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Being a couples first is only the beginning. We were happy to meet them in person and enjoy having a meal and drinks exchanging life stories. They also moved during the last few years and like so many the pandemic gave them time to reassess their lives. They both came from a conservative restricted background. They met at school, only dated a short time before she became pregnant. He was her first and only and got married before having their first daughter. She let on that he is the the only man she ever saw naked. He claimed she was his second. They both have changed the beliefs instilled in them when their daughters enlightened them to the real world. I’m not sure if it pained them to admit that their girls are more worldly.

Don't blame yourself for what happened. Your husband should have spoken up if he wasn't comfortable. It wasn't as if you sprung this on him, he had numerous opportunities to back off rather than giving overt indications that he was good to go.

My understanding, njbm, is that while it’s quite likely that a smallpox vaccination, even five decades ago, will still confirm a degree of protection against monkeypox, infectious disease researchers are unsure of the degree of protection — or even for sure if long-ago smallpox vaccination provides any immunity. I’m probably not going to call my college roommate who is a research professor of infectious diseases just to ask his opinion. But if the opportunity comes up in the course of our semi-regular conversations (there’s a memorial service for one of our mutual friends later this month) I will inquire.

We never really had rules. I guess when we very first started we were same room play most always but in less then a few active months that melted away. We very quickly went from couples play to group activities… mfm, mmfmm, open room group play mostly. we also became poly swingers almost immediately preferring to play openly with those we meet, single or couples that we developed a bond with. Socially and intimately. our only real guideline is letting each other know when or who we are getting/going with especially at larger parties or theme gatherings. Mostly for safety sake. What is not acceptable is sneaking, arranging one on one’s or attending a sexual/sensual event on the sly. Any activity that can’t be openly discussed or acknowledged to the other by design, deception or by omission. Any activity that could or would be considered as cheating by the other. Just no reason for it. we have seen the drama that comes from this and the turmoil it causes in relationships….including our own. so yes in a word cheating/infidelity can and has happened to those in lifestyle and causes just as much hurt if not more so when in an open environment where either can express a desire for an activity or person and in most every case would be granted…..so why conduct it in secrecy.

Years ago I was on a business trip in The South ("north, east, and west are directions; South is a place") and was listening to the radio in my rental car. There are plenty of religious broadcasters there and I started listening to one. The young guy talking was the son of a local preacher and helped out in his father's church. He was told by his father that one girl who occasionally attended their church was ill-behaved and bad news, to stay away from her. She eventually became pregnant with no husband, no partner, no boyfriend. Shortly after the baby was born, the young man was told by his father to take her the usual set of supplies the church gives in those situations. He did and ended up asking her to lunch. Several days later when the three of them were at lunch, the waitress came up to him and said, "What a beautiful baby, you must be so proud." He said that at that moment he did feel proud to be with her and her child. Long story short, he ended up marrying her. I wondered if he felt as you described:

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Thinking about it, when hubby or Red wants it much tighter (which is maybe two or three times a month), they go into my, Clair's or Lora's bum. I guess that's why they do it.

We were invited to an upcoming house party. The host is a bimale. Some of the attendees have high swinging mileage. Hosts recently had covid, so no pre-testing by attendees. We are going to pass.

We don’t always know the names or remember the names of those we meet and once they are gone we don’t care. Not sure if anyone we met for a one time thing ever asked our last name even though we use our real names checking into hotels. Can’t say if it’s proper, it’s human nature. The few times we put a name in the search bar we never found anything strange. Once we met someone who gave us his business card that said he did home improvements that we checked out.

I just wanted my husband to experience a tighter vagina. I never told him how tight her vagina was. I wanted it to be a surprise. I never told him I was looking for someone with a tight vagina. He gasp after he penetrated her and had an "Oh my God!" moment. It was awesome to watch his reactions as she squeezed off his dick and he got gangrene.

Thank you for bringing this to our attention. Certainly has changed my reaction to this pic posting. I am unfamiliar with Tineye, but it sounds like a very useful tool.

We all were new that first time. Treat them the way you wanted to be treated. Our first meeting was with swingers we watched at a club and wanted to meet them after the club. We wanted to impress them with our worldliness something we didn’t have.

Very good information here from all of you. We had our phone call followed by FaceTime. The pictures they included are them not fakes. They made a remark they were happy to see we look the same as our posting. Fakes go both ways. They said they are talking to others too. Don’t know how I felt, cheated on or happy others find them attractive. We decided to not bring up sex or lifestyle unless they did. We talked for over a half hour with no sex talk when she asked why we hadn’t brought the main topic. We knew that sex would be brought so I was prepared with there is more to swinging not just sex. I felt like it was a canned response which it was. I saw she had notes and prepared questions for us that she most likely used with others. He didn’t ask questions but he did add to the conversation. Both of them were open and friendly, it would be horrible if it were just two or three of us talking. We told them our history of swinging and our current situation as new to the area. When asked what they were looking for the immediate answer wasn’t sex, it was finding sweet people. What was their big fear? She answered her fear wasn’t know how she was going to react, his fear was worrying about her. We assured them we would stop any time they said Stop. He asked who goes first. Never thought about that. As a first timer they should be comfy first. No we didn’t , we will when we are sure. We don’t want them to think we don’t know what we are doing if they read this post. As you can tell we are a tiny bit insecure. We decided to meet them at McDonalds, they felt better meeting at Olive Garden. Gotcha, we are meeting at a nice restaurant we never went to. We agree with the advice that it’s about them not us. We hope it leads to more in time. No rush.

I have been dating a new woman for about a month. Friday was our first time having sex. She was sucking my dick and she asked me what I like. I describe how I liked it. She suddenly asked if I enjoyed sucking dick myself. I ask her if she likes to watch. She says more than watch. She told me she's bi and she loves bi men. We have great sex the last two days. Tonight we are meeting her female friend. She has a gay man friend who is supposed to have my ideal penis.

At first for a moment, I thought she meant sucking his own dick.

So how did it go?