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That was a turning point in my life, and not just sexually. It took me two years to let my husband have sex with another woman (and I had to be the one to choose her from among my friends and acquaintances) after him being good with me have a boyfriend. The women I chose at first were eager to have sex with hubby but didn't want me there to watch. I was unbelievably jealous, but also became addicted to the feeling and the thrill of getting my husband back - of him still wanting me after having her. What changed my life sexually was when I found women who would let me watch and participate. It amped up my jealousy, but it also made this 100% straight girl (and I was just a girl at the time) want to taste her on his dick; eat his cum out of her pussy. Clair opened me to my Lesbian side. It changed my/our life when Clair joined hubby, Red, and me living together to form a family. We had children; Lora joined our family; we had more children. So yeah, what I thought was going to be a one-time jealousy challenge for myself turned out totally differently than the "fantasy."

If you want to skip the intro, go to where the bold part is below. On Tuesday, the husband of one of the couples in our closed swing group, Ray, texted me. He said that he would be near where we live for work during the day, and could he stop by afterwards? This couple lives far enough away from us that, unlike some of the others, we only get together with them on weekends. I said sure, it would be great to see him, and could he stay for dinner? After dinner and our daughter was put to bed, we were talking and I asked, “Are you two going to have sex?” I presumed that Ray and Daniella had communicated beforehand arranging something, and that Ray’s text to me was a courtesy. They both looked surprised (to my surprise) and Ray said he didn’t know, that he just meant his visit as a social visit. I said that I had assumed that something had been arranged and it was up to them. Daniela called Ray’s wife on speaker and said that Ray had stopped by and asked Róisín if she could fuck him. She said yeah, sure if she could have a turn with me (!) again sometimes. ☺️ They kept talking about a bunch of other things that I didn’t know anything about, until I was left wondering. The call ends, Daniela gets up and tells Ray to “Come on,” heading to our bedroom. She told me to give them five minutes before coming in. I used the time to tidy up and make sure the alert was set and audible if our daughter woke up. When I went in, they were both naked, Daniela on her back at the edge of the bed and Ray eating her pussy, his hands on her breasts, getting good results from her. Daniela told me to sit down and leave them alone for now. She pulled Ray up and slid into the middle of the bed. He put his dick in her and they started what I had seen many times before, another guy fucking my wife. What was different with Ray is that he is really into breast play. My wife has beautiful tits (up high, symmetric, perfect nipples) but nothing spectacular in any way, just B/C size. Ray, however, almost constantly had his hands on them, massaging them, gently circling her nipples, flicking the tips… He pulled her back to the edge of the bed so he could stand and have both hands free to put on her tits. Sometimes he would have one hand on each tit, other times he would put both on one tit and be like he was molding them into something. Then doggy, with Daniela’s breasts hanging down. After a minute of holding her hips and thrusting while her tits swayed (but barely, because she doesn’t have much to sway), Ray let go of her hips and cupped her breasts. After a while, Daniela broke contact, forced him on his back and went cowgirl, which became another angle for him to play with her tits and nipples. Ray would push them up, to the sides, inwards. He had a specialty of nipple play, with them between his index finger and thumb or middle finger, tracing around her areolae, brushing against her nipples. I describe all of this because watching him play with my wife’s breasts the way he did was driving me crazy. Yeah, other guy’s have played with her tits, but it’s one of those things that seems to happen in passing as foreplay and stops when he gets his dick in her. Two things: usually when we’re playing it’s with other couples in our group, so it’s usually not just MFM and I’m fucking some other woman, and what I watch elsewhere if I’m in sight of others, is primarily a guy’s dick going in and out of a woman, my wife or another’s. It never bothered me to see another man put his dick in my wife’s mouth, cunt, or ass, but it was a gut punch (in a good way) to see another man feeling up my girl so thoroughly. The only other thing to do this to me was the first several times I saw Daniela having an MFM/DP where one of the guys wasn’t me. When they finished, Daniela asked me if I would like to “take a dip.” I sure did, she got into doggy position, and I went at it. Ray (that sly dog) went around the other side and stuck his dick in her mouth as he played with her hanging tits. Then we shared and took one breast each. I’m a slow cummer but this time came in less than 15 minutes. Afterwards, Daniela called Róisín again and said that she was sending Ray home. The girls said we should make arrangements for the four of us to get together some weekend. In retrospect, I suspect that Daniela and Ray hadn’t made any arrangements beforehand, but believe that she and Róisín took advantage of Ray being in the neighborhood and suggested that he stop by. If I hadn’t asked if they were going to screw, Daniela would have gotten around to suggesting it. From what I remember looking back on Róisín and Daniela playing together in some of our group settings, that may be the primary motivation. I figure they were talking and wanted to lick each other’s pussies and finger fuck, but Daniela having the opportunity to screw her husband was second best. Don’t know, don’t care, it was good all around. When Ray texted me on Wednesday saying that he had a nice evening, I replied that in the future he (or Róisín) can contact Daniela directly to set anything up even alone play, just give me an FYI at the end as to what’s up. Anyone else here really get excited about breast play in anyway?

