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4 pointsStill fresh from a house party I’ll try to write what happened. We are still very new to this whole scene and Linda and I promised we would always talk after and say what we did. It’s funny how we can remember the minute things and can’t remember a name. Love Linda said she was with Jeff, I thought it was George. I read on a number of posts that kissing can be an issue with others, it doesn’t seem to be an issue with the group we have met. We all kissed on our first meetings and last night it wasn’t a problem with any of the partyers. We knew and played with the host and two others at the party and not with the three others. Linda and I agree we are still the outsiders, the newbies where the others all know one another. My feeling it was a plus because everyone wanted to meet us. It didn’t take long for things to heat up with one of the wives I just met started kissing me and guiding my hands. I looked over and Linda was busy too. Plenty of fun for both of us, Linda said something strange for me to hear, had nothing to do with size, she said, her words, he had a gorgeous cock. I laughed and asked what? I asked if he was large. No. It was just a very pretty cock. I had to laugh. I asked if the sex was good with him and she said it was, she said she came a few times. I figured the comment about a gorgeous cock had something to do with that, she said it was just an observation. It was during secondary sex when she was doing a 69 with him she noticed how it looked perfect. I said you were just high, she laughed a said yeah. Best part she isn’t sure of his name. Hysterical. Have any other woman made comments about how a cock looks outside of size?
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3 pointsMy wife has mentioned that she had fucked some guys that have a large difference between the head of their penis and the rest of the shaft and that she finds it more pleasurable than most dicks. Daniela says that it feels particularly good as he enters and exits the entrance to her vagina. I guess if she saw another guy like that she'd like to fuck him.
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2 pointsMy poll, so I go first. When we met and later when we started having sex, Daniela was still in relationships with two other guys (married) who she fucked regularly, and one woman she saw occasionally. I and my ex-wife still amicably got together after our divorce to discuss the kids and other matters and would end up screwing. Later, we just got together for sex when we wanted. After Daniela and I started having sex together and knew it was love, over a couple of months she started having less sex with the other guys, then stopped seeing them. I just told my ex that I found someone else and although the sex with her was great, I didn't want to do it anymore. She understood. All that made it easy for us to go back in the other direction and start having sex with others again after we got married.
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2 pointsDoes your wife find any of your, or her, other friends attractive? It may be time to move on. Your can always bring the best man/godfather back later.
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1 pointMy wife and I were out with another couple who is almost certainly vanilla. In telling us how they met, they both admitted that when they first started "sleeping together" they were both in relationships that included sex with someone else, she even living with another guy. They got things sorted out, fell more deeply in love, moved in together, got married. So I was was wondering, who else among us started this way? It's probably not all that unusual even among non-swingers to transition to new love interests while overlapping with an old sex partner.
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1 pointWhen it comes to playing, using friends is not the best idea. If anything eventually goes sideways, there is a very likely chance that they will tell everyone what you do in your bedroom (and with whom you do it). Also, most friends are not ready to deal with the emotional aspect of what is happening. All too often, they will think sex=love and since they are having sex with you or your partner, they must be in love. It is always safer to swing with swingers who know that sex is just sex and are much better prepared to handle any emotional 'confusions'. If one wants to catch a fish, it is best to try where you know that there are fish. If you want to swing, it is best to try with other swingers.
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1 pointFunny wrinkled tennis ball, I have to chuckle. Reminds me of Shwetty Balls. This discussion about a gorgeous penis is something I only thought to myself and never openly mentioned. There is one man we play with who I secretly think his penis is perfect in look and length, easy to go full deep on it, he also keeps his balls clean shaven. I have been told I have a pretty looking pussy by a woman which meant a lot to me. Think men only care that it’s a pussy that is clean and not smelly and don’t comment on attractiveness.
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1 pointYou may think it strange, but I immediately looked at a man's testicles. A nice pair of large balls hanging separately and distinctly in his scrotum attracts me and turns me on. That's what Red has. Hubby's scrotum looks like half a wrinkled tennis ball attached down there and I have to search for his testicles. Not such a good look.
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1 pointA bold suggestion: perhaps your wife and your friend could get together without your presence. It would lower the pressure on him and create more opportunities for them to do so. After he has overcome his performance anxiety, then you three can use the limited opportunities to get together for what will then seem like natural and comfortable sex.
