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A bloody big step from drinks at the bar to your buddy's wife sucking your cock! "One thing leading to another" sure covered a lot of ground in a hurry. As long as everyone enjoyed their selves.

I agree with you here on the attention part from her here but also agree that husband had many chances to say no outright, he was somehow interested in it too but things didn't go as he imagined. Just our brief story here as I think it might help hopefully... I (husband) was the one who brought this idea into this and she outrighly said no. After months of discussion, pros and cons, she agreed but then would develop cold feet every now and then saying not sure how will she feel. So just to make her comfortable we went to a club and i assured her there will be no play so she went. While there there was nother couple who approached us and I told them that she is on the fence still so they talked to her and she agreed for like touching etc and couple along with me paid 100% attention to her, she like it a lot. Then I carefully found a single guy, talked to him about the situation, finally got her approval to meet him and we had threesome again paying full attention to her. Now we are into it and swap with couples and she enjoys it a lot and so do I thinking it pays to go slow and make the partner comfortable as it was not their idea to begin with.

Just my two cents worth, I’m the male half and I’m 57 yrs old and know how my penis works very well. If I’m comfortable with whom I’m with and in the surroundings I’m okay with then I have no problem getting hard and staying hard. I’ve had sex with three woman including my spouse, no problem, in fact the two gals asked my wife what I had for breakfast! Add one other man to the mix and I was barely able to get hard, totally uncomfortable and had a horrible time. Telling someone who normally don’t have issues getting hard to take Viagra is like telling a woman who’s not into it to take enough drugs to relax and be okay with whatever happens. That the most ridiculous idea ever. If he normally gets an erection and he doesn’t with swinging HE’S NOT OKAY WITH WHATS HAPPENING. Your probably putting him in an uncomfortable situation. Mens penis just don’t stop working when your sexually excited.

Our camping was almost spiritual, enlightening bringing back to days we left behind. Everyone was new to us, even the ones who invited us we just met. We went with a very open mind with only our imagination letting us to what we might expect. Free spirited was a phrase used when told about one of the friends, quiet about the other. We found out free spirited was an understatement when we met, 1960s came to mind. Was that my parents when they met? Our day of hiking was tiring, we hadn’t hiked or camped in some time, it was also time to get to everyone. We felt as outsiders at first leading to a feeling that we were accepted. The free spirited friend took a liking to Lin at one point stopping, saying I Like You and giving Lin a very deep kiss. Lin looked at me and shrugged her shoulders, laughed and said I Like You Too. Campfire time started with some edibles and plenty of laughing, some eating, some wine and Lin and I telling our story. They told us they go camping a few times a year mostly with tents and we learned the other woman doesn’t have sex only giving oral to the guys. I think she was afraid to get naked because of being overweight, Lin later agreed. Sex!!! Connie, made up name, the free spirit said it was time for initiation. Okay you two, get your shorts off! She made sure we knew she wasn’t kidding as she unbuttoned Lin’s shorts. She took out a vape and passed it around, took it back and she said now be prepared. Told Lin to lean back and spread in a nice affirmative way. She took a big draw on the vape and blew the vapor on Lin’s crotch and said Nice Pussy and gave her a kiss right there. This had us all laughing until she shhh’d us and pointed to me and said Big Guy let’s see your cock here, took a another draw on the vape, blew the vapor on me, grabbed my dick and kissed my balls. Everyone was hysterical, again she quieted us and went back to Lin. Lin looked to me to join but Connie said just shut up and be ready to enjoy a magic tongue. Of course much more laughing and I was finally brought into the fun.

The quantity is the best! Everyone gets their fill of what they enjoy the most as well as in totality. No matter how good the most amazing male is sexually, he can only provide one penis and only produce so much cum. Which is never enough. Yep, in most cases the men are spent before the women are, especially my wife. (One of my three rules when we started in the lifestyle with her having a couple of boyfriends (along with no married men where the wife didn't know & approved and everyone knows everything about what's going on) , was that sex with other guys could add to but not replace sex between us; it's never been a problem.) Two things that take care of this is that all the women are bi, and at least one of us men in the group is always willing to to take care of a woman who needs sexual activity. Yep, after being in an ass, the only place that dick is going is to decontamination and clean-up. For us most of the threesomes are FMF, with the lucky woman being in the middle being bi.

Quick background that was posted on our intro. In our 30s, our sex life was tamed down when we married, no 3somes after the I Do. Lin met a guy at a dispensary where the spoke about the purchases they were making and invited her back to his place to try some together. When she said no because she was happily married he he invited me to join him and his wife. We went and had a nonsexual high time. By the time the night was over he invited us to join friends for a camping trip. We later learned sex might be happening amongst the friends. Linda and I decided what the heck why are we becoming our parents, let’s have fun. Before the camping we were told one of the women was most likely not going to be sexual while the other was extremely sexual and very wild. Our first play was Linda and the wild one under the stars. I figured nothing could top what I watched and then it got better.

