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  1. 4 points
    There's a word in the swinging lifestyle and/or are very sexually active using these methods of 'birth control'... Mothers Swinging is a team sport. If one member of the team says no, then the entire team says no. If that isn't the case (as it sounds) then swinging must stop. If she isn't willing to stop, then there isn't much you can do but this WILL start the steady spiral downward as trust is destroyed and communication breaks down. Unfortunately, all you can do is stand your ground and remind her that her continuing starts to become cheating instead of swinging and is damaging your relationship. Maybe finding you taking a firm stand will make her rethink her choices. Good luck and know we're here to support you.
  2. 4 points
    The only stuff that really serves to incriminate us is in Google Photos, so I hope whoever handles our estate and gets curious about the 'Private' album is a fan of good old-fashioned facials.
  3. 3 points
    Yikes, this is a disaster. Such a disaster that I have a hard time believing is true. I agree, swinging should stop immediately. Why would you allow the risk of another man getting her pregnant? I wouldn't trust her is she said she was going back on birth control. She obviously doesn't care whether she gets pregnant. Her saying "I'm back on the pill" wouldn't give my any comfort. Is she misleading these other men by saying she is on birth control? I don't know any guys willing to go bareback unless they've had a vasectomy because of the risk the woman is lying. If your wife doesn't care about getting pregnant she may be lying to these other guys. Man, oh man, what a nightmare. I believe this is a completely fictional post. I'd be stunned that a husband would be so wishy washy on something like this.
  4. 3 points
    I suspect this is a deeper issue than either of you have admitted to each other and that yes, she might be risking it on purpose. This is something to untangle. Possibly in couple's counseling with a sex-positive therapist who understands the lifestyle.
  5. 1 point
    Just an update we actually tried FetLife and it's a night and day difference. We have several couples lined up for this weekend hoping at least one actually shows up.
  6. 1 point
    Sounds like non-monogamy is more important to her than your relationship. I am sure that you figured this out. Your move.
  7. 1 point
    You'd be absolutely stunned at how much of this goes on. "Stubborn" could easily mean straight-up abusive here, we don't know. Still, we went through a wave of a particular genre of "oh no, my wife's bull locked me out of the motel and inseminated her against our will, what do we do next" mental (and likely physical) masturbation posts a few years ago. It's hard to say.
  8. 1 point
    I would assume there will be a point where we toss it all out. If we happen to pass unexpectedly (together), whoever goes through our possessions would toss them. Neither of us really think much about it.
  9. 1 point
    It’s my fervent hope that this is an expression of fantasy and not one of fact. If it is factual, it is appalling. In every way.
  10. 1 point
    How about an IUD? Or you can get a vasectomy and if she gets pregnant, it’s very unlikely you are the father, might push her to birth control. Hope you live in a pro-choice state. As others said, you need a talk.
  11. 1 point
    "Play with it" is such a powerful phrase because it encapsulates something that's so key to this: trust. Jealousy hurts because we believe the other person is disregarding us. Learning to put on a show, perform, and make it playful, turns it into pleasurable and scandalous stimulation. I remember that first time I strongly encouraged Mrs. E. to try sunbathing topless by the pool at a hotel in Europe. She knew what I was interested in playing with and went with it, albeit reluctantly, knowing there was a pack of college-aged guys caddy-corner ogling her. Lotioning up and pretending she had no idea they were staring, until she finally got self-conscious and put her top back on. It was only when I got up to get us drinks that I realized I had a massive hard-on, and we ducked back into our hotel and 69ed the afternoon away. You've crossed the first taboo boundary, intimate touch, with a light heart.
  12. 1 point
    I'm stunned you are accepting this. I'm stunned you are asking strangers on a forum whether you should "say something about the risk of her getting pregnant?" Stunned. Ignoring the obvious risk of getting an STD, which is a deal breaker for us, you are waiting for advice from a forum while she is risking getting pregnant. I don't know what state you live in but you could be on the hook paying to raise a child from some swinger fling! As others have said, I'd pull the plug on swinging immediately. I'm willing to bet she won't agree. When she pushes back on you stopping swinging, I'd schedule some consultations with divorce attorneys and get your ducks in a row.
  13. 1 point
    Don’t know what state you live in but with the recent Supreme Court ruling you’ll end up having to raise another man’s child that you probably don’t want if your wife continues to be careless. You need to talk about the real life ramifications of her decisions
  14. 1 point
    You two are obviously not on the same page right now. Until you are, you both need to stop. Swinging is a team sport and one of you isn't playing with the other. Either she is unhappy about you not wanting more children (and this is her way of achieving more children) or she isn't paying attention to the mutually agreed-upon rules. Either way, you both need to talk and find out what is going on here. It could be that since she is used to not playing with a condom, she isn't connecting that to her now not taking birth control...but I doubt that is the case (maybe for men, usually never for women). Good luck and let us know what happens.
