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Long long time ago I was with a very hot young lady that excited me very quickly, too quickly. She wasn’t ready to stop and she rolled me over and lowered herself on my face with all my sticky icky still coming out. She knew what she wanted and I was afraid to not grant her wish. My first old fashioned cocktail.

1 Corinthians 13 1 Love is patient, love is kind... it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

That's pretty funny. Bingo. The lifestyle is supposed to be sexual fun. Meeting up with a couple where one or both have issues is such a turnoff. I've come across couples where the woman was pretty. Not a super model, but who is. We met for drinks, some appetizers. The woman just kept complaining about her weight (she was probably 5'6 150, nowhere near heavy). She complained about her calves being too big. It just went on and on. As pretty as she was, I didn't want anything to do with the headache when she took her clothes off and started complaining about who-knows-what. Sadly no action occurred and we decided to not meet up with them again. Had she not been such a complainer, we could have had some great fun.

I've tasted mine. I was quite curious because I've read about and heard so many women saying they hate the taste, it's gross, etc. I figured if I wanted a woman to take it in her mouth, I should know what it tastes like. Honestly, it isn't horrible.

But back to the OP's original transgression, they had been having sex as a couple within a group for what sounded like several hours. When he left for condoms for a few minutes she didn't see that starting up with one of the guys she had been fucking on the same night was cheating. For chrissake, she knew he would be back momentarily with condoms, presumably to fuck one of the other girls at the party!

I tasted mine at an early age, not long after I started masturbating. It satisfied my curiosity, but I didn't do it much thereafter until I started having sex and would suck a dick in between him being in my vagina. It was exciting, but what I really enjoy now is a mixture of our juices or a guy's and another woman's. Or just another woman's licking her.

Oh, swallow. The guys love it ! It's only second to them wanting to have sex with you ! (smidgen of sarcasm, lots of truth)

She has always been a swallower and knows just how to apply the perfect sucking pressure to the finish. I was surprised one night when she knew I was about to cum that she took her mouth off and pumped me into her mouth. It seems that a man she met enjoyed that and she thought I would too.

Dang right. Adult fun. I totally agree with the confidence statement. In our time in the lifestyle we've found that the most fun is with people out to have fun. Looks matter to the point of getting to a meeting. It is attitude that makes the clothes come off. It is attitude that makes an evening fun. When I'm naked who knows what other people are thinking. Doesn't matter. My oral skills, the way I ride the other guy, I can't imagine the other husband is thinking about my thighs or the extra couple pounds. I'm using him for my pleasure and I'm giving him something to remember. It's about fun not extra skin, pounds, small boobs, whatever.

Same reason here. I started with the pre-cum, which I found quite sweet. I moved to tasting actual semen. I did this via masturbation close to finishing and dripping some. Again, I didn't find it to taste bad at all. I finally decided to try a full load, thinking maybe the amount plus the taste was what women had issues with. I came into a shot glass and drank it. I did this on a random day (had sex a couple times that week) and the amount and viscosity was no big deal. I then did it again after being celibate for a week. The viscosity was definitely thicker, amount was slightly more. I didn't think it was any worse. I really don't understand the complaints about it.

In a marriage, even non-swingers, we all make mistakes. If you cannot forgive each other and move on from those mistakes, the marriage is in trouble. We are not "cops" to our spouses.

I had mine about 9-10 years ago. I describe myself as great looking in clothes…..naked I look like a shar-pei puppy…..TMI??? Lol Look it is all about you and how you feel. There are many…very many swingers male and female, younger and older that are heavier, larger, skinnier, soft bodied hard bodied. This lifestyle never has any guarantee of connection….just the ability to meet others. You will be someone’s cup of tea….for many but not all. This is true no matter what. having confidence in yourself is the biggest turn on you can ever portrait. there are thousands of lifestylers that have had weight loss and weight loss surgery. you are not alone. If you ever need to talk about it……I’m always available.

