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This happened to us a few months ago and was something we had not discussed and still hasn't fully sank in with us both. We are married for 13 years with 2 kids and had a wedding to attend out of town for my wife's cousin. Great time to get a night away for just us, have some drinks and some fun and more importantly a night in a hotel room for some usually great sex. My wife looked incredible and had a sexy dress and heels and I was excited from the moment she got ready. The reception was a lot of fun with drinks and dancing and we were ready to head to the room when it was over. However, everyone was walking across the street to a bar for an after party so we got talked into going along. The after party got pretty wild as her cousin is younger and all of the friends were getting very drunk. My wife and I got separated with different groups and were taking some shots and having a great time but definitely way past our limit. When I got back to her I saw that she was intently talking to a random guy from the bar. I joined the conversation and it was fun and he was cool but then I told my wife we should get back to the hotel. That's when the guy mentioned he was leaving too and would walk out with us. As we are walking across the street he asks if we mind if he uses the bathroom in our room as the line at the bar was long. We get up to the room and he goes into the bathroom and my wife kisses me and tells me she is horny and we need to have some fun. After the guy gets out of the bathroom I go in and take my turn. The guy is still there and my wife then goes into the bathroom, we are just casually chatting and after a few minutes she opens the door and has her dress off and is standing in just her bra and panties. She didn't realize the guy was still there but when she saw him she just looked at us both and said she needed to be fucked and took off her bra and dropped her panties and got on the bed. The guy then said he thought we looked cool and was glad he stuck around and started kissing my wife's tits. This is no something we ever had discussed and not something I even thought she was into. The situation was so hot that I figured what the hell and went with it. When the guy saw that I was ok with it he quickly stripped and straddled my wife laying on the bed and started titty fucking her. His dick was a little longer then mine but way thicker. Before I could even get my clothes off my wife had pushed him down on the bed and climbed on top and was riding him. She was really having fun and he was sucking her tits and slapping her ass. I felt kind of odd as they were so into it that I was just sort of watching. Then I got next to her and she leaned over and started kissing me. As we were kissing I could feel him picking up his rhythm and then he started cumming inside her as she was passionately kissing me. I was so lost in the whole situation I hardly noticed that my wife had reached down and was jerking me off so fast that I ended up cumming all over the bed. She climbed off of him and laid down on the bed and fell asleep right away. He got dressed and said it was awesome to meet us and left. I was just kind of in shock and had no idea how to take what had just happened. The next day I started to mention something to my wife about it and she said let's just keep it in the past and not dwell on it. It was a fun experience but she doesn't want to dive into it too much. I have a lot of mixed feelings and not sure if this is the start of something or just a wild one time adventure.

In the alternate universe where this event may have taken place, you get to skip steps. 😉

Our camping was almost spiritual, enlightening bringing back to days we left behind. Everyone was new to us, even the ones who invited us we just met. We went with a very open mind with only our imagination letting us to what we might expect. Free spirited was a phrase used when told about one of the friends, quiet about the other. We found out free spirited was an understatement when we met, 1960s came to mind. Was that my parents when they met? Our day of hiking was tiring, we hadn’t hiked or camped in some time, it was also time to get to everyone. We felt as outsiders at first leading to a feeling that we were accepted. The free spirited friend took a liking to Lin at one point stopping, saying I Like You and giving Lin a very deep kiss. Lin looked at me and shrugged her shoulders, laughed and said I Like You Too. Campfire time started with some edibles and plenty of laughing, some eating, some wine and Lin and I telling our story. They told us they go camping a few times a year mostly with tents and we learned the other woman doesn’t have sex only giving oral to the guys. I think she was afraid to get naked because of being overweight, Lin later agreed. Sex!!! Connie, made up name, the free spirit said it was time for initiation. Okay you two, get your shorts off! She made sure we knew she wasn’t kidding as she unbuttoned Lin’s shorts. She took out a vape and passed it around, took it back and she said now be prepared. Told Lin to lean back and spread in a nice affirmative way. She took a big draw on the vape and blew the vapor on Lin’s crotch and said Nice Pussy and gave her a kiss right there. This had us all laughing until she shhh’d us and pointed to me and said Big Guy let’s see your cock here, took a another draw on the vape, blew the vapor on me, grabbed my dick and kissed my balls. Everyone was hysterical, again she quieted us and went back to Lin. Lin looked to me to join but Connie said just shut up and be ready to enjoy a magic tongue. Of course much more laughing and I was finally brought into the fun.

I’m a male 40’s married for almost 20 years. In the lifestyle on and off for 16years (hotwife) not so much the cuckhold aspect. I have had a few male only encounters. The first I responded to a CL personal ad for a male massage with happy ending. Few years later another ad on CL a guy looking for a blowjob. Drove 20 min spent about an hour there. Giving oral only. The third time (years later again) personal ad again . It turned out it was the same guy that massaged me (small world). No massage this time I was there to give oral. Lasted about an hour or so. His roommate (which wasn’t talked about ) joined us on the bed and I took turns taken them in my mouth again only giving Out of the 3 oral sessions no one came and no anal penetration, not saying I wouldn’t of. Last encounter was easily 10 years ago. Wife and I have played with a strap on before and I have a couple butt plugs that gets brought out every so often. She encourages me to explore and says it would turn her in to see me get penetrated by a guy with her. I can’t picture myself in a relationship with a male at all, marriage aside. Just a cock every now and then turns me on. Whether it’s oral or anal. Am I physically attracted to males, I’m not turned on the same way as seeing a sexy women but don’t have a problem saying someone has a nice physique or “I would blow him” She has had the same female resume as mine and we never labeled anything but I’m feeling like we might be bisexual. Doesn’t change anything in our day to day lives. What’s your thoughts.

