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6 pointsYes, that was and is me exactly, except I am the wife. Despite my boyfriend/fiancé/husband David letting me continue a full-on relationship with my ex-fiancée, I could not stand the thought of him doing anything with another woman. One day after about two years, a girlfriend of mine mentioned that David was good-looking and it must be nice with him in bed. I snapped, but in a good way, and said, "If you'd like that it can be arranged. Hubby thinks you're attractive too." (He never said that, but I thought it good to throw it in.) Well, she said she would like, so I did, and David was more than willing. It hurt, it burned, it drove me crazy with jealousy, but it was also good, like the burn of a hard run. Like coming off a scary roller coaster and asking, "Can we do it again?" It was an achievement, like I was stretching myself beyond old limits. As things progressed with her and a few other willing women, I not only got over my jealousy, but when I had sex with hubby it was more fantastic than ever. I am definitely not over it, but jealousy has gone from being my demon to my addiction. Knowing another woman desires David but he is my husband? Fantastic. Sex with him afterwards, knowing that he still wants, prefers, me? Wonderfully flattering. Like with most things my approach was to go full-on, all at once after I decided it was the thing to do. May I suggest, however, that you could take an incremental approach. The first step would be to go someplace where nudity is acceptable, a swing club or a nudist resort or merely with like-minded friends, and have her (and you) be naked in front of other men. Next step for you two to have sex between yourselves in front of others, a swing club or friends. After you process that together afterwards, move on to a soft swap where you watch another man put his hands on her, starting with clothes on, later naked. Then other soft swap activities: breast touching, hand jobs, fingering, blowjobs, her getting licked, etc. Along the way you will get into it, want more, and eventually full swap. And then you will be telling us here it is the best thing that ever happened to your life.
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3 pointsWhile not everyone will have the same experience, I think fucking my wife after she has been banged by another guy is HOT! Don't look at it with jealousy. She is just enjoying being pleasured. She is not in love with the guy, she loves you. She's getting fucked. It's sex. She's still going home with you.
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2 pointsNot a problem I have ever had! Love seeing my lady with other men. It is a huge turn on. She is just as incredible to watch as she is to be with. At the end of the day I know she loves me and loves sex with me. I am also not insecure at all about how I perform in bed. I have always been more of a giver then a taker. Honestly if you know you are going to be jealous and the thought of watching her eats you up inside then don’t do it. This lifestyle is not for everyone and that is alright.
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2 pointsYou sound pretty normal for this point in your journey. Someone on this list once described Jealousy as fear of loss. Is that lingering in you for some reason? If it is I suggest dealing with it. It can be something a simple as dealing with a girl in your early years dumping you for another, when your age had not properly equipped you to cope, and you just buried it. Make sure that you involve your lady in your internal search. She will need to know what you have inside if anything seems to be going sideways. You may just be feeling fear that he will somehow be better. He may be. He for sure will be new and different. In my experience this was followed by a "Thank You for giving me that" directed at me . Your experience may be different, but I think it is pretty common. Ultimately though this is one of those,you will not know until you do it, things. At any rate DO NOT PROCEED until you are pretty certain that your head is screwed on straight.
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1 pointIt used to be that when I had a fight in our poly family (they are pretty mild BTW, little more than a disagreement) with either my husband or Red, I felt that sex was off the agenda until the issue was resolved (my way). Pretty much the same with me and Lora and Clair. But starting around Labor Day this year, late August, I started doing the opposite – I would give sex (sometimes putting it as a demand is even better) to my antagonist. It was in no way an apology or making up, it was/is angry sex. The thing is that with no apologies, no “communicating/talking it out/resolving the issues,” whatever the problem, it went/goes away. It’s not romantic or intended to be fun either. I get him into a room, any room, lock the door and quickly take my clothes off. Neither David or Red has ever been so pissed to turn me down. It’s not make-up sex like before when we would go through the process of resolving things first. It is angry sex, after which the post-coital feelings for both of us makes whatever the dispute was seem trivial. It works the same with Lora once I can get her pants down and go between her legs. Clair won’t go for it directly, but after she’s had sex with one of the men, she lets me lick her with good conclusions. So anyone else like this? It’s not the old “never go to bed mad,” it’s “go to bed mad and have angry sex,” everything will be alright. I haven’t read about this elsewhere. Anyone else use this approach to conflict resolution?
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1 pointThat would work when a woman does it, but would come off as a brutish power play if a man took the same approach. What Daniela and I do is pretty much the opposite. She goes to her favorite couple, and I to my favorite woman play partner, and we both get sex and some marriage counseling from other sex partners. But you're right, It makes us want one another and to get back together.
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1 pointI used to be a very jealous person until I found the solution. The enemy of jealousy is trust and communication. If you have great communication, it creates great trust. With great trust comes great love. With these things, jealousy has nothing to hold onto.
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1 pointThanks for the feedback. We are going to try a Club in December to see how we feel.
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1 pointAs others have said, your thoughts are normal. enhancer said it correctly 'this lifestyle is not for everyone'. Visiting a club wouldn't be too bad. Most people at clubs are pretty respectful of 'no'. Many people believe that you walk into a swinger's club and you're instantly in an orgy. I know more people who were disappointed at a swinger's clubs because they couldn't get any action than those who went and found it easy to find couples to play with. And if you do go to a club, just know that your wife will get 10 times the attention you'll get. If you have any hesitation surrounding jealousy, a swinger's club could cause more because women get the attention. Unless you have an aura, a presence, look like George Clooney, etc, expect to be more anonymous while your wife gets attention.
