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As a young girl raised Catholic, I was taught that no sin was unforgivable. That is one small part that I retain in my beliefs. It should be taken as an opportunity for redemption and "Without forgiveness, there is no redemption." If it happened to me, I would demand a full confession of the details, all two weeks worth, and turn it into an opportunity to reintroduce ourselves.

My wife has gone on several vacations with her bf while I've stayed home and it's always been great. My only requirement is they text me once or twice a day - naughty pics preferred. Of course she loves the freedom and fun, and it's an intensely erotic experience for me. So much that I do wear a chastity device bc betw the erotic intensity and the occasional naughty pic I would simply not be able to focus on work etc. without it. When she gets home our love/sex life is supercharged for weeks and its impossible to keep our hands off each other!

We would not want to do that, personally.

And for me, what my girlfriend does with my boys. I am a jealousy addict and my male and female lovers doing it without me is a double hit that I love, and love to join in or continue later. So many possibilities, not only for me to have sex but for the relationships.

Me too babe, I like sex to be naughty, always have, so the more slut like the behavior the more aroused I get. Once I turned Bisexual it meant more sex for everyone in contact with me. Currently my boys get much more action because of what I do with my GF Julie.

Oh hell yeah, not gonna lie babe that shit is fire! I love going down on a woman, the entire experience is so erotic, I love the way she moans, whimpers and squirms on my lips, is so delicious. And I fell in love with being penetrated in my teens so to add being fucked at the same time, oh its all so freaking yummy.

For me, there is nothing like the real bi experience - licking pussy while having a man inside me.

Amen, sister. I just ended up having more sex after I engaged in my Lesbian side.

Is there a technique to keep between soft and shooting?

The courage to successfully pull off a good DP or DVP. The insecure ones are the ones where the guy goes soft and the gal dries up. Not a pleasant thing, this is why the 'level' of play is artistic but only right if done without self-doubt. I learned that my wife still likes the occasional gangbang. which I knew already. Dave and Laura

I have seen her with four guys taking he completely over the top. They were gentle but gave her about 90 minutes of savage attention. I was with a single woman while they put her through every possible position except double anal which is over the top. We are in this for the skin game and simply don’t get jealous. Watching her have multiple orgasms with four amazing and attentive men was amazing. I loved watching her get into the role and give them back everything she could. Stroking away just thinking about it!

How do you feel about two other cocks inside your baby while yours is in another woman? When that happened to me I honestly was in mental overload.

nothing feels better than rubbing up against another hard cock inside my baby - just sayin

Did the Mrs. go crazy with enjoyment? My Mrs. is open to the idea, but worried about there not being enough room.

Well hey let me tell you. Before swinging I never thought I was bisexual. Then during our adventures I made a good bi sexual friend and she and I (and hubby) began to play together. Here's what I found out. 1. I love my husband 2. I can enjoy sex with a woman without being a lesbian 3. I prefer sex with a man but do enjoy being with a woman So as the others have said, talk it over with her. It could be that being with a woman is just a fantasy and she never wants to act on it. Baby steps my friend. Have a good discussion and see where her head is at. Good luck

I don't believe that people become gay, just by participating in sexual play with a person of the same sex. You either are gay, or you are not. Bisexual play, in my personal experience (I'm a woman), is just that...it's sex for fun. I have had bisexual fantasies going back a long time, but I feel like a heterosexual, man-loving woman who happens to enjoy the play sometimes.

its also possible YOU will fall in love with the other girl and run off. so your wife has just as much to be worried about if not more.

My initial reaction to this post was: Are you f*cking kidding me? However, after reading Intuition's post (she's just so damn smart), I realise that this could be a possibility. But I would assume (and hope) that your wife married you for YOU, not for what you have in your pants. Wanting to have sex with a woman and falling in love with a woman and running off with her to be soul mates and live happily ever after are two very different things. And while both are possibilities, I feel that one is much more likely than the other. But you know your wife, I dont. Do you think she is a closet lesbian? Or is she just curious about sexuality? I don't know what the "signs" of being a lesbian are; there's no Jeff Foxworthy list of "You might be a lesbian if..." (Is there?) But here are my questions to you: Does you wife make comments about leaving you for another woman? How does she react towards other lesbians you know, or those on tv? Does she make comments about how sexy/hot/attractive other woman are? How does she behave around other women and this woman in particular? Is she very touchy-feely, always flirtying? It's hard to say, there's no test for being lesbian. How do you know if the guy at the coffee shop is gay? You can guess based on how he acts and what he says, but you'll never really know. It's the same with your wife.... Talk to her some more about how she feels about the threesome and about woman in general. Good luck. ~SS

