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3 pointsSince you're up for it, move the conversation along. Ask her who she would be interested in fucking. Regardless of who she suggests, don't criticize her choice, play along. Suggest someone you want to see her with. Be generous with your wife as you discuss and explore. And sometimes reality far exceeds fantasy. My life, and particularly my sex life, is now better than I ever imagined.
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3 pointsCome on; let her have some new dick! She'll still like yours best.
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2 pointsShe's not playing you, she's enjoying the journey you started together and wanting to continue exploring. It took two years of hubby letting me have a boyfriend before I wanted him to play as well. Not just allowed him, but wanted him to be with other women. It helped that I chose the girls. Perhaps that's a compromise that you two can make. Or maybe you can not watch at first until you're comfortable. Also, think about how lucky you are. There are many guys here who are desperate to get their wives started in the lifestyle, just to have an MFM.
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2 pointsI will offer up some thoughts from this bi guys perspective... First of all the term BI is a relatively broad and up for debate term. I have never felt any romantic interest in a man. I don't kiss men. I don't date men. I don't play with men alone. But on most sites you are either BI, BI Curious or straight. No middle ground and no wiggle room. That being said... I really like and enjoy the sexual aspects of the things that can go on between people even if they have the same equipment. It's sex! It's FUN! My experience is 99% MMF\MMMF\MFMF etc... Probably half are where the men proclaim to the world that they are straight. Usually the women get a huge kick out of it and other wise they are typically curious as to what happens and how they will like it. I never hide it and knowing how people can feel about it I rarely initiate contact with a couple of group of people unless I know that my type of kink is accepted. But none of us are out to recruit or trap anyone. It's just a type of kink for most of us. If you passed me on the street or at a party you would never know. It's a fun kink and one that, if you stay away from drug users and people with highly unsafe habits, you can indulge in safely, and really enjoy. I am picky and I get tested regularly, and so far, never had any instances of disease. The preconceived notions of bi guys is getting better. We are the secret that everyone knows and some people indulge in without letting their friends know. (oh yes...that happens a lot) Now if I could just find a girlfriend that wasn't intimidated by it...
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2 pointsOur original thought was to have a female join us, I was curious and I didn’t want Rocky to feel threatened. After having more than a few men in me Rocky doesn’t feel threatened at all. I am pretty sure if you asked him what he prefers he would hesitate and say a FFM even if he is enjoying watching other men with me.
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2 pointsUse the old Animal House trick. Hi Honey, how are you. "Hey, listen did you manage to get to the store and get the groceries for this weekend? Oh and we really should get the lawn mowed on Saturday, maybe clean up the garage as well, have sex with strangers and oh, do you need any help with he dishes tonight? Love you.
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2 pointsHonestly the only way to know is for you two to talk about it when you are not in the moment playing! Nobody else can speak for her. If you can’t just openly talk about these things with each other the lifestyle is not for you.
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2 pointsmmmm BettyAnn you are just our style! When my husband asked me for anal, I quickly replied, "will you be so willing?" The following weekend, we purchased a strap-on! I must say, I so enjoy seeing him receive my large rubbery cock. I don't know that he's willing *yet* to take the *plunge* so to speak with another male, but we've broached the topic. Open-mindedness is the key to kinky fun!!
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1 pointHello I’m after other peoples thoughts on a topic I have, me and my wife are happily married for 7 years both in our 30s and have great sex together. Now while we have sex we have a bit of fantasy type dirty talk and it’s great now it gets saucy and she says she would fuck someone else and she would even go bareback with them, now some my think I’m crazy but that thought drives my dick wild! Now the other bit of this is when we don’t get in that sexy moment it never gets mentioned, and I honestly think she wouldn’t do it. A little part of me thinks what if she did and how hot it would be seen her do it, now from others experience do you think that it’s just the heat of the moment talk or is it something she does secretly have on her mind?