That's my experience, not only with my barely there breasts, but also with Lora's and Clair's as well. We women pay more constant attention to each others tits than the guys. I hate it when a guy puts his dick in my mouth when I'm trying to cum. As I have gone from my teens/twenties to thirties, I find that I get more and more satisfaction from making others cum, in whatever way they prefer.

I do think if it happened and didn’t work out then we would be fine after we are a strong couple indeed, but personally I think if it happened she would enjoy it and want a few more people.

We only allow anal hole to hole to hole with a condom on and changing out condoms for each person until the last one, which is almost always bareback and gets cum filled. We do not however like condoms pussy to pussy or mouth to mouth ever, so boring and a waste of cum. Once someone has done bareback anal, it's off to the shower room for a good washing then they come back for more. Ever seen a live groups of guys in the showers at the same time? Oh my goodness, we never thought about shower scenes as a group until this happened the first time. People were remodeling their bathrooms for more room after that - lol. So much fun! The men say it is amazing going from one to another feeling the difference of each person. On the receiving end of it I agree and can only imagine how amazing it is for the men folk.

I've done oral and anal both ways with two other guys on separate occasions when the wives dared/demanded it of us. Although I had decent orgasms, I haven't done it since. You'd think that being in someone's mouth or ass wouldn't matter if it's a man or woman, but I wouldn't do it again with a guy. Actually, I don't do anal with a woman unless she prefers it, which is not often, or I got the back end of a DP. I much prefer pussy.

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I've come to understand that when David or Red (or sometimes even both) comes to me just for a quick bang, it is actually sweet, kind love. With two other women in the family, when it happens I'm actually flattered. And they are considerate to make certain that I get off (not very difficult) as well. Interestingly, the role playing stuff happens more between us women. Especially Lora and me - we go through a ritual of insults, fighting, informal light s&m before making sweet, kind, gentle love.

Yes. closest we got to airtight was strap on vaginal. The other guy in Ms Shy mouth and I attempted back door. All of us we’re pretty hammered and couldn’t hold the position very long but not uncommon for us to be involved in spot roast or “wobbly H” one of my “Mr. Shy” vest memories was Mrs. Shy riding me cowgirl, the other girl straddling my face, and both giving oral to the other guy. It was heaven from where I laid.

I know the OP is long gone and hopefully has it all worked out. I am commenting for the sake of wanting to comment on this portion of this post for future readers. I totally get the above. Even given my very liberal sexual background and even when we met in at several sex parties, when my husband & I married mostly what I wanted from him was, "to be made love to." Sure we had those sex it up times but it was years before I craved them. I had been used and then some. Over time when we'd RP I would get into it so wild my husband said I was an entirely different person. The rest of the time it was sweet, kind, loving, so different. When the RP headed towards DP I learned it could be as intimate if not more. Over more time I discovered hard core sex for us on occasion became as intimate, well connected, bonded, and loving as the tender sweet moments. I still love sweet sex but we both connect in so many ways doing so many things these days, even with others involved. With all of that said, there is something totally different about when the ladies or the other husbands ravage me than when my husband does. It is way more raw with others.