I started out in the lifestyle with my husband encouraging me to explore my bisexual curiosities. After trying it a few times, the novelty of it wore off...and I realized that, while I'm open to playing with another woman in a swinging encounter, I largely preferred men. So, curiosity satisfied: I'm straight. Having sex with someone of your own gender doesn't "turn you gay". You just are what you are, and you respond accordingly. Do you have any other reason to suspect that your wife might actually be a lesbian? Does she not enjoy sex with you? I won't tell you to not worry about it, because the answer to this question may come at a price. She just might discover that she prefers women to men. This could very well jeopardize your marriage. But swinging IS about exploring the truth about one's sexuality. If you're not up for the un-candy-coated truth, don't swing. Good luck and Welcome to the board!

Well, here's my 2 cents worth... I have only had one Bi experience.. a lousy one... and one near miss... gawd how I wish THAT one had gone farther. Someone made the comment that it is easier for an inexperienced woman to just say she's bi, in order to get to be with another woman in the beginning. I don't find that to be true necessarilly. I have always been very up front about my lack of encounters, and no one has been troubled by it. The only thing that has stopped me from going forward with them has been a combination of my natural shyness, and a lack of chemistry. While I find some women immensely attractive, many just don't turn me on. Can't explain it, it just is. The "one who got away" had me ready to beg and plead. Sadly, the one I was with that one time did not have that affect at all. She did not return the favor, and SHE was the experienced one.... Point is, honesty will win out every time, and if you want to recieve, be willing to give in return.... otherwise, someone is going to be disappointed. In my case, a lousy experience almost made me walk away entirely. I'm just not always confident enough to keep weeding through the selfish ones, but if I find another lady who makes my knees weak, I just might try it again.... heheheh

I take offense to you saying that I am being used. I know what I enjoy and I know when I am being used. I play with a great couple who are both Srt8, and I know that she won't ever return the favor and I a perfectly fine with that. She is honest about her Str8ness, and never pretends that she is Bi. She does not just let anyone or thing play with her. In fact I am one of the very few women that she has ever been with. What the difference in what I do and a man that enjoys Oral Sex and doesn't expect a return?? There are people out there like that. Personally I think that it is selfish to expect a return. Do you expect a gift from your neighbor when you give them their mail that was in your mailbox? Sex is supposed to be enjoyed not expected.

There are plenty of women out there who will allow another woman to *pleasure* them....they'd also let a dog if the dog is trained well to perform oral on them. Some women just don't care as long as they get off. That is selfish. And yes, most women who claim their straight or even bi that have no intention of reciprocating, are selfish and users. They use people to reach their satisfaction without no concern or worries on if the other party is satisfied. I am a bi-sexual female and have been for since I was 18 (I'm not 42) and I have been swinging since I was around 19. When a woman says she is bi-sexual that should mean that when she indulges in activities of a sexual nature with a woman, she should also be willing to please as well as be pleased and that is what I perceive when a man/woman/couple say a female is bi-sexual. This is beating a dead horse. If you want to continue being used and taken advantage of (and that's exactly what they're doing), go right ahead that's on you, because that is exactly what is happening especially now when men are so hip on seeing their wives get oral from another woman. You're young, in time you'll see the light. Been there, done that. Tired old topic. Quin

I always regarded myself as straight with no interest in having a sexual encounter with another woman until, many years ago, the female half of the couple Brian and I were swinging with went down on me. The pleasure she gave me was exquisite and I felt that I had to reciprocate. I found that I enjoyed pleasing her and ever since that time I have played both bi- and hetero-style. We have had many FMF threesomes and bi-play is a normal part of the scene when we are playing within our group of regular swinging couples. I guess I had hidden my bisexual tendencies for many years because I now regard myself as fully bisexual and enjoy both giving and receiving very much. Jo

I personally would not enjoy giving pleasure to a non reciprocal partner, male or female. We had an experience with one couple in which the female had said she was bi. In all actuality she was straight. She didn't care who was parting her legs as long as someone was. That was a huge turn off to me as it was so obvious. I have no problem with straight women as long as they are truthfull and up front about it. I want to know before hand tho. Why would I want to waste my time when I could give and receive pleasure with the male half and be totally satisfied? Lori

Ah, now I understand. But we subscribe to the philosophy that if there's a woman involved that it's merely incidental.