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Yes! Just last week and plan to this weekend. We have a friends with a vacation home who is hosting a Labor Day barbecue that will probably heat up more than chicken

We had originally talked about maybe her putting on her little maid outfit and being our waitress for the night or her just wearing a more revealing nighty to show her off a bit, then if we all where feeling it then maybe just a bit of touching her. Apparently things don’t always go as planned but it worked out. Not quite sure what the next time will consist of but il update as we go along.

It's never occurred to me that this might irritate someone, to the point I assumed you were referring to someone else when you posted because I didn't even realize I used it. Mrs. E was actually using it first, in reference to our FMF arrangement. The single female is very busy and basically had one date night free a week, so when a vanilla partner fell through, Mrs. E described it as "loaning me out" to her friend.

Santa Claus, Easter Bunny, Unicorns, Loch Ness Monster All live in our minds as mythical beings and then things changed. The first to go was Unicorn, something I was told didn’t exist which was reinforced in a sexual reference when we could find a woman to play with us. Then I became a Unicorn. I joined a new friend and her husband for a day of sexual play that did away with the Unicorn myth. Just so nobody makes a comment my husband was fully aware of my play. That same friend made me believe the Loch Ness Monster exists, she has a male friend she calls Nessy that she and another friend found on some sex hook up site. The picture he posted, she showed me, showed his Monster in all its glory. My first reaction was that the picture like all the other Loch Ness pictures were fake. She assured me that Nessy existed and invited me to see and enjoy it with her. I had only heard or read about men like Nessy, some of those stories on here, and never had any desire to be with anyone or thing like that. My first reaction that it was a painful thing not a pleasure. Now I’m a believer, Nessy exists and I have seen the monster get excited and stiffen his neck and shoot his venom. Starting to change my thoughts on Santa Clause and Easter Bunny

After me having a boyfriend for two years, I got over my jealousy and wanted hubby to play as well. I set him up with my female friends and acquaintances, who were more than willing to have sex with my husband. They were less willing to let me watch and participate. After having two babies pass through there, no dick intimidates me. A little girth is nice, but I've haven't had a dick where I've failed to orgasm. Too long can bottom out and hurt in my vagina, but long with no girth is best for anal. No dead end to hit.

Welcome to the board Thank you for your insightful first post. I’m thrilled you understand what your wife enjoys, most men never understand. 🙄

We have been with way more female unicorns then single men! Honestly we never even searched that hard. Just made profiles that were appealing to them I guess. Never reached out to any of them first. They all contacted us. Probably helped that Missus E is actually bi ( not bi because I want her to be) and we have pictures to prove that she is very into women.

Years ago, a female friend of mine - very attractive, an actual model - hired a professional 9" penis in Las Vegas. There wasn't even an age difference or anything along those lines. He'd simply identified his customer - women who wanted to try a gigantic appendage on a girl's weekend to Vegas with zero drama - and figured out how to market his product. I've also heard more than a few accounts of wives who are authorized users on their husband's American Express with a modest budget to treat a young boyfriend and keep it quiet.

I am thinking that you can buy a Nessie too. My friend never went into specifics on how she met this handsome young man other they met online. I’m not inferring she isn’t attractive just saying we are older and he did mention girlfriends.

There is no speed but your own that matters.

This type of experimenting with very soft play is a great way your boundaries. Dancing, partial nudity, dirty talk, sensual massage, kisses, are all ways to test the waters with light intimacy with others to see if you're actually having fun.

Your avatar shows promise!

I used to think of myself as bi-curious, but I've had enough experiences in the past and I'm still turned on by the fantasy of male contact. Therefore I'm bisexual, even though it's been years since I've had any MM interaction. I still list as bi-curious in my SLS profile, mainly to indicate the extent of my bisexual experience. I think it's funny that a guy will list as straight on their online profile but say they're open to meeting men.

Hotwifing without the husband's knowledge or approval is just cheating. I can have some empathy for the possibility that the marriage had failed due to the husband's behavior and that she was looking for an outlet, but I don't think she's experienced with swinging, per se, in the way you'd like. We've both played solo more than a few times now and have had great experiences, but that took years of practice and learning to negotiate one another's boundaries on a new level. GoldCoCouple is absolutely right that this aspect of the relationship is best avoided, at least for now. It sounds like she simply wants to be non-monogamous without any of the responsibility that comes with actual swinging.

