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So leaving off from my intro After months of talking and planning out things. Getting our heads wrapped around if we really wanted to dive into something so different. I asked her (28F) if she wanted to just do it and stop talking about it. In our plans we were going to meticulously find people through swing sites and some other ideas like heading to hedonism down in Jamaica. Our issue with this idea is that we are very in the moment people, if the momentum slowed down we would likely never do it. So one day I just said "there is a swingers club in Portland. Why don't we just go and check it out?" Her eyes widened and she said "fuck it, let's have fun!" Within a couple hours we had the event with club privata decided, it was a newbies night. This gave us the ability to go and meet other people with the same idea to go learn about it. The date we landed on was newbies night July 7th 2022. This was roughly two weeks away and she couldn't have been more excited. During our long discussions about all the things we wanted to do we unlocked one of her ultimate turn ons which surprisingly was black men. So she sat and read about how everything works and what to wear. Personally I have a very intellectual and curious side to me. I wrote about what I'd like to do with her and see her do. She would tell me whether or not it was something she'd be down to do. Come to find out there's little she wouldn't. Which to me was rather interesting seeing as 13 years of being this woman's only person, we are sitting there detailing a possible large gangbang she was totally down to be in. I should note, my wife growing up was always drop of the dime. You said sex she said yes. The few times I've been turned down were few and far between for genuine reasons. When she says she's willing or wanting to do something. She isn't trying to impress anyone. She's just down for anything. Which still amuses me because when I met her the word around freshmen class was she wouldn't put out for anything. Those fools don't know what they missed. So July 7th rolls around. We aren't exactly formal people. We went and bought suits/dresses for the event. I looked so odd but also sort of satisfying. Black and blue matches me well. She wore a small black dress with red flower print. Curled her hair and colored it blue and purple layered under her dark brown hair. Simply put she was gorgeous. We headed off to the club nervous and excited as could be. We arrived unfashionably early but this was both our first time entering a club of any sort. We simply don't do things like this. As we enter a lady around age 40 asked us if we wanted a tour. I said "not just yet we just want to walk around and get a feel for the place". We continued on in and through the empty dance floor. We could see a few of the volunteers and possibly a couple attendees more than likely regulars. So we walked to the seated area for food and drinks. Empty as well. I looked to her and we just kind of shrugged and sat down to talk. This is when a man came walking up to us. Let's call him K. K was an ambassador for the club. A well built 200lb black man with dreads. He asked us if we would like a tour. This time I had a strong gut feeling and agreed to the tour. He started off by bringing us to the couples lounge, at this point people began pouring into the club. K was very attentive and helpful explaining how everything worked and the rules. Showed us the art from the earlier art show. Explained the week before was mainly just art of penises, we laughed and headed up to the second floor On the second floor we saw the pole and like 5-10 play rooms with a few people already going to town on eachother. This was our first time seeing another couple having sex. Like we hadn't even really had friends aside from eachother growing up so we didnt go to parties or have friends close to us to have seen doing anything. This to us was a very cool aspect and we also had spent a lot of our teen years exploring exhibitionism. K was rather amusing saying "damn people already getting crazy tonight, yall might have some fun!" From the second we headed up to the locked third floor, they open it on Friday and Saturday.. no one was up there we looked around a bit and then K comes over and says "you know you guys are really fucking cute together. Just thought I'd let ya'll know" We smiled and thanked him. He really made us feel comfortable there. After the tour we headed back down to the second floor and watched a bondage scene take place. A Dom was flogging a cute little tatted chick who's hips were tied down. When we first saw this I thought "how could this turn someone on?" Little did I know, I actually am a massive masochist. So we walked back down stairs and to our car outside, smoked some green, relaxed a minute. While in the car my wife says "Well I know one guy in there definitely wants to fuck me....." I said "K?" And she smiled big as she could "you could tell too?" I just smiled back. She had never spent ANY time around black men growing up. Like we live in the whitest population possible. So she had never known just how much black men turn her on. We head back in and stopped at the bar. Bought some drinks (I'm a recovered alcoholic so I am only allowed one) we sat at the seated area and drank our drinks. As we did so we were looking at people enter and sort of playing a game of looking at them, looking at eachother and giving a look as to whether or not we'd do something with them. Once the drinks were gone we went back to the couples lounge. I reached up her dress slowly gliding my finger up her thigh. Being who she is she immediately opens her legs a bit and gets comfortable. I reach up and rub my thumb over her clit a bit, shocker... this woman is just beyond wet. At this point K walks in. I think he was giving someone a tour, during which he says to the people with him "and look at this cute couple just getting so comfortable over there, hope yall are enjoying yourself" with a big grin on his face. I noticed my wife's pussy tighten and relax a couple times. K took his group away but within probably 4 minutes he came back to inform us about the club menu. Then he says to my wife "God girl, you are so beautiful. You got this amazing librarian look to you. Just damn girl!" She blushed and thanked him. He left again and she looked me right in the face "I'm going to go get his number" at this point we hadn't exactly planned to actually do anything full blown at this event. Mostly we were there to explore our feelings about it. She was done exploring she found what she was looking for. So we get up and she goes hunting for him. We find him in the second floor area where now they are basically full of people. She walked up to him and said "can I please get your number?" He immediately gets it for her, she then asked "are you allowed to do stuff with customers?" He smiled and looked over his shoulder. Kinda said under his breath, "yeah meet me back in that room over there and I'll head back there and shut the door." At this point we walk over to... well the wrong room... so he walks over and says "nah this room over here" at this point I told my wife "babe I think you should do this on your own" long story short I dominate our relationship and she has a strong urge to ensure I'm always happy even if I don't want her to. I didn't want that pressure on her during the first time. Especially since we had both only had sex with eachother. She argued for a second saying "nah come on" I told her she will have more fun the first time without pressure. She processed this for a total of 1 second and said "fuck it im going to go do this!" I smiled, kissed her and told her "good luck I'll be right out here waiting". I remember seeing her walking down the hall and going into the room. People were trying so hard to see what was going on in their room. So I walked over to the bar and sat there with a smile on my face knowing what my wife was doing in a room just down the hall from me. It's such a unique feeling, I'm definitely not a cuckhold, I don't like humiliation or anything, I just get turned on by watching or knowing my wife is getting dominated and exploring the sex life we never explored. So since I wasn't present I asked her to detail the entire event so I could have it in my imagination. She did and here's her retelling of the 30-45 minutes that happened from here. I walked into the room and we both got undressed. I told him about how I'm totally inexperienced and unsure how to even start. He said "okay get on your knees" I got on my knees and he stood infront of me. I grabbed his cock and started sucking on the head with my hands on his shaft. I deep throated it as hard as I could. I heard him moaning. I looked him in the eyes for a minute and stopped, he reached down, grabbed me and tossed me on the bed. I laid back and he got onto me and slid his cock in, I was so wet at this point. My first thought was "okay well I have officially had a second cock in me!" Then he went to town on me, his dick was smaller around than yours but longer. You were right when you said once I do it, it would just feel like sex and there would be little emotion other than horniness there. After a bit in missionary he took both of my legs and put them over his right shoulder then pinned me and went deep for a few minutes. He then stood up and did what you do to tell me to switch to doggy, did a little spin with his finger motioning to turn around. Now he held me from my breast and again went deep as he could. Went again for another 10 minutes. I could feel him tense way up for like 15-20 seconds and then said "where can I cum" "where you want" he came. Up my back. When he slowed down we collapsed a bit and he slipped out. Smiled big and thanked me a few times. Asked if I came, I had a few times but I was so intent on him I didn't want to pay it as much mind as I should have. Then I informed him I had an amazing time and that he was the first aside from my husband I ever had, he said "wow I feel special" with that big smile again. I also told him "next time you can fuck me in the ass" and he said "that was an option?!" Iaughed and we opened the door. I came out to see you having the biggest dumbest grin on your face. So there was her recalling it. Oh btw my wife loves anal, she kinda loves anything sexual but anything that stretches her limits and makes her feel like a badass bitch, she loves it. So we spent another hour there and then got bored cause she already did what we came to do. She walked around the club naked the rest of the time we were there. People kept complimenting her confidence. This was a side of her I'd never seen. She was so happy and proud of herself. I walked up and bumped fist with K and then we started feeling tired so we went to the car and then decided to just go ahead and head home. However I still hadn't cum but I was turned on as fuck so we went to some park and fucked like crazy. That was our first night swinging. I know I wasn't detailed enough about some stuff and I can be much more detailed on my next story as I will have actually been in the room for that one. Spoiler. She finds another black guy and we dp her 😛

