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1 pointI like this very realistic dildo, which is the exact match to my cock. I love to lick and suck my wife's clit as I fuck her!
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1 pointAs for his ex-gf...sometimes two people realize that while they can be friends, they just don't work as a couple and can step back to being only friends. Sometimes there is something that requires them to try and remain friends after the breakup (like a child in common), and sometimes it can be that one of them is trying to hold on to the other. Unless there is something keeping them connected, that he becomes defensive when you mention his ex is a definite . You need to figure out what is going on with his reaction before you move forward with anything. Are you wrong to have feelings of jealousy or anxiety around this woman? It sounds like maybe you should be. You both need to have a sit down heart to heart talk about this. If he can't do that for you, then you have bigger problems on the horizon. Good luck and let us know how things are going.
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1 pointHi, we have had couple friend one time when we have played together, the husband had suggested that we spent a weekend somewhere together, the weekend that it was planned, I must work I have had to travel und his wife has also to work, she is a nurse, my wife and the husband have spent the weekend together, for us the wife and me it was OK.
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1 pointAs a young girl raised Catholic, I was taught that no sin was unforgivable. That is one small part that I retain in my beliefs. It should be taken as an opportunity for redemption and "Without forgiveness, there is no redemption." If it happened to me, I would demand a full confession of the details, all two weeks worth, and turn it into an opportunity to reintroduce ourselves.
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1 point(Note: Emphasis on a section of Davida’s thoughtful comment above is mine.) If a person’ relationship is such that they are focused on making sure the potential untoward outcome of some decision "would have been on (their partner)" perhaps they should be examining the fundamentals of their relationship instead of whether they should be engaging in recreational sex with others. Just a thought.
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1 pointI agree with you here on the attention part from her here but also agree that husband had many chances to say no outright, he was somehow interested in it too but things didn't go as he imagined. Just our brief story here as I think it might help hopefully... I (husband) was the one who brought this idea into this and she outrighly said no. After months of discussion, pros and cons, she agreed but then would develop cold feet every now and then saying not sure how will she feel. So just to make her comfortable we went to a club and i assured her there will be no play so she went. While there there was nother couple who approached us and I told them that she is on the fence still so they talked to her and she agreed for like touching etc and couple along with me paid 100% attention to her, she like it a lot. Then I carefully found a single guy, talked to him about the situation, finally got her approval to meet him and we had threesome again paying full attention to her. Now we are into it and swap with couples and she enjoys it a lot and so do I thinking it pays to go slow and make the partner comfortable as it was not their idea to begin with.
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1 pointI don't think a full swap couple where the wife doesn't do any oral would be a deal breaker. My experience is that about half of women are so bad at it that you don't want it anyway. There have been a few couples where I stopped the other wife after 30 seconds because it was so lousy (painful even). Those encounters...I was happy to watch my SO than engage with the other wife.
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1 pointMrs. Alura once said to me, "Why would a man want to fuck my ass when there's a welcoming juicy pussy right next to it?"
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1 pointHotwifing is the way we started. First, it puts the woman in complete control choosing what to do, who to do it with, when, how, and whether her husband is there or not. Second, it reassures her that her husband is not suggesting swinging for his own selfish reasons. Third, it's less complicated and easier to arrange (most women have their choice of whoever they want to fuck, no worriesaboutothercompatibilities). Fourth, once she's happy, she will show her gratitude.
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1 pointThis is the wife of a bi man who told me early on in our relationship that he wanted another man's dick orally but, was will to go all the way. He didn't know what my reaction would be. Consequencely my reply after some thought was, the subconscious mind and one's fantasiese are cosely related and meant to be explored. This was an open door invitation to our first experience. We immediately signed up for SLS and planned to meet a single bi-courious man at his apartment for some afternoon delight. He was a nice looking man, very gracious and made us feel right at home. We started by take off our clothes and laid naked on the bed with all six hand's exploring each other. I saw my husband going down on his hard dick and I got on the other side. We sucked him to completion. It was a rememberable first time and now we've graduated to an ongoing relationship with another couple. They're both bi. I think bi guys are hot.
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1 pointI think if you love someone you want to see them happy, I love watching my husband suck a dick, it does it for me.
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1 pointWe look at no oral the same way we look at no kissing! No thanks. I am sure there are others that might not care though. Better to let people know before play time is planned I would think.
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1 pointIn our group all the women do oral. How would I feel if someone didn’t? I don’t know because it hasn’t happened. My husband and I don’t have rules. Oral sex has always been part of any sex I’ve had since having sex.