Ditto if you ever move forward - we tried it other ways - never ever worked out as well as is does with couples, even if one is not participated but are present (never separate for us). Okay I had to laugh at this because you men and your penises - lol. It's so true and so funny. Don't ever make decisions when you are aroused, it's sort of like going to the grocery store when you are super hungry. I believe generally it is as bad for guys, but I also cannot make as clear of a decision when I am super uber turned on. My husband can't when barely aroused. Check 1. Limit was made. Check 2. Perhaps planned or perhaps is progressing forward - no matter, it's too bad you made it clear. Check 3. She agreed. Check 4. It takes two in agreement to change the rules! Good job NWAltSwing. Glad to hear you are ceasing swinging for now. Great analogy using chess bbarns & discreetplay. We have run across many husbands who cannot handle seeing another guy touch their wife, even after all the prep, sex talk, stripping, getting frothy, the husband moves to another woman, a man moves to his wife, and WHAM! He freezes. We can see it in their eyes, minds, bodies. It's like throw a blanket on them and get them out of the fire. Amen, amen, amen to this!!! Well said. We have only seen this with the husband, never the wives but no matter, the affects and ripples would be bad. Never worth compromising your marriage. Based on your Name and your statement, "We’ve been married for 8 years and the sex has always been fantastic," sex, marriage, and life was thumbs up so continue to play as a couple within the marriage. My husband RP all sorts of crazy fun way using all types of toys, devices, machines, and what not. We stayed very satisfied during covid. The only reason we went back to our couples and group was the long term friendships, yeah the other is amazing but so is sex with each other. Play all you can with each other, go back to enoying one another. And don't forget what you and I typed earlier, that other thing that often thinks for you guys - that darn third leg/second brain. Glad you are listening to your heart. The stories are haunting. A bit apropos since Halloween is just around the corner. Again I am glad you are steering clear it all which leads back to my first comment, "If you do ever move forward, I highly recommend nothing ever alone, either of you. Save guard your marriage and keep everything an adventure together. You are a couple for goodness sakes why would you want to miss out on new experiences like this together? My husband & I share such a connection when we are right there together, we don't even like being across the room. I love to look into his eyes as often as possible.

My husband agrees with you, he prefers V much more. I does enjoy anal on me stating that the visual is stunning and he knows how much I enjoy it. Even in DP he prefers being in vaginally but will do whatever is necessary in the moment. I never knew this until we talked about my response to your post Numex, but he told me that being in me vaginally when another guy is in me anally is one of the most amazing ways ever to make love to me. I had no idea. I never equated DP with another person with making love but more of having freaky wild sex. He said that he can feel so much more. Then it occurred to me, what about when he is on top in me and a guy takes him. He said is is just as amazing but that the anal on him makes it more difficult to think of it as making love mentally, which make sense to us. So back to the topic of the thread, currently he prefers me on top riding him - no matter the hole leaning more towards anal. Recently he has had a few of the other wives on their back orgasming under his pounding only to tilt so much with their legs that we wound up taking them anally to screaming and orgasming even more. I saw it. It was as hot for me and him as it was for the other wives. He said that was very unexpected and fun. We have since done this ourselves and low and behold we have a new favorite. As for him taking it anally, doggy or any variation of being bent over, especially while in me as I wrote a sec ago. He said having someone sucking him off while taking it anally is also another position so whatever works best for each pair in each instance is fine by him. I personally like to be in a 69 with him helping a guy take him on his back while another take me over his face and feds him back and forth. Mirrors make for amazing viewing as does cam playback.

