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Why is it so many attached guys playing alone feel the need to tell you that you are judging them when you tell them you are not interested in playing with attached guys? Even though it is on our profiles they still feel the need to message then get upset when you tell them we do not play with attached guys. Maybe it would be judging if we sent them a list of the many reasons we do not play with attached guys, but we don’t. If you are an attached guy playing alone do not be surprised that many people have no interest in you! You are not in high demand.

I just responded to a post about letting someone cum in your wife. What are the feelings about sloppy seconds? We have been playing with the same couple, our friends for a couple of years. We have not been using protection and it is a given that we are cumming in the wives. My wife and I had always cleaned up after sex and I figured most couple do. I hadn't gone down on her after I came. On occasion she would get me hard again before washing and we would have a second go at it. It was just my cum in her. Now with swapping new things happened. My wife would excuse herself after they finished but our friends would play as soon as he was hard again. No washing. My cum still in her or dripping out. I felt strange just watching that at first. I didn't know if I should be doing the same thing to my wife. I did one time and I felt strange but it felt the same as if I went for a second time without her washing. Maybe she was hotter or more lubed. What do others do?

We avoid attached males due to many reasons including ethical considerations! The point is if we already have in our profile we are not at all interested in attached males and they still feel the need to message us then they should not act surprised when we say we are not interested and tell us we are judging. If we put something in our profile it is there for a reason. People can save some time and actually read profiles before they send messages. We do. If someone wrote in their profile they are not interested in men over 50, or curvy bi women that squirt we are not going to message them and tell them they are judgemental for not being interested. We are just not going to message them.

I considered myself straight until I got up the courage after two years to let hubby play with other women (my friends of my choosing) after him letting me to keep my boyfriend. The times i got to watch, I had the same urge as you and went down on her to reclaim his cum. Now I'm as much Lesbian as straight.

My wife having a third orgasm is a daily occurrence, and no, I don't mind the mess either!

Hello - I'm a professional photographer and filmmaker. I have very little experience with swinging, but I can certainly weigh in on this. If you are going to go for an onlyfans account, the competition out there is pretty extreme. Everyone and their grandmother is starting one. The first thing you need to do is up your production game. Personally, I like the more "homemade" type videos, so you have that going for you, however, the shaking, odd camera angles and constant movement that I saw in your videos tend to be very distracting. Buy a tripod. Your phone has plenty of video power, so the quality of files is there, but a tripod will help to stabilize your images. They can be very affordable. Check out this one: https://joby.com/us-en/griptight-one-gp-stand-jb01491-0ww/?gclid=CjwKCAjw2bmLBhBREiwAZ6ugowr0dJreCeq_N3hqj6Evn6UWn1hesZFa5rUQQfTOi8U3KfhkOe_84xoCJ0kQAvD_BwE Also, a little lighting would help. Since the whole world went on to Zoom over the past year, almost everyone is familiar with ring lights. They've been used for a long time in fashion photography, and give a nice light without a harsh shadow. There are a zillion different types available, this is a quality one that I saw this morning: https://joby.com/us-en/griptight-one-gp-stand-jb01491-0ww/?gclid=CjwKCAjw2bmLBhBREiwAZ6ugowr0dJreCeq_N3hqj6Evn6UWn1hesZFa5rUQQfTOi8U3KfhkOe_84xoCJ0kQAvD_BwE Your best video is the last one in the sharing is caring album - crofinish. Shot with daylight, and a great camera angle. The ring light on camera left would have gone a long way to making this video really stunning. If you're able, try multiple camera angles. Get a 2nd iphone for a close up. i.e. - the cronfinish video. A close up of the final shot would be a wow-er! You are an extremely attractive couple, and I doubt you'll have any problems finding viewers and subscribers. But if you give your videos that extra production quality, you'll really knock their socks off. I'm happy to talk more about it if you have any questions or need help, but I'm sure you'll figure it out. Best of luck!