Last night went to a bar and meet some friends after a while we went back to their place to hang out. One thing lead to another next thing I know my buddy's wife was sucking on my cock. I looked over to find my wife doing the same to my buddy. Long story short I was pumping her leg on my shoulders and I saw she still had her heels on. Don’t know what it was but was a huge turn on so much so I blasted cum so deep in her she started to squirt. Was the best night of our lives and this morning they texted if we could go at it again sometime

I think my biggest takeaway that I am responsible for is that I should have been more attentive before we went, I should have noticed the signs because they were there all along. And my biggest advice is talk to your partner and make the rules for any such outing clear, we did not do that well enough looking back in hindsight, there needs to be boundaries and making sure everything is being done with respect for your partner. I don't think anyone in here wants to hurt their partner in any way but I did because I got swept up and ignored what in hindsight should have been clear signs. He also told me he should have told me about this trauma and no way in hell would I have proposed something like this had I known what happened to him. But for the time being and honestly don't care if we ever do this again, it's gonna be about me and him and trying to fix things all me and him can do is take it one day at a time. I care too much about people and knowing how hurt he got and the pain he went through makes me physically ill, that night is not a happy fun memory for me it's a reminder now on how it almost destroyed my marriage and how I without knowing hurt somebody I love very much but my intention does not matter he still got hurt. So please talk to your partner and if you are too excited and see your partner being nervous and insecure don't try to steamroll them or get them into a lifestyle they might not be compatible with that is a recipe for disaster.

Thank you he came by a week ago and wanted to pick up some stuff we ended up talking for almost three hours he was not so anxious anymore I even hugged him when he walked in I was honestly glad to see him and he did not flinch or pull away. I told him everything how I had been doing and he told me how he was doing it was no yelling or drama more him just listening to how I have been doing and he was not doing much better, I decided to make one final attempt and asked him to please move back home. He seemed receptive and he ended up staying the night and even slept in the same bed .. no sex but he was sleeping i just watched him for maybe half an hour while he slept and when I woke up he was still sleeping next to me I was so happy to see that he had not left or was in the guest room again. We ate breakfast together and it was probably the most normal day I have had in awhile and he just said how sorry he was for not telling about what had happened to him about the trauma I told him I was sorry too. He went to work and I just decided to unpack his stuff that he had packed in boxes and put his things back he came home and he never said anything. We are giving this another go he also told he started seeing a therapist to deal with his trauma and we are also gonna see someone as a couple. He had also told the renter that he was not gonna move into the flat after all so he is stuck with me for the time being

Yes! Just last week and plan to this weekend. We have a friends with a vacation home who is hosting a Labor Day barbecue that will probably heat up more than chicken

I totally agree with your agreement! Yes - same here! And the quantity is the best! Everyone gets their fill of what they enjoy the most as well as in totality. No matter how good the most amazing male is sexually, he can only provide one penis and only produce so much cum. Which is never enough. She had thought he was getting extra sex without her knowledge so they had to work on that. It was easily fixed. That is the down side to so many of us traveling with work when our busiest seasons hit. THAT is a great idea for couples with kids. We do likewise with the newer younger couples we've more recently added that have kids. A couple will sit out and keep the kids for a weekend or we will all pitch in to help the parents with nannies if we have a week long excursion. We do not always know everything that will happen but we all know the basic routine or lay out. For example we might have a women's themed party so it's centered around we ladies, or a guys theme, a couples swap based on who draws whom, we do the good ole gang bang - lol for birthday and anniversaries and other special occasions I love the couples' ones. It's fun pleasuring a couple as a group and completely wiping them out. Some times we have a sex toy focused day. Maybe it's strap on weekend? I love those. I didn't but have grown fond of them. A basic routine or pattern is lots of foreplay of course, loads of oral, we have some that are so good at oral they can make anyone orgasm multiple times so if they are overworked we will focus on tending to them. After oral and a lot of cum/flavor play/swap - there are endless ways this can play out, we tend to have a great deal of piv and or oral mixed. I love mixing male/female flavors as do others. We all enjoy cleaning up after orgasms orally. Once this has gone on for a while and the 69s are almost exhausted, we move on to more combos, eventually including anal but almost always last on the list. If someone thinks they will not make it this far and wanted anal often they will skip to this with a willing partner or two. Spit roasting becomes a fav at this juncture as do strap ons. We just had a great weekend of guys only and girls only. Some helped out, lent a hand here and there, as well as a mouth, but no other body parts with the opposite gender. So it was easy to know how most of it would unfold.