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1 pointWhen my wife and I first started in the lifestyle, we had some hard rules. One of which was no solo playing. Six months and three BBC adventures later, she decided that the “no solo” play rule was nonsense and asked, more like begged, to be able to play alone five miles away. She was off for summer break. Since I was working 30 miles away and she was home alone all day, I relented. About a week later, I came home from work and she was waiting for me in stilettos and a flowing summer dress sans underwear. The dress was a halter type with a slit all the way past her thigh. She also had the tell-tale twinkle in her eye that she usually gets after she climaxes. Since she usually wears jeans and t-shirts during the day, I knew something was up. She had a cocktail already made for me and an appetizer tray. I was impressed. She led me to the living room sofa and when she sat down, her dress fell open and I could clearly see her bare pussy and one of her nipples. Now I knew something great was about to happen. I asked her how her day went and what was the reason for the seduction. She then said, “I had a great day!” Then she proceeded to tell me in detail what happened. Her BBC friend DJ came by on his tri-wheeled motorcycle to take her for a ride. She was wearing a very short maroon skirt with a yellow sheer top. She had a g-string but no bra. She was not expecting a motorcycle ride. He handed her a helmet and off they went. Since she was in a short skirt, her pussy rubbed directly on the seat as they cruised. The g-string enhanced he friction from the motorcycle vibration on the seat. She nearly came from the ride itself. After they returned to the house, she invited DJ in for some refreshments. Refreshments were quickly consumed and she led him to the bedroom where he helped her remove blouse and skirt. As she dropped her g-string, her pussy stains were quite evident. My wife is usually not very submissive. But for some reason, she enjoys when DJ dominates her and she tries things with him she never lets me or anybody else do. DJ is a former football player with a very muscular physique. His cock is rather short for a black man, only about 5.5 inches long. The girth of his cock however is unbelievable. When he is flaccid, the circumference of his cock is close to the size of a Red Bull drink can. When he is erect, he is almost as round as a beer can. Since he is so wide, he easily hits her g-spot on every thrust which makes her cum in great quantities. After he finished cumming in her pussy, they took a short rest to recover and replenish fluids. As they were laying in each other’s arms, he made my wife get into a kneeling position and open her mouth. He then grabbed her head and started to push his cock into her mouth which was no easy feat given his size. Unbelievable to her, she actually took most of his cock in her mouth and sucked him until he came down her throat. Something she refuse to let me do. Next, he made her lay on her stomach with a pillow under her waist. He then proceeded to flog her ass, thighs, and cunt lips with a leather flog. She always said she didn’t care for BDSM activities but here she was, laying on her stomach with a cum load in her pussy, one in her belly, getting her genitals flogged by a stranger. The more he flogged her cunt, the more she squirmed and moaned until she actually orgasmed. She then felt cool coconut oil being rubbed on and in her sphincter. She told me him was too big but he didn’t listen. He then grabbed her by the hips and pushed his beer can cock into her ass. After an initial painful gasp, she finally became accustomed to his cock in her ass and actually started fucking him. When she grants me the rare opportunity to fuck her ass, she begs me to go fast so I cum quickly and finish. Given DJ had already cum twice, there was no rushing him. He pounded her ass for at 10 or more minutes until he came the third time. As she lay exhausted, DJ dressed and kissed her goodbye. I came home about an hour later. As she related her experiences that day she noticed I was visibly aroused and decided it was my turn to have fun. We went into the bedroom and I started to licking her all over. While the shower she took after DJ left cleaned out her pussy, it didn't quite get all of his cum out of her ass. I tasted another man’s cum for the first time in my life. For some reason, she now enjoys an occasional flogging and ass fucking from me.
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1 pointIt sounds like it is all in your head! You are just going to have to figure out a way to get past this mental block. The problem is probably that you are over thinking it and worried about every time. As for Ed drugs I would not take them when they are not needed. In this case it sounds like a mental thing not a physical thing. If it is was a physical thing I would start making some serious changes to the way I live. Ed is usually a sign of heart disease, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, diabetes and obesity. All things I have no interest in so I chose to avoid the things that cause them.
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1 pointI'm always amazed at the extremely positive response when female interaction is mentioned and the extremely harsh reaction when male interaction is mentioned. I've been to gay bars before, went with a couple guys and a few ladies. The club was well known for its lively dance scene on Friday nights back in the day. I was standing near the bar, taking a break from showing off my horrendous dance moves, when a guy approached. He walked up and asked "do you come here often?" I laughed and said "is that the best line you have?" We both had a laugh, I said I wasn't gay and we talked for awhile about his lousy game. I offered some better approaches, and said "you'll need to polish your lines if you're going to pick up a guy of my caliber" (he thought it was hysterical). Anyway, we all had a good time, I made a fool of myself on the dance floor a few more times and went home for the night. Why are guys so outraged when this topic comes up? If it isn't your thing, ok. If it is, ok. When you meet up with others, you should chat about what you're into. The bold, capitalized letters in some of the responses just shows an attitude that is completely unnecessary.