  15. 1 point
    Seems rather one sided. She/you, clearly do not want more children together. That is why you have to use the condom. It seems she is not so inclined, about bringing a baby into your household. Even if she aborts the baby, it still has an effect on you. I also would suggest pulling the plug on swinging until you get this sorted out. If you want to take a break and she continues, then you have a very clear message and a cheat to deal with.
  16. 1 point
    Yes indeed. Jealousy went from being my greatest fear to my best friend. I am still jealous, but am now addicted to it. I no longer fear it, but play with it. I am like a kid who is scared shitless on the roller coaster, but then immediately wants to go again.
  17. 1 point
    My advice would be to stop playing until you are on the same page. This is no OK. Relationships are based on trust. She is violating that.
  18. 1 point
    In the lifestyle is the trust the most important, for a good relationship and a harmony in sexual life. To break the rules is very bad. No protection it means a big risk for the partner.
  19. 1 point
    Let? I don’t think men let or allow a wife to do something. You may not be happy with her choices, it is her choice, something she may ask you for an opinion. I don’t understand the worries if you trust her.
  20. 1 point
    We are new to the swinging lifestyle. We were getting fairly annoyed because it seemed that what we wanted was not going to happen. See, being new to swinging, and never having been to that level yet, we wanted to feel comfortable, not like fresh meat. We wanted to be able to make friends and get to know others first, not just hop in the sack. We made a post in Curious About Swinging area, and got some good sound advice, but in between the posts, here's what happened....... Rainy and drizzle day, so we hopped in the car and took a trip to Carbondale to check out computer and electronics related stuff. Mr O is like that and loves to tinker around. After spending several hours in a couple stores, we got everything loaded in the car and drove back home. Putting everything away, and still rainy out so we couldn’t go for our nightly walk at the park, we figured we take and go over to the local bowling alley and toss off a few games. When we got there, we found it was not as crowded as usual. We got a lane, found our balls {bowling} and threw a few warm up shots. I went over to the bar and got myself a mixed drink {strawberry dak} and Mr O a bottle of MGD {miller beer}. As we played the first game, another couple came in, about our age, and got the lane next to ours. This meant we shared the same ball return. We made some idle talk at first, then introduced ourselves. His name was J and hers was S. He was almost the same size as Mr O, with black hair and brown eyes. He told us he was 51. S was 47, 5’9” and about 175 with red hair and hazel eyes {like me} with about the same build except for her breasts, they were a little smaller then my 38dd’s. J went up to the bar, asking if he could buy us a drink, we accepted. Mr O and I finished our first game and waited until J and S finished off their first one. They were fairly good, like us with an average in the 190’s. The second game, we decided to split the lanes, rotating between both lanes. S wanted to bet that the women could beat the men so we all agreed to bowl for drinks. They won and S and I had to go get them another beer each. While gone, S remarked that she thought MR O was good looking. I told her the same about J. We went back to the guys and started a third game, making the same bet. This time we won so the guys had to go trot off after our drinks. All the time S and I made small talk, and found that we had a lot in common. The guys got back with out drinks and this time the stakes were raised a bit by Mr O. He suggested that the winners get to do anything they wanted to, to the losers. There were no restrictions placed, but being in public we sort of took it for granted it would be clean. The guys whipped our butts. J walked up to S, grabbed her and gave her one hell of a passionate kiss, while feeling her breasts and butt. Not to be out done, Mr O grabbed me, sat me on his lap, gave me one of the wettest kisses he ever has and was using his hands on my breasts and between my inner legs, getting me all wet. Well, we played another game with the same bet, and this time they must have let us win because neither of them hit 125. S looked at me, and with her eyes questioned as to if she could approach Mr O. I just smiled and nodded okay. She walked up to Mr O and gave him a nice kiss on the lips, moving her hand {which she must have thought was not visible to J and I } between Mr O legs grabbing his manhood. Mr O kind of jerked back a little, surprised by S’s move. I walked over to J and did the same thing to him, but he just stood there enjoying it. Needless to say, we were all getting a little hot. Mr O suggested we go to a diner and grab something to eat and chat some more. We went to a little place called The Spot {it’s a Greek all night 24/7 place with great food and very comfortable}. We talked for about two hours, getting to know each other more. As the discussion got around to sex, we found that J and S were just as new to the new lifestyle as we were. They had never been in a swap, or in another sexual encounter with anyone other then themselves. It was getting late and they had to get home so they could get their babysitter off to her house. We exchanged telephone numbers and left it at they were going to give us a call today sometime. We got home about midnight or so. We took a shower and were getting into some very heavy petting when the phone rang. It was S. She said that her mom came over last night and picked up their son {15} and took him to her house and dropped the babysitter off on her way home. She said she was happy that we met and that we were still up. She asked if we were tired and I said no why? She asked if we’d like to come over so we could talk some more. I asked Mr O and he said sure, why not. So I get directions {which was very easy as they live two blocks from us} and we headed over. Of course we walked, even though it was drizzling rain out a little. Well let's see, it took all of about five minutes to walk over and getting there S opened the door. They gave us a tour of the place, stopping by the kitchen to get some drinks, and proceeded down to the huge open den area complete with video games, bar, hot tub and