My thought is that our closed group is less likely to mess up and bring in some STD than a vanilla monogamous couple because, as you said There is variety in our group, people fulfilling little kinks that they don't with their spouses, and little new things are explored. Plus, it seems that everyone is getting the quantity they want. Please explain, I think that I'm mixing up outside group and intra-group issues. It has been the opposite experience in our group, everyone has alone sex at times, both MF get togethers as well as both types of threesomes. And by "alone" I don't just mean another room, at an entirely different place. Some of us, including Daniela and me, have gone on vacations with one or more of the others in our group without the spouse. Alone play is almost necessary for spontaneous weekday play. Many times one of the four in the two couples will take the kids while the others play and later perhaps, switch off. (The kids like these like getting together with the other kids and either being taken somewhere for a treat or getting pizza and dessert and going to the other house.) Same with us, all the couples are married and have solid relationships. Our planned gatherings are on weekends with up to all of our group. Please explain. In our group you never know how it will unfold...

We are the same. Closed group. No diseases. Super clean, healthy, careful couples. We have only had one wife of a couple come to us and say that she was not sure about her husband's safety. We all get tested regularly so we upped the date on the next tests. We were all clean. Sure at any time someone could mess us all up but we trust everyone until they give us cause not too. The lady and her husband needed to work out some of those very issues, hence why we are adamant about same room sex. Any time anyone has ever had sex with anyone in our groups alone (over the years within in non-closed groups), it caught up with them and changed the dynamics of their swinging as a married couple. Not a single couple is still together that did this. Thank goodness, like Numex, our group has so much fun barebacking it, filling, cream pieing, refilling, oral fests galore, swapping, mixing it all up no one has expressed any interest in outside sex. If they can't get what they need within our group, I doubt they ever will. I think everyone gets this and have no desire to ruin it. Even though we all do have sex with everyone, I have never seen couples so much in love. When I look at what we have and all the crazy things we do, from an outside perspective I'd probably think, the people have sex with anyone, anything, anytime, anywhere. But we are very much in love with our spouses, very well organized, have well planned gatherings, we all know what the main course is each time, and how it unfolds. We have found our groove once again now that the big scare is over with covid. I am pretty good at reading others and picking up on their vibes, I cannot see anyone in our group messing it up. We have had some move away, which is always sad and we eventually add to our numbers as we build that strong bond of trust and openness with new couples. It always takes a bit of time, but oh so worth it. We have life long lasting friendships. We are still in touch with those who have moved.

We are the same. For me it's about trust. Everything a man wants to do with me requires me letting him be in my body. If I'm letting a person be inside me, I'd like to know him. Or I'd need to know a bottle of tequila very intimately. That works too lol. I didn't always have this rule but I do now.

Interesting. We are part of a totally closed group of married couples for the reason that we all not only prefer bareback, but also having the guy ejaculate into the woman, almost always into her vagina. The difference is, I suppose, that us men (and the woman) don't mind or even enjoy (I'm in that category) going into that mess for subsequent rounds.

Our parties where 90% group play. Mostly couples with a few single women and carefully selected single men. Anywhere from 6 to 20 attendees. Held Sunday mornings 10 am to 2/3 pm. We also had other groups/parties/themed events but these were more open by invite. We had these for 8-10 years. Many regulars where poly swingers. We played together, made fantasies come true, socialized together. Many of us are still together twenty plus years later. Group play, all on the bed….or two beds (king size). After coffee and chatting all up the stairs to play. We would enjoy two to three rounds. Semi closed group, all vetted. All raw play but an understanding that all male ejectulate was taken orally or body shots by female partners (leaving them fresh/not messy, self conscious) leaving the ability to continue playing as many times as they wished. many of our female attendees (married, girlfriends, SO or single ladies) would choose from time to time to have the male playmate finish inside her…..the ladies preference. Especially if it was the last round. Every one played, no one left out. Just real people having fun.

Oh my goodness. yes Yes YES it finally happened again after so much time off. Three penises later, three loads of sexy cum and three OMG kisses with my husband that got me off and my toes curled. I was covered and he did not have anyway to opt out. That's the best part of having him pinned underneath me and another wife. The last one, we where off of him and my husband went for me as soon I as I had sucked the gentleman off. Tongues dancing and darting all over, lips smushing, cum everywhere. You know sometimes the messiest kisses ARE the best!

I have three couples my husband and I swing with regularly, and we have had our own little parties with all of us together, but never any formal swinger party. I've considered attending an club downtown but it looks kinda seedy so we haven't yet.

My wife and I are part of a closed group of married couples who play. During the week it's mostly twosome alone play and threesomes due to the press of business and family obligations. On weekends it's more couples swaps, although usually someone will stay out to watch the kids.

Two weeks ago I attended a all bi party. About thirty guests, mostly couples. One of my male friends was fucked in a swing by a lady with a strap on. Another lady & I took turns sucking his cock as he took it from the other woman. There was a massage table in constant use. 3-6 people participating & lots of same sex head given to the people on the table. After massaging and fucking a woman I gave her husband head in appreciation.

I'm a single Male, but ya, I like sucking cock. I really get into it, and love it there is a female watching. I've always wanted to share sucking a guys cock with his partner (female) and maybe swapping cum

I had a similar problem, and when i was finally able to get going, things ended a lot sooner than expected. Some people might not agree with how I addressed it, but I experimented with blue pills and haven't looked back, predictable performance.