Amazingly hot night! Can't wait to hear more of your sex-capades!

There's nothing wrong with just letting the wife play. Opportunities for her will come without fail. But your question was is it normal. Yes, it is normal and preferred by many couples out there. It's called cuckolding. We are a mixture of stag vixen and a little cuckolding. I prefer watching her fuck and suck dick. She has told me many times to find a woman to play with but I hesitate. I'm not shy. I have game but I choose not to go there. My turn on is watching her be pleasured and joining in sometimes. Lately she's been telling me how much she thinks it would turn her on to watch me fuck another woman. Really, I'm just not interested....and that's okay and not weird or uncommon. Your fling will come along eventually. In the mean time enjoy watching the inner slut come out of your wife. No hurries in this lifestyle. Take your time and enjoy the sex.

Yup. Totally normal

I have had fantasies about sex with other men. I had a dream once about my wife and I on a charter sailboat with another couple (the captain and crew) and after a few days of close quarter we started with some soft swapping, then progressed and finally us guys gave each other oral. I have often thought it would be fun to give another guys a blow job, and would not have a problem receiving one. I also enjoy anal, so another fantasy is to have a guy fuck me while his wife gives me a blow job. I have had my wife do this to me with a dildo and it feels great. To me it would just be sex. However, the thought of kissing another guy kind of grosses me out. Same with my wife. We have watched some bi porn together and the sex part is OK, but when the guys kiss we both don't like it. That does seem a little funny, that I could suck a guys cock but be grossed out at the thought of kissing him. Any other guys interest in bi play feel the same about kissing other guys?