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1 pointI think your overlooking the fact that this was originally and still is HER idea, I don’t think pressuring him into something that he doesn’t want is the right answer. As for being lucky, your only lucky to have a wife who wants to be in this lifestyle if that’s what YOU want too. Otherwise your not only not lucky but your likely to get cheated on. No person should compromise sexually to make someone else happy! If the shoe were on the other foot would you ask your wife to fuck someone against her wishes just to satisfy you Or would you ask your wife to have a threesome with another woman if she has no desire to touch another woman? Doing this just to satisfy his wife could cause catastrophic damage to their marriage.
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1 pointThere is a poll on another thread about M/M activity and the resounding opinion is that it IS Acceptable. Maybe not in your bedroom... But don't pretend to speak for all of us when there is a decent chance that you don't know what you are talking about.
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1 pointAs a chess player, I'm sure you can appreciate how hard it would be if the rules of the game changed in the middle of the game such that bishops acted like queens all of a sudden, but you don't have bishops left. I agree wholeheartedly with NWAtlSwing. You need to stop swinging to sort this out. Some guys can't handle watching their wives with another man. It's totally understandable. If that's not something you can handle, then don't. It doesn't make you week or any other negative term.
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1 pointWe carry minimal personal hygiene items . Wipes , Altoids , tooth brushes , rubbing alcohol. The large bag has bed pads and our own sheets, which makes sleeping in the motel bed after more pleasant if we are staying the night.
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1 pointIt sounds like you laid down what your limits were ahead of time and were clear that you did not want to see her with another guy. If she called for the FFM so she could lay the ground work for a MMF that was on her and duplicitous. Now, it may be she has tasted this and wants something different, i.e. she changed her mind. That is too bad, because you have been clear this is not a place you want to go. It would be no different if you said your limits where no penetration and she agreed and then wanted to change her mind. It takes two to change the rules, period. Stop all swinging until this is addressed. You have played by the rules and have nothing to be guilty for.
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1 pointThe woman that had this happen is actually very laid back and so is her husband. I think that's why I'm so shocked that he just didn't say anything. I wondered if he thought it fell off when he pulled out. Just think I would be furious if I "found" a condom while peeing!
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1 pointSo she suggested a threesome with a woman not because she wanted to explore a woman but because she wanted to see you with another woman. Now she wants a threesome with two males. Do you not play chess? The original suggestion of a two female threesome was obviously leading to this. It was a very strategic move. She sacrificed her queen and backed you into a corner. You write she wants an "MMF". Is she wanting to see you explore the other guy?
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1 pointWhat did you expect? Maybe you should play with a couple.
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1 pointA quick follow up to my above The Queen had a point. Her tubes were tied many years ago after our daughter was born. I after a few accidents while in the lifestyle I choose to get a vasectomy making me very save to play with. we were never bed hoppers so most of those we played with were regulars…many we have known for years. once I had the vasectomy done I actually experience a delightful increase in play partners.
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1 pointMake her feel comfortable by always letting her take the lead, start by talking about what she wants to talk about. It may be long ago, but ask her who of her past boyfriends, lovers she liked. Who would she had been with if you hadn't come along? When she responds in any way, reward her - offer to take her to dinner to talk about it more. Ask her which famous guy (actor, athlete) she finds attractive and why. When she feels comfortable mentioning someone (maybe even a woman) celebrate by taking her shopping to buy new clothes to dress for him. See if she is open to pretending when you're making love. It may take weeks or months, but once she starts to open up about her fantasies, ask her who of your current friends and acquaintances she finds attractive. Never, ever criticize her choices! ("John? Not John, that jerk," will kill it.) Test if she is willing to bring those fantasy lovers into your bedroom. When she does, celebrate and reward her by suggesting that you go on a nice getaway vacation, a memorable weekend, to play with her fantasies. Make it clear at every step that this is about her, not you. Answer questions if she asks, but don't dwell on that girl who gave you such great blow jobsin high school. Be enthusiastic about her enjoyment: past, current fantasy, and future reality. It may take time, so enjoy the journey each step of the way. From my perspective as a woman, women enjoy sex and even sexual variety as much as men, but are afraid of repercussions from every direction. For every step she takes, reassure her and protect her.