a movie like projection screen hanging on the wall. J turned on some tunes and we all sat down and started talking about our lives, our jobs and interests. Come to find out we have a lot more then we thought in common. J loves to hunt and fish and play around with computer stuff. He and Mr O went up to the “junk room” as S put it {where J has all the computer stuff} which left S and I alone. We were talking about our families and how we loved to go camping when S moved her hand over to my leg and started to rub it. It was soft and slow and she moved her hand up and down my thigh in a motion that felt good. She stopped and said she was sorry but couldn’t help herself as she was just so turned on. I had the same feelings and just looked at her in the eyes and leaned over and took a kiss. She responded by giving right back and began to move her hands up and very gently caressed by breasts. I responded by doing the same to her. I was getting very wet and I knew it. S reached under my blouse and under my bra and started to play with my nipple, rolling it in her fingers. About this time the guys came back and I faintly remember hearing J say that it looks like they’re having a good chat session. I caught myself, somehow, and can’t remember what did it, but I remember turning and looking at the guys and remember having my hand caressing S’s breasts. The guys, almost together, made a comment not to let them be the cause for us to stop. With that S moved her hand slowly down between my legs and started to rub so softly. I just could not take this any more and moaned. S stopped, sat up and took her blouse off. Reaching around she removed her bra. She had a very nice pair of breasts. Like I said, almost like mine, but a little smaller. She helped me get undressed and moved down taking one of my nipples in her mouth. This is the first time I have ever had a woman suck on them, let alone touch me. This just drove me off the deep end and I was so excited that I came. S was surprised at how I flowed {I am what MR O calls a flooder—when I cum the juices just flow and flow}. With this, she moved down and started to lick me, even though I still had my panties on. I remember helping her take the rest of her clothes off and going into a 69 position. We both were so turned on that I don’t think either of us remember seeing the guys get undressed. J was standing down by S and Mr O was up near me. S stopped licking me and must have started to suck on J as I did the same to Mr O. S got off of me {she was on top when in the 69} and moved over and had J sit in a chair. I got up and had Mr O sit on the couch where I knelt in front of him taking as much as I could in my mouth. I was never one that could DT him as he is too big for me, not just long {about 8”} but thick around. I knew he was very excited so I slowed down because I surely wanted him inside me. J and S moved over to the couch next to us, and S whispered in my ear that she would like to try Mr 0’s in her mouth. Without saying a word, I moved my head so she could go ahead and try. She licked it first and then took almost every inch down deep. Mr O just moaned and told her she was good. I moved over, took J’s in my hand and started to stroke it slowly up and down. This is the first time I have ever had another man's cock in my hand since I was with Mr O. J was a little smaller and no way as thick {about 7”}. I took and licked him and then took him in my mouth. I found it was much easier to go down on him, taking almost all of him. We had no intention on doing what came next. We wanted our first encounter to be a soft, same room, no full swap experience. Well that changed in a flash. S got up and without even so much as a look from her, sat down on Mr. O taking ever inch of him in her. She bounced up and down, facing away from Mr O for all it was worth. She had climax after climax. I was not sure I wanted to do the same with J because I did not want to take the chance of getting the big P as I was not safe but Mr O had a vas so he was. Sue looked at me and could tell something was wrong and told me “go ahead, he had a vas a couple years ago”. With that I got up and sat on him. It felt good, and excited me all the more to see Mr O pumping away in S and feeling J in me. I climaxed with such force that J was totally stunned by the wetness. What started out as a evening to get out of the house and do something active because we could not go for our normal evening walk, ended up with one of the most enjoyable nights that we have ever had. Mr O shot off in S’s mouth and she sucked all the more, taking ever drop. J unloaded in my mouth, but I could not take it all. We rested, and started all over again with the guys taking turns eating us out. We did MMF, FFM, MFMF and enjoyed every minute. S and I feel the same about anal, it is off limits, but other then that, all of us had a great night. The next day was sex free, as we all got together, met J and S’s son and took a ride to Howe’s Cavern. Had a great time. Since that first night, the four of us have started on a good friendship. The best part of this whole experience is it happened without any planning. It was totally great. J and S feel the same as we do, all four of us play together or no one plays. That’s the way we wanted things and its become so clear that it was meant to be. It makes Mr O and I think…….how many other neighbors do we have that are the same way?…. J and S just left our home, 2:30 am, all of us having another great night of sex. There is one thing that we learned and would like to pass on. We are not sure if this is true with everyone, but we found that when you try hard to get something going, it takes effort and sometimes causes people to feel under pressure. We were not looking, we were out to have some fun, just Mr O and myself, and we ended up having a great night, having our first swinging experience, and to top it all off, found that the people we got involved with were our neighbors living only a few blocks from us. Guess when you keep a open mind, have a good attitude and be yourself, all good things can and will happen as we are living proof of this. Thank you all ever so much. Without reading some of the posts made here, I am not sure if we would have gotten this involved with total strangers in a bowling ally like we did. Mr and Mrs O
  21. 1 point
    Yes, and I've acted on it and now enjoy sucking an attractive penis. I still consider myself straight though I enjoy oral in MMF with both partners.
