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Hubby has a rule for himself that made my journey into nonmonogamy comfortable and pleasurable - let your wife/partner decide whether she wants to talk about an experience, which aspects, and to what level of detail. Some couples have rules like, "You can fuck who you want, but I don't want to know about it," or "You can fuck who you want, but I want to hear every sexual detail," or "You can fuck who you want, but nothing emotional." Hubby always asks how I am doing, and lets me decide whether and what I want to talk about. Sometimes I just gave a one sentence reply, other times I wanted to babble on about the sexual or emotional aspects of what I had just done. Either way, he would listen, be empathetic, but never pressure me. This rule hubby has for himself was perfectly considerate towards me, so much that I didn't notice it except in retrospect.

How about always ask for permission before doing something and what we think is the absolute golden rule: No means no. At the same time, not answering does not mean yes.

Ha! My wife has done both - at the same time. One married couple in particular is into this and Daniela plays the unicorn for them. She will do the husband doggy, either in her cunt or ass, while she licks the wife; sometimes the wife and Daniela 69 while the husband pumps her. Everyone enjoys it, including for me to watch. If were in a group I'm usually in another wife so it's doubly good. Daniela likes anal, or really doesn't mind it when her pussy's been taken care of. Unlike some guys, I see anal as less special than being in a woman's cunt, so I don't do it much and it doesn't bother or excite me when Daniela is being ass fucked. She also doesn't mind servicing the pillow queen in our group.

It’s just difficult to see exactly where you are going. Besides, it’s more fun with someone else there 😉

Awesome review, thanks for sharing!

When did you start doing hall passes? Did you ever have a rule against them that you broke? were you both 100% on same page with them or was one partner more in favor? if you don't do the hall pass, why? Do you ever think you will? what good and bad hall pass stories have YOU had? Ans: Hi Nikki here will write my experiences We started our lifestyle with only couples and then slowly got comfortable with the regular couple and started to play alone while Tomy and the other wife watches and vice versa and then there were times when both the couples couldn't meet together so decided to play alone with the same couple. We just had a rule of only playing alone with only this couple. The rule was broken by us as when i had my child and had to move alone to my parents house for about 10 months so taking care of the child was ease, we both decided to break the rule and play alone. I found a partner who i met on tinder there and was having hall pass with him and tomy too was having his time and yes we both were on the same page the entire time. More than the bad experience i will say we had a lot of good experiences with the hallpass.

My first experience with his bisexuality was very unexpected. We were playing with a male friend after some pretty tame hot tubbing. They both were focused on me so I started to work in their already hard cocks. We moved indoors and it was pretty clear that the other guy was waiting for the green light from my husband to take things further. My husband got on his back and asked me to get into a 69 position. I gave them both some oral and my husband invited the other guy to fuck me if it was okay with me. The guy took me from behind while my husband gave me oral. After a few minutes I could tell he was working on the guys cock while he was fucking me - I was shocked. He actually would put the guys cock in his mouth for a few seconds at a time. It was so incredibly hot I couldn’t hold back. Turns out it was my husbands first experience and was totally spontaneous.

I'm totally versatile, but prostate cancer surgery has left me erectionless (maybe I'll get it back, maybe I won't, time will tell. I'm alive so I don't really care!). In the mean time I've embraced the bottom role and it's been great. Either with a dick or a strapon, getting is great! I've never had such intense orgasms. It certainly changes the dynamic, but hey, being flexible is part of the lifestyle!

I would enjoy it and so would he! Our motto is anything for sex

Don't know if we really have any advice to offer, but both of us are bi, we only play with other bi people, and we definitely enjoy it. We find it very erotic to watch the other with a member of the same sex. Also very erotic to both enjoy the same person at the same time. It can be more difficult to find four people that are all bi and attracted to each other, but we would recommend you keep trying. Find a bi couple that you are comfortable with, talk about what you want and don't want, and have fun exploring!