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Our first entry into the lifestyle was on a cruise and we have embraced our new found awakening. We talked with our friends about going on a Bliss cruise or a similar lifestyle vacation for the last few years but I was not as supportive of it as I enjoy a more one on one approach. I pushed for a European cruise that was a mainstream vacation and suggested we get cabins together and make our own parties. We were going to go with our friends we met on that first cruise then found out another couple we met before at our friends and a fourth couple we never met wanted to join. We flew to Europe from our airport the others flew together and met us at the cruise. Jet lag set in for me and the others that first day, it was suggested that we would all get a good night sleep. We found out two of our travel friends did some playing without us. Next day was a sea day and was perfect for enjoying the pool and the bar where we quietly made plans on how we can play at night. Our cabins were all the same, too small for 8 of us to play, something I was happy for because I’m not a group sex type. I laughed along with the others about being in Greece and the when in Greece do as the Greeks. I was happy when it was suggested that we pick straws for who would be with who that night. We being the couple that was new to the couple we just met he suggested we get to be the first night play. Touring the next few nights and enjoying all a cruise offers we had plenty of laughs and other younger cruisers were enjoying our laughs and joined our little group without knowing our night time sleeping arrangements. We kept talking about going to the nude beach later in the week inviting our new friends to join us. One of the couples decided to join us, I think they had an idea that we were switching cabins at night. I was half jokingly asked who I was sleeping with which I answered that I slept with everyone. After nude beach day we now added to our nighttime group, and we still half the trip to go. That night I stepped out of my comfort zone and joined our new friends while my husband joined other friends. I even surprised myself opening up and losing some inhibitions in the fun of the cruise. It’s funny how drinks, parties and Mediterranean cruise changes you. Before anyone asks, the friends we just met were not new to the lifestyle and didn’t expect to meet anyone on this cruise.

The first several times my husband played was with female friends and acquaintance I had set him up with. (A control thing for me.) They were eager to fuck him (women like trying things other women have, and it wasn't immoral since I suggested it), but they didn't want me there. I deliberately told hubby not to rush back from her place, or the hotel (damn, she was still living with her parents), or for her to leave our apartment. The burn while waiting was intense. 🙂 Yeah, I was so wet I soaked my pants. It looked like I peed myself. Unfortunately, David did such a good job with them he couldn't get erect for a while after he (or I) got home. Fortunately, I my had my boyfriend Red to fuck as I interrogated hubby. Also fortunately, we had passed the point where there were inhibitions between the guys being there as I did it with the other.

We have acquired a lovely bed & breakfast in the 1000 Islands (Brockville, ON, Canada) with 3 beautiful suites each with private bathroom + a massage room and other amazing spaces. We have a huge pool and a big hot tub. We would like to find people who would be interested in having a nice dinner party for 3 couples. We would provide a wonderful dinner and dinner-time games to help couples get to know each other. We also have a number of sexy board games that can be played after dinner... As occasional swingers aged 53 and 59, we have found that the only way to meet other singers in groups is clubs...which is not "our scene". We had more fun meeting up couples for dinners and talks, so we thought we would offer this wonderful opportunity to the community. We would organise one-nighters and weekends around similar age and interest groups. Also open to suggestions. Drop us a line!

So, yeah, the Kinsey institute pointed this out in 1948. There's the Kinsey scale, where most people are neither completely heterosexual or homosexual, but somewhere in the middle. https://kinseyinstitute.org/research/publications/kinsey-scale.php

With the bi guys my wife and I have been involved with, we find the hottest thing is one of us guys fucking the other's wife missionary while her husband fucks his butt.

Have no idea. I like sucking cock as much as being sucked. Have done very little anal with men and only a little more with women.

I think I would like to try taking it in the ass. I'm afraid it will hurt though. The thought of a guy unloading deep in my ass is very arousing to me. Especially if my wife were watching!

I LOVE being on the bottom of a 69 w/a guy. Having that cock fucking my mouth with force and those balls all in my face is amazing.

I'm versatile and like it both ways! But if I get what I want I'm getting it in my ass and we will both be cumming!

I just topped for the first time in a while and loved being in charge again.....barebacking another masculine man & creampie'ing him gave me much satisfaction.

I can bottom for my wife now and then. She uses a Realdoe with a Rodeoh brief. I have bottomed for a couple guys over the years. Although the feeling is really good, and the experience is really hot, I can't do it with guys any longer. For me, my head gets in the way. Bottoming for me is more submissive than my personality presents. Being at the hands of a man like that, you give up any control. I totally get why so many guys love it and I wish I could get over what I can only define as homophobia. Concerning topping...when it comes to giving anal sex, I am 'by request only', and even then I have to be really worked up. I never ask for it. Again, this is a conditioned response. Too many horrible experiences from inconsiderate assholes, literally. I never understood the attraction for anal sex, other than control. To me it's pushing away a porterhouse in favor of a burnt hot dog. Once anal sex starts, that's where it's ending without a trip to the shower. I dislike that kind of break during sex. If I am seeing a guy, it's just for oral sex on my part. I have tried to top the last couple guys we saw but even if the heart is willing, willie aint willing.

Mostly bottom here (70% of the time). I really enjoy riding a guy and doggie style too. The anal stimulation feels really good and makes my orgasms unreal. Topping can be fun because of the domination and bending a guy over...especially in front of his wife.