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I firmly believe that the rule of etiquette on this is the same as it is in every other avenue of life: we have Google now, and we're going to use it, but we're supposed to have the good social judgment to, for official purposes, pretend we did not.

ok first off...WOW this forum and especially this sub-forum have opened so much up to me, I don't feel like such a head case or outcast, it is really great to know that there are others like us out there. So thank you all for your knowledge and judgment free attitudes. So here's the deal...and sorry in advance for the long-winded post. I absolutely LOVE cum, well actually both the GF and I do. The taste and feel of it, the way it looks when it's on a beautiful woman's skin, the way it looks on my GF's lips and tongue. The fantasy started about W years ago when we first started dating. I had been thinking that the idea was hot for a while and one night during sex I stopped right before orgasm and just came a little giving her just a little on her lips and tongue to 'play with' then we continued making love as we fantasized that it was someone else's cum that we were sharing. We both felt as though it was one of the hottest things that either of us had ever done and it became a semi-regular role play thing for us. I actually got really good at having more than one orgasm so we could kiss and play with cum, all the while pretending it was from another guy. We even bought an ejaculating dildo and experimented with homemade recipes...haha So that was fun and hot and we learned what we wanted. We decided together that the next step was to play with cum from another guy. We found a guy who wasn't freaked out by the idea and we had our fun...it was the most sensual thing I have ever done up until that point, and to this day, almost a year later, I still regularly get myself off thinking of that encounter. We managed to pull it off again a few months later with the same guy but this time she actually spat it into my mouth and I proceeded to clean all of it from her lips and face with my tongue while we made very passionate and sweet love...god it was so incredibly sexy that I get hard every time I think about it. So how common is this? I know guys like to taste their own but do 'straight' guys ever want to try this? Let me first say that I am 99.9% certain that I am 100% straight haha. I am not attracted to men at all, don't want to find guys on my own, have no desire for anything considered traditionally gay, am not turned on at all by gay or bi porn, etc. I love the term used on another thread in this forum "situationally heteroflexible" and feel that it most describes me. For instance, seeing a cock in my GF's mouth is so sexy it drives me crazy. I want to help guide it in, and I want to put mine in with his (and we have ). The thought of double vag and his hard cock rubbing against mine inside of my GF drives both of us crazy. But that's pretty much where it ends. I have zero desire to be with a guy by myself, in fact oral, penetration, pretty much anything touching other than our cocks and specifically inside her, is a turn-off for me. I know I'm a huge perv, and I love it. I don't like labels and don't give a shit what people think about our sex life but just curious how others feel about this. Is it hot or is it weird? And please use this thread share your cum sharing thoughts, fantasies and stories with me! and I loved this quote from another thread:

Hi all sexy swingers. We are curious to know how many of the wives or girlfriends are able to have genuine orgasms from penetration alone? And of those who do, does the size have anything to do with your ability to have an orgasm? Or does it have to do with rhythm? Is it related to speed? Or the chemistry? Sorry, lots of questions. But hopefully, might be helpful information. Wife only has orgasm from oral. We have tried hard to get the vaginal orgasm working, but never succeeded. She did have an orgasm with a nicely built guy at a club but could not explain why it worked. He was quite a bit larger than me. But she did not think that was the reason. She said she just felt very relaxed and comfortable with him. It was strange because usually she doesn't orgasm with other guys at club. She has always said that although she enjoys the sex and the vibe at the club, it is difficult for her to relax with a new guy.

Forget about the size of other men it doesn’t make him better or worse. I see you mention size in other posts too where most women never mention it. Be happy she orgasmed because she is happy. If it’s only by oral with you make sure you do it for her. Don’t over try getting her off with penetration putting more pressure on both of you. If she is satisfied you will be satisfied.

Well, both of us don't always cum when we fool around. Sometimes, she will help me play with myself with anything from oral to just stroking an arm lovingly. Sometimes, there is a lot of groping through the day, that just makes us feel good. Is that sex? It is foreplay for sure. We consider all foreplay sex. So that might be seconds of a dick rubbing on a butt at the sink. It might be a quick flash of tits, or pants pulled down to show an ass. It might be her saying "I see you waggling him over there" or some happy time with her holding my balls. In terms of "sex" where we are doing the whole penis in vagina thing, we do that a couple times a week or so. Never really timed it from hitting the bed until we are done so not sure how many hours that takes up. We enjoy it and it is fun, and it is somewhere on the spectrum of intimacy that we engage in. This is all separate from play with others. That tends to be more time spent engaged as it were, because there is a set time.