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1 pointNeither of us has had a lost condom experience. we both have had several broken condom experiences a few when we were dating each other prompting her to go on the pill. She has had other men accidentally cum inside her due to the condom tearing. I have had the same happen to me while with other women during our lifestyle experiences. But we never had a panic over it. Most always it was laughed off. with one younger couple we met and played with the young man came in the queens mouth the recovered and during some vigorous pumping had the condom fail and emptied himself inside her. His wife was the apologetic one. But we laughed it off. Her husband said we might as well go without a condom as it was only fair to his wife. She jumped at the chance. We spent the afternoon and later after dinner the evening playing with each other skipping the condoms intirely. We ended up being great friends both in and out of the bedroom. I had one experience with a younger mid thirties woman who required condoms for her birth control but she didn’t panic she told us she only played when her cycle was not ovulating. My last experience I was very apologetic, stated it tore, but she and her husband thought it as a huge turn on. He pulled out of my wife took off his condom, mounted his wife and came in his wife. They said it was always a fantasy they shared but were afraid to ask swing partners. They also joined our group of friends for more adventures. Again, it is and can be serious depending on the couple or woman involved and you must be upfront about it. We were lucky that most did not find it disturbing.
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1 pointI've done oral and anal both ways with two other guys on separate occasions when the wives dared/demanded it of us. Although I had decent orgasms, I haven't done it since. You'd think that being in someone's mouth or ass wouldn't matter if it's a man or woman, but I wouldn't do it again with a guy. Actually, I don't do anal with a woman unless she prefers it, which is not often, or I got the back end of a DP. I much prefer pussy.
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1 pointI love the mess. I'm attracted to the a part of man left inside her.
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1 pointLeanne and I (Sam) met Joe and Lynn early in our exploration of the lifestyle. We have remained very good friends for more than 4 years. They've spent time at our house in Pa and have visited us in Florida too. After we moved to Florida, we decided to return to Pennsylvania to celebrate New Years at what was then our favorite club which is actually in northern Maryland. Joe and Lynn had babysitter issues so they would not be going to the club to ring in 2007 but promised to meet us for dinner while we were 'home'. We did have dinner with them at a very nice place and returned to our hotel for drinks before they had to go home to relieve Lynn's parents who were watching the kids. When we got to the room, Leanne asked me to go back to the lobby to get some ice. By the time I got back, Leanne was sandwiched between Joe and Lynn and all three were naked. That evening is a story for another time. The point of this story is to describe how we met and became friends with those two. A year or so before, Leanne and I began to explore the lifestyle and discovered several on premises clubs in Philadelphia, Harrisburg, Gettysburg and in Northern Maryland. We wrote the story of our first couple play on this site some time ago which took place at the Maryland club. Anyway, at the time, Leanne was 45 and I was 48. We have not changed much except that I have more gray hair. Leanne is 5'7, blonde, 145 lbs, blue eyed with 38d boobs, terrific legs and an ass to die for. She is a sweet and loving woman whose eyes are a gateway to her heart and whose smile lights up both the room she is in and my life. I am 6', and was right around 210 at the time of this story with salt and pepper hair and a nicely trimmed beard. I have broad shoulders, blue eyes and am told that I have a very nice smile. That night we're talking about was a Saturday in August and we drove the hour and a half from our house in eastern Pa to the club which is just south of the Pa border and just off Route 1. I was wearing slacks and a casual shirt and Leanne was looking good in a black very short skirt, f**k-me shoes, and a tight white blouse that showed little cleavage but did show clearly the darkened areas of her silver dollar size nipples unencumbered by a bra. We got a couple of drinks and settled into a table near the dance floor where we could watch the action there and see who was coming in from the lobby. Sometime early in the evening, we noticed a young couple sitting at the table next to us. We guessed their age to be late 20's to early 30's. It turned out that they were both 32 at the time. He was a short, stocky guy with a short hair, broad shoulders and the hint of the beginnings of a belly. She was quite pretty, what we could see. It was obvious that she