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This was the first act I watched when Linda sucked another man. The first time she did it she stopped and had sex with him then the next time she kept up until he came in her mouth. It got hotter when she had one man in her and one in her mouth but the hottest was a woman licking her as she had the husband in her mouth.

Very fair. I've just seen a lot of posts here and elsewhere in recent months that, I think, reflect people who are jumping in very quickly out of post-pandemic excitement. I know for Mrs. E, she was worried about me being exactly that person: the one who regrets seeing what I was asking to see and wouldn't feel the same after or be able to get over it. I could speak for myself because I was very confident I would not be. Women, too, can have doubts about male enthusiasm for swapping and hidden meaning. "Are you not jealous because you don't love me", "are you trying to get rid of me", "are you just interested in watching me with another man so I won't be able to say no to another woman", etc. I think OP is speaking for himself here that he definitely has doubts. That's OK. It's completely fine for him and his wife to move very slowly, talk about what they experience, and then move further if they both wish.

Thank you for responding to my post and I appreciate your insights. You are more knowledgeable in this area, while I am an amateur viewing it from a single perspective. The big difference here (in my humble opinion) is that the OP is not trying to move past an unwanted experience, but rather have a paradigm shift and accept and embrace non-monogamous activity. For some it seems natural for them and to see their spouse doing likewise; for others it's a hurdle.

(...and I'll qualify this by pointing out, that tends to be where that description comes from. If OP identifies with it, he should listen to that. It doesn't mean there's no path forward, lots of things that we worry about turn out to be nothing, just that he should pay attention to his own gut feelings as he does.)

Absolutely. All of these are correct statements and should be considered. However, they don't necessarily address whether or not OP actually wants to move past the fantasy stage or not. Those "images I can't get out of my head" are one of the top things I have heard marriage counselors mention as an obstacle to moving past affairs. Working together on something, consensually as a team, is not at all the same as adultery, but for people who move too fast and maybe aren't prepared to speak up and stop it, the bad feelings can be much the same. It's absolutely worth exploring. It's also worth exploring cautiously. It can take time for two people to learn about each other in this space and build the additional layers of trust that come with new types of play.

I have come to believe that nonmonogamy is natural. Despite the lifestyle still being considered unusual, most people have multiple partners before marriage, and many don't marry, they just "partner." And most are not for a lifetime.

It has become natural for me to watch her now and natural for me to give and get oral sex, not so much the first time. Our friends were swingers before we took our first play with them. My wife and her friend planned to get me to agree to swinging a thing I was sure was wrong. My wife was very eager and looking back I wondered if she and our friends had already done something without me, they all deny deny deny. My wife never seemed bothered or afraid to go between his legs and take him in her mouth, it went too easy no stopping. I watched her enjoying as I got to enjoy her friend who steered me to my own first time. I now enjoy watching her enjoy whatever she does and I enjoy most of our play.

I have seen her give oral sex to more women then men, because that is what she chases the most in the lifestyle! I do however love watching her suck another man’s cock and the look on their face while she is doing it. Like everything she does it is with loads of passion.

After we started swinging my wife realized what I had been saying for years she is really good at it. And as an added bonus she really likes an audience.

More better still the time I spread my legs and knocked off three with them (hubby got sloppy thirds, but I was second for him that night). An erection and ejaculation are terrible things to waste.

Can I just say I watched three guys jerk.off for me last night. There is absolutely nothing better than watching a guy get hard and share a cum shot with me as a voyeur. It's even better when I spread my legs and knock one off with him.

Come Together... Right Now.... Over Me! I was driving down the road tonight listening to this song and I couldn't get the visual of a bukake out of my head.