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1 pointHonestly our social circle kinda took a massive nose dive after we had our daughter. Those we had been friends with didn’t really like that we had responsibilities and as time passed other obligations would throw a wrench into our plans such as my training and work schedule at the hospital. now my daughter is a bit older but my wife and I really truly have only two days out of the month to really do anything when my in law can watch our daughter. the benefit we had with my friend is that I have known him for so long that it was like expedited shipping as all the concerns and talk most people would have were already addressed and we could focus on the most important parts .
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1 pointThat is what swinging should be, talking after is very much part of the fun Kissing is situational for us. Some men think they should kiss if they are having sex, for me if I am meeting a man for sex I don’t need to be kissed. If we will have a relationship I want to know your name, if it’s a one time thing I don’t care who you are. I have said before that size is more visual, less sexual. Seeing a bigger one is exciting, perfectly shaped I can also understand the gorgeous remark. Proportionate head to shaft to balls. Clean looking. PJ I’m sure you have a preference on what a pussy should look like, it has nothing to do with the person. Some people are just better looking overall.
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1 pointDefinitely mostly pee. Question is, is there any other magic ingredient in it? And what's it for?
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1 pointHi Popcorn! I'm originally from New York so I know "hamlet" is an actual designation and not a character from a Shakespearean play Anyway... Congrats on your first play date with a stranger! I'm sorry it wasn't quite perfect though Some people are ok playing with "swingles", and you might get some opinions to that effect here. We are not. If the guy is willing to be dishonest to his wife, what else is he being dishonest with? Maybe he has an STD and isn't saying? Who knows? He's also willing to risk destabilizing his child's home life and world. To us, that's despicable. My wife and I have never knowingly had a threesome with a single male who was married. We do look for telltale signs, and we ask straight up if they are and why they're single. We have turned away a couple of guys who we figured out were married and cheating. If you feel horrible about participating in a guy cheating, then don't. On your feelings about having seen Mr. Popcorn having oral; that's hard to unpack. The emotions around it may take some time to figure out. It might be a thing where you're ok with the thought of him doing it, but don't want to see it. Or, it could be that you're not ok with it at all. That can be a rule for the two of you; no guy-guy play, or guy-guy is ok but not if you're in the same room. That's ok. Really, it is! Just so long as you're both on the same page and go in to future encounters with the same understanding.
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1 pointUnfortunately, your friend suffers from a very common problem in the L/S. It's hard (no pun intended) for lots of people to get over that what they are doing is okay, especially if they have spent a lifetime being taught that it isn't okay. Luckily there is a pill for it...
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1 pointI agree that I condensed the story more happened in between things and the lead up to going to the hotel happened over many hours. I also didn’t want the focus of the story to be about how drunk we were but that was a major factor. After they had sex she immediately passed out. Her response or not wanting to talk about wasn’t so much a controlling thing but more of embarrassment about what happened and wanting to forget it. I was a total pushover in that situation and looking back thing she was more trying to get me to get the guy out of there and instead I caused it to go much farther.
