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A good point, and probably has happened. I've insisted on getting into the doggy position to watch sexual activities by others, especially Lora and hubby.

Everyone keeps saying that he has prior issues causing this and that 10 min cant make a man leave his marriage but I disagree, these two statements says everything. He wasn’t ready, for someone not ready to see this it can be the end of your world.

Hi again I just wanna mention the reason he reacted to strongly is because of a trauma he had experienced that he told me about afterwards, it was not selfishness the whole experience with me and other man became a trigger for him given a previous experience that made him struggle with intimacy. He had been ashamed of that for years and he never blamed me since I did not know about it, but his experience ended up humiliating him and what happened to him was cruel and I can't imagine doing that to another person what that woman did to him. I wanted to work through it and help him and be there for him but decided to leave me instead and if he walked through the door right now and told me had had reconsidered I would hug him tightly and never let him go. But I had become a trigger for him and he told me all he could think about when he saw me was me with the other man and it became mental torture for him. He was not wired for that and I understand that now but him walking away hurts it hurts a lot .

So I'm an extreme doggy lover, bury my face in the bed and ass in the air and you can pound me into the bed. I also love being on top and riding him hard. It is super yummy.

Cowgirl with him sitting on the couch, reclined. Something about that position is just great for both of us. Second would be him standing and me on my back on the bed, pulled all the way to the edge with my feet on his shoulders. Granted this one ALWAYS results in the bed getting moved across the room (but then so does just about any sex on my bed).

I enjoy just about any position, but spend most of my time on my back, naked, with my legs spread and up in the air. Seems most natural/comfortable for both parties in an MF situation.

Girls, how do you position yourself for doggy? In my pussy, I start hands and knees and work my way down onto my elbows, then chest. For anal, I stay on my hands. Lately though, I've been doing more standing, resting myself on a table for both.

Favourite positions girls? Doggy and anal doggy for me.

Yes! Doggy position for watching others is indeed hot. Using a full length mirror in front of a pair in doggy position is a real turn-on to see each other having sex. I know my playmates and I find this a real turn-on. Personally, I find the view reflected in the mirror looking down a lady's chest as she leans forward drives me wild. 😇😈

For those reading this thread is the future: Davidia has made some strong points, it would be a good thing to have some context. I suggest going to his profile and clicking the icon for past posts and reading everything starting in 2016. It might help clarify.

wife86 wrote:"I wanted to work through it and help him and be there for him but decided to leave me instead and if he walked through the door right now and told me had had reconsidered I would hug him tightly and never let him go." He is a lucky man.

Thanks for clarifying that, and I'm sorry he has been carrying that around all these years, but I still stand by that was on HIM to deal with, not you. So let's say he had a long-term substance abuse problem and refused to try to deal with it and it led to the end of the marriage, no one would say that was your fault, it would clearly be his issue alone. That's the way I see this. He knew that issue was there, he had chosen to never tell you about it, and he chose to say yes to swinging. Those are some pretty substantial decisions on his part, way more than the minor who did what when during your first swinging experience. In terms of getting back together, I don't want to give false hope, but I think I said something early in this thread about time heals all wounds or along those lines. If I didn't, I should have. This is all still relatively fresh, a lot of couples have overcome very serious things given some time.

Why do Canadians prefer doggy style? So they can both watch the hockey game! (Sorry, Canadian friends).

Petra, your personal perspective on doggy makes sense to me. That said, several women with whom I’ve had more than casual relationships have said doggy was a favored (or even their favorite) position for intercourse. It’s probably significant that most (all? Hard to recall because in some cases it was decades ago) were able to reach orgasm without direct stimulation of their clit. For me, doggy is NOT just for when I’m looking for a cunt to drop a load of jizz in. I enjoy doggy because it affords me the opportunity to gaze at my partner’s shoulders and torso and the flare of her waist into her hips. And if she turns her head and I can see some of her face, I enjoy that. Further, if I turn my gaze directly down I can watch the moving intersection of my cock and her vagina. (And if it’s bareback, when I withdraw I can watch the semen dripping out, which I find enjoyable.)

I have no control over the size of my cock. A big cock doesn’t make you a better fuck just blame your parents if you got a teeny weenie. Women can make the pussy tighter with exercises like Honey does. She does these yoga things and lays on the floor pushing her hips up like she’s fucking. I saw her fuck thick cocks and never felt anything different after so those exercises are doing something. She also can tighten up when I’m in her. Now ass fucking is tight and she can tighten that sphincter to grab my cock real tight. There is nothing tighter like a blowjob with her sucking so tight that can’t be done with a pussy or ass. The tightest thing she got is her hand it’s just not the funnest. She swears a big fat cock is not the best fuck just like the tightest fuck isn’t the best. Having a good fuck is the best no matter the size.

Covid? Unless someone has elected not be vaccinated, or meets some of the big risk factors (e.g., advanced age, extreme obesity, diabetes, asthma or other respiratory compromises, etc.), Covid is no longer considered a serious health risk by the medical community. And, if you haven't had Covid yet, you will. The notion that this was a disease that could be eradicated was a farce. It is more communicable today, even with the majority of the population vaccinated, than it was originally. The vaccine's role was to minimize the symptoms and diminish the chances of a patient being hospitalized. It does it job. Monkeypox? Definitely a concern. If you swing, you already engage in a higher-risk activity. Monkeypox is primarily spread through intimate physical contact. It is quickly spreading through the gay community. It seems reasonable to believe it will find its way into other communities, particularly those with bi-sexual members and those that share multiple sex partners. Prudence suggests taking a hard pass until it gets under control.

The Queens favorite if she has to pick one is doggy. She says it feels most primal, submissive and partners can be the deepest inside her. Also loves the man to pull out and shoot his cum all over her back.

My wife and I love that. And actually it works well whether it is MFM or FMF, and whether a spouse is involved or not.

Although I like missionary best, I can orgasm fastest when I am entered from behind and he's gently playing with my nipples. But that's with one guy; if I'm in a threesome of either type there's other even better arrangements.

Doggy and anal

Cowgirl with me grinding my pelvis back and forth across my partner's cock. The only disadvantage is that sometimes I come too quickly. Missionary is my next favorite.

For me being on top cowgirl has become my favorite position. My husband and I will through most of these positions when alone. We will cuddle and spoon, which leads to 69. I will almost always orgasm this way. Depending on what he wants he can cum this way or we change to other positions. I think both of us like when I’m on top. When we are at a party there is plenty of doggy going on.

I love a good ride!

It's funny you said that!!!! lol My husband is friends with a black lesbian at work, granted, I have never actually been attracted to black people in my life, but I would be with one if I ever felt that attraction..... I would be ALL OVER IT! Sorry, I started rambling... Anyway, this woman, I'm not attracted to her, but her lips, omg. She has beautiful lips. I actually had a dream about her lips...shhh...

For a brief shining moment this summer we were back - for the first time since 2018. It looks like we're going back in our shell til monkeypox vaccines become generally available :(