The leprechaun with the pot of gold is first on our list... 😉

We would like to start by finding a unicorn ourselves...from there we will pursue searching for the tooth fairy, bigfoot and other hard to locate creatures.

Lent? People borrow your wife? Heck if I ever used that expression she would most likely kick my ass out of the bed or worse.

Our 'unicorn' has a casual long-distance boyfriend who spends the weekend with her about once a month. I've lent Mrs. E out a few times now to reciprocate, and we spent NYE with them as couples. We see her less often now that she's moved to a house in a different neighborhood, but they still go to the gym together and it's been a very good arrangement.

My wife plays with her favorite couple fairly often and I find it exciting for her to get home with cum in her vagina and pussy on her breath. With couples looking for a unicorn, and so many men looking to have their wife to play alone hotwifing, I don't see why this doesn't happen more often - a married woman playing with a couple with her husband's permission.

Yes relative to the norm, bigger and smaller. My preference to size falls into what I have always experienced, I never said someone was too anything. I’m not aware of what my friend was looking for when she met this endowed play friend or why she wanted to contact or respond him. I didn’t desire, I joined in on her fun for the fun of seeing something I never saw. Lately I have been experiencing many new things so why not this. Possibly I have a secret bucket list deep inside that I’m looking to check off. As to the great experience I would check off the experience as fun with my friend not a thing I wanted to do as much as something we did.

We are the same. Closed group. No diseases. Super clean, healthy, careful couples. We have only had one wife of a couple come to us and say that she was not sure about her husband's safety. We all get tested regularly so we upped the date on the next tests. We were all clean. Sure at any time someone could mess us all up but we trust everyone until they give us cause not too. The lady and her husband needed to work out some of those very issues, hence why we are adamant about same room sex. Any time anyone has ever had sex with anyone in our groups alone (over the years within in non-closed groups), it caught up with them and changed the dynamics of their swinging as a married couple. Not a single couple is still together that did this. Thank goodness, like Numex, our group has so much fun barebacking it, filling, cream pieing, refilling, oral fests galore, swapping, mixing it all up no one has expressed any interest in outside sex. If they can't get what they need within our group, I doubt they ever will. I think everyone gets this and have no desire to ruin it. Even though we all do have sex with everyone, I have never seen couples so much in love. When I look at what we have and all the crazy things we do, from an outside perspective I'd probably think, the people have sex with anyone, anything, anytime, anywhere. But we are very much in love with our spouses, very well organized, have well planned gatherings, we all know what the main course is each time, and how it unfolds. We have found our groove once again now that the big scare is over with covid. I am pretty good at reading others and picking up on their vibes, I cannot see anyone in our group messing it up. We have had some move away, which is always sad and we eventually add to our numbers as we build that strong bond of trust and openness with new couples. It always takes a bit of time, but oh so worth it. We have life long lasting friendships. We are still in touch with those who have moved.