My wife's nipples are very sensitive, and she thoroughly enjoys them being played with. I've never gotten her to orgasm with that alone, nor has any play partner, but it really gets her going. A few minutes of breast massage, and she is dripping wet and ready. When I'm giving oral sex (to her, or any other woman) I'll involve breast play, while reading the woman for response to everything. For me in swinging, the best pleasure for me is getting another woman to cum. A recent partner told me beforehand that she rarely cums, and it's difficult to get her there, but she really enjoys it all. I took that as a challenge and did get her to cum, and it involved breast play. Many years ago, I had a several night fling with a young lady who had rather large breasts. I was fascinated with her for many reasons, her breasts being among them. Interestingly, my playing with her breasts had absolutely no sexual stimulus effect on her at all. She told me it just felt like I was touching any other part of her skin, and didn't induce any particular response. It didn't stop me from trying, but it really had no effect on her. Every person is different.

Update about the men in our group, they are getting much better with DP in a variety of forms. DVP is almost always after many many many times of being penetrated, multi orgasms, lots of oral and play, you know when we are all loosie goosy. DPAV? DAVP? What is the correct acronym for that? DP one anal and one vaginal - lol. I can't remember. This is what happens when my husband is traveling without me and I am sex starved. Anyway, DAVP still produces the Biggest Most MultiOrgasmic body/mind altering transcendence.

The talk she says is more along the lines of going to a club or a sex shop and just fucking in there with someone random she says it’s the thrill of it and also the dirty sex, as she says to have that experience it would only have to be without a condom on, bare sex the only way, would you happy let her do it?

Absolutely! I'm a boob guy, and Marie loves it when I play with her 38DDs and give her a nice "titty massage." One incredible experience happened a couple of weeks after she gave birth. She was still not ready for intercourse, so I was sitting behind her with her laying against me. My hands were wrapped around her body giving her a titty massage when she started really getting into it. Really into it.......then she started cumming! WTF??!! Turns out, the nipples are connected to the clitoris and these types of orgasms can happen fairly regularly if you arouse the woman enough. Well that night, about a half hour of titty play resulted in an incredible orgasm for her. We were both shocked! Also, I regularly perform oral with one hand reaching up and massaging and pinching a nipple while I finger and lick her. I enjoy pleasuring her and she is really into this type of foreplay. It's incredible for both of us! Oh, and she also loves her clamps.....😈 M&M

I respectfully disagree with that thought. Go in with the mindset that if it doesn't work for one or both of you, talk about it, see what adjustments can be made, try again. If you two decide it just isn't for you, stop and continue life without any blame either way. It's like anything else in life, it's not necessary going to be perfect the first time. This is an adventure, a journey you two will be taking together.

Yes. There are plenty of people on this forum (usually guys) who are ask, "How can I get my spouse interested in swinging?" I don't think it's too far, just consider the risks. The risks depend though on how unknown the stranger is. Someone at a truck stop? High risk for assault or disease. Someone who you meet several times socially and get a measure of before getting around to sex, much safer. Everyone you have ever known (except your parents) was a stranger at some point.

Hello FreshCouple607, Welcome. One bit of advice; you can find something until you know what it is that you are looking for. Have the two of you sat down and really dug into what you are looking to get out of this pursuit? If not, do this before you go any further. Re: the friends or strangers, what we can offer is that the predominant view here seems to reflect a preference for making friends out of play partners rather than trying to make play partners out of friends. Find people you click with and be open and honest with them; things will progress at the rate of the slowest horse as they say, accept that.

I never knew there were so many DP positions. I want to try them all!

Thanks, I honestly didn’t realize there was a difference but it makes more sense now. I guess what we’ve been doing is FFM since everyone played with everyone. btw I made my position clear and that’s the end of that hopefully. I even said no to the FFM threesomes and are basically just chilling on ls for now. there was some pushback but this was one position I wasn’t willing to compromise on. It’s weird because I’ll see MFM in couples porn occasionally or on sites like these and it’s very hot, but I can’t bring myself to it just yet. I’m sure I’d be down with couple swap but for now we’re gonna cool it i appreciate all advice given on this topic and wish I’d been on this forum sooner, very mature discourse on a very delicate subject. people in general already tapdance around vanilla sex and so it’s nice to see direct discussion on LS sex

Like many others have said in the heat of the moment and when everything is coming down are two different worlds. Have sex, enjoy yourselves and after both of you have calmed down then bring it up and discuss if this is something you enjoy as a game or are you actually curious about looking into it. Using toys and talking naughty or very different then actually seeing someone you love with someone else.

