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I enjoy being skin to skin with like minded people and it is all about warmth and personality, it is not a physical beauty contest.

My guys don't even get jealous when another guy puts his dick in me, or Clair or Lora. When a gyno doctor put that sheet up over my knees to block the view, I ask what was the purpose. He said, "Privacy." I took it down and said he's looking in my cunt, so how does this help privacy? No answer. Plus, it was easier to talk to him without the tent in the way.

Confidence is so much hotter than physical attraction for me.

Having fun and having serious conversations is all part of life. We were with our new friends when the talk turned to medical exams with the ladies talking about mammograms and pelvic exams and the men saying things about hernia checks. One of the guys brought up prostate exams which I remember my father would joke about with his friends when I was younger. At the time I had no clue to dropping your underwear and bending over for a doctor. The women asked if I thought it was easy putting legs in stirrups to be explored. Conversations opened up about prostate exploitation and how it isn’t bad. I could tell some of the guys were opening up to the joy of prostate. These are new friends of ours that have opened some new sexual situations for Lin and me. Linda had anal sex with more than one of the men, double penetration, women always my focus. I wasn’t going to allow any of the men explore me like that, no apologies from me. I heard PJ drop your drawers from one of the women. Butt play for me was fun, not deep exploration. Now clothes off I’m told bend over, a wet wipe I guessed for hygiene then a tongue exploring. Everyone watching and laughing as I was very hard and trying to act naturally a second friend decided to help. Ready for the exam? I’ve had a finger in me before, not deep, now I felt a deeper probe and heard bigger laughs. Then she hit it and started rubbing, I didn’t know how to react. Then a mouth taking my cock in and the massage in my butt. It wasn’t the sexiest setting, people watching and cheering. She called it milking and I have now had my first prostate exam. I’m thinking my dad’s exams weren’t quite the same.

More fun and satisfying than Melatonin🥰

Give us a full report when it happens. If possible, two reports: hers and yours. Write them separately so we can compare, that will be hot.

Posted October 30 The women in our group sometimes do this, not the guys, even if it's their own cum. To be clear, I and the guys in our group will kiss a woman who has had a guy ejaculate in her mouth, himself or another guy, after she swallows. I don't mind snowballing with my own cum when a woman wants to, but not another guy's cum.

Yes that’s exactly what was thinking a club or going to a hotel, she did say when I asked that I could be there too, she has stated though she wants the thrill of it being a stranger and bareback are the must in this, so aslong as the guy would be on board with that too!

The feelings among the three women in our family is deeper than ever. We will do the routine things, like shopping together with or without some of the kids, just to be together. Hold hands, share a kiss in the car, just feel close. But today, I had the unusual desire be used, taken by a guy, just for his pleasure. Early this morning I left the house and went to Frank and Becky's unannounced. They said that I (actually any of us women) could come by for Frank unannounced anytime Clair, Lora, or I felt the need. It has always been planned, but not this time. It was strange. I called as I arrived around 6am, Becky answered and asked what was wrong. I apologized and said I needed Frank. She said OK, let me in as I got there, took me into their bedroom where I took my clothes off, sucked Frank to an erection, had him do me quick, thanked Becky and left. My intent was to do it for only his pleasure, but I came too; hard. After getting a coffee and getting home I screwed Red, then David. Two more orgasms, a shower, and then I felt OK again. Something is going on in my brain. Something I need. I have a husband who is more in love with Lora than with me, but so am I.

An important distinction: sometimes friends don't need to be convinced to become swingers, they are already predisposed to sharing sex and only need to be given the opportunity to move on it.

Thank you! Responses like this are exactly why we came here. Appreciate the insight and personal experience

Dang right. Adult fun. I totally agree with the confidence statement. In our time in the lifestyle we've found that the most fun is with people out to have fun. Looks matter to the point of getting to a meeting. It is attitude that makes the clothes come off. It is attitude that makes an evening fun. When I'm naked who knows what other people are thinking. Doesn't matter. My oral skills, the way I ride the other guy, I can't imagine the other husband is thinking about my thighs or the extra couple pounds. I'm using him for my pleasure and I'm giving him something to remember. It's about fun not extra skin, pounds, small boobs, whatever.

Both my wife and I agree on that, cum is an important part of fucking. That's why we play within a closed group of married couples who also agree - all the thrills very little risk. I let my wife do whatever she wants. With regards to sex, she has always had good taste and judgment with people. Now being with a closed group, bareback fucking isn't an issue. Our group is daring in other ways, we engage in alone play, going on getaways with not our spouses, saying I love you. Feelings have developed among some of us, but it's secondary and hasn't caused any problems. Sort of the opposite of the "stranger" encounter thing. But I'd rather have someone have feelings for my wife than just see her as a cum dump.

One bit of advice if you do decide to do it. If you are posting on a lifestyle site looking for someone, you may want to say you are interested in a MFM. I think that when most people see MMF they are looking for bi play from the men. Others may have more experience.

Come on; let her have some new dick! She'll still like yours best.

Me too. My husband loves when I give him a bj and I love hearing that sexy little growl, he lets out when I take his whole cock in my mouth and suck and swallow at the same time, until I make him come in my mouth. I always swallow like a good wife. But, one of my biggest turn-offs is the thought of gagging and vomiting during a bj. Which is why I don't want to go down on some other man.

60-40, definitely strongly bisexual but mostly hetero-romantic. There are men I'm attracted to their entire body/personality rather than it just being about sex but that is much more rare than it is with women. In a swinging context, we'll swing with pretty much any variation of gendered singles/couples. But another bi couple interested in a same sex swap gets our attention the most. Have all the straight sex we want with each other.

Bisexual by definition includes strictly sexual behavior, no need to tie romance into it. Why you see people who say they are bisexual but hetero-romantic. But if it's truly just "if it feels good, do it". That's more hedonism than a sexual orientation.

I like curvy girls, and I'm curvy myself.

Wait until your urologist does a trans-urethral cystoscopy and prostate inspection!

Once again I have to agree with Mrs. Alura. That being said, there was one guy that we played with a few times that I swallowed once and made sure to never make him cum via oral again. It tasted so bitter (due to his diet, no doubt)! I wasn't willing to give oral up entirely with him, but I made sure to only use it as foreplay and not as an orgasm-inducer.