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1 pointMy wife Erica and I are very Christian so this is why it is so shocking; however, we found that there is a big difference between recreational sex and intimate love making. We consider having intimate love making without the other partner’s agreement adultery. How we started swinging is another story, this is about a revelation about our family. We have two sons and a daughter- Erica and I are in our early fifties and all our kids are married but live in the same area (Central NC). We have a steady group that we swing with but had decided to go to a party we saw on the internet. It was at a local club (meet and greet) and then people would break off- that is what was explained to us. We had decided that we would only go if the people we were with would allow us to be a group. We got to the club and Erica looked as sexy as ever. A tight black knit dress with thigh high hose, open front bra and thongs so there were no panty lines. When we walked in we looked around and saw an area that had a few people in it and the women we dressed to kill so we knew that was where the meet and greet happened. As we walked to the area, blinds were pulled down to block us off from the rest of the club. The meet and greet hostess greeted us with a quizzical look and introduced herself as Janice; she then introduced us to her husband Breck. They introduced us to three other couples, Angie and Lou, Betty and Patrick, and finally Inga and Bork (Scandinavian). We got additional looks from the other couples. We thought it was because they were in their twenties and thirties. Erica went to Janice and asked if we were too old for the group. Erica said no that they had others coming that were our age, it was that we looked familiar and she asked if we had been to one of their group's parties. Erica replied no. I mixed and others couples were coming in. We felt more comfortable as the night went on. There were around 12 couples there when I heard a familiar voice and turned around. There stood my daughter and her husband with my youngest son and his wife. I began shaking because I was so nervous and shocked. I looked for my wife and saw she had seen them too. I made my way to her and suggested we wait until they moved and leave. She stood there a second and asked if I was ashamed of what we were doing. I replied no but those are our kids. She said well it seems they came together so they are comfortable with it. She suggested we talk with them. Just then we saw both our kids spin around like they were looking for someone and they saw us. Well to say the least the shock on their faces was very clear. Erica and I made our way to them. Jennie, our daughter, and Tom, her husband, met us and Jennie asked how long. Erica answered a couple of years. Nelly, my son’s wife, came over and kissed Erica on the cheek to say hello. I looked for my son, Allen, and he was getting drinks and joined us. We moved out of the party area to talk. It seems that Allen and Nelly, both 28, had been involved in the lifestyle since they met in college. Jennie was introduced to it through them when she had visited Tom his senior year in college and when she, 25, and Tom, 26, married a couple of years ago, they introduced him. I ask Tom who introduced them. He and Jennie laughed and said Beaner and Patsy. Beaner is my oldest son, actually his name is Ben Jr., and Patsy is his wife. He got the name Beaner when Jennie was young and tried to say Junior. I was floored that our kids were doing this and we did not know. Then I looked around and saw Beaner with Patsy and his mouth to the floor. They came over and we talked. Erica asked the kids how they felt having their parents at a swinger’s party with them. Jennie and Allen said that it would seem a little odd but they could get use to it. Beaner said that it would take him a little bit to get use to it, thought a minute and said I am use to it. My question was how they would feel about possibly seeing their parents naked. The kids laughed and said we are just glad to see you two enjoying yourselves. Jennie then said that Tom had stated several times how hot mom looked and the guys said their wives had said the same about me. Erica said that Tom was going to be disappointed when he finally did see her naked, Tom looked her over and said he didn’t think so- there was some sexual energy going around. At that point, Jennie brought up feelings about spouses doing it with parents. Erica said it would seem odd at first. Beaner said that they did it with the other spouses- no incest- and it was ok. I said if we are going to be at the same party that was going to eventually happen then we needed to get over it. The kids’ laughed and Jennie said that I wasn’t as much a prude as they thought I was. Erica said, you kids would be very surprised at your dad and gave me a deep kiss. With that we joined the others. There had been approximately 25 couples at the party. A few had left by the time we got back. Inga and Bork were still there with Inga having several guys around her and Bork several women. As we walked in they approached us (all of us) and asked if we were family in their broken English. I said yes that they were our kids. He said that his parents and Inga’s parents were swingers also and that is how they met. A sBork talked with us, Janice came over and was talking with Jennie (they were friends) and told Jennie she knew we had to be related and she