Quick background that was posted on our intro. In our 30s, our sex life was tamed down when we married, no 3somes after the I Do. Lin met a guy at a dispensary where the spoke about the purchases they were making and invited her back to his place to try some together. When she said no because she was happily married he he invited me to join him and his wife. We went and had a nonsexual high time. By the time the night was over he invited us to join friends for a camping trip. We later learned sex might be happening amongst the friends. Linda and I decided what the heck why are we becoming our parents, let’s have fun. Before the camping we were told one of the women was most likely not going to be sexual while the other was extremely sexual and very wild. Our first play was Linda and the wild one under the stars. I figured nothing could top what I watched and then it got better.

Daisyrey.... WOW. I'm so sorry to hear your story and challenges. It seems like it's spinning out of control and getting worse not better. First, STOP swinging. Cut off the relationship with the other couple (woman). Your marriage is what needs to be the primary focus. seems to me you could even (if you felt the need) communicate your concerns and reason for stopping to the 'other' woman. From what you've said, i think she would be mortified at the idea she is or might be the reason for your marriage trouble. Most swingers do not want the drama and certainly don't want to be the catalyst for a break up. Your husband is being a dick. His "oh my sorry, I didn't know" is bullshit. As men we always know when we've crossed the line. The game he's playing is mean, rude and disrespectful. Get counseling and work on your relationship/marriage. I don't think you or your husband should participate in the lifestyle. As much fun as it can be, he is not mature enough or committed enough. Good luck,

We've done it a few times! I drove while my GF is in the back sucking and fucking my buddy. We even did it in a convertible once which was wild but exciting. Just keep your eyes on the road. The problem I had wasn't necessarily looking towards the back seat to watch them but I was constantly looking at all the people and cars around me to see if they noticed and see their reactions.

Except the alcohol.

A bloody big step from drinks at the bar to your buddy's wife sucking your cock! "One thing leading to another" sure covered a lot of ground in a hurry. As long as everyone enjoyed their selves.

I always try to make things fun and funny when meeting those who haven’t played before. There is an art to taking the pressure off a nervous woman who still thinks being with a woman is taboo. We have met so many women who think they want something but are afraid to go forward. With us it is more wine or vodka as the relaxer not pot. After breaking the ice with you how did the rest of the camping trip go? What happened to the 4th young lady?

Missus E is a frequent squirter and yes we both love it! If others don’t like it they can go play elsewhere. Their loss.

We've tried one of the THC oils, and while the effect was nice, she ended up having a UTI after and blames the oil(whether that was actually the cause or not is really unknown). But a THC edible makes the whole experience even more fun.

The quantity is the best! Everyone gets their fill of what they enjoy the most as well as in totality. No matter how good the most amazing male is sexually, he can only provide one penis and only produce so much cum. Which is never enough. Yep, in most cases the men are spent before the women are, especially my wife. (One of my three rules when we started in the lifestyle with her having a couple of boyfriends (along with no married men where the wife didn't know & approved and everyone knows everything about what's going on) , was that sex with other guys could add to but not replace sex between us; it's never been a problem.) Two things that take care of this is that all the women are bi, and at least one of us men in the group is always willing to to take care of a woman who needs sexual activity. Yep, after being in an ass, the only place that dick is going is to decontamination and clean-up. For us most of the threesomes are FMF, with the lucky woman being in the middle being bi.

My thought is that our closed group is less likely to mess up and bring in some STD than a vanilla monogamous couple because, as you said There is variety in our group, people fulfilling little kinks that they don't with their spouses, and little new things are explored. Plus, it seems that everyone is getting the quantity they want. Please explain, I think that I'm mixing up outside group and intra-group issues. It has been the opposite experience in our group, everyone has alone sex at times, both MF get togethers as well as both types of threesomes. And by "alone" I don't just mean another room, at an entirely different place. Some of us, including Daniela and me, have gone on vacations with one or more of the others in our group without the spouse. Alone play is almost necessary for spontaneous weekday play. Many times one of the four in the two couples will take the kids while the others play and later perhaps, switch off. (The kids like these like getting together with the other kids and either being taken somewhere for a treat or getting pizza and dessert and going to the other house.) Same with us, all the couples are married and have solid relationships. Our planned gatherings are on weekends with up to all of our group. Please explain. In our group you never know how it will unfold...

Technically id say you are flexible or fluid in your gender selection. Bisexual covers that, oral sex is sex. But I think labels are stupid. On a side note a guy that sucks dick is hot.

google 'Kinsey Scale'. In the 1950s the Kinsey group described that there is a continuum and that most people are part homosexual and part heterosexual. Wiki has a fairly good article on it. And, yeah, don't let labels define who you are.

Exactly. If that gets all of you off who cares? TBH I have never understood the male homophobic tendency (male) in the LS. Especially the guys that freak with incidental touching.

Why label? Do what you want with who you want if they want to.

You are whatever you want to be in my opinion. I enjoy mm sex a lot, am psychically attracted to men and enjoy being with them in a non romantic way. For me, it’s often a great release and nothing more. I’ll check out guys and think “yeah he definitely deserves a blowjob” ? So I consider myself bisexual and proud of it!

Before we married? Think I posted that on our Intro. When we were dating. I should know people don’t read everything.