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Our poly family life has been mundane for a while. Fulfilling and satisfying for certain, but nothing wild going on. Well, two weeks ago I took a step in an interesting direction. I was at a conference and caught up with a guy, Joe, who I had met in the past and found interesting and attractive. We ended up having dinner together, taking a lot of pleasure in one another’s company. At one point I had my hand on the table and he placed his hand on top. I turned my hand over so we could clasp. He is married, having spoken of his wife previously and knew that I was married as well, but not about my whole poly situation. There came a point where I seized the situation and told him very directly that I would sleep with him, but his wife would have to be there. Later, I corrected myself and said that although I preferred it, she didn’t have to be there but would need to know and approve to me directly. Joe didn’t reply except to ask if my husband needed to approve. I said no, that you’re the one wearing the wedding ring, not me, I only need to tell my husband. We had already been talking about sexual topics, so Joe asked if my husband allowed me to play around. I said that I don't do that, and reminded him that his wife had fucked three to four times more guys before they married than I had my entire life, so who's the slut here? (Who doesn't know exactly how many sex partners their spouse has had and talked about it?) In discussing women in general, and his wife in particular, I also told him that I had a Lesbian side. He didn't respond. As we went back to our rooms, I joined him on the elevator and had him get off on my floor and walk me to my room. I opened the door but stood there blocking any entrance. He was standing back and I pulled aside my jacket, unbuttoned my blouse several buttons and exposed my left breast. He cupped it in his hand and we kissed deeply for several minutes before I disengaged and told him that when he gets home to lovingly fuck his wife and have crazy sex while thinking of me. I said good night, and he left. When away from home, I often masturbate at night before sleeping, but this was particularly intense, fingers inside for one orgasm and then the handheld shower pulsing on my clit for the second. The day after I got back, Joe called me and politely went between how delightful a time he had at dinner and hoping he hadn’t done anything untoward. I said that I felt the same. I stressed that regardless of the way things go between us that I wanted to meet his wife, and not to worry - I wasn’t going to say anything about what we had done or might do without his prior approval. I pretty much ordered him to bring her next time we could arrange our paths to cross. He could also call or text me on my cell at home, no problem worrying about my husband. Also the day after I got home, after the kids were tucked in, I got hubby, Red, Clair, and Lora together and told what I had done. Their reaction was what I had expected, but more so. First, they were surprised that despite being so attracted that I didn’t fuck him, but also they did believe me that I hadn’t. Second, unlike our usual splitting up for the night as our moods dictate, we all went into one bedroom. It was intense with me in the middle of it all. The next morning the reality set in for us that what I had done was, as David called it “schoolgirl making out,” and there would likely be nothing more coming from it. I kept this post short, but feel free with any questions or comments.

Greetings! I am a novice to swinging, but am most anxious to get started. My first question is this...are couples open to married males or does swinging always involve couples only or single males with couples? My second question concerns bi-sexuality. Do women get turned on watching other men suck their husband's/parnter's cock? I am most interested in performing oral sex on a male, but find few bi-curious men at the Swingers Board. How can I convince my desires without sounding like I am a flamer or blatant homosexual? I simply want to taste and swallow a man's load of cum.

An objective answer to your questions. https://www.salon.com/2022/09/20/dye-anatomy-study-urology/

So the is it or isn't it argument continues... Comes from the bladder but isn't straight up pee. I thought the video was really interesting. Glad someone was willing to step up for science, because I think I'd have to pass on having my bladder filled up with blue dye 😲

is there a sign up sheet? did we miss registration?

We have said it before, we will say it again: the most important sex organ is the one located between the ears. Not the ones between the shoulders. Not ones between the thighs. That someone has survived a couple of cancers, including all of the accompanying surgical, radiological, and chemotherapies is reason for them to celebrate every day. It is also a great reason to celebrate with them! Scars and other so-called 'imperfections' bring authenticity to life. Much like postmarks on a letter or stamps in a passport, they begin to tell the content's story. Be unafraid. Be proud. It doesn't get sexier than that.

