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I have been paid for sex. Honey has been paid to have sex. We were paid not by the person we had sex with, we were paid by a gentleman who likes to watch sex. Neither Honey or I have been forced to do this and the last time we talked about the sex we are having we are both enjoying the sex. To the truth we have had sex with those same people at home with no money exchanged.

You listed all the evils of prostitution but you miss the basic premise of the original poster, would you sell your sex. No exploitation, no trafficking, no drug addiction, no underage sex, no servitude, just sex by a willing adult for cash. You are thinking in antiquated ways, many of the ills of your generation have now become mainstream and accepted. How many of your listed social ills can be connected to liquor and the prohibition, gambling which is now not only illegal but promoted by the sports that have in the past fought to prohibit, and cannabis sales that have now been legalized in many states, all had been connected to organized crime and other so called social ills. Have you forgotten that sex outside of marriage was illegal, sodomy was illegal, interracial marriage was illegal, homosexuality was illegal. What we have found is that those who force their own opinions on others do so because are lacking in other parts of their lives. It is a person’s insecurities that make bullies. It is comparable to the man who has to have a big car to make up for what they lack in other departments. Have a good day Andrew. ROAR!!!!

Thank you so much for all the advice, been MIA due to the massive surge of surgeries post storm so if I am not working I am usually sleeping. Right now the wife and I decided to put the club visit on hold till January so that we can focus on exploring more one on one with other couples and maybe single males; on top of that we also want to make it more like a mini vacation with getting a hotel, massages, and a more relaxed feel then dropping off the baby at my in laws and heading out on trip to the club.

The rest of the story. A small dick wasn't Sam's only shortcoming, but I learned a lot. After having married David while still having Red as my lover, I was full of myself. I thought I was a master of sex with men (not yet having discovered my Lesbian side) and believing that I could easily manage an expanded sex life. So I thought when I met Sam, found him attractive, and announced to hubby and Red that I was going to have sex with him as well. Well I did, and it wasn't fulfilling or even fun. The first couple of times were exciting, but Sam was a poor lover. He thought he was God's gift to women, just wanted me to blow him and fuck me in my bum, which was OK but anal alone doesn't make me cum, and he didn't care about my orgasms or satisfaction at all. On top of that Sam disparaged my husband (he didn't know about Red), saying that David must be sexually inadequate for me to let him fuck me, and a wimp when I told Sam that hubby knew about us and was OK with it. I would complain to David how my fling with Sam wasn't working as I had expected, and what I was thinking that I needed to do to improve it. (I'm compulsive and goal oriented.) David gave me the best advice - that it wasn't my solely responsibility to make whatever I was doing with Sam feel right. It then became clear to me that I was taking credit for the two relationships that I had with Red and David being so great, when in reality it was their attitude and efforts that made everything work so well on every level. My husband is a saint and the wise man in all of this. I would come home, we'd have sex (because despite what Sam did I still needed to fuck my husband and Red) and I would complain about how badly it was going. He told me it wasn't my responsibility to make this work, it wasn't a failure on my part, that I could end it. He was right. So instead of going to Sam's place, I got a really nice hotel room (with flower petals on the bed) on a Saturday afternoon and made Sam do sex my way, in my cunt, the positions I wanted and stay in me until I came several times. Then I forced him to eat me out (with one gentle lubed finer in my bum) until I came again. Then I got in the (really big, fancy) bathtub, had him wash me, and left. I wish I could say I never saw him again, but we cross paths professionally. After that, I knew what I had and turned inward toward Red and David as my future. It has been all for the best.

Lin had dinner and drinks with her friends that picked up the check, is she a prostitute or would it be different if she put two twenties on the table and they have it back would that make a difference?

I am going to agree with this statement. We are here to discuss the pleasures of swinging not to be dismissed as ignorant or be taught any takes on morality. I have been in contact with Lioness and she surely has not lost her roar. She is a beautiful young lady who has shared her journey from the beginnings with well thought posts that many on here have enjoyed. Does anyone here wonder why a poster suddenly disappeared, what happened to that poster? Was it health, Covid? I feel some posters died over the last few years in the same percentages as the general public. Do posters leave because they quit the lifestyle finding it was not for them. Are there those home life problems that some couples go through in life not having anything to do with the lifestyle? Or is it “toxicity” as noted? This thread was a question, Would you sell your sex IF it were legal. Simple question, Yes or No, not asking for your opinion on the blight of prostitution on your community. I ask why this community has turned into just another divisive way to push your thoughts on everyone. Peter you are correct in my opinion, though you do know what they say about opinions. To answer the original post, Alan and I have accepted dinners from those we have met. We are not involved in sex trafficking, drugs, or running a brothel next to your grandmother. We have met others at our home for sex, maybe we are a brothel in someone’s opinion.

Um, Andrew, im not engaging in sarcasm, but I’m pretty sure the whole thing is aimed at you. 😉 On a forum where most members lurk and only a few post, I’m always pleased to see more of the latter. And you are for sure a prolific contributor. My assumption is that you have many fine personal qualities that make you a deeply appreciated friend and highly valued to your loved ones. I’m serious about this. But I’m amazed (okay, maybe not quite amazed) that you were surprised after reviewing your responses to her that PSU Lioness would find them overbearing. Your post in question almost literally suggests to people that they should just admit you are right and they are wrong, and they should adopt your smarter and better reasoned position. I don’t think your perceive accurately how you come across in a words-only medium. I won’t speak for anyone else on this board, but I avoid interacting with you. But here’s my feedback. Like many other contributors to this board you are bright and well-informed. But I find the prosecutorial zeal with which you advance your opinions (some of which are perhaps not as fact-based as you seem to think) off-putting. My observation has long been that you don’t simply disagree with others, but you fail to respect their opinions. You often come across as though you can see only two sides to an issue — yours and the wrong one. You don’t discuss, you debate. Actually, it’s not generally a debate, in that your arguments are not more fully developed in response to the other person’s expression of their thoughts, just reiterated. As you have done in the post above, you just restate the same position, but with additional vehemence. Finally, whether you meant it that way or not your closing "Have a good day" comes across to me as aggressive to the point of surliness.

Thank you Petra Don’t know if I am welcomed back by all the others. Posts like this scare me away. I can handle self absorbed people but ask why I should get worked up by someone who thinks they are the brightest star. Why do I need to argue and have anxiety, I have nothing I need to prove, I just look and things from another side and share. Opinions are just that, there are just too many who have been taking their opinions way too far. A nice person just sent a DM thinking that I stopped posting due to harassment, it wasn’t the primary reason. I have had some personal issues that a bigger influence on my absence.

Your remarks about “brothels” is so out of place. I will repeat that brothels only exist in Nevada and are only in zoned areas, not next to homes, churches, schools or your grandma’s house. A prostitute, male or female, will normally meet a client in a motel or possibly a home. Where are the brothels you are writing about? Let’s take the fictitious Prostitute who is visiting a house for sex, how would you know what her intentions are? Just another guest and a child or grandmother would have no idea of anything foul going on. I think a swingers party would be much noisier from my short experiences. I have no idea who the young lady is that sparked your response about the horrors of prostitution except from reading her past posts, she seems to have a much higher thinking of what relationships are and is not calling you “shallow”, your words to me. Maybe you are just old and not as open minded as her younger thinking. Is your morality the only proper way? That sounds like a very opinionated position.