I could make a joke about his tools

Lifestyle or not, it's nice to have a good handyman!

I only Google myself

So you are qualified to speak for your wife, but other spouses are not? I will be sure not to respond to your threads anymore then.

Missus Enhancer has orgasms from both oral and penetration quite easily! It is normal for her to cum up to 20 times or more in a good session! Size has no bearing on how many times she does. Quality of lover does.

As said above, as I get older, orgasms don't come as often or as easily as they did in my 20's. Im happy to still have solid erection on demand and I LOVE playing with a new partner whether I cum or not. Mrs Doc can't take a pounding for hours without ending up with a UTI. She happy with an attentive boink and multiple orgasms. If her partner cums, she's really happy, if he doesn't, she has her limits. If we're playing in the same room, I can tell when she's about done so I'll step in a have the guy tap out. If we're playing in separate rooms, shortly after my partner and I are done, we'll go look in on her quietly because she's hot to watch and to determine if she's had enough. At the end of the night, I don't care either way if there are sloppy seconds but neither of us want her so pounded that she's too sore for reclamation sex.

You should not feel inferior, you’re normal. I am thinking the woman you were with was much luckier than your wife. A session lasting two hours is great if it includes more than just letting a guy go in and on. I would be in pain and I would have quit. I much rather go a few times and rest, even cuddle, between more sex. For me, the first and second time is great. I get diminishing returns after that. 15 minutes then stop, rest, another 10-15 minutes is still great. I can’t imagine two hours non stop.

For me being on top cowgirl has become my favorite position. My husband and I will through most of these positions when alone. We will cuddle and spoon, which leads to 69. I will almost always orgasm this way. Depending on what he wants he can cum this way or we change to other positions. I think both of us like when I’m on top. When we are at a party there is plenty of doggy going on.

In the days we are in now with STD’S and AIDS along with people lying about health issues one has to be safe. I would love watching my boyfriend take it in the ass but I believe in safe sex. I can give him a sensual experience with candlelight, wine, and soft music by screwing him with a strap-on. With my experience with guys coming so fast he would barely get a good fucking when the guy was already coming in his ass. For me I can buy the perfect dildo that I want to fuck him with, that remains erect and hard all night long. I know how to use the head of the dildo to tantalize and massage his prostate to the point of orgasm. I Imagine when I’m fucking him that the dildo is a real cock jetting from my crotch and I concentrate on watching him moaning and groaning thrashing around beneath me enjoying the fuck. Sometimes I use a vibrating dildo and I love using the ones where I can rub my pubic area against the back of the dildo and make myself come. I love humiliating my slave whenever I allow him to fuck me reminding him that I definitely can last a lot longer. I actually enjoy making him come fast whenever he fucks me so I can order him to go down on me, lick up the mess, and spend lots of time performing cunnilingus. Before I met my slave I had a boyfriend that was always wanting to fuck my ass so I decided to find him a male lover that he could fuck. He wasn’t new playing with guys having been in a secret college fraternity that enjoyed experimenting. I found a cute guy with a six-incher willing to fuck and be fucked. It was hot to watch my X in action especially getting it in the ass himself. I bought a strap-on after that!

It's not the same. I'm a woman who has had both vaginal and anal sex with guys. Even with the same guy, it's totally different. That wouldn't be considered ironic, antipodal maybe?

Practice makes perfect, bogeyman. I've overcome the problem by having my wife just sit on my face immediately afterward. Once I experienced it without a choice it became part of a routine that I enjoy more each time. Like Pavlov's dogs, I guess.

My wife and I both have quite a semen fetish. We like to see and feel it inside and outside each other and we've discussed at great length and detail how we want other men to fill us and coat us. The more the better. She agreed that the more cum on us and in us, the better it is. She even confided in me that she has a strong desire in getting knocked up by another man while I watch. She really (pleasantly) surprised me with that one! -- That's a subject for another thread (if not an entirely different forum), though. We both like cum, but I believe I'm more comfortable with it than she is. She doesn't like the smell or want it in her mouth. It totally turns her off. I, however, like every aspect of it. In me, in her, on me, on her. As long as there's lots to play with. We both though it would be fun to try Bukkake. Fun, fun, fun!

I would really prefer answers from the wives or ladies. As they would be more qualified to answer the question.