Now I understand why we were told to join this forum for more information how others think of sex not just swinging.
My parents thought gay or bisexual were other people not our friends or family. I came into contact early in my life with friends both male and female who were different which we looked at as strange. The older I got the more liberal my thinking got and the more accepting of different. In HS I knew gay guys who I accepted but didn’t understand. The lesbian girls wanted nothing to do with me. I heard stories about one girl who I thought was lesbian that was sleeping with a bunch of guys, my first bi person that I knew was bi.
College was more and more contact with LGBTQ friends that I thought less negative about. Deep inside I didn’t understand gay, I accepted even being I was homophobic. I as a sophomore was offered to double team a friends date and said no thinking it was a gay thing. Boy was I wrong as I learned later on.
Moving forward years later I met Linda, she is now my wife and will read this and knows I am writing this, and had sex on our first date. My infatuation was the sex we had, the best. She had no constraints, enjoyed getting high and having sex, a dream to this guy. I had a very good friend who I shared a place with that I bragged about the sex I was having. The next point is still questioned, I say Linda suggested a threesome she says I set it up. I had no sex with my friend during the time.
Linda brought a new situation to the bed, her friend. I didn’t care if she was lesbian, gay or any other label. I also didn’t know I was going to fall in love with Linda and marry her.
With marriage came no thirds in the bed. We became our parents, no we didn’t, we just became less sexually adventurous with others, and I emphasize with others and then came this summer. Hallelujah Linda has re-found her bisexual self.