woman. The launcher has made sex much more comfortable and pleasant, adding a new fun activity with the launcher lubricating deeper and more thorough. It has brought back a new normal type of sex. Our oral play has gone back to foreplay with culmination more traditional. I also learned with our new lifestyle that I am not alone with life’s aging process. Life is funny, we all age and will talk to friends about all aspects of aging except a very important part, sex. We hide problems with intimacy with most friends and then we meet new friends and open up to them.

You cum on them you better be willing to lick them clean!

Sex is always recreational. As a couple we swing with others only recreationally with no love for them just like for them. Isn’t poly similar to marriage with more than two people?

Yes! One post and done. I wish people would follow up on their stories.

When I see posts about “wife’s fantasy” I always switch out the the wife to husband. I always wonder what the wife really wants.

My gf loves to suck me while I'm being fucked reverse cowboy

Peach juice sounds good

I like two guys giving me the attention at first, each at a breast, pulling and sucking my nipples, then alternating licking my clit and ass together while I watch them kiss deeply. Then a DP or both in my pussy for awhile, then me on my back, one in missionary or anal, the other behind him first rimming the middle, then fucking so all three of us are in sync. Use of oil or another lubricant (I prefer canned peach juice) is helpful on all three of us.

Having had orgy experience before meeting my hubby, I have found that guy on guy really does turn me on, I have had several MMF MFM, FMM times before, and find that the position depends on the body style. It was no problem getting my husband to be ok with a stud in our bed on occasion, but the size (both body and cock) makes a difference on the anal. We have had no problem, BUT it helps that all three are athletic like us. We also last longer.

Would he be ok if you matched up with a pair of bi males for this? Hubby might also be ok if the person in the middle is female with a strapon. With the 69 thing also works with two women, & hubby doing the cock part of it.

Good lord this is making me wish my hubby was even a little bicurious. Nothing to add except to say HOT!!!! Wish I was a fly on the wall ;-)