One bit of advice if you do decide to do it. If you are posting on a lifestyle site looking for someone, you may want to say you are interested in a MFM. I think that when most people see MMF they are looking for bi play from the men. Others may have more experience.

Before you make a marriage ending decision you might want to type “taking one for the team “ in the search engine and read through the hundreds of horror stories and marriage destruction done from doing it. if you can’t honestly say “ honey, watching you fuck another man turns me on big time” than you have no business doing it.

That's how I see it as well. We went into this lifestyle because my SO wanted to satisfy her craving for a female. Finding a single female isn't easy so we first went with a couple where the ladies played and the guys stayed with their partners. At that point we discussed whether we wanted to go further. Your wife suggesting a FMF where she didn't want to engage with the female is strange, which is why I'm leaning towards a strategic move to get an MFM as discreetplay said. I disagree with taking one for the team. The way you're writing makes me think watching another male with your wife would lead to destruction of the relationship. That's your answer. Stop bringing others into your bedroom.

Oh man, I didn’t expect to find people so understanding 😭 im still struggling with the decision. my brain says yes but my heart says hell no.

As a chess player, I'm sure you can appreciate how hard it would be if the rules of the game changed in the middle of the game such that bishops acted like queens all of a sudden, but you don't have bishops left. I agree wholeheartedly with NWAtlSwing. You need to stop swinging to sort this out. Some guys can't handle watching their wives with another man. It's totally understandable. If that's not something you can handle, then don't. It doesn't make you week or any other negative term.

It sounds like you laid down what your limits were ahead of time and were clear that you did not want to see her with another guy. If she called for the FFM so she could lay the ground work for a MMF that was on her and duplicitous. Now, it may be she has tasted this and wants something different, i.e. she changed her mind. That is too bad, because you have been clear this is not a place you want to go. It would be no different if you said your limits where no penetration and she agreed and then wanted to change her mind. It takes two to change the rules, period. Stop all swinging until this is addressed. You have played by the rules and have nothing to be guilty for.

Come on; let her have some new dick! She'll still like yours best.

As a chess player I can’t believe I didn’t see it coming. I mean I guess I did, and even vocalized my concern… but then you start thinking with your dick and ignore the obvious. no, she doesn’t want me to explore the other guy, she wants to explore another dick. I don’t think it’s even so much about having two at once as much as it is about having a new one

This is the compromise I’ve been considering

So she suggested a threesome with a woman not because she wanted to explore a woman but because she wanted to see you with another woman. Now she wants a threesome with two males. Do you not play chess? The original suggestion of a two female threesome was obviously leading to this. It was a very strategic move. She sacrificed her queen and backed you into a corner. You write she wants an "MMF". Is she wanting to see you explore the other guy?

Here is an interesting guide to the various dp positions. A lot variety. https://shesclawsdeep.wordpress.com/2018/10/10/the-fuck-yeah-friendly-fire-guide-to-double/

I remember a joke I heard years ago about a couple who would put a quarter in a jar every time they had sex the first five years of marriage and remove a dollar every time after the five years. Ten years later they still had a jar of coins. We tried something different, I put ten dollars in every time we had sex and she could take twenty out when she gave me a full blow job. Happily I keep replenishing the bank.

I have been paid for sex. Honey has been paid to have sex. We were paid not by the person we had sex with, we were paid by a gentleman who likes to watch sex. Neither Honey or I have been forced to do this and the last time we talked about the sex we are having we are both enjoying the sex. To the truth we have had sex with those same people at home with no money exchanged.

