Ours was pretty simple. I knew that Daniela was used to sexual variety and I was fine with her having sex with other men and women. We started in the lifestyle by Daniela "hotwifing" so she could feel comfortable and because she gave me all the sex I needed. She started playing alone with two exes (separately) because she still likes them and the sex they had, it was safe, and for me it was no big deal since she had fucked them many times before. We met with the other guy twice socially before they started playing so everything was known and clear to everybody - she is married, I was good with it, etc. After fucking him several times and telling me about it the way she wanted and in as much little or detail as she wanted, she wanted me there. Neither of us had any kind of threesome before, this was the first. It was oral on him, he fucked and came in her, then I fucked her sloppy seconds. Pretty much the same with the second guy.