We had some questions we would like to ask, and we appreciated those who could share their history. What do you feel the first time you see another man enter you or your partner enter another woman and vice versa? How did you start swinging? Did you play with friends or strangers? Did you use condoms or not? Did you let the other guy cum inside (assuming you were taking the pill or similar and that you trust the other couple)? Did you notice any physical difference? My answer is the following. English is not my first language, so sorry for any mistakes. Even now, we feel we are "almost" new in this new world, and that was 100% true until a few years ago (2019). We had talked about the LS for many years until we finally made a web profile in a local S community. After some time talking online, we finally met with some couples in restaurants. We had a really nice match with the fourth couple we met. They are really handsome and funny and were also new in the S community; they were about 10 years older than us (we were at the end of our 20s). They shared the same fantasies and worries as us that consist basically in having a good match, trusting new people, and safe sex. After that, we started talking more often. Unfortunately, we all have somewhat chaotic schedules, so it was a couple of months later when we met again for a more intimate meeting. First, we meet in a hotel, one month later at our place, just for soft swaps. The four of us had greats moments but also were really nervous, so we took things slow. After that, we progressively shared more fantasies, intimate pictures online and gained more confidence. We were becoming friends really quickly, but something that made us trust in them completely was that they had just had a child a few months before meeting us, and she was breastfeeding. Of course, she didn't want anything to happen to her son and for them as well as us (and surely for anyone on this page); the most important thing was the safety of their bodies and that of their children… Even so, maybe the next thing sounds a bit innocent or irresponsible, and years ago is something we never thought we'd do… We decided to play at 100% with them, and to do it without condoms. Obviously, it was because the feeling is more intimate that way and simply because we trust them completely. Also, both girls were on the pill; both couples checked themselves before playing, and we were sure we were just playing with each other. The next time we met was at their place. It would be the second man for me, and practically the second woman for my husband, so we were really nervous, but super excited (In their case, they have a much longer history than us, not in the LS but with previous partners). We arrived at their place trembling a little despite all the trust we had built with them, knowing that this time we would do it, made everything quite intense. They have prepared a nice environment with candles and low light. Everyone started with their own couple. When it comes to being naked and touching each other, our previous encounters already made us all feel completely comfortable so everything went smoothly. Eventually, the girls started playing a little bit with each other in a classical 69, while our own husbands penetrated us. I'm really shy, so I didn't dare to go all the way to licking her. For me it was more about seeing at close how they were having sex and some small liking here and there (especially right in the union, but closer to the guy). I was nervous but I loved every second of it (And really impressive also). She was much more comfortable with me and my husband and I could feel how she was really into licking me and even taking my husband out of me to suck him or licking me. In our first meetings, we (the girls) "almost" didn't do anything bi, and it was a whole new experience for me and something I always had wanted to do. Eventually, someone asked if we were ready, and we said yes. Then both girls lay on our backs and waited for each of our husbands to enter us (mine in her and her husband in me). My husband and I had many plants about that moment. The most important was to look at each other bodies at the moment of the first insertion, but there were so many new sensations that it was difficult to keep track of everything that was going on. I had my legs spread, and our friend was waiting with his big tool really close to my entrance when my husband started to enter our lady friend. She was on her back next to me. Before my husband entered, he looked at her in the eyes, like asking her if it was ok to enter, to which she nodded and looked at the perfect penis pointing right at her wet entrance. Then my husband looked at me in the eyes with the face of a kid in a candy store, and then he moved close to her. My husband was really excited when he entered her slowly, and a delicious moan of pleasure escaped from her when he fully entered. I felt great for him (for all of us) for having that crazy experience. My husband mentioned how the internal fold and the texture inside her feel a little bit different than mine, also delicious but in a different way, but not something too notable. In addition, the lubrication was slightly different than me but just a little bit (he had been inside me just seconds before so the fluids of both girls were a little bit mixed). Because of my position, I just could see the borderline of their connection while my husband entered her. I would have liked to look closer, but when I was trying to pay more attention to them, another penis got in contact with my vagina. I felt a big electric shock in all my body that made me totally forget about what my husband was doing. I looked at my new lover. He started rubbing his penis at my entrance, making my whole-body tremble... then he began to enter me slowly. My body was extremely ready despite my mind being a little nervous. I did not offer him the slightest resistance… It was incredible how my body could make me feel the same sensation that only my husband had made me feel, but in that case, it was a new man inside me. The physical sensation was practically the same (He is a little longer than my husband when he is totally hard, but unfortunately, he was not completely hard, maybe 95%, but it was understandable due to the nerves of the moments) still he filled me all, crashing against the deepest part of me. it was delightful... What was totally new and different was the whole experience. I was having sex with someone new right in from of my husband! And far from jealous, what we felt was exciting about the experience. Also, the intimacy of the act I was doing with our friend (and my husband with our girlfriend) was super profound and a fantastic experience, difficult to describe. My husband told me how he managed to see a little as the other guy entered, but the girl connected to him was taking a huge part of his attention. What he liked the most was my surprised face during the whole process. Our only rule was that the boys should finish outside. Their rule was that we couldn't kiss them on the lips. Ones of the thing I liked the most during the sex act was how my new lover, at a moment of great passion, suddenly brought his mouth close to mine (their kissing rule was more of a suggestion than a rule since she had also kissed my husband but only slightly, but my new lover's kiss was very deep and sinful, it was only for a couple of seconds but I loved it). We played for a while. It was fantastic how from time to time my husband kissed the girl's breasts or touched my breasts and kissed me (while staying connected to the girl). My husband loved the moans that the girl and I were doing and the face of pleasure that we had while new men were inside of us. After some time, my new lover was already completely hard. Even then, the physical feeling was practically the same delicious sensation I felt with my husband (not counting all the mental sensations that it was totally new). It was really interesting, but maybe it was due to the fact that the difference between the boys was not too notable (for the girls who have been with more boys, do you feel some difference if your new partners have a noticeable size difference? I know size doesn't matter, and its more about technique and how you interact with you partner, but what about when there is a really big difference, like a super big or super small guy… do you feel like the guy is breaking you apart or that the guy stays a little bit loose inside of you?) Unfortunately, after a little bit too short time later and like adolescents with their first girlfriends, both boys came outside of the girls due to nerves. First, my husband and that got my new lover too excited and make him cum almost immediately after. Now we fantasize a lot about that moment and we wish the men would have finished inside of the girls and then do it again just after the guys have cum inside (have any of you done that?), but at the time, we were too insecure with the pill (even if by that time we had years taking the pill and my husband always cum inside of me, but this was a new guy, so my husband and I were a little bit nervous about it). Also, we would have felt very embarrassed to tell them that we wanted to do that at that time. After the guys finished, we took a bath, and then we started playing again (each with each own partner) until eventually, their one-year-old baby started to cry in the other room, and we ended up the night. The experience was wonderful, and it left us wanting much more. We feel that to make it a completely perfect experience, we needed to have had even more confidence and be more open with them, especially more communication at the moment of play. We would have liked not to feel those little nerves when we played. However, we didn't have any other opportunity to see them because the world stopped in 2020. We talked for some time, but eventually, things cold down when we moved. After that, my husband and I have had many fantasies that we hope to do in the future. We know that parties or large groups are not our things and it's more about finding really close friends to play with... we'll see what the future holds😊