I just booked a 4 day weekend for my wife and her bf in New Orleans next month and I am every bit as excited about her trip as she is.

Just when I think I have everything figured out, along comes something like this.

I've always known that squirting is largely pee, but that doesn't necessarily make it disgusting or a golden shower. On the contrary, I find it very exciting. Even if my wife empties her bladder just before sex, she still squirts profusely. I know the moves that can make to make her squirt on command. She never seems to run out. It has been postulated that the Skene's an Bartholin's glands can backwash into the bladder as well as getting fluid from the ureters into the bladder, creating a nearly endless supply. One thing that amazes me is the variability of the taste of her issuance. Most times is is like salty popcorn, sometimes very bitter, sometimes (the holy grail) it's very clean, like a dry martini! I believe that the concentration of the fluid from the mentioned sources would lead to the differences in the taste of the juices. Mind you it's not all fun and games. We need to prepare for sex always if we intend to sleep on that bed or not shampoo the carpets or upholstery that we fuck on. We use the Liberator waterproof throes for sex, always. And a source of coconut oil on the nightstand. Yes there is a such thing as too wet. The watery juices can wash away the natural lubrication. About the article, while it had a lot of good information, and a link to the fetching videos with the blue dye squirts, It was almost unreadable due to the incessant pop ups and the text moving all over the screen from the constantly appearing ads. Two thumbs down to Salon dot com.

This is interesting. I think there'll be no arguing about this here 'Most of the samples also contained prostate-specific antigen, which does not originate in the bladder. That suggests that squirting is not entirely comprised of urine.'

Even within our closed group, not knowing how it will all play out is exciting anticipation.

I taught myself how to squirt. No one else has made me squirt yet but... I don't do it all of the time because I don't like the clean up but once in a while it feels sooooo good.

My wife was a virgin when we married in 1972. She was 19. She has never squirted with me. I had a job then where I was on 24 hr. call. A black 45 yr old single neighbor had seduced her while I was at work and was having and affair with her for over a year. One night a job was canceled. I was suppose to be out all night. It was 11 pm when I walked into the house all dark except the bedroom light was on and my wife in the shower. I found all the covers off the bed and a huge wet spot in the middle of the bed the size of a very large dinner plate. I walked over to it and it was slick and smelled of semen. She walked out of the shower and saw me and the big wet spot and me pointing at it. She says we need to talk. She tells me all about their affair and how it started. Now what does this have to do with her first squirting. The bed was so wet because of her squirting. He is the first and only man she has ever squirted with. He was doing something special inside her that no other man can do that would ring her bell and make her squirt heavy and hard. He also got us into the swinging life style. Older Couple

51! The first time was all me, and fantastic! I didn't even know the term. When I finally talked / researched / watched porn and some selective toys I was able to (on camera) squirt big time and I was astounded! I had always came right to the edge and would panic and back away because, at first, it is the sensation you get when you pee. Then with a bit of coaching my hubby succeeded in making me squirt. He was wide eyed and totally turned on, as was I! He had a better view than me though! Makes me wish I was younger, but then I wouldn't have him!

I love this question!! Can you really make yourself squirt? I have been able to do it since my 20's. I'm approaching my 50's and its as common for me as sex. I think it's about how much you can relax and just go with the flow, pun intended. My hubby and I are new to this scene and we are still working out our rules. I have yet to actually be with someone else and to be honest it freaks me out. I cum a lot and I'm worried that it will be a total turn off for a guy. '

A partner prior to swinging could make me squirt in less than a minute over and over. Has happened since with other partners. All fun but I have had other orgasms that are even more intense that leave me seriously seeing stars. Lucky me : )