thought it was cool. People began leaving and soon it was only me and Erica, the kids and their spouses, Inga and Bork, and Janice and Breck. Janice said they needed to clean up, part of the agreement with the club. We said we would help and as we did I noticed Tom getting close to Erica. I asked Jennie if that was ok and she said that she and Tom had talked and it was fine. She asked if I was ok with it, I smiled and said if it makes your mother happy yes. Beaner was talking with Inga while Jennie made her way Bork. Allen was grabbing Janice’s ass playfully. Patsy was with Breck and Nelly came over to me and said, I hope its ok with you if I help, I said sure. We had the place cleaned in 30 minutes. It was around 11:00 pm and Janice asked what was next. Erica said that if they would like they could come over to our place to get to know each other. It seemed everyone was ok with that so, the next quest was who would ride with whom. It seemed that Inga and Bork had come with Janice and Breck, so I offered a ride to two couples because we were in a van. Erica and Tom agreed and Jennie and Bork also said yes. Jennie asked on the way to the house if I had finished the basement. The basement had been storage and Erica and I decided to make it into two additional rooms, in case we had grandkids. I had finished all the work except painting. The furniture was in bedrooms. On the way there, I noticed Jennie (in the very back seat) kissing Bork and Erica was rubbing Tom’s cock through his pants. Tom’s hand went to Erica’s breast and she laid back and pulled Tom’s head to her breasts. I could see Jennie’s hands on Bork’s cock and his hands were busy up her skirt. I was thinking that this was an odd event. Nelly asked if I was enjoying what was going on in back, I looked at her and said it was interesting. She smiled and lifted up her skirt and asked if was as interesting as this. She had no panties on and a pierced pussy. I said no as her fingers were going in and out of her pussy. I had to look back into the review to see if anything was behind us and saw Jennie’s head bobbing on Bork’s cock and Tom’s fingers going at Erica’s cunt. We got to the house a few minutes before the others and Nelly went down on my cock. I was turned so I could see the rest (Nelly could also). Jennie was sucking Bork’s cock like an expert which gave me a raging hard on. Erica was now blowing Tom’s cock. As the others arrived, we pulled ourselves together and got out. Inga’s top was undone as well as Janice’s pants were undone. Break and Beaner told us that the ladies gave them a show on the way over. When we got into the house, everyone followed us down stairs to the basement. The ladies looked around and said that we needed to bring the furniture down. The guys brought the sofas, extra mattresses and a futon (with three kids that went to college you can collect things) downstairs and the ladies directed us where to place them. The sofas were next to each other, the mattresses were across from the sofas and the futon was against the wall across from the stairs. Jennie tuned to Erica and said that this was going to be a great party room. Erica said she knew and that is why she wanted it done. I brought up the grandkids and she said that too. Tom and Beaner went upstairs into his old room and brought down his stereo. We all went and got drinks and settled into our party room. After a few minutes a slow song came on and Erica came to me and pulled me to the floor to dance. The others followed with their spouses. Erica whispered did you ever think this would happen. I said no that I was stunned. Erica said she had suspected something when Jennie had made a remark once about Tom’s cock size when all the kids were over one time. She said that is what got her thinking about swinging. She placed her head on my shoulder and rubbed my cock. I looked around and all the spouses were grouping. When the song ended Erica asked if anyone minded if she gave me a quick blow job. No one objected so she dropped to her knees. I looked over and Nelly was on her knees then Jennie. Inga and Janice dropped. After about 5 minutes we started dancing again and Jennie said she wanted to dance with her dad. Everyone had a quizzical look and then she said no nothing like that and that all our minds were in the gutter which caused a lot of laughing. I still had a hard on and did not know how to dance with my daughter without her feeling it. She stepped in close and I said she may not want to get too close she laughed and said I think its ok, I have seen it you know. We danced like a father and daughter. She asked if it was causing any problems for me and I said that actually it wasn’t. She said good and that both Tom and Nelly had commented on how hot her mother and I looked. As the song ended, she smiled and whispered you really do pack a big pistol and laughed. By this time the other ladies were in different stages of undressed and the guys told them to strip. So they got in the middle and began to strip. It was unbelievable to see such hot ladies. The drinks were about done and I volunteered to get some more, Beaner and Jennie said they would help. I hurried to get to the stairs first so I wouldn’t be behind Jennie but Beaner and Jennie got ahead of me and I followed Jennie in her nakedness. As we got up stairs Jennie asked it I was ok. I said that I felt awkward with her being naked. Beaner said to relax and that I would get over it. Jennie said Beaner and