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We are a few years younger but have been together 48. Mrs FL prefers early morning sex because she wakes up horny and energetic and likes to cuddle and fall asleep and take an additional snooze for an hour or so after. The energy level does matter. As for the strategically placed vibe, you must be watching us. We have gone through our share of the Magic Wands, from the corded, to the cordless, to the current favorite the cordless mini Magic Wand. Yes, after kissing and oral play, about 5 min with the wand to her first orgasm. Once she starts, she wants half a dozen at least.

Kathy and I spend a total of six to eight hours a week in regular every-other-day (to give her busy a rest and avoid soreness) sexual interludes. We are in our mid 70s and have been together for 35 years. Kathy prefers late afternoon sex and because she is retired and I work from home with a flexible schedule, we don’t have to wait for late evening bedtime when we are tired and lacking mid-day energy. My calculated time begins begins when we start disrobing and continues until we get out of bed to begin preparing dinner. After three and a half decades we are wired well together and both quite efficient at reaching orgasm with one another. With the aid of a vibe strategically placed Kathy generally reaches a first orgasm within five minutes of our first kiss. There’s little variation in what we do, which is fine with both of us. For her sex is about the orgasm and the bonding; I get the variety I enjoy with other partners. (Although the pandemic has sharply reduced my activities with others.)

We were told a couple we have been with as a part of a group were sexually innocent when they started swinging. If I believe the story she was a virgin when they married. Her first new man was not in front of her husband. She is now one of the wilder women we play with.

This happened to us with a regular guy of ours who once came home and we were all watching TV all naked and then wife went to the kitchen for something and he followed her to the kitchen i was lost watching TV and suddenly i saw was he was banging her from behind they were standing and for a surprise i saw he was not wearing Condom didn’t say anything then to them and after they finished and he went i asked my wife that he was not wearing a condom she said it was all of the sudden heat of the moment he put it in her and was sorry for it I didn’t have an issue as we were swinging from long and know my wife as she doesn’t do what was not in the rules but it was the regular guy mistake and i told him which he understood and apologised all went well we still see him sometimes and we are moving forward strong without thinking of the mistakes.

Pretty much how we see it. It's not that we're old, we're in our mid-30s busy. But with five in our poly family, the three of us women bi and sharing an outside boyfriend occasionally, it's not boring. We're open to other adventures, but we're all choosy and cautious. That's the way it is for all of us and why we are so regular. Sometimes only one of us may be horny, but when one of us starts, it kindles the desire in the others very easily. Many times after work I've said to myself, "No sex tonight." Then I end up having a wonderful time.

Everyone has a boo boo. Discuss, correct, move forward, hope you didn’t get anything. When we first started in the lifestyle, we thought wearing a condom made you bullet proof. Not so.

Very mature of both of you. People will always make mistakes in all aspects of life, no need to make it high drama.

Sometimes you have to swallow your pride.

Let? I don’t think men let or allow a wife to do something. You may not be happy with her choices, it is her choice, something she may ask you for an opinion. I don’t understand the worries if you trust her.

When at home alone most of the time we end up with her on top cowgirl. With friends she will do most anything with most of the men doing doggy.

If you don’t trust your wife you have more problems, leaving you for another woman is the least. You told her she can, she did and she told you. Sounds like a keeper.

Oof. So, I'm reading this thread with interest, and am considering a response to the OP...only to realize this thread is ... ____20____ years old. The OP's kids are probably grown and swingers in their own right 😄

Swallow for sure, but she prefers cum in her pussy. The Reality is, we find guys don't tend to cum as easily with a BJ as they do fucking. I know I don't, regardless of the woman. I do love it when what I thought was foreplay turns into her giving a full on Beej until I cum. A nice change up. Still, I think my favorite way to cum is in her pussy.

She has always been a swallower and knows just how to apply the perfect sucking pressure to the finish. I was surprised one night when she knew I was about to cum that she took her mouth off and pumped me into her mouth. It seems that a man she met enjoyed that and she thought I would too.

We attend parties with many people. This doesn’t mean everyone plays with everyone. With no agenda I never know who I’ll be with.

I Nice that in this case everyone’s varied desires are able to be met. This is just one of the advantages of swinging.

This is sort of like my wife and the husband of another couple we play with, except the other way around. My wife and he sometimes do a dominance/submission thing (which neither his wife nor I are into) where my wife will verbally and physically abuse him. My wife will insult him every which way, slap his ass, pull his hair, slap him on his face. She'll tell him his dick's no good, which makes him hard, force him on his back and ride him demanding that he cums. He does. She'll also stick things in his ass and tell him not to be a baby boy about it. His wife hates the whole thing, so if they're going to do this thing, we go off alone and have gentle sex, make love.

I'm not actually sure I "want" to see men give my wife a facial - she's hot a fuck and talented as hell, she decides how the episode is going to end. I trust her judgment implicitly and she trusts mine. And we're always together, no separate room stuff for us, this is a experience we take as a couple It's never set-out as a goal but sure, in the heat of passion, she has definitely done facials. I sometimes have mixed feelings but maybe that adds to it because in the end, the show is super HOT. She has even taken multiples on a few occasions - mine and another at the same time -- and at least once, she did a double facial cumshot and neither cock was mine. But of course, as that was happening, I was simultaneously cumming on 2 pretty faces. God, group sex is so awesome.