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The woman of the first couple we swung with previously had breast cancer and a double mastectomy. When they lay down beside us in the couples room of the swing club, we were all nude except she was wearing a tank top. My partner asked why she was wearing the tank top. When the gal said she had a double mastectomy and did not want to bother people with the scars, my partner apologized and felt like crawling under the mattress! However, it broke the ice and we had a great time with them, with full swap and multiple orgasms all around. Bottom line. Go ahead full steam into swinging. Swingers are some of the most understanding people we know.

Hello - hubby and I have been curious about the LS for years and were about to go to our first club in 2021 when I received the horrible news , fast forward to today I'm done with all IV treatments, my hair has grown in enough to look somewhat decent and we are again discussing the LS, my fear is being comfortable and received well at a club - I needed a double mastectomy and did reconstruction, although I'm not totally pleased with the results, i also had a rare cancer in 2013 that required major abdominal surgery, so needless to say my body has been thru the wringer and I have numerous scars. Will this be a major turn-off to others? Should we even move forward with venturing into newbie territory?

We have said it before, we will say it again: the most important sex organ is the one located between the ears. Not the ones between the shoulders. Not ones between the thighs. That someone has survived a couple of cancers, including all of the accompanying surgical, radiological, and chemotherapies is reason for them to celebrate every day. It is also a great reason to celebrate with them! Scars and other so-called 'imperfections' bring authenticity to life. Much like postmarks on a letter or stamps in a passport, they begin to tell the content's story. Be unafraid. Be proud. It doesn't get sexier than that.

Life gives you battle scars. As mature swingers we're comfortable with that. I personally think a warm smile, a fairly normal HWP, and friendly and engaging disposition is enough to make friends at any swing club.

I have no idea where this idea would come from. I have scars from breast enhancement, caesarean section and other surgeries. My SO has had multiple shoulder surgeries (two on each), two knee surgeries, and a variety of injury scars on his back, arms, etc (e.g. scars from fights, knife wounds, etc). No one has ever said anything about them. I honestly would be floored if someone would be turned off by scars. Maybe, just maybe, a younger couple (in their 20's for example) who hasn't lived may be surprised by scars but even that seems far fetched. Be proud, be confident. I've never had anyone complain about my caesarean scar while I rode them. 😀

My wife has done this once. She went away for a 3 day 2 nighter with a long term boyfriend of hers. I'd met the guy of course, and we'd all played in a threesome before. I didn't have any worries or concerns. She had a great time. Me? Not so much...but nothing to do with her being away. I had a medical emergency the second night and had to go to the emergency room. She wanted to hop in the car right that moment and drive home. I told her that was absurd; I was going to be out of the hospital by the time she got back, and there was literally nothing for her to do. Plus, she'd be driving through the night barely able to stay awake. Dangerous. Why give up a great night and following morning only to get back here with nothing to do, plus the risk of making the drive during the night? It didn't make sense. She stayed, I kept her updated, and she...uh...kept me 'updated' too All good. I'm sure we'd do it again if the situation arose. Just, without the emergency room bit this time

She wasn’t my wife and she wasn’t on the (sexually) receiving end, but one of my grad school classmates gave me a blowjob to orgasm in slow-moving traffic in the Lincoln Tunnel. We were in school in NJ and she wanted to go on an errand on Long Island but was afraid to drive in NYC. She was an FWB and a great sexual partner. There was no explicit or even implicit promise of sexual favors, as there other times were, but I was inclined to do her this favor just on the basis of the ”F" aspect of our FWB relationship. The superb blowjob was an unexpected treat. 😊

Yup. Totally normal

Only half can cum? That’s horrible. It’s only recently that I saw people have sex in real life. I am pretty sure all the women came from the men. I have cum from every partner both men and women. I understand women can fake it, men can’t. My first swing was with a woman, she relaxed me eventually and I had a big orgasm and her husband gave me a few. Unless she was a great actor my husband gave her one. Our friend couldn’t fake it, she squirts every time she cums, unless she faked that. If the other women faked it they sure didn’t complain. They reacted like they were cumming.

I cum either way. Lucky I guess.

We are trying to form a closed group of several couples, but its hard enough to find one other couple that you click with, let alone several.

One of our most fun times was a DP with my husband and a woman with a strap-on. I've never "strapped it on" (it's not my thing as I'd rather go down and use my tongue and a dildo), but yeah, it's fun. I just got a double dildo I'm dying to use with someone! The first woman I was with years ago had one, but it's been quite awhile since I've shared that. As for my husband, he's not so into the "just watching" thing (not that it isn't turn-on and excellent foreplay for him).

Why is this just a question for the guys? It's a woman like me you need to be asking. Well?

Not a BF, Honey went away with a man 40 years her senior. Honey has a man who enjoys watching her have sex not having sex with her. Recently the man’s wife died so he wouldn’t be cheating if he had sex with her. Honey wanted to thank him for all he did for her the last years and offered to go away with him to Cancun.