My first time was when I was on the bottom while a friend was taking my wife from behind. Iit was her first time having her pussy eaten while getting drilled by a bigger penis. I instinctively begin licking his wet shaft as he slip in and out of her. He slid out of her and I took him in my mouth. I loved the way his swollen head felt in my mouth. He switched between my mouth and her pussy until he eventually ejaculated inside her. As he came I instantly released into my wife's mouth. I jerked off as he pulled out and put his cock in my mouth. She was so turned on she begged to watch us suck each other's cock while she masturbated with a vibrator.

What you describe is probably a majority of bi-sexual men. I've been around sex forums for years and this keeps coming up exactly the same. My feelings match yours, my wife is straight, so mmf was our pleasure of choice. I found being on the bottom of a 69 with the wife while she was getting fucked, and sucking me off was the pinnacle of sexual pleasure for me. Licking pussy, dick, balls, the scene, the smells, the sensations. And finishing with a cream pie. You definitely should pursue this.

I wouldn't consider myself completely bi-sexual, but I enjoy cock. It's more the sexual experience. Where I think of a true bi-sexual as someone who is attracted to both sexes. I never look at a man and think they are attractive. I don't enjoy kissing or other sensual activities with a man. But, I enjoy getting off with a guy. I enjoy touching and sucking cock. So, I guess see this through that lens. As a teen, I always enjoyed porn. Mags, as the internet didn't exist yet. When I turned 18, I was excited to be able to go to a store and buy my own. My small town didn't have much in the way of adult stores, so one day, while traveling through Orlando, I stopped at an adult store that have booths for movies (these don't exist anymore in Orlando, unfortunately) I thought they were amazing. So, I went in one and started watching. Before long, A guy motioned through the glory hole (which I had no idea existed at this point in my life). I didn't know what he wanted. So, I peeked through the hole. He put his cock in the hole. At first, I didn't know what to do, but I started to stroke him. It was fun. It didn't take long and he came. I realized I was very turned on. He left and another man came in. This time I put my cock in the whole. He sucked me off. at that point... I was hooked. I liked the idea of anonymous cock play. Fast forward 30 years... early in our relationship I shared with my (now) wife (2nd) that I liked doing that kind of thing. She had no idea that world existed, but was pretty turned on by the idea of it. So, on a trip through atlanta, we visited a glory hole. We got there and immediately the guys hanging around in the hallway were excited to have a couple in the booth. We got in, put our money in and within seconds were fucking each other. They guy in the other booth watched for a bit before he slid his cock through. I enjoyed stroking him while I fucked my wife. so... not sure if that qualifies as bi-sexual or not, but that's the story of when I first discovered my enjoyment of cock play. My now fantasy. I'd like to swing with a couple where I could eat her out while his cock is sliding in and out. Licking him, licking her. Touching. So... hot!