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1 pointBefore my first prostate exam the Physician warned me that I might feel like I'll want to pee, that and more! He had one of the longer more educated digits that I have encountered.
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1 pointI love milking my prostrate during sex. I cum really hard. I highly recommend it to all men. A finger in the ass, rubbing your prostrate and your dick busy in whatever way makes you happy.
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1 pointAgreed, not sexy. However, I had a decades-long FWB, a woman who always came very easily from penetration, who told me that she often had sort of physiological orgasms during pelvic exams, sufficiently often that when she had a new Ob-Gyn she had to warn them this would likely happen. She experienced no psychological aspects of arousal during the exam and no sense of post-orgasmic satisfaction. But below the waist she came, including spasms of the muscles in her pelvis. (Given how quickly she reached orgasm when fucking doggie, with no direct stimulation of her clitoris, I found her report credible.)
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1 pointWomen are like that, sometimes they need to prove (to themselves? their husband? others?) that they can be a whore who gives pleasure. Daniela is like that sometimes, screw several guys in our group, then when she/we are home, be a perfect loving wife. We all have sides that come out differently at different times.
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1 pointThank you for reading and reacting to my post; I appreciate it. After reading it again myself, it's like I was drinking or on something; I do neither, it was only a really strange mood yesterday. My moods affect my sexual thoughts and behavior, which fortunately my poly family understands and accommodates (along with our boyfriend Frank and his wife Becky). And you folks here allow me to express. Thanks again.
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1 pointThe police report likely has a picture of her tits drawn by a sketch artist. ( . ) ( . ) They are now two of the ten most wanted.
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1 pointThis is a true story as best as I can remember. I usually let my husband select my lovers as he does all of the online dating applications work for us. I look forward to receiving a text from him while I am at work saying “he has a surprise for me.” I know what that means. What I don’t know is who, or what race, or sex my lover will be. Will my lover be white, black, Hispanic, male or female? One Thursday afternoon I received such a text. He also told me to make sure I had extra towels as I was going to need them. What ever for I wondered? I returned home anxious for my evening to begin. I ate a light dinner then went to our master bathroom to prepare. I showered, shaved, dried my hair, and applied my make-up. As always, I used a deep ruby red lipstick and put lots on. I selected a very short purple skirt, a black see-thru blouse, and 4-inch pumps. As usual, sans underwear. My husband enjoys it when I wear super short skirts and heels as he can see my ass cheeks as I walk. I grabbed a glass of wine and hiked myself up onto our breakfast bar stool to wait. Shortly, the doorbell rang. My husband answered the door and escorted a distinguished-looking black gentleman, named Vince, into our kitchen. He was about 6 foot tall and extremely buff. He asked for a glass of wine which my husband provide as I escorted him to our living room. As I sat on the sofa, my skirt rode all the up my thighs and you could see my pussy lips from the right angle. We chatted for about 5 minutes then Vince put his wine glass down and reached over to kiss me. Simultaneously, he slid his hand under my skirt and started rubbing my cunt. His other hand reached for my breasts. I asked him to take me to the bedroom and told my husband, “I want to be alone with him please.” Sometimes I like my husband present to snap pictures and take videos. Other times I don’t want to be distracted. More importantly, I didn’t want Vince distracted so he could pretty much do as he pleased or I could do as I wished. In no time at all I was stark naked except for my heels. As I sat on the edge of the bed, Vince got on his knees and started lapping my cunt. I melted. He then pushed back onto the bed and disrobed. Oh my fucking God. He didn’t have a cock, he had a baseball bat! He grabbed my head and pushed his cock into my mouth. I felt his cock start to twitch then my mouth was flooded with his cum. How I managed to swallow all of it surprised me. We took a short break, had some more wine, then he laid me on my back and started to mount me. I usually required a lot of stimulation to squirt and my husband uses a special curved toy to make me squirt. Not this time! Vince placed the head of his 10-inch cock at my cunt entrance and pushed it completely in. Yes, I yelped, because he was thick and he bumped my cervix. After he sank his cock balls deep into me, he started thrusting fast then slow then fast again. Every time he slowed down and pulled back, I sprayed lady cum all over me and him. This went on for quite a while. He then told me to roll over. He reinserted his cock into my cunt then pulled it out and started to slide it into my asshole. I tried to stop him but I couldn’t. I yelped in pain when I noticed my husband was now in the room. Instead of stopping him, he said, “Here, use this," and handed Vince a bottle silicone lube. I said, “Please, go easy.” Vince went slow for a while and then at my husband’s urging, he quickened his pace and sunk his cock balls deep in my ass. There was very little I could do so I relaxed as much as possible and let him ride my ass until he finally came. When he finished cumming, Vince went into the bathroom to clean up. I was worn out and a complete cum mess. As he dressed, he kissed me tenderly and said he hoped to see me again. I said, “Of course!” After Vince left, my husband asked me how it was. I said it had to the be hardest most violent fuck I ever had. When he asked me if I wanted him back, I said, “Of course. He just needs to slow down on my ass.” My husband then kissed me and asked me if I cried because I tasted like salt. I said, “No my dear, those are tears of joy and a little of his semen.” I then went to take another shower.
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1 pointWell, the votes have been cast, the story "What A Surprise!" has been posted. Please, if you read and enjoy it, leave a comment for me. That will encourage me to post more of my stories to this and other sites. And if there's something I can improve, go ahead and tell me so.
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1 pointYeah... saying "I love you" to a playmate would be... bad.
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1 pointUsing the "L" word.
