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Finding a unicorn is never easy