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I am fine. Not bad feelings. I love my husband. I post this know Michael will read as we share everything and we don’t hide posts or feelings. No negativity only an adventure. Here goes. Friends that are swingers introduced us to new friends who were friends of their friends. Most new people we meet are normally found this way. I could see the attraction first physically and they were both similar to us 10 years ago. Swing experienced with couples and parties they never had a threesome alone. They said they only played with women in a group setting and never found a single woman. I’m not 100% sure why they needed to experience this at this time, the conversation continued. At some point Mike joked that I could help. The talk became more serious in a fun way. I was not pushed. I was not forced. There are others in our group who I would say are more attractive in my eyes. I did relent and became a Unicorn for a day. Who would think I could be a unicorn at this point in my life. Mike wants to find us a Unicorn now.

Maybe you can ask if they will reciprocate and join you and your husband for a 3some. We had one of our new lady friends join us for some fun. It was both fun and challenging for me to share my attention and erection with both ladies.

My wife likes sex with women as much as men, so she goes down on pussy regularly. Difference is that Daniela and other women going down on each other takes them to orgasm, while taking a dick in her mouth is most usually foreplay and he cums in her cunt. FFM is Daniela's preferred play, but with his dick in a pussy and the girl getting fucked eating the other pussy. Switch. Repeat.

I think this is surprisingly common. I used to tell Mrs. E she gives amazing head and she'd dismiss it, on the theory that men enjoy getting head from anyone and nobody would ever say it was bad. She was actually pretty shy about it, and also considered it very intimate. She knew I liked watching her, but it took quite a bit for it to really click that she's skilled and looks good doing it, and that it's something she can do confidently as a way to perform, both for me and for play partners. Once she got into it she had a little game going for a while, which she'd jokingly call "eye doctor", comparing different licks and strokes and asking which one felt and looked better from my perspective. That realization that it's not just a sex act that happens to use her mouth, but a way for her to express something fun and playful and enjoy very positive, joyful attention.

We were all newbies so thank you to the couple we met and the couples who made the experience easy for those who like us didn’t know where to start. I say we hit the lottery of swingers looking to expand into a sexual unknown. No pressure, plenty of talking and very concerned with our questions the people we met had experience with other newbies. We couldn’t be the first for a newbie when we first started, we were asked. We didn’t want to ruin a first time for a friend who learned we started swinging. I thought if something went wrong we would lose a friend. We have no regrets introducing our friends to the wonderful couple who we met for our first. The new dynamic is we are all friends now.

As others have said, your thoughts are normal. enhancer said it correctly 'this lifestyle is not for everyone'. Visiting a club wouldn't be too bad. Most people at clubs are pretty respectful of 'no'. Many people believe that you walk into a swinger's club and you're instantly in an orgy. I know more people who were disappointed at a swinger's clubs because they couldn't get any action than those who went and found it easy to find couples to play with. And if you do go to a club, just know that your wife will get 10 times the attention you'll get. If you have any hesitation surrounding jealousy, a swinger's club could cause more because women get the attention. Unless you have an aura, a presence, look like George Clooney, etc, expect to be more anonymous while your wife gets attention.