Interesting, we love to take pictures and videos of our play sessions with friends, we like to re-watch them later and remember the hot moments and exchange impressions while we watch them, but as much as we love our own videos we are not professional photographers and we take the pictures and videos on the heat of the moment so most of our pictures lack the lightning, proper angles and etc, our video and picture gallery is full of hot moments though. Also, we may have to edit and/or ask lots of people for permission to upload them, which can be complicated.

My current GF has been curious about swinging and nonmonogamy in general, and not found anyone she could be open about it with. When we started talking, and she found that instead of the idea bothering me, I was an enthusiastic supporter, she was able to talk about some fantasies that she's never been able to say out loud before. I don't think she really believed that it was okay with me. The first time she came to me after a hot date, she was so excited to shot me her creampie, and she came almost instantly when I pushed into her. I think that afternoon, she was finally able to relax and trust that I like her, even when she's leaking another guy's cum. She's still at the early stages of the lifestyle, and I"m encouraging her to take small steps so that she's comfortable at each new experience. But so far, it's been a helluva ride. To think that several guys let this one get away... well, it certainly works out to my benefit. As to sloppy seconds (or thirds, or fifths, or whatever), the hotter and slippery-er (yes, that's a word now) she is, the better. Also, the more turned on she is the better. She gets SO turned on showing off for me, that the sex can't be anything but amazing.

I prefer to go second regardless if it's my wife or his. It's not because I want him to enjoy the tighter feel. It's that after I blow my load, I lose interest in watching what they're doing. So it just gets me more excited watching them first. You're right on both counts - a sloppy cunt has hardly any friction, but the thought of her doing this sends me off quick.

I persuaded my wife into not "cleaning" herself after another man came in her. She felt "messy". Yes it wasn't normal to feel that wet down there but she grew to be comfortable with it in a sexual situation. She can't get pregnant so everyone goes bareback. I usually get the party started if we are playing with someone new. When I get that feeling like I'm going to cum I'll pull out. I want him to feel her like I do. She is so wet and lubricated after someone has cum in her that I can barely feel her. It is sexy to know that she is that wet from another man cumming in her. It doesn't take me long to add to the party. I prefer how she feels before someone has cum in her. That's why I let the other guy cum first.

If you're swinging, sloppy seconds is going to happen. Why not enjoy it?

I love it

We do the "sloppy seconds" thing & I absolutely LOVE it!! My man loves fuking me right after another has finished inside of me. He tells me to stay laying down on my back until he is ready to enjoy me (normally after our company leaves). We stick with a small circle of playmates & he always screens very well for us so we play as safe as possible. I can't get enough of the way he lingers with & admires my body after getting filled by another man. I can really tell how much he enjoys it by how he takes me afterwards! I hafta admit that one major reason I enjoy being with other men is because of how great & sexy he makes me feel after! I also like to clean off my hubby's dik after he soaks it in my filled V. If we play with a female I always hope she is also okay with getting filled up because then I eat my hubby's cum out of her & clean her up as much as possible. However, we do feel like pubic hair is pretty gross & we prefer you shaved. Its cleaner in general but you can also tell if there's any visible soars or what not.

Among our closed little group, the guys certainly don't let sloppy seconds stop them and the women enjoy the mess. As to going down, the guys don't necessarily seek it out, but will do it for us if asked. We women are bi, and like licking pussy and sucking dick after two have finished.

It is definitely a different feeling, especially when her BF is thicker than me. I would do it over and over, it is freaking fantastic.

With one couple we really trusted, after a few months we decided to go bareback. After we had a session and they left, my wife and I often had reclaiming sex, as we did after couples and men where they used condoms. My wife was a freak about using tissue on herself after sex, but still when her insides were coated with our friend's sperm, it was always much silkier, lube wasn't necessary at all. Yeah, it was hot and wonderful. But still, don't let this fantasy get away from you; worry about STDs and pregnancy; play safe.