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Thank you he came by a week ago and wanted to pick up some stuff we ended up talking for almost three hours he was not so anxious anymore I even hugged him when he walked in I was honestly glad to see him and he did not flinch or pull away. I told him everything how I had been doing and he told me how he was doing it was no yelling or drama more him just listening to how I have been doing and he was not doing much better, I decided to make one final attempt and asked him to please move back home. He seemed receptive and he ended up staying the night and even slept in the same bed .. no sex but he was sleeping i just watched him for maybe half an hour while he slept and when I woke up he was still sleeping next to me I was so happy to see that he had not left or was in the guest room again. We ate breakfast together and it was probably the most normal day I have had in awhile and he just said how sorry he was for not telling about what had happened to him about the trauma I told him I was sorry too. He went to work and I just decided to unpack his stuff that he had packed in boxes and put his things back he came home and he never said anything. We are giving this another go he also told he started seeing a therapist to deal with his trauma and we are also gonna see someone as a couple. He had also told the renter that he was not gonna move into the flat after all so he is stuck with me for the time being

A couple of mates and I were returning from fishing off Sydney heads, we decided to stop off at Lady Jane beach, anchored the boat off the beach, stripped off and swam ashore, walking along the beach with the mates and a woman's voice called out "hi Ricky Strong" looking to see where the voice came from I seen my best mates sister inlaw who we did socialise with at parties, we started chatting and were soon joined by her husband. Nothing was ever said to the mate and his wife, Mum was the word. PS I enjoyed our conversations with her in a different light after that meeting.

I'm in that boat, I can actually orgasm more easily than before the prostate surgery, but I'm somewhere between limp and kinda erect. Of course no ejaculate, except for now and then, if I've been edged for a while, the cowpers gland provides some juice that is about like girl squirt. I'm bi, so i can also say that anal is still great, but it no longer gets me to orgasm by itself with no prostate to stimulate. But oral is as good as it ever was, and since I love giving as much as getting, it;'s still all good!

Can you still orgasm limp with oral? After I have been totally spent after three orgasms, and one and a half ejaculations, I managed a fourth with a totally limp dick with a woman sucking me perfectly.

Okay, we'll update after the party. And... update to the update; we're now RSVPed for a Luau house party in Raleigh the following weekend! Now we get to shop for sexy hula skirts. We both got so hot last night shopping for labia jewelry that I ended up with my hands tied behind my back and spanked for my dirty thoughts.

My wife likes getting topless in our convertible when we go for backroads fun drives with very little other traffic. Worry about that a bit. However given how short she is and that she would only be seen by an oncoming taller vehicle at a closing speed in excess of 110(55mph limit), I'm guessing it's more a case on their part of "did I just see what I think I saw?"

I think that I told this story here before. As a lawyer, I was in a judge’s chambers where lawyers discussed cases with the prosecutor and judge. The clients were outside in the courtroom. Another lawyer represented a woman who was charged with indecent exposure. She was giving her husband a blow job in their car which was in a parking lot of a nude beach. Her lawyer said: “ Judge, this couple has been married for twenty years! This woman doesn’t deserve a citation. She deserves a commendation!” Everyone laughed very hard.

...A quick update is in order. I booked a room on the party floor of an upcoming themed hotel party. I've had so much fun putting my nasty school girl outfit together and talking to my hubby about what dirty things I want others to watch me doing (there's going to be a Sybian there!). It's less than two weeks away and we've been fucking more than usual just thinking about how much fun we're going to have. We both plan on keeping it watching and touching only but I've admitted that I am hoping for a glory hole opportunity. The anonymity of it is a turn-on.