You listed all the evils of prostitution but you miss the basic premise of the original poster, would you sell your sex. No exploitation, no trafficking, no drug addiction, no underage sex, no servitude, just sex by a willing adult for cash. You are thinking in antiquated ways, many of the ills of your generation have now become mainstream and accepted. How many of your listed social ills can be connected to liquor and the prohibition, gambling which is now not only illegal but promoted by the sports that have in the past fought to prohibit, and cannabis sales that have now been legalized in many states, all had been connected to organized crime and other so called social ills. Have you forgotten that sex outside of marriage was illegal, sodomy was illegal, interracial marriage was illegal, homosexuality was illegal. What we have found is that those who force their own opinions on others do so because are lacking in other parts of their lives. It is a person’s insecurities that make bullies. It is comparable to the man who has to have a big car to make up for what they lack in other departments. Have a good day Andrew. ROAR!!!!

I am going to agree with this statement. We are here to discuss the pleasures of swinging not to be dismissed as ignorant or be taught any takes on morality. I have been in contact with Lioness and she surely has not lost her roar. She is a beautiful young lady who has shared her journey from the beginnings with well thought posts that many on here have enjoyed. Does anyone here wonder why a poster suddenly disappeared, what happened to that poster? Was it health, Covid? I feel some posters died over the last few years in the same percentages as the general public. Do posters leave because they quit the lifestyle finding it was not for them. Are there those home life problems that some couples go through in life not having anything to do with the lifestyle? Or is it “toxicity” as noted? This thread was a question, Would you sell your sex IF it were legal. Simple question, Yes or No, not asking for your opinion on the blight of prostitution on your community. I ask why this community has turned into just another divisive way to push your thoughts on everyone. Peter you are correct in my opinion, though you do know what they say about opinions. To answer the original post, Alan and I have accepted dinners from those we have met. We are not involved in sex trafficking, drugs, or running a brothel next to your grandmother. We have met others at our home for sex, maybe we are a brothel in someone’s opinion.

Thank you Petra Don’t know if I am welcomed back by all the others. Posts like this scare me away. I can handle self absorbed people but ask why I should get worked up by someone who thinks they are the brightest star. Why do I need to argue and have anxiety, I have nothing I need to prove, I just look and things from another side and share. Opinions are just that, there are just too many who have been taking their opinions way too far. A nice person just sent a DM thinking that I stopped posting due to harassment, it wasn’t the primary reason. I have had some personal issues that a bigger influence on my absence.

When we do 3sums and gangbangs, me wife always wants DPV

I'm in that boat, I can actually orgasm more easily than before the prostate surgery, but I'm somewhere between limp and kinda erect. Of course no ejaculate, except for now and then, if I've been edged for a while, the cowpers gland provides some juice that is about like girl squirt. I'm bi, so i can also say that anal is still great, but it no longer gets me to orgasm by itself with no prostate to stimulate. But oral is as good as it ever was, and since I love giving as much as getting, it;'s still all good!