was wearing some kind of a sexy dress but we couldn't see much under the hooded sweatshirt that she had over her head and zipped up to her neck in the front. Over the course of the first part of the evening, the four of us exchanged comments and met each other’s eyes fairly often. In watching them, it was apparent that they were almost as new to the swinging scene as we were but we were gratified to see that he was very attentive to her and it appeared that they were a very loving couple. After picking up maybe our third drink, I stopped at their table before I delivered Leanne's vodka and tonic to her. "You really should show a little more than what I can see through that hoody" I said to her with a smile, "it is, after all, a sex club." "Really," she replied with a slightly evil but very intriguing grin, "I thought we were here for bingo and I’m just waiting for them to start calling the numbers ". Her husband leaned across the table and extended his hand and said “Hi, I’m Joe and this smart ass is my wife Lynn." "She'll get along fine with Leanne" I said, "cause she’s a smart ass too. Except that you can see a lot more of her ass than we can of Lynn's." "OK, OK' Lynn said, "We were here once before and it was damned cold so I decided to bring the hoodie until I had a couple of drinks and things warmed up here." With that, she stood up and unzipped the sweatshirt and pulled it off. It turned out that she was about 5'3 and maybe 120 lbs with light brown slightly curly shoulder length hair. She was wearing a cream colored very tight dress with a huge "v" held together by ties that went from her navel to just above her surprisingly big boobs. "Wow Lynn", I said with a leer, "you're quite a babe" "Thank you" she replied as she leaned toward me showing even more of her fine chest, "now mister can you please tell me when bingo starts"? For the next several hours, we talked together and danced a bit and surprisingly found that we had a lot in common in spite of the 15 year age difference. Both couples were very new to the lifestyle, and neither of us was sure how far we were willing to go in spite of our previous club experience. As you may recall from that story, the club has a nightclub area and a play area. The play area consists of two adjoining hallways with rooms opening off of each. Couples could take a stroll and pass about 20 doors, some open, some closed and there was, of course, the infamous glory room too. After midnight, there was almost always something to see and so the 4 of us decided to take a walk. Somehow, Lynn ended up with me and Leanne was walking ahead with Joe. We looked in one room and saw a rather overweight woman being eaten by her very skinny husband. "Oh Yuk" Lynn said quietly, "I’ve often thought I might want to play with another girl but looking there might have cured me". "Don't give up that easily" I said, "look there" We were standing in front of another open door where 3 couples were engaged in some serious play time. These folks were very attractive and we stood and watched for awhile. Lynn was leaning up against me with her left tit pushing firmly into my side. After a bit, my hand had found its way to the top of her thigh, where her dress ended and her leg began. She was warm and very firm and as we watched the show, my hand slid her dress higher and higher until I could run my palm over her right ass cheek protected by only the smallest of thongs. She was breathing heavily and I could look down and see her hard nipples protruding through the front of her dress. She rubbed her hand across the front of my slacks and found my erection which she squeezed a few times while we watched the other couples. I looked over at Joe and Leanne and whispered to Lynn, "look" Joe and Leanne were engrossed in watching the action, but Joe had slipped Leanne's top over her left tit and was slowly massaging it. "Joe" Lynn said somewhat sharply, "let's find a room". I looked over Lynn's head at Leanne who smiled and shrugged her shoulders. Luckily, we found an unoccupied room with only one bed. The four of us went in and Lynn firmly closed and locked the door and in one fluid motion, pulled her dress over her head. I gaped in surprise as she stood there in only her little thong. She was simply incredible. Her boobs were probably the same size as Leanne's with similar sized nipples but on her small frame, they looked huge. She had a flat tummy and a really fine ass which I got an even better look at when she slid her thong down her thighs and bent down to get it off her shoe. She sat down on the bed and pulled a standing Joe between her knees as she reached for his belt. "Right now" she said and unzipped his pants. "Right now Joe" and she leaned back showing a trimmed and very moist pussy. Joe follows orders quite well and stripped down and in one fluid motion, shoved his hard, thick but very average sized cock deep into her. Leanne had not been wasting time and walked past me to lay down naked on the bed next to Lynn in an obvious invitation to eat her. I got naked in a flash and went down on my wife who started to