We began our experiential development when the wifey suggested strap on play. We had already experience double ended dildo play with anal for me and vag for her and it was sublime. We moved on to dildo play with male prostate play and that resulted in the best orgasm ever for me. The strap on experience was an absolute heaven, and recording it was even better as we could watch afterward and hone our skills. There is nothing better than having your prostate tickled while being blown or fondled. After watching many a bisexual MMF vids, we then decided it was time to move on the real flesh thing. After months of interviews and selections we finally found the one we agreed we would both be comfortable with. It was all about me, it was a combined effort. Watching her go down on our mate and then her waving me over to join and as we both sucked that 7" cock and kissed one another while both looking at that glistening piece of member, it was our foray into many more adventures as a bisexual couple. The pinnacle came when our mate entered her in the missionary position and I enter him doggy style. The rhythmic thrusts of our bodies entwined and the sound of our love juices filtering through the room was bliss. So in essence it was a gradual appreciation of what felt good and the introduction of what we thought we wanted and fulfilled. Although bisexual swinger sex is not our only vice, it is on our regular rotation of pleasure. And the notion that you are gay after, is debunked. Never felt more masculine now than ever, and I think my wife feels the same if not more.

For me it was shortly after I turned 21. I'd met a woman who was seducing me into the LS of group sex. At the three or four house & barracks parties she had brought me to I'd see several m/m sexual acts & had convinced myself it was ok. Since the women at these swaps or parties seemed all bisexual or at least open to f/f contact it was not truly weird for the men to do the same. I also noticed most of the women enjoyed watching the m/m sex as much as the men liked to see f/f. One evening the three ladies in the room persuaded me & the other man to suck each other off. I realized I felt comfortable with it & in the subsequent parties or orgies found I enjoyed sex with the males nearly as much as with the women. I did not find much difference between orally gratifying a male or a female and even less receiving.

I wanted to state that I feel where you are coming from. I thought finding bi males would be the easy part and that couples would be the difficult to do. I have found dozens of wives like myself who get off by men and men and they say that their husbands are bicurious and even bisexual. Yet via any sites we have tried, the men are the ones who appear to chicken out. A few times the person typing is the husband who is supposedly doing all the communicating but when pressed to met as a couple he/they all chicken out as well. I have had more success when traveling with my husband as of late. Over the past many months we have grown so much sexually as we have met other travelers. I listen to others as we are walking, it is amazing how many people are talking about sex. I have now twice found couples who play and we have gotten to know and were able to have some fun with. Since we did not know them for long of course we were very safe and careful what took place, but the potential for so much more is there. I guess where you hang out, the people you hang with, can be a determining factor. Study people who you think might be what you are after. Watch if they are flirty, sexual, listen to them, introduce yourself and your wife very openly letting them know you'd looove to get to know them better. And see where it leads. On the road so far it has worked. Not certain why is hasn't here though. Guess I better take my own advice and go to a different hang out spot...

Yes we do men together as well. It's just nice when the door opens and she says honey I brought you desert. Kinda like your wife surprising you with cheesecake after a nice meal. We started off playing together and still do. I love watching her get fucked and love licking the guy's cock after he pulls out of her. Come to Canada and I'll show you. lol

I knew I was bi and had a mean crush on my buddy. We played a game and I just said loser had to suck the other guys cock. He was like idk but I'm like let's try it. Well, on purpose I lost and then looked at him and said well a bets a bet and he said are you sure? I'm like well I'm not gay but let's get it over with. I can still remember him pulling down his pants and unleashing a big cock. Well I sucked him and in no time he shot his hot juicy cum down my throat. It was a huge load. The next night he looked at me and said let's play a game and loser has to suck. But let's skip the game. He sucked me and I sucked him. Over the next 6 months we sucked each other lots during school, after school. I never told anyone till one day my wife said would you ever suck cock and I said I have. She was so turned on that now we share cock as often as possible. Now she goes out and gets fucked and brings me home a cream pie to eat