Now I understand why we were told to join this forum for more information how others think of sex not just swinging. My parents thought gay or bisexual were other people not our friends or family. I came into contact early in my life with friends both male and female who were different which we looked at as strange. The older I got the more liberal my thinking got and the more accepting of different. In HS I knew gay guys who I accepted but didn’t understand. The lesbian girls wanted nothing to do with me. I heard stories about one girl who I thought was lesbian that was sleeping with a bunch of guys, my first bi person that I knew was bi. College was more and more contact with LGBTQ friends that I thought less negative about. Deep inside I didn’t understand gay, I accepted even being I was homophobic. I as a sophomore was offered to double team a friends date and said no thinking it was a gay thing. Boy was I wrong as I learned later on. Moving forward years later I met Linda, she is now my wife and will read this and knows I am writing this, and had sex on our first date. My infatuation was the sex we had, the best. She had no constraints, enjoyed getting high and having sex, a dream to this guy. I had a very good friend who I shared a place with that I bragged about the sex I was having. The next point is still questioned, I say Linda suggested a threesome she says I set it up. I had no sex with my friend during the time. Linda brought a new situation to the bed, her friend. I didn’t care if she was lesbian, gay or any other label. I also didn’t know I was going to fall in love with Linda and marry her. With marriage came no thirds in the bed. We became our parents, no we didn’t, we just became less sexually adventurous with others, and I emphasize with others and then came this summer. Hallelujah Linda has re-found her bisexual self.

It is implied that both parties trust the other to make right decisions which includes LETTING the spouse play. We don’t possess the other, we trust.

Interesting comment, I for one think in any relationship both parties definitely have the ability to both LET your spouse do something or VETO it if your not on board. In a relationship it’s NOT her choice, it’s THEIR choice. Sure she can do it anyway possibly causing the end of a relationship. I for one wouldn’t ever do anything my spouse wouldn’t want me to.

Let? I don’t think men let or allow a wife to do something. You may not be happy with her choices, it is her choice, something she may ask you for an opinion. I don’t understand the worries if you trust her.

I like to watch my wife have sex and I like to have sex with a new partner. Also like to watch other people have sex.

I have said many times that swingers are some of the most homophobic people around. We know several couples that won't play with a couple that the male is bi/bi curious. Because they don't want a man checking out her mans butt. I am fairly sure that a lot more guys are at least curious but don't mention it in their profile for fear of being ostracized. I'm not really all that curious but with a couple of drinks and the right circumstances, who knows? After all a few years ago I would never have imagined myself being a swinger.

Speaking for women everywhere! That shit is fucking yummy. Please give us more of it.

The object of the game is to be sexually satisfied by whatever excites the members of the group and nothing more but the lack of acceptance is terribly hypocritical. My best friend is gay and he's constantly hammered by "straight" married guys to have sex. That is no surprise but for a swingers group to be so close minded is disappointing.

Personally I quite enjoy seeing two men together. I find gay porn hot! Personal preference. I think it is important for us not to judge others. If you like it partake, if not don't. There is no need to malign each other about it.

My husband often refers to himself as being orally bi, he has no interest in fucking a man or being fucked by a man, but in the heat of the moment he is okay with sucking dick with me or letting a man suck his dick with me. For me its hot, Its an instant puddle in my panties. I could seriously watch him suck dick all day. And I like when I get a bisexual guy. I am bi and my husband enjoying sex is fun for me too.

While not part of "mainstream" swinging (definitely an oxymoron @njbm) it is probably more common than most people think and we once met a couple whose wife literally came just at the sight of her husband sucking cock.

We know plenty of couples who are into it. The women love it. m/m play in the context of mfmf and mfm play is more common than you might think. And, it would not happen if the ladies weren't enthusiastically in favor - because as we all know - they are in charge.

Main stream swinging is an oxymoron. Swinging is not main stream. Within swinging there are diverse interests. Bisexuality by both genders, BDSM, hot wifing, vixen/stag, dom/sub. Many of these sub interests are currently of no interest to me, but if I am open minded enough to participate in the lifestyle, I owe it to participants in these subgroups to be tolerant and supportive of their interests and not denigrate them.