cum almost immediately. I looked over Leanne's pubic bone and caught Lynn's eye and winked at her. She smiled and tentatively reached out a hand to fondle Leanne's left tit. Joe must have been watching because he groaned once, said "think baseball" and then said "Oh shit" and groaned again and came deeply in his sexy wife. Lynn took her hand off of Leanne and slid it between her and Joe and as his dick started to soften, she brought herself to a tremendous orgasm. Lynn turned toward Leanne and Joe climbed on the bed to spoon his wife. Leanne pulled me up toward her, and as I got my erection close to her trimmed pussy, Lynn reached out and asked "May I?" "Sure" Leanne said and Lynn stroked my dick and guided it into my wife. Joe groaned again and said "damn, that's soooo hot". All the scenery earlier and Lynn's touch finished me much too soon and I had a very intense orgasm in my wife. I rolled off Leanne and ended up next to Lynn. As we calmed down from our orgasms, there was a little touching and feeling going on and Joe eventually ended up behind Leanne. After awhile, my fingers found their way through Lynn's bush and into her sopping pussy. She immediately started to move her hips wantonly. I heard Leanne gasp and felt her leg slip over mine which meant that she was on her belly giving Joe access to her ass and pussy. In no time flat, both girls got off again. Both of us guys were getting a little twitchy but Lynn put a stop to that quickly. "Listen you two" she said as she sat up, "this was great but we gotta go. I promised my mom that we'd be home for the kids before 2:00 and it'll be close if we leave now. Will you be back next weekend"? "Probably" Leanne said, "maybe we'll see you then". "I hope so" Lynn said as she impulsively leaned forward and kissed Leann's nipple. "Oh my" Lynn said blushing, "Oh MY"! We went back to the club the next Saturday and the Saturday after that. The evenings went pretty much the same as the first one. As the four of us got more comfortable with each other, there was more serious playing with each other's spouses, but it was still mostly just touching and rubbing and we ended up having sex with our wives only. Leanne and I talked about it several times and we thought maybe we'd eventually swap with them but Leanne was quite happy to take it slowly. We skipped the next Saturday but the next time we were at the club, Joe and Lynn were there and we had another great time at the bar and on the dance flow. Lynn was loosening up with me quite a bit and had taken to flashing those lovely tits at me quite often. "Much better" I thought "than the hoodie" About midnight, we went back to the back and found an empty room, again, with one bed. Lynn walked in in front of me, turned into my arms, and gave me the hottest kiss while I fondled her ass under her short skirt. Leanne was kissing Joe and had his dick out of his pants and was stroking it slowly. It struck me again how odd it was to see my lovely wife using her small hand to rub a strange cock. Somehow Leanne eventually ended up naked in my arms and Lynn was naked with her husband. He was kneeling over her head and she was sucking his dick. Leanne got up next to them and leaned over and kissed Joe while Lynn's hand found its way to Leanne's pussy. I was suddenly doing nothing but looked down toward the foot of the bed to see Lynn's lovely legs spread wide. I crawled between them and slowly worked my way to her pussy. This was the first taste I had had of her and it was excellent. She was very wet and got wetter as I went down on her. She started to whimper and pulled her head off of Joe's dick. Leanne dropped across Lynn and rubbed her tit across her face as she reached for Joe's dick. I looked up in time to watch his fat cock disappear in my wife's mouth. "Think baseball Joe" I said quietly. "Oh I know, Sam, I'm thinking already!" he replied huskily. Lynn had her first orgasm on my tongue as she moaned into Leanne's tit. As she came down from her cum, she pulled me onto the bed and slid down to take my dick in her mouth. It was wonderful and I closed my eyes to enjoy the sensation. After a few exquisite minutes, she stopped and said "Sam, look" I turned my head in time to see Joe behind my wife who was on all fours. His dick had been rubbing on top of her ass as he fondled her ass and legs. She looked me in the eyes and shifted her hips a bit. Joe's dick slid down her ass, and as she continued to look at me, she moved backwards. From her expression, I knew exactly when he entered her. "Look at that" Lynn whispered. She then leaned forward, gave my dick two quick licks and climbed on top of me. "I guess we're swapping" she said as she slid my cock into her pussy. I watched it disappear until I felt her pubic bone make contact with mine. She was very snug and had some terrific muscle control. It was a true pleasure to watch this beautiful young woman ride me. I could tell she was nearing an orgasm because her nipples hardened even more and a flush appeared across her chest. "Oh my god" she hissed, "I'M cumming". And cum she did. With her muscle control, I