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Who else out there gets more aroused by giving oral pleasure then receiving it? Don’t get me wrong I absolutely love a good blowjob , but nothing gets me going more then burying my face between a sexy woman’s legs and tasting her sweet juices. Luckily Missus E loves receiving oral for extended time periods and just keeps cumming over and over again so we are very compatible in that way.

I definitely prefer my wife performs her oral's skill on other guy's cocks for sure as long as she enjoyed it. Luckily,She has no objection to that saying since it's already there why not enjoy it beside she loves sucking cock.It's a routine to suck my cock to start then the fucking came along.

For us it was always about the wife back home. We did not want to be involved with the deceit. We have got dressed and walked out. As for the male/male, it is about many things regarding sexuality. Often times, the fantasy is better than the reality.

We won’t get involved with married men, under any circumstances. If he can’t be honest with his wife, he’s certainly not going to be honest with us.

I think you can find it. My wife and I have had many MFM threesomes. Some were ok, some were great, none were outright bad. There are good single males out there, who really are single, with valid reasons for being so, and who like being the third of an MFM. My wife had two boyfriends for extended lengths of time (years). It can and does work. It may take a bit of effort, but it's quite doable. And if all else fails, I could make a trip back to NY 😆😆

Funny wrinkled tennis ball, I have to chuckle. Reminds me of Shwetty Balls. This discussion about a gorgeous penis is something I only thought to myself and never openly mentioned. There is one man we play with who I secretly think his penis is perfect in look and length, easy to go full deep on it, he also keeps his balls clean shaven. I have been told I have a pretty looking pussy by a woman which meant a lot to me. Think men only care that it’s a pussy that is clean and not smelly and don’t comment on attractiveness.

Mrs. E married early and was a couple of years into her divorce. She'd only been with a few men before that and hadn't really had a ton of "grownup" single life experience. She was dating but disappointed that she was sort of looking to revisit some of what she missed, and most men she was meeting were either trying to marry or remarry. One brought his bank statements to a second date thinking that would impress her. So she had an on-and-off boyfriend she was seeing, and dates here and there, but was generally disappointed. She was raised with a fairly traditional background and actual casual sex without the formalities of dating struck her as pretty taboo. I was single, dating casually, and - relative to her, though not radically so - the more experienced one. She knew that I usually had multiple women going and was interested in spending time together but thought it was too wild for her, so we were just coffee friends for a while. We'd talk openly about our dating lives and flirt a little. The tipping point was a very frank conversation on a Sunday morning at the coffee shop, where she admitted she was having a little identity crisis because she'd woken up with her pseudo-boyfriend Saturday morning and went on a date that night that ended in unexpected oral sex. She was scandalized by it and kind of fixating. I politely explained that that was really nothing, and that that's what it's like sometimes if she's going to actively date. Admitted that I'd once worked through three women in my rotation in one day - woke up with one who knew I had a lunch date and went for it anyway, brought the lunch date back to my place, then had a dinner date at the third's place - and that hers was really just not a particularly shocking story. Something clicked for her there that I really wasn't judging her and that she wasn't expected to take herself so seriously. We ended up going out for some live music that night, debated what to do next in the car, and she spent the night at my place, we screwed twice. Kept going after that while continuing with our other activities. Never had some big "what are we doing" conversation. We just both liked spending a lot of time together and kind of tapered off of other partners over about 18 months. Had some adventures in there but never really thought of ourselves as "non-monogamous" as much as just single together, until we weren't. I'd wager there's probably a small generational/regional cultural gap, here, too. Some people on this board are in an age group where it was taken for granted that being single implied doing whatever you wanted until you found a new relationship, and that most women have someone to call. Others took it for granted that being single meant you probably weren't getting laid regularly, or at least either fell for it or cooperated in playing make-believe to be polite. Notably, the poll results are currently pretty divided between "neither of us" and "both of us". I'll bet it'd correlate with some other demographics.

My wife refuses to play alone; this is both due to the fact she views it as a violation to our marriage but also because the idea behind entering the lifestyle is so that we can explore together as a couple; she refuses to even think about a full swap if it’s done in separate rooms. right now we signed up for swingtown and SLS and we will see what we can get into while also looking at options such as clubs and more.

Hi Popcorn! I'm originally from New York so I know "hamlet" is an actual designation and not a character from a Shakespearean play Anyway... Congrats on your first play date with a stranger! I'm sorry it wasn't quite perfect though Some people are ok playing with "swingles", and you might get some opinions to that effect here. We are not. If the guy is willing to be dishonest to his wife, what else is he being dishonest with? Maybe he has an STD and isn't saying? Who knows? He's also willing to risk destabilizing his child's home life and world. To us, that's despicable. My wife and I have never knowingly had a threesome with a single male who was married. We do look for telltale signs, and we ask straight up if they are and why they're single. We have turned away a couple of guys who we figured out were married and cheating. If you feel horrible about participating in a guy cheating, then don't. On your feelings about having seen Mr. Popcorn having oral; that's hard to unpack. The emotions around it may take some time to figure out. It might be a thing where you're ok with the thought of him doing it, but don't want to see it. Or, it could be that you're not ok with it at all. That can be a rule for the two of you; no guy-guy play, or guy-guy is ok but not if you're in the same room. That's ok. Really, it is! Just so long as you're both on the same page and go in to future encounters with the same understanding.

my wife and i have been "hooking up" with a friend of mine for a while now, but lately I've been fantasizing about my buddy leaving his load in my wife. he talks about it with her all the time when they chat, and have barebacked for a while now. it's such a turn on ( i also fantasize about cumming in his wife but she dont like me) to watch them. she even teases me with it when her and i fuck. should i let him cum in her?

What I find interesting that of the respondents, 63% have been with what they consider 20 or less partners. Kind of the anti-swinging image vanillas paint of the swinging lifestyle. I think it shows that we are a much more selective and discreet bunch than those outside the lifestyle would take us for. Mr. WS

20+men...intercourse and then some.... 10+women...use your imagination.

Ok, I might sound a little dumb here, but you said intercourse. BUt are we talking about just male/female sex? Or are you including male/male or female/female?