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1 pointJ and I have been married for 41 years. Our sex life has been up and down for many years due to jobs, children, grandchildren, and life in general. We were married 39 years when she finally agreed to consider swinging and having sex with other people. After our first encounter with another couple, she realized she really enjoyed the alternative lifestyle and almost overnight became a sex machine. People called her insatiable. One of her new fantasies was to see to be pleased by a big black cock. I finally found a way to make this happen and here is how it played out. J has blond hair, blue eyes, stands around 5'9" tall and wears a size 18 after having two kids. She has a very nice ass, with extraordinarily sensitive nipples. Everybody she meets lusts after her. She is very self-conscious though and doesn't think she looks that good. Her many suitors think otherwise. One Friday afternoon while she was at work, I texted her and told her I had a surprise for her. When she arrived home, I told her to shower and shave and I would pick out her clothes. As she showered, I laid out a very short black skirt, yellow semi-sheer top, and 4-inch heels. No underwear! As we traveled to a town about 15 miles away, I told her I arranged a sensual massage for her from a black man at his apartment. She was nervously excited. When we arrived at his apartment complex, we had to climb two flights of outside stairs to his second-floor apartment. She had some difficulty with her heels so I stayed right behind her to ensure she didn’t fall. It also gave me the opportunity to look up and see her beautiful bald pussy as the skirt was quite short. Her skirt was so short, she was unable to cross her legs when she sat as it would ride up to her waist. She looked back to me with a smirk on her face and said, “Enjoying the view?” We knocked on the door and a tall, black, young man named Christopher answered wearing scrubs. He was her masseur for the evening. We sat on his sofa and chatted for a while we discussed the massage session. He told her that she would be receiving a full body massage and he hoped that she would enjoy it. When J excused herself to the bathroom, I told Christopher the expectations. I explained to him her fantasy and told him she would want a superior therapeutic massage then when she was fully relaxed and aroused, he was free to do what he wanted with her within reason. I further explained I would be taking photos and videos. He agreed and handed me his camera and said, “Please take some for me.” J returned from the bathroom and Christopher showed her to his massage table and told her to get comfortable. She looked at me, I winked, then she disrobed. As she laid face down on the table, Christopher very quietly disrobed. I don’t think she knew he was now naked. His cock was at least 9 inches flaccid and bounced between his thighs as he moved around the table. He started by standing at the head of the table, bending over to stroke her back. As he reached to rub her ass cheeks, his cock touched her head. She now knew he was naked. He proceeded to massage her back, shoulders and neck for the next 30 minutes. The harder Christopher rubbed her the more relaxed she became. When he moved to her legs, he slowly moved his hands up and down, getting closer to her pussy each time. I could tell she was very relaxed now as she cooed softly. He then moved to her side and started rubbing her arm and leg simultaneously. His cock was laying on her arm. She then grabbed his cock with her hand and slowly started rubbing it and kissed the head. He then moved to her legs and spread them ever so slightly to be able to access her legs on both sides. He stroked her legs first on the back of her thighs and calves. He then moved inward to the inner thigh and stroked there for a while. Occasionally, his fingers would lightly brush her pussy lips and sphincter. She would gasp and moan lightly. He finished massaging her legs and feet and arms then bent over and started licking her pussy. She intuitively pulled her knees up under her to give him better access. He used this position to run his tongue over her vagina and asshole while fingering her clit. After he enjoyed her pussy and asshole, he asked her to flip over. After J turned onto her back, he again focused on her upper body. First, he worked on her shoulders and stomach. He started massaging her breasts from the outer skin where they meet her chest and started moving inward. He reached her areole on the first one and slowly started rubbing his big fingers around it. As he did this, her nipple started to harden even though he had not touched it yet. He did not touch that nipple yet and he moved to the other side doing the same thing. He brought both of her nipples to full attention. After they were standing up, he slowly dripped some oil on them and started rubbing them. You could see J's stomach twitching and her hip rise as he did this. He teased her nipples and lightly pinched them while tugging on them, turning her on even more. He then moved down to her legs. He started at her feet and worked his way up. As he moved his hand slowly to the inside of her legs, he would pull and slightly spread her legs apart from each other in the process. Pretty soon she had her legs spread wide enough to enable him to massage her thighs and see her full pussy at the same time. He worked on her thighs and in the process would lightly touch her pussy. After a short amount of time, he began rubbing her abdomen. He started where her vagina began and worked all around her hips. He slowly would move his fingers in between her legs where the leg met the pelvis and slide his fingers down to her asshole and back up lightly running his fingers over both her ass and pussy. She felt his bare cock next to her arm and reached over and to my surprise, took him into her mouth. Obviously, the therapeutic portion of the massage was over. She then grabbed his leg and had him position himself over her. They were now in the sixty-nine position and she had a massive black cock right above her lips. She reached up and grabbed his cock at the base and brought her head up to meet it with her lips. She slowly