didn't last very long. As I started to moan, Joe asked "is he cummin in you baby"? "Is he"? he asked again. I pretty much answered him for her when I thrust upward, lifting her up off the bed a few inches "Ohhhhh shit" I moaned as I emptied my balls in her tightness. "Fuck" Joe said as he was in mid stroke with Leanne. He accidently pulled out and couldn't get back in in time and shot load after load over her ass. "Damn" he moaned, "I came all over you" "Not a problem hon" Leanne said as she reached between her legs and grabbed his still hard dick and slid it back into her. Two strokes were enough to get her over the top once more and after her orgasm, she collapsed on her stomach. Lynn disengaged from me and crawled over to my wife and licked all of Joe's semen from her ass while she slipped a hand between Leanne's legs and gave my wife another small orgasm. After some recovery time, we all got dressed and eventually walked out of the club together. Lynn was walking with me and Joe was with Leanne. Joe kissed my wife good bye, and Lynn wrapped her arms around me to kiss me and whispered, "This was way more fun than bingo, let’s do it again." And we did and we did until Leanne and I moved to Florida. We have discovered that our lifestyle friends are our best friends and John and Lynn are right at the top of our list. I just had an email from him last night and am hoping they can find a few days to cum south this fall. If they do, I'll be sure to take notes and pictures.
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1 pointWe are a bi couple who plays with other couples & single straight males. I present myself as Bi & when we discuss it with the other folks I state that it is not a necessity and we only do what everyone is comfortable with.
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1 pointWe just did something because my wife asked. We went to a very big fancy party. We had only played with friends to this point and now we have taken the next step, sex with strangers.
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1 pointAn ex-GF and I had a MFM with a friend of ours who was bi (I knew, she did not). She had expressed a curiosity of seeing two guys together so I decided to make it happen. When we got started, I whispered in her ear that I had a surprise for her. I guided her down on him and joined her there. the look on her face was great, as was his since he knew nothing of my plan beforehand. We quite enjoyed the rest of the night. He offered to blow me, but that wasn't my desire, it was strictly for her. My current wife knows the story and expressed a curiosity also and we've seen a couple of movies with this in it. She doesn't find anal between two men a turn on, but likes the oral aspect. If the opportunity is ever there, I'm not opposed, but it's not a priority to me. Whatever turns her on. While I'm not necessarily into another guy doing anal, we did just purchase a strap-on for her to try on me. You never know!!!
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1 pointWell...if you've seen a gangbang or one of the many videos/websites dedicated to the subject...I guess in a manner of speaking it is homoerotic, b/c (particuarly in the movies) you have very nice looking men standing around playing with their dicks, while waiting their turn. Part of the turn on may be from watching the other guys stroking themselves and of course watching the guys that are having at the female. I have yet to see one that turned into a free for all where the guys were doing each other as well as the woman. And I don't think that it has anything to do with 'latent homosexual tendencies' in the males. My interpretation of a gangbang is that it is esentially a loss of control for the female; a group of men, one after another just coming up and using you the way he wants. And that aspect may be what many men get off on during a gangbang. Altho, it's not like we're talking 'gang rape' here, most people pick who they want to participate and line out what activites are kosher and what are off limits....so it's a slightly controlled environment in a manner of speaking (so not a total loss of control...just an approximation perhaps). Maria
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1 pointI agree. I have lived in several different regions of the US and each place is different in what the general feeling is on M/M as well as F/F. I also agree that just because you like the same sex thing occasionally doesn't make you gay. I feel the more comfortable you are in your own skin, the more adventurous you will be. That being said, except for a few lap dances from female strippers, I have yet to do the F/F thing. I'm hopeful though.
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1 pointI don't know if it is a bisexual mm activity. But playing with our best friends dp is the wish of all ladies of our circle. Ans ourhusbands always emphasized it is great to feel the other cock. Of course it is not a mm but for women which like dp and the feeling of two cocks inside the men have automaticly an intimate contact.