My wife likes the "Newness" factor, but I just prefer "Different". The best experiences I've had in the lifestyle have never come from first encounters. So for us, the happy medium is having an ever-changing group of couples. Couples come in and out all the time for various reasons. I think for me its about building a certain level of trust with a partner (And possibly her spouse).

Michael has no problem with me enjoying a random man we can talk into joining us in a hotel room. I feel the excitement of the whole meeting starts with our conversation with a stranger, how they will react and what will happen. Most men we engage are happy to get a blow job, many will have full sex. Some will get hard immediately, some can’t. Some will go 10 seconds, some go very long. I normally say size doesn’t matter yet it does in the first viewing if he is outside a normal average. Pickups are not the only meetings we have, it is a fun side of our swinging. Convincing a couple is much harder to accomplish, very rare, and then there was a one couple who we have stayed in touch with who doesn’t live near us.

Our #1 rule in the lifestyle is 'any mistake that is innocently made is immediately forgiven'. We've both messed up on accident, in the heat of the moment going further than our rules really allow. We've never done anything that would put the other at risk (eg unprotected sex) and we've never done anything that was not, sincerely, a minor slip up. So, in your case it seems totally understandable how that mistake could happen and it doesn't seem like a big deal... I think he should be able to get past it

All of the above. A piece of advice when a boundary is transgressed, a feeling hurt, a trust violated: Forgive and Remember.

I think you've already handled it, and handled it well. One thing you might consider; suggest to him, in a non-accusatory way, that you don't want to be alone without him in a swinging situation. Make it a pact between the two of you that if one of you needs to leave the room for a bit for whatever reason, that you both do. Aphroditee is right; you can't change the past. All you can do is move forward from it taking the lessons from the past into the future.

Right there with you. If you blow a guy to climax, you'll likely get the first pump in your mouth. So even spitting it out leaves some of the taste. If you give blowjobs regularly, you know when the guy if about to cum. His body language gives it away (and many times he moan 'I'm going to cum'). I guess you can pull it out right before he cums but that seems like a let down for him. If you pull the head towards the back of your throat, the cum gets pumped down your throat, avoiding the taste buds on your tongue. For me, I enjoy the taste of Mr's cum. I swallow every time I finish him with my mouth.

I swallow if the guy deserves it. To me, swallowing is a sign of attraction and compatibility. If I meet a guy at at swing party or event and we have great conversation and he's an overall nice guy, I'll swallow his load if it gets to that point. I like cum, but love it if it comes from a nice guy.

I don’t think any straight guy can understand what a girl is going through the first time she is giving a blowjob. My girlfriend gave a boy a blow job before me and warned me about her first time and she let him out of her mouth and got a mess on her clothing. Her next time she swallowed and said it wasn’t bad. Me being a cool friend I offered her brother a blow job. He knew it was my first time so he just opened his pants and let me go slow. I kissed it and kissed it. He said I could take it in my mouth. He was teaching me. He had slowed me and told me to stop and I thought maybe he was finished and then he was sliding in and out. When he came I swallowed and then another gush and another. Felt like he was gushing a cup full and I swallowed as fast as I could. I later told my friend that it wasn’t bad, in fact I was afraid I was going to come off as not knowing what I was doing.

I don’t think he was looking to choke me, make me gag or vomit, I think he wasn’t thinking about anything but cumming. He wasn’t that type of guy. He had apologized for it after and the laugh might have been a way of laughing off his quickness. My gag reflex took over as it was a first for me. For men who use a mouth to facefu.. and you wondering what satisfaction she gets, sex is one of those things that is hard to explain what excites one person and not another. Is exciting your partner a fetish? Do you get excited giving oral to your GF? I can tell you I can get a little rough on a guy’s face when I’m excited. A good nose is a horrible thing to waste.

What was thrill for you? Doing something behind your husbands back or that you knew you were going to get caught? Or both? 😕