  22. 1 point
    I guess it’s not the right group for this question. We hang with a group with several bisexual makes and females. We are comfortable with all forms of contact. My husband enjoys performing oral on me while I am getting fucked and will suck my partners cock in between strokes. The ladies enjoy pegging the guys and we enjoy a lot of girl on girl action. He doesn’t prefer anal penetration but I have watched him take another guy and it’s hot as fuck. Guess it all depends on your group and their preferences.
  23. 1 point
    I was pretty high when my wife asked if I'd ever seen another guys hard cock. I said yes I had. she asked when and where. Me, being very blitzed, told her there was an older guy I worked with that I saw in the locker room and he was huge soft. His ball were the equal of his penis. Later on we were chatting and he mentioned that he noticed me staring at his dick. I told him my GF at the time would most likely want to play with it. He the said how about you? I was kinda shocked because as we were talking I was getting a huge hardon and he noticed. He asked me if I'd like to see it. I just had to say yes. We both had our own offices w/ private bathrooms so he said come with me. We were in his office. He locked the door and we both went into his bathroom. He then said "go ahead. unzip me before I get too hard. I want you to see it growing". Now I'm 7 inches average thick and hard as heck at that moment. I wanted to see but I wasn't about to let him take control. so I asked him to unzip me first and pull out my cock. He did and then went right down on me. Anyway, now it was my turn. I undid his belt, pulled his pants down and saw the biggest fattest cock I've ever seen in person. Made me look like a baby dick. Leaking all over I just had to kiss it. He then came all over me. His cock was so big, ho and heavy. We played many times after. I married my GF and brought him to our house. We all got stoned and I don't know what came over me but I asked my wife Lynne to go put something sexy on because I had something to show her. Surprisingly she came back with a see-thru nighty that just about showed everything she had. We just had aa daughter 6 months before so here already big tits were enormous. I'm so fucked up by then I asked Manny if he had anything to show Lynne. Just said for her to come over to feel him thru his pants and if she was interested she could take them off. Manny wasn't the best looking guy but very nice and respectful. Lynne's first word were OMG he's fuckin' huge. She just about tore his pants of. Fuck I screwed up. My Young wife was now in love with the Huge cock of a 60 year old dude. I didn't lose her. but she always wanted me to fuck her and tell me she wanted his big penis in her. We played with Manny many times. I'd suck him hard while he sucked me and then I would fuck Lynne to open her up for him. She Loved him doggy with me underneath licking her pussy while he was long dicking her. His ginormous cock and balls rubbing across my face and tongue. Lynne's fav thing was to tease me. Telling me he's going so much deeoer than I could ever hope to and touching spots I never could. Teasing little ho. But she's my teasing little ho. lol
  24. 1 point
    My family doctor and gynecologist know. Medical records are protected by law and can not be accessed by employers, divorce courts, traffic courts or randomly by child protective services professionals. The best way to get appropriate care is for your doctor to know your risks.
  25. 1 point
    Said with Tongue in Cheek; I relate this topic and a man's sexuality to the Erector set I used to play with as a boy.. Man = Bolt, Woman = Nut.. A-You can screw a bolt into a nut.. you can have two or more nuts on one bolt.. B-You can stack one nut or more on top of another.. it works well and looks good but it's not a solid structrure.. C-If you are careful you can screw a bolt into each opposing side of a nut. mfm D-But try and try as you might you cannot put two bolts together. Can't stack 'em, can't screw 'em together. As many times as I have given a fleeting thought to building something with two bolts I know it won't work for me so I abandon that project.
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