Mostly bottom here (70% of the time). I really enjoy riding a guy and doggie style too. The anal stimulation feels really good and makes my orgasms unreal. Topping can be fun because of the domination and bending a guy over...especially in front of his wife.

This is one of my wife's fantasies, to watch me suck a cock. The thought of it makes her go crazy! If that makes her crazy, just imagine how crazy it would make her if I swallowed it!

I absolutely love to suck a guys cock while me girlfriend is helping me. We often pick up a guy just for that purpose and we both love it. We usually get a room at a nice motel when out of town and we swim at the pool with the soul purpose of finding some really nice cock to suck off and we spen our entire day having fun inviting different cocks back to the room with us. To me...there is nothing hotter

first thing homophobic for me is when men freak out or offended when asked their sexual orientation. If man isnt homophobic and confident in his sexuality he would simply asnwer "no im straight" and that will be it. Now if his orientation isn't respected and the people asking starts to pressure him to try it anyway well thats a different issue in itself. i will never be pressured into something i dont want to do and im not interested in being associated in any form of activity sexual or not with those type of poeple. I understand what the intent of the comparison of besteality was intended but the topic to chose for the comparison was a wrong choice. if you are repulsed by bi male activity then why are you checking out this portion of the board? That to me doesnt make sense to me unless your just trying to start drama and feel the need to impose your opinion on someone else that wasnt asking for it. he was asking the women. It would be different if you were answering for your spouse which again you would still be viewing a area your not interested in and it doesnt make sense. the question was posed to the ladies let them give their opinion.

I(Mrs) find it so very hot to watch two guys play...and the MR finds it really hot to watch me with another woman!!!

I am bi and would love for the lady to sit on his cock facing his feet, then I would lick her clit and lick his balls I would pull his cock out sometimes and suck it , then put it back in her pussy!! I haven't done this but would love to !!!

as a swingers couple we believe all should enjoy it i am staight male but will not be against sucking a dick if all were in favor

I love watching my husband giving another man a blowjob....what makes it even better is to have that man giving me oral!!!!! love MFM!!!

This thread is about hubby giving a blow job. The question was women, do you enjoy watching your hubby give a blow job. Chicup, you felt inspired to read this thread and tell us (those hubbies who enjoy giving blow jobs) that your level of disgust at hubbies giving blow jobs to men is equal to hubbies blowing a goat. Where does that come from??? Why do you feel this need to enter your disgusts in a thread about woman enjoying watching hubbies give blowjobs? I could give a flying fuck whether you try a cock or not. What I'm curious about is whether you understand why you feel the need to enter this thread with your disgust. Why does a preacher preach about the sins of prostitution and then go out and patronize a prostitute? I wonder whether the same psychology is at work within you. You've habituated more than one bisexual thread with negative posts and your trademark disgust. Why? What fascinates yet repels you at the same time about male bisexuality?

My husband is not repulsed, but he admits that it's not his thing, which there is nothing wrong with either way. I however, am very turned on by men performing oral sex on each other and he has no problem even watching porn with me that includes this, but has no desire to do it himself. He watches the porn with me because he knows that it turns me on to the extreme, and he gets to reap the benefits. He knows that if it ever becomes a curiosity that I will wholeheartedly support him and would be more than happy to do so!

What is most fascinating is how many read and answered this post in the negative. It was phrased in the positive, "How many ladies would enjoy..." and yet a number had to write in that they were repulsed by it. Seems as if even among those repulsed there is a definite curiosity in men giving blow jobs. Other threads about male bisexuality have a similar component of men and women writing in to emphasize how straight they are and while not homophobic in the least, are repulsed by males sucking males. One gentleman went so far as to say he would be less repulsed by bestiality than by a man sucking a man. In another thread this same gentleman compared male oral sex to bestiality. It's so interesting the perspective that some of the repulsed by male oral sex crowd has.