We attended the club a few weeks back and I was totally unaware of the conspiracy going on over me between a couple we have known for sometime, my wife and a woman that came as a guest with the couple. The evening started off as normal catching up with friends, stories and laughter. I met the friend, I’ll call her Pam, she was a quiet shy woman late fourties’ short dark hair very very thin. She seemed a bit nervous but over the next hour or so at the table we all talked and in time she relaxed and joined in. While I was talking about an up coming bike ride the ladies had been talking between themselves. Something was said, we didn’t hear, that made them laugh. Pam busted out with a loud belly laugh that obviously caught her off guard…she caught herself, hand over her mouth and we all laughed more at her shocked look. That broke any remaining ice on her part. As the evening progressed people were splitting off in pairs, threesomes, foursomes and moresomes. A typical club evening. That is when the wife of the couple and my wife approached me when Pam excused herself to the ladies room. M told me about Pam, how long they have known her. How they valued their long friendship and chose to not include sharing sex play but that Pam was very curious and interested. M said she wanted her friend to have a very good experience and wanted me to ask Pam to join me. She knew I would only do what she was willing to do and not push her into things she might not be ready for. M and my wife then gave me some back ground on Pam’s past let’s just say it wasn’t pleasant and her ex was a huge Ahole. so I guess while I was busy discussing bikes, rides and an upcoming holiday ride the ladies were telling Pam about me and building her confidence. Pam returned and we started talking her and I. Just natural conversation. M her husband and my wife left together for a room and Pam and I remained. In time I asked Pam she would like to join me in a room. She looked a bit startled and blushed quite a bit. I thought I had blown it. But Pam nodded her head yes. I stood and reach out for her hand. She took mine and I walked her down to a closed room with gentle lighting, a double bed and mirrored wall. I looked at her and smiled she quietly smiled back at me and stepped into the room……. with permission from Pam I will be writing a story of this adventure later. In conversation with Pam she later explained to me the conversation she had over weeks with M and her husband and later on the phone with M and my wife. Pam’s hesitation at first but later her agreement and later meeting that evening. Her nervousness. putting this all together it was my wife and friends conspiring to pimp me out. I am flattered of course…..and greatly happy meeting Pam. But my wife pimped me out…..lol damn.

She’s trying to top you from the bottom. If you decide this lifestyle is for you, get your shit squared away. Otherwise there’s going to be severe consequences.

The general consensus/rule seems to be "never go ass to pussy" or mouth. That's certainly our rule. Question: Is a guy allowed to go from one girl's bum hole to another? It's happened strictly within our family several times, however, when a guy is up in a bum he almost always cums quickly. (OTOH, A guy going from pussy to pussy, or a woman switching dicks midcourse before either orgasms, is usual play.)

The wife and I have had this experience once. She was seeing a vetted younger guy and she mentioned to him that she wanted me to join their next adventure. They met at a hotel, I was sitting in a chair in the corner of the room, he came in and said hello then we all had a few drinks- she was playfully flirting and touching his arm and chest often. She then kissed him and she slid her hand down to his bulge, stroking him over his pants, he then took her top off and she unclasp her bra and her amazing huge tits fell. He began sucking on them and slid his hand down to her cameltoe where he slid his fingers up and down. They took off their clothes as I was stroking my bwc in the corner, they made their way to bed and he layed her down. He had a 7 inch cock, slender cock but she liked it. They were kissing and he slid the tip of his cock into her wet pussy. He fucked her for about 10 mins missionary, I undressed completely and was still stroking my cock. She then climbed on top of him, it was at this point that I grabbed the astroglide and approached her and pushed her forward. I put lube on her tight asshole and my thick cock and told them not to move, I put my cock in her ass and thrust forward, had to get the timing right with her an him, as he was thrusting I was pulling out slightly till we got into a rhythm, I shot a torrent of hot cum in her ass in about 10 mins, he pulled out of her and came on his own chest and stomach, she orgasmed shortly before that. It was one of the hottest times we’ve had.

I have been involved in many DP and DVP scenarios with my with. Though I admittedly enjoy it. I get a special thrill seeing her ravaged by others . When guys are able to get in that rhythm and even make her air tight. I’m at a loss

That's not unusual, a guy in my bum (any bum) cums pretty quickly. For that reason, and because I can cum multiple times, the guy going up my bum usually has a first round in my or another pussy. His second orgasm takes longer that way and all three of us get to enjoy the DP longer. Also, the first, larger deposit of semen goes where it is more appreciated.

So the fact that I have asked for it means nothing? I liked it when a man first suggested it and found it hot. I have done it with my husband and with two other men as well. We both like it. I like it in most of the MMF we have done.

Well, my SLS tagline is “Nothing beats fucking a wife in front of her husband except fucking a husband in front of her wife... LOVE the power exchange aspect of being a top, fucking a man in a role reversal of sorts, while his wife fondles his balls or my asshole or her own pussy.