Allen had seen her naked many times. By the time we got down stairs everyone had undressed so Beaner and I quickly undressed and Erica walked over and pulled me aside and said she had asked if it was ok to have a threesome with Tom and Breck. I said sure (it was something we had never done and promised to always to firsts together) at that time Pasty came over with Nelly and said that Patsy was going to be an odd person out and could she join us. Erica smiled and said absolutely. As I looked for a place for us, I saw Janice going down on Allen as Jennie was blowing Bork and fingering Janice. Beaner had Inga on the couch licking her cunt while Erica, Tom, and Breck were entangled on one of the mattresses. Tom’s cock was fully erect and stood close to 12 inches and was as big as a baseball bat handle. Erica was trying to take it all in as Breck was licking her cunt. I felt lips around my cock and saw my daughter-in-law sucking my cock and kissing. I quickly got to the mattress beside Erica and she looked over and had a smile in her eyes because her mouth was full of cock. As I lay down Nelly took my cock in her mouth and Patsy straddled my face. She had the second sweetest tasting cunt (Erica being the first). Soon she was humping my face as my tongue swished around her cunt. Nelly was deep throating me and then I heard her say Erica had finally deep throated Tom. I moved Patsy, who was also looking, and saw she had Tom all the way down her throat. Patsy had spun around and I felt Nelly sliding her cunt on my cock and began humping it. She was tight. Her rhythms were slow and felt great. I heard Erica moan and glanced over to see that Tom had positioned himself behind her and slid his cock into her while Breck was getting a blow-job. I heard what sounded like Jennie saying fuck me harder and Beaner was grunting, fucking Janice. Nelly was orgasming (I have a curse of lasting for awhile- sometimes I never get off). As soon as she orgasmed, Patsy was climbing on and I saw Nelly going for Erica’s tits. I heard Breck grunt and saw Erica’s cheeks expand. He blew his load in her mouth. Erica rarely takes a load from a stranger in her mouth; however she swallowed every bit and licked to clean him up. Nelly joined her. Allen was pounding Inga. I realized it was in her ass when she said in a heavy accent that is good, fuck the ass. Patsy had slid onto my cock and was facing Inga and Allen. Erica and I had talked about having anal sex but she felt that was going way to far from our ways and decided not to, although she came close at one party. As I was laying back Patsy got off my cock and moved to do anal and I stopped her. I told her that it was something that Erica had decided not to do. Erica was grunting and moaning as Tom was fucking her. She told me to do her in the ass so she could see it. So she sat on my cock. I looked over and saw Jennie eyes fix on her mom and Tom. She was on all fours with Bork pounding her. She turned and said something and then I realized he was doing her in the ass. Pasty was coming to an orgasm. Tom was grunting getting ready to blow his load while Beaner and Allen had blown theirs. Nelly was sucking Breck with Erica licking Nelly’s cunt. I heard Jennie scream yeah and Bork blew his load at the same time as Tom. I was still going. Patsy had an orgasm and got off as Nelly was placing her ass on my cock she was taking all the way up her ass. Patsy was licking Erica’s cunt cleaning up after Tom. Then I blew my load. We all laid there just relaxing when Erica said she was thirsty. I said I would get drinks and Erica and Jennie said they would help. Patsy followed. Nellie eased off my now softening cock and kissed me and said I was everything she had fantasized about. As I got upstairs I hear Pasty say you tasted very sweet. I walked in and Patsy told Jennie that your father is a stud too. She came over and kissed me, then turned to Erica and said I hope that was ok. Erica smiled and said I am so glad we get along with our daughters and son in laws so well. We laughed. Jennie asked Erica how she felt. Erica added for the time being fulfilled. Jennie said Tom had a way of doing that. Everyone was upstairs cleaning up, then we sat around and drank. The night ended with me taking Inga, Bork, Janice, and Breck to their cars. I got back to the house and heard talking down in the basement. I thought everyone was done there chatting. As I came to the end of the stairs, I saw only the ladies sitting chatting, naked. I asked where the guys were and they said cleaning up. I turned to go upstairs and Erica motioned me over next to her. It was odd for me to be sitting there with everyone naked and I said that. Jennie spoke up and said that she had a friend in college that was from a naturist family and that when she would visit them they all went naked. I was surprised and asked why we never knew this- she looked at me and said that I was so religious that I was a prude! I informed her that her mother and I started swinging her sophomore year in college. She was shocked. She went on to say that she was never uncomfortable being naked- it seemed natural. Erica agreed. After sitting and chatting for a little bit Erica and I decided to go to bed and the kids decided to play some more (Patsy had started fingering Jennie). As we were getting ready for bed, Erica asked how the anal sex was; I told her it was good. She kissed me and whispered that is next on the list as she slid down to suck my cock.