First question answer: We want couples 100% of the time, as others have stated looks like a cheating homosexual husband. If everyone met and the wife was fully consenting you might find some couples here and there but my guess is you have not breached this subject with her, and if you did she would say no, be very offended, or grossed out! I'd test her out with questionnaires, role play, some pictures or video, very carefully. Second question answer: For most females NO! Especially wives. Out of our 8 females only 2 are "into" that. For me as a female who is totally into guys, penises, and cum, and sex with guys it would not bother me, guys cocks are HOT! I definitely do not want to see my husband go flaming for cock but things do happen during group sex... For years my husband has encouraged me to let the wives of the men I have sex with do stuff with me. We have been mainly MfM with some group and orgy, on occasion things happen here and there and in the heat of the moment I am fine with it. When you have your face buried under someone you have no idea what all is taking place on your body some times or who is doing what. I have watched my man cum in a lady, be underneath eating her in 69, then her husband mounting her doggy, all with Puss, Cum, & Cock right in his face and touching him, dripping on him. I've seen men pull out cum shooting it everywhere all over her and him, I've seen them shoot cum in their wives pull out afterwards and their cock flop on his face. I've sucked men clean afterwards right over his face, kissed him in between, pussy juice, cum, and cock all over. In the heat of the moment things happen, it's cool, no one wants to damper the mood. I have kissed him with cum from other men, he has eaten me and other women out after other men have shot cum all in them. I have never pulled a penis out of a lady and fed it to him but in the throngs of sucking guys over his face I have kissed him with a cock right there. It was pretty hot! As far as him going down on his knees and sucking a guy off - naaaah to weird, sorry not manly. Him wanting a guy to cum in his mouth, naaaaa same reason. Eating it out of a lady is one thing, me kissing him with a mouthful is the same. Now a couple of the guys in our group are bisexual and they have both helped me suck other men off in our group in a few of the orgies, it was fine no different than anyone joining in as far I am concerned. I have also sucked guys in 69 and watched another guy mount him over me; I have to admit that was pretty hot to watch from that vantage point. I like watching people get f***ed (I know that is crude but that is what happens when I get hot some times). I watched gay porn while in a normal mood to see if it was hot but NO it was not. I watched bisex and again NO! The live stuff that just happens is always the best and most arousing I guess because I am in the heat of things. I did recently mention in a post getting my husband to try some new things but it is mainly because I am one of those what is good for the goose should be good for the gander as well. Example - the first guy (and so many many more) that wanted me to suck his penis and let him cum in my mouth I said sure I'll do whatever you want as long as you do it first. Of course most guys can't suck themselves off but I can sure make them shoot into their own mouths. That is how I became so addicted to cocks and cum. Young horney guys will do anything for sex and I put them through the ringer having loads of fun. Third comment you made: The above last several sentences brings me to your last comment. I assume you are talking about telling your wife about your interests. To convey your desires without sounding like a flamer or blatant homosexual try the reverse of what I did. Does she like you to go down on her? What about after you cum in her? Does she let you kiss her afterwards? Does she let you cum in her mouth? Does she like to kiss you afterwards? These are usually some of our BEST kisses. Try to work your way into cum swapping, find what she loves and treat her royally adding in a bit of kink that you like here and there. I like to jerk my husband off while kissing him and feed cum during our kissing. He likes to do the same with my juices. Try role playing - she might be a queen, you might be a slave, set it up so she forces you to do stuff you normally wouldn't, she might get into it depending on how it is approached. We have done some things that we would not have done other wise in our role play simply because it was in the script or scenerio. I’ve used toys on my man (torture), had him do it (forced), etc. Last example - I have had my husband jack off into his own mouth for me in the slave role play and we kissed like mad afterwards. He didn't get grossed out nor did I view him differently. My advice for you is - where there is a will there is a way. Take your time think it through from all angles, you DO NOT want to gross her out or have her look at you in a negative way, so be VERY careful. And DON'T screw around on her!!! Hope it helps