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Whaaaaaa? If a man I suck off will not kiss me with his cum/cock flavor/taste in my mouth then there is no way I am ever going back down there. Sharing is caring, not kissing me is, well it is just down right rude, especially after what I just did.

I wish the best for both of you. You are a wonderful, supportive man.

I honestly wish you two the best of luck and hope you can get over this hump! It didn’t work that way for myself, but everyone deals with the sickness that is depression differently. Although I do not suffer with depression myself it is something I have been around most of my adult life. My 21 year old daughter suffers from it and my other 25 year old daughter suffers from anxiety. They are both on the same meds that help them and have their lives on track thankfully. When you are the one supporting remember there is only so much you can do and sometimes when trying to do to much you will only get pushed away. Again good luck to both of you! I am not one to push meds by any means, but for some people it can really help them deal with day to day life better.

Thankfully my wife is actively seeking help. This is a part of why I also refuse to give up on her, as she isn't choosing to do nothing. You are correct though. This does have a toll. And if not careful can easily spread the depression. If in the end, my wife decides she will find her happiness without me, I will bow out in full support of that. But thus far, she has stressed that she cherishes my being in her life. Depression is definitely a curse, and like a cancer can spread or weigh on even the most resilient.

Unfortunately that wouldn't fly. Not because I wouldn't be willing, but actually because she isn't interested in playing solo. She has voiced this, and has also voiced that if it's not something we do as a couple, then it's not something she would be interested in. In terms of playing with others, the only thing she is open to, at best: my sitting back while she plays with someone else for a time. And if she voiced she wanted it today, I would set it up asap. But the issue is that in her state, whilst still interested in swinging, even saying she wants to continue, she is reluctant to actually go forward with anything. At the moment, in support, I have accepted taking a break ith any sort of swinging until she is ready. That also includes sex with myself. So there isn't a pressure to please me, in fact, if I am honest, at this point, I don't even remember the last time we had sex.

Do you do show and tell here? Genitals like noses are all different, some big, some small, some attractive, some not so much but they all serve a purpose. I rather see a pussy with lips not where there is nothing to see. A clitoris that protrudes is an invitation to say here I am. I watched Honey with men who are long and thin, short and fat, some straight, some hook, isn’t that the reason to play, to experience variety. I can picture a stoned woman looking at a cock and making a comment about beauty. Sounds like a fun lady. Lucky you.

"if" prepared with it... it will or can be great. You see you desire another woman, why not let her have another man? Seeing your SO with another after the initial "weirdness" is amazing. From the second he enters her to when they orgasm... seeing him unleash his load is amazing.... and nerve racking. Try it..

I would tell it would always be a mix of both regular and new partners. Both have their own advantages. For Tomy he prefers always new partners as he likes variety and for me it is about mix of both. The regulars know what you like and how and the new ones is always an experiment.

Yes, the two of you have an amazing open relationship, not many newbies can handle that from what I have seen. The two newest couples in our group nearly panicked at first when a mate walked out of the room. They are getting more acclimated.

Come on; let her have some new dick! She'll still like yours best.

That is what swinging should be, talking after is very much part of the fun Kissing is situational for us. Some men think they should kiss if they are having sex, for me if I am meeting a man for sex I don’t need to be kissed. If we will have a relationship I want to know your name, if it’s a one time thing I don’t care who you are. I have said before that size is more visual, less sexual. Seeing a bigger one is exciting, perfectly shaped I can also understand the gorgeous remark. Proportionate head to shaft to balls. Clean looking. PJ I’m sure you have a preference on what a pussy should look like, it has nothing to do with the person. Some people are just better looking overall.

All of the above. A piece of advice when a boundary is transgressed, a feeling hurt, a trust violated: Forgive and Remember.

In the beginning we had a bunch of rules, but now we do not. In the beginning I had a few minor slip ups, in the heat of the moment, and he had a major slip up. In each case we talked about the transgression, apologies were made, and then I point blank asked him if he wanted to stop or continue. Cause that is what it comes down to. I can't go back in time and take it back, I can only apologize and promise not to break the rule again. Reset the clear boundaries. I am not a child and I will not be scolded nor will I scold because he is not a child. In every instance he wanted to continue in the lifestyle so we recalibrate the rules and kept moving forward. Hope that helps, I know it sounds a little harsh but it's the truth. Good luck.

Usually if a person is playing more than one step ahead of their spouse, they often already have someone in mind and possibly have a plan b. Be very careful when the situation starts with manipulation.