jacked his cock in and out of her mouth. I thought she would have a heart attack when she reached the tip and realized how big his cock was. Fully hard, he was over 10 and a half inches long and about 5 inches around. She never flinched. He was licking at her pussy and matching her every move when she slowly opened her mouth and proceeded to start licking the tip of his cock. She pulled his cock out of her mouth and motioned for him to position himself between her legs. His shaft was now positioned at the entrance of her wet and willing open cunt. He asked her if she was ready for it and she just smiled. Christopher slowly started to work the head of his cock at her opening, teasing her. He then slowly slid the head in and she grimaced a little due to the muscles being stretched. He took his time and let her adjust to his size. He proceeded to do this through the beginning slowly sliding his cock in little by little. Around 6 inches was in and she was starting to feel a mixture of pain and pleasure deep inside of her. He would move his cock in and out slowly to help her adjust to the size and depth he was going in her. At about 8 inches, he pulled back and pushed the rest of his cock deep into her until his balls slapped up against her ass. This sent pain through her whole abdomen but he stayed there and let her cervix adjust to the size. The pain started to fade and she felt more pleasure that she had never known before. His cock filled her completely up and she loved it. Soon, he whispered into her ear. They both got off the massage table and moved to his bed. She immediately laid on her back and placed her legs high in the air. Christopher donned a condom, climbed on her and thrusted into her in one motion. As he started thrusting in and out, J wrapped her legs around his back and interlocked her ankles. She was now feeling the pleasure of his movements and was working her hips to match him. His cock glistened in the light from the wetness she had. He was moving in and out of her and she was nearing orgasm two, which she has never done in a single session. He kept going and started to work his cock all the way out to the tip and then all the way in again. After about six full strokes like that, she came again. This time she started to squirt, something she never did during intercourse. Christopher’s bed was now soaked. He then stopped and rolled her onto her stomach and resumed fucking her from behind. You could see her cum running down her legs on the mattress. Soon he began to cum. When they were finished, J started to dress. Christopher helped her buckle her stilettos and as he did, he leaned in and kissed her vagina. She then whispered into his ear, “Next time I want you bareback. I regret not feeling your cum in me." He smiled ear to ear. As we made our way back to the car, she said, “I’m sure glad we have leather seats!I’m going to be leaking all the way home. What she didn’t know, was a guy was working on his car in the parking lot near our vehicle. Her skirt had ridden up while climbing down the stairs and then climbing up into our SUV. The guy got a good view of about everything to include her cum on the back of her thighs. J invited Christopher to our home many times after that first encounter. True to her word, she let him cum deep inside of her mouth and cunt each time.
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1 pointA bloody big step from drinks at the bar to your buddy's wife sucking your cock! "One thing leading to another" sure covered a lot of ground in a hurry. As long as everyone enjoyed their selves.
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1 pointI think that's a really interesting level of self-awareness about your commitment to new things. Just make sure you're looking out for your own needs and being honest with yourself. On check-ins, other people may have better ideas, but it is both of our responsibilities to respect any boundaries we set verbally. It is also both of our responsibilities to speak up, and it's both of our responsibilities to make sure there's a way for the other person to be heard. We can both unilaterally veto anything at any time, and that means it ends with no recriminations - a rule I learned here and that I think a lot of people here work under. Even when once in a while, we play separately, we both get text message notifications on our fitness trackers. (Not for this, just in general.) There is no "the phone was dead" or "I didn't see the message, I was too busy getting oral" excuse, etc. We turn on location tracking and know where each other are physically located on Earth if it rises to the level of needing to show up, and also for basic safety. This isn't a cuckold/cuckquean situation. There's no room for humiliation or closed doors or uncertainty. These are straightforward rules. I will also note that the first time we played, we went to take a shower after the pool and connected verbally there. Were we both having a good time? Did we like what happened? Did we want to stay longer or was this played out? Getting a couple of minutes alone after a session is probably not a bad idea.
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1 pointFrom my perspective it is Extremely HOT!!! From my husband's he most definitely enjoyed receiving it, even spit roasted, and bareback.
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1 pointSo I'm an extreme doggy lover, bury my face in the bed and ass in the air and you can pound me into the bed. I also love being on top and riding him hard. It is super yummy.
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1 pointMy wife has backed a guy up against the wall so his movement was limited but not hers. Seemed like she was really fucking HIM.
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1 pointMy guess is that the reasons they disappear are as diverse as there are people. Others tell me that single men are notorious for not showing up. That may be because a lot of "single men" are really married. Have you considered finding a couple who would be willing to "trade threesomes?" Not only do they seem to be more reliable and discrete, they offer a lot more possibilities: two different MFMs, two different FMFs, etc. Mr. Alura