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1 pointI was one of those "never in a million years," until a fairly recent encounter with a couple I had known for some time. She wanted to see her husband and I do oral on each other. We did. She loved it, a lot. Turns out we did too. Partly for what it was and partly because of her enthusiastic enjoyment. I don't feel any different about me or them. It was simply another one of those very memorable things that can happen in this lifestyle.
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1 pointHubby and I are just now talking about the whole bi male experience and the more we talk and the more we see, I am totally turned on about the idea. We are looking for our first experience. Hopefully soon.
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1 pointI don't have a partner right now, but I think bi men ARE hot. I've never seen two men together except in movies and photos but that's been enough to get me wet. I'd love to see it in person, maybe participate. Because I'm the "elusive bi fem" (unpartnered), I think it would be a while before that happened. I certainly wouldn't feel comfortable with two guys I didn't know or didn't know very well.
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1 pointI have no issues with male/male or female/female contact within or out of the lifestyle. I do however have issues when someone makes a statement like Just because we swing doesn't mean we accept every form of sexual contact or sexual fetish...I am pretty open minded but even I have limits. For example I don't do gang bangs, I don't swallow, I don't like having a man cum on my face etc... That doesn't make me close minded it just means I have an opinion. Open minded does not mean we have to accept everything. As part of that open mindedness I also accept that there are things that I don't have any issue with, like male/male contact and yet another person sees male/male contact as "gross". That person doesn't deserve any more criticism for his opinion than I do for me. Just my two cents worth....
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1 pointI think I relate with a lot of guys who've written... in 7th 8th grade did a lot of sex play with guys (which always involved a playboy or two). Strictly girls only until we found a couple that we swing exclusively with now. I personally don't think of myself (or the other guy) as homo sexual, but we are definitley are not homophobic either. We see each other on average once a month, always at their farm--private farm. It's always a little funny to break the ice again to get back in the swing of things. But Friday night, we'll always begin with a group activity... often a 3 on 1 massage. But the baby oil gets to flowing easily, and generally our bodies are all slick before the end of the first massage. All I can say is, we're all touching each other in every way from Friday, and we're all enjoying it enormously. And in the mix of squirmy bodies, we can all end up in some pretty interesting, intimate, and purely sexual tangles. I believe the word would be orgy... and it's really great. Now, I am not attracted to guys in any sort of sexual way, I don't dream about guys and making love with them... I am attracted to girls, and very attracted to my own beautiful wonderful amazingly sexy wife. But we do like to have sex fun...
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1 pointWell personally, I've lived a hetero life for 37 years, and have been a practicing bisexual for 9 years. Strictly talking Kensey Scale, I'm split right down the middle as a "3". In practice, there's nothing I wouldn't do with an attractive man that I wouldn't also do with an attractive woman .. although spiritually, I lean toward the woman as a life mate. Hot or not? Who cares. I'm happy and that's what counts. I do run into some prejudism and ignorance in swing society tho. Some people confuse bisexuality with being gay and that irks me. They are NOT the same. In some ways, being a bisexual male is kinda like being between a rock and a hard place in today's world. I go chat to heteros and they say "you have sex with guys?!?? Eww!". I go chat with gays and they say "you have sex with women?!??" Eww!". My only consolation is that there are enough bicouples in the area that I usually can stay pretty busy and not have to think about it too much. My dream wife would be the one who accepts me for who I am. Unfortunately, all the women that do are currently married! At least that doesn't mean I can't have sex with them. God bless swingers! haha
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1 pointThis all boils down to what i've been saying for years.. If it feels good, do it! I'm a married bisexual married man, and my wife understands my feelings and we both enjoy the scenario with other guys. Now don't get me wrong; I enjoy women much more than I do men, however to be honest, when I can have both, it makes it so much more enjoyable for us. It would seem to me that if both partners are comfortable exploring this issue, then by all means explore it..But don't keep secrets from your partner. Exploring same gendered sex is still cheating if you are doing it behind your partner's back...Just the way I look at it. It never ceases to amaze us at the number of guys that will admit to us when they respond to our SLS ad, that they are bi curious...even though they are listed as straight....we've met one or 2..lol...one was genuine. He was a kind and considerate gentleman and we enjoyed his company very much. The other was a complete asshole...and only said he would consider bi, just so he could get at my wife's pussy..didn't take us long to put him out the door.......Now it would have been fine if he hadn't lied to us, but he did and I can't handle a liar. So there you have it.....talk to your partner and decide together if this is something you want to explore...Try it...you might like it...and if you don't, chalk it up to experience..