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1 pointMake mine a triple ditto, Don’t tell me what I think. Let me tell you what I think…. Oh, wait I need to check with Mrs. Beaverz to see what I think. Crap, she’s not home, I’m screwed.
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1 pointI want to ditto Mr. Funk's somewhat forceful ditto. Make mine a double, please.
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1 pointA hearty and somewhat forceful ditto from me. Don't tell me what I think. My in-laws do that. I severely dislike that. I severely dislike my in-laws. Can we sense a pattern here? If you enjoy M/M activity, then by all means enjoy yourself. If you don't, then by all means go do what you enjoy. Just enjoy yourself and be happy - that's the most important thing. Mr. Funk Plugging in to a more peaceful groove now.
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1 pointWell, We've been in the "lifestyle" for seven years and we feel we can speak for many in the lifestyle who share our point of view when we say: "Don't speak for me." As a both bi couple it has been our experience that M/M activity and male bisexuality in general is far more popular than the average person tends to believe. Especially if you calculate in all of the "straight" guys that contact us because they are either curious or really bi, but fear being shunned by those who think bisexuality is "NOT ACCEPTABLE". For those of you who know us: You know these double standards drive us absolutely bonkers! (ah, and by the way: You may want to actually take a peek at the anonymous poll results (above)....there are several other polls on this board discussing male/male contact that reflect the same results. On a swingers board! OMG!)
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1 pointI think it depends on your locale. We've lived in various parts of this country and find that swingers have different comfort levels and social standards. It's quite a generalization and possibly stereotypical to assume you can speak for swingers in general. Perhaps, in your area, this behavior is shunned. In other areas, it's tolerable-to-welcomed. Our motto, to each his own, as long as he's having fun and no one is hurt in the process! We also wouldn't go so far to say that if a man engages in M/M activity he is gay. There are no blacks and whites. Just as in the comment about a man's wife not really being turned on for facials, she does them for him. We all make some sacrifices whereever our boundaries may be challenged. My husband has entertained the idea of a M/M encounter on my request. Had I not brought it up, he would certainly not have gone there himself. He's simply very comfortable in his own sexuality.
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1 pointNot into facials myself. Hub would love to see his cum all over a woman. I do not know what it is for him to think that. It must be a guy thing. I think it is gross to have cum all over my face. I am sure other women love it. More power all women who love it..
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1 pointI don't know about most women, but I don't like to have cum all over my face. Anal is another story
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1 pointI never thought about sucking a guy's cock until I had a 3some with a buddy and his wife and she wanted to see us suck each other's cock, it was very different and when I sucked him, he came all over my mouth and face and she licked it all off! The next time I loved sucking him. He came all over my chest and she licked it all off too! I tried anal one time with him as she watched, once he was in me, his cock hitting my prostate was a feeling that made me cum harder and shot more cum than I ever have. She sucked me as he fucked me. I am not into anal though, it is hard to get in, but I love sucking his cock while she watches.
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1 pointM/M doesn't disgust me, it just doesn't do anything for me. A little incidental contact like during DP doesn't squick me at all. So my answer isn't on your list.
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1 pointThat's a faulted comparison of what I said -- but if you want to make the comparison it would be: "Before she gets her coochie eaten she should eat a coochie..." this because it is a possible similarity. To say that she "should get a blow job before performing one" is a practical impossibility in most cases. Since it's not a practical stipulation, it would be assinine to suggest it as an alternative... Now, since the anal passage is essentially the same between male and female -- how is anal penetration physically any different between the sexes? Well, it's not. I will share though that my comments were not meant in complete and total sincerity -- it was a joke! Mostly a joke becasue I know full well that most men find the idea of putting their penis in a womans anus an appealing concept but consider having the exact same act performed on them completely unacceptable.
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1 pointI think that, before any guy is allowed to do anal with a woman -- he should have to receive anal first... and... before he is allowed to "do a facial" or before he asks her to swallow -- he should enjoy that experience first... personally, I just see MM as another extension of possible sexual behaviors. Of course, I also like to see RHPS ('cause some guys look good in stockings!)
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1 pointSince I've never even seen MM activity other than in videos I can't say I love it. I do more than tolerate which has a neutral to negative connotation. Love it for me is too much although that was my poll vote. I'd say intrigued.