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Another, unlikely, possibility - she took to the idea with great enthusiasm and they both enjoy it so much there is no time to come back and tell us about it. Think positive!

All orgasms are great.

Hey all! My wife and I recently visited Temptation in Cancun. Place was amazing. We have never been in or near the lifestyle but she had a great time. People were awesome, respectful of us etc. It was a great vibe. While there we played with another couple. Wife has some pretty strict ground rules which I'm honestly fine with at the moment. She's into girls but also wants me to help her finish. She enjoys penetration but isn't after another man. She also doesn't want me to play with a girl below the waste. How normal/difficult is this kink to fulfill among the lifestyle community? Any suggestions? Ways to advertise that at LS clubs etc? New here, just looking for some help. Thank you all!!!

Well, according the marketing, the shooting part is a given, can't hold it back if you tried. Just a matter of your aim then I guess

We have no rules saying we both have to be present when playing. We are now friends with a couple where Debbie dated him before I met her. We are now good friends with them extremely trusting. We socialize on all levels, we are planning on a vacation soon. From reading posts on here I am an exception, I don’t have a need or want to watch Debbie have sex with every man we meet. The sex she has is for her pleasure not mine.

When you start meeting people, you just need to be up front from the start so they can decide if they are interested in your limits. More than likely your rules will change after time, but for now they are the rules you have...DON'T VIOLATE THEM. It might be a little more difficult finding another couple that is just interested in soft swap, but it isn't impossible. Lots of couples started this way (we did) and then moved forward as they felt comfortable (or don't, you can do what you want).

I was trying to be funny. I don’t mind if she plays alone as long as I know who and where.

What intimate acts do I reserve just for me and my partner? Paying bills.

Sometimes you have to swallow your pride.

I don’t think it’s entirely dissimilar to receiving a blowjob/cunnilingus, and then kissing your partne. Can’t say I’ve ever licked my cum off my gf’s tits, but if was something she wanted, then I’d at least give it a go

I absolutely adore a nice titjob. Lately I have developed a taste for my cum, whether licking it out of my girl's pussy, kissing her after a blowjob, or lapping it up after I've given her a clit job and came that way. I haven't yet licked it from her tips, but now I'm intrigued...

I love licking my come off a woman's breasts. It took me many years to try it, though. The first time was with a girlfriend (I was divorced). I was about 39 years old. We were having a long sex session one evening. We both did oral (she orgasmed, I waited), then we fucked. I was close to coming, and decided I'd like to try licking my come off her breasts. I told her that and she liked the idea. I was on top of her, so I pulled out and masturbated to climax. I shot all over her breasts and stomach. I rubbed my come into her breasts—I love how come looks on breasts!—and with a little trepidation, dived in. I liked it! After that relationship, I met Ms. Geo. I've had the pleasure of licking my come off her breasts many times. The first was in a private hot tub that we were lucky to have to ourselves one night. We had done a lot of foreplay in the water, some oral with each of us sitting on the edge, and some fucking, though sex in the water of a hot tub isn't the best. I sat on the edge again and she gave me a blow job. When I was close to coming, I pulled her up and came on her breasts. She rose out of the water some more and I greedily licked my come off her. Moving off-topic a bit, I'll share that I am not shy about tasting my come in other instances. When I have masturbated, I've often tasted my precome. The ladyfriends in my life have tasted it often, so why shouldn't I? And I love kissing a woman after she's had my cock in her mouth. I can't taste my precome that way, but the thought of kissing a woman who's just had me in her mouth is a turn on. And that leads me to one other thing: giving oral to a woman after coming in her pussy. I've done that with Ms. Geo. I decided that I wanted to try it. Yes, indeed. So one time while having sex with her, I was excited by the thought and really wanted to do it. But after my orgasm, the desire was gone. Poof! So I didn't do it. The same thing happened the next time we had sex—wanted to do it, but didn't want to after my orgasm. The next time, I decided I'd do it no matter what. Yes, the desire was weak after my orgasm, but I just did it anyway. And I liked it! I've had male friends tell me that they'd never taste their own come, that their partners would have to brush their teeth after a BJ before kissing them again. So I know it's not for everyone. But for me, it's a wonderful thing.

Thinking about it more, it isn't like a celebration, it is a celebration. All those emotions of hers and mine - she is sexually satisfied, feeling loved, having a sense of freedom; I feel the need to recapture her attention and love, am tremendously sexually excited, feel appreciated for what I have given her. Works the other way around as well, when we are both on the other side, me having enjoyed sex with another woman, Daniela genuinely happy for me. Reclaiming sex is special.

Hotlanta eh? Since I was 14 I always have fantasized about being sandwich by an older couple. Being in the wife while husband is in me listening to her wants and desires and with pleasure following her orders. Letting her husband cum in me and cuming in her. I really don't know what it is but still have that fantasy at 47 to be with a couple in mid 50 to mid 60"s to sandwich me wouldn't mind if there was more than one dick that the women wanted my body to satisfy. As long as I got to eat her pussy and cum in her by mouth,pussy or her ass.

Really hot scenario! I have the fantasy of both guys rubbing their cocks together inside the girl's pussy in a DVP, (only if it was comfortable to the girl) and both guys cumming and flowing out of her... Yummy!

Experienced this last weekend. Met a bi m/f cpl for motel play. We all agreed to bareback sex, since all three produced written records of our latest test results beforehand. She was very nice, and an expert @ what she was doing. He was toned, and pretty hot, with a PHAT cock, very thick. He expressed that he wanted me to fuck him while she watched. So we all got naked & he and I started sucking each other. He then rolled over to the doggie position. I lubed his ass really good. This was only his 2nd time bottoming. She came over to the bed as I slid my stiff cock into him. She maneuvered herself underneath him, 69, with her nose rubbing my balls with each stroke. It was an erotic moment. He started grinding his ass into me as I was balls deep. She stated she wanted me to cum inside him, and he concurred. As I neared the point of no return, she started licking my balls, and that's all it took. I sprayed my load deep in his ass, while he was moaning & grinding against me. When I exited his hole she sucked his cock. He unloaded, and she said it was the biggest load she'd ever had from him. It was an experience not soon to be forgotten. They expressed the desire to meet again, so he could fuck me. I agreed wholeheartedly

It is very hard to find couples like that around even here in the cold western NY State

@fitrealswingers I must say, that is sexy as hell. I would love to find a hot couple to do this with. But as you can imagine, it’s pretty difficult! If you are ever in Tampa, please don’t hesitate to email! 😈😜😈😜

That is hot as heck I have a fantasy of licking a woman's ass then as the guy is pulling out I run my tongue along his shaft till my mouth reaches her pussy and lick his load out.

I could do spit roasted and bareback from the right couples. 2 males while their wives watch then eat their wives oussy after they finished in them. Letting their husband's cum in with their wife's approval. Definitely would try it lol

I swallow, in fact, a good load it is what I expect if I am finishing off a guy with my mouth

Anal

I am a married man but I do realize that I am bi. I love to suck a hard cock and feel him explode in my mouth. I also so would love for my wife to join me or at least watch and kiss me afterwards. I welcome any feedback.

Hi again I just wanna mention the reason he reacted to strongly is because of a trauma he had experienced that he told me about afterwards, it was not selfishness the whole experience with me and other man became a trigger for him given a previous experience that made him struggle with intimacy. He had been ashamed of that for years and he never blamed me since I did not know about it, but his experience ended up humiliating him and what happened to him was cruel and I can't imagine doing that to another person what that woman did to him. I wanted to work through it and help him and be there for him but decided to leave me instead and if he walked through the door right now and told me had had reconsidered I would hug him tightly and never let him go. But I had become a trigger for him and he told me all he could think about when he saw me was me with the other man and it became mental torture for him. He was not wired for that and I understand that now but him walking away hurts it hurts a lot .

He asked me for a divorce a few days ago and he already contacted a lawyer and told me I needed to do the same thing since we can't have the same lawyer. Our familes and friends know we are divorcing but not the details of course everyone both my family and his are shocked and I just feel very numb right now. Dodging questions by our social circle who seem completely baffled by the whole situation, my husband has made it clear I did nothing wrong because I was asked by my best friend if I cheated on him the other day and everyone seems to think I cheated on him. Even my friends like him a lot and they see that he is hurting and has changed and seem distant and everyone is blaming me without saying anything despite him making it clear I had done nothing wrong.