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There is only one woman I have been with, who is currently in our group, whose vagina is definitely loose. But you know what? It is really enjoyable fucking her. It is like a tease on my dick, and when I cum it is intense.

We are a few years younger but have been together 48. Mrs FL prefers early morning sex because she wakes up horny and energetic and likes to cuddle and fall asleep and take an additional snooze for an hour or so after. The energy level does matter. As for the strategically placed vibe, you must be watching us. We have gone through our share of the Magic Wands, from the corded, to the cordless, to the current favorite the cordless mini Magic Wand. Yes, after kissing and oral play, about 5 min with the wand to her first orgasm. Once she starts, she wants half a dozen at least.

Kathy and I spend a total of six to eight hours a week in regular every-other-day (to give her busy a rest and avoid soreness) sexual interludes. We are in our mid 70s and have been together for 35 years. Kathy prefers late afternoon sex and because she is retired and I work from home with a flexible schedule, we don’t have to wait for late evening bedtime when we are tired and lacking mid-day energy. My calculated time begins begins when we start disrobing and continues until we get out of bed to begin preparing dinner. After three and a half decades we are wired well together and both quite efficient at reaching orgasm with one another. With the aid of a vibe strategically placed Kathy generally reaches a first orgasm within five minutes of our first kiss. There’s little variation in what we do, which is fine with both of us. For her sex is about the orgasm and the bonding; I get the variety I enjoy with other partners. (Although the pandemic has sharply reduced my activities with others.)

We too have been going to Sandy Hook and enjoy being with friends nude. Our friends introduced us to swinging and nude bathing, think their is a correlation, not all nudist are swingers. Recently while walking with my wife I saw a woman I work with walking with another woman. I am not sure who felt more awkward, me, my wife or the coworker. Neither of us have been to the office since the pandemic which led to extended conversation neither of us bringing up the elephant on the beach. We are both senior management, work together but as equals. I don’t know much about her personal life, our office contact is purely professional. There is no way she wasn’t checking me out as I was trying not to be obviously checking her and her friend. I am sure what happened, seeing a coworker or neighbor is nothing new. Lucky we are still on remote work from home and we won’t soon be in that awkward situation of being in the office together. How have others handled the unplanned sighting? Do you acknowledge the meeting back at work? My wife keeps saying she bets she swings. I say no way.

"I love you"s are whispered between some in our group when fucking, and more openly when kissing goodbye. It's not a problem. Personally, I prefer that a guy fucking my wife cares about her than just think of her as a piece.

4-way chemistry is hard for everyone. It doesn't matter that much if you're overweight. It's hard to make chemistry flow evenly in all 4 directions no matter who you are. As for us, as we've matured we've come to appreciate good three-way chemistry. A nice single male who we like and get along with is all we need, and the chemistry is much simpler.

Happen to us also

Pretty much how we see it. It's not that we're old, we're in our mid-30s busy. But with five in our poly family, the three of us women bi and sharing an outside boyfriend occasionally, it's not boring. We're open to other adventures, but we're all choosy and cautious. That's the way it is for all of us and why we are so regular. Sometimes only one of us may be horny, but when one of us starts, it kindles the desire in the others very easily. Many times after work I've said to myself, "No sex tonight." Then I end up having a wonderful time.

One of those kids isn't his.😉

Everyone has a boo boo. Discuss, correct, move forward, hope you didn’t get anything. When we first started in the lifestyle, we thought wearing a condom made you bullet proof. Not so.

Very mature of both of you. People will always make mistakes in all aspects of life, no need to make it high drama.

Speaking of favorite positions, which is your favorite for watching your spouse or significant other in? The other evening, I had a double hit. First, hubby and Lora were entertaining the kids and being affectionate with each other (nothing remotely sexual). Second, I found Red and Clair in a bedroom going at it hard, doggy style. The former was an emotional hit (I'm a jealousy addict) while the second was sexual excitement. Eventually, they let me join in for the female version of sloppy seconds - me in the middle licking her and taking the reërection. Your preference?

Depends on the day you go, but there are always more males than females out at Hippie Hollow and we like to go to Haulover Nudist Beach in Florida. At both Hippie Hollow and Haulover there are large numbers of gay males that like to hang out at certain places on the beach. So that kind of messes up the numbers. On the straight sections of the beach it is probably 3 males to 1 female ratio. I have been a nudist for thirty something years and I have always enjoyed having lots of guy friends.

Both Clair and Lora are more physically attractive than I am. It makes me feel extremely jealous, but it's odd in that the other women in our family are the loves of my life and my sex partners too. It sort of gives love making/sex with the men a competitive aspect. It doesn't make me feel inferior, however, since I am their intellectual and professional equals. And when hubby or Red or our boyfriend on the side Frank wants to bang out a quick one, I seem to be preferred. I really like that.

After 8 years in the lifestyle, we do not have any reserved acts left exclusively between us, we have been very lucky to meet amazing people, some of them become very close friends and we have made incredible memories a long the way.

We ran into my wife’s then boss at a nudist resort. A lawyer who I saw often in court was with his wife at a Tantric sex workshop we attended. It’s a small world. Everyone has to be somewhere.

A little off topic, but once a female co-worker of my wife's was at our house. My wife changed into her bathing suit in front of both of us. I later told my wife that I thought it was a bit odd and inappropriate. She said why, it's normal to be naked in front of your husband, as it is changing with another woman around.

You now share a sexy secret about each other - enjoy it - and leave it at that.

If we meet someone we know from the vanilla world as swingers or nudists, our first steadfast principle is to never reveal to anyone that the other person is a swinger and/or nudist. And we expect the same from the person we met. Not everyone is accepting of these hobbies and we prefer to keep it confidential.

who all was at this wedding?

Cool! We went to my husband's 20th this past fall. Nothing that exciting happened. My husband was blabbing about how we go to clubs that are byob. People were like, "What, I've never heard of that?" He covered by saying, "Ohio has different laws." (move along, nothing to see here) I decided that might be a good test to see if someone is a swinger, since all the swing clubs we've been to are byob.

{Anna typing now...} I can vouch for the fact that Kari is a 2-3X per day "doodler." It's not because she doesn't get enough sex, trust me she does. She just loves to touch herself. Yea...ever since we were in middle school together! Of course, it's really sad if someone HAS to get themself off because they don't have any willing partners. Years ago, I used to live in a high-rise apartment building. I could see into the studio apartment a floor below me in the building across the street. A fairly obese woman in her late 20s to mid 30s lived there. Her bed was by a window that had blinds and sheers, but she kept them angled where I could see through them and with the light on I could easily see inside. Every single night, she would lie on her bed and read what I assume were romance novels. Sooner or later, every single night, she would reach down her pants or pull up her night shirt and masturbate. It wasn't arousing, it was really depressing. She was always home, alone, every night. I never saw her outside except going to work weekday mornings and coming home before dinnertime. She never talked to anybody, looked down at her shoes, and she never smiled. She never went out on weekends, even though we were close to clubs and a beautiful park, and I never saw anybody else in the apartment. I don't ever recall her even talking on the phone. When I moved out after 2 and 1/2 years, nothing had changed. Dinner, then book, then a sticky finger, then turn off the light. I still hate that picture in my mind of someone who was hiding out from the world. I have to assume that she thought she was fat and ugly. And yes, she was fat, but she wasn't ugly. She was actually kind of cute. Which made it worse. Instead of really living, she escaped into a fantasy world where she could imagine getting fucked by a different gorgeous hunk every night, but she must have been resigned to the fact that it was never going to happen. I wanted to scream out my window at her, "Come on Honey! Put down the book, go to a party somewhere, and get laid for real for once!" The part I feel horrible to confess is that one night I had a couple of friends over, I told them about it and we all watched, peeking out of my bedroom window in the dark, whispering smarmy jokes and making cruel sport of her private, pathetic, secret life. Sorry for the thread hijack. Once I thought of that I had to get it all off my chest! - Anna

wooooohooooo, get in the tub, lay on your back run the warm water and let the flow lick your clit! I have so many orgasms. I actually had a girlfriend who was hungarian show me this when I had an old footed tub that had a very skinny round spout and it shot a stream of water, she fingered me as the water rushed onto my clit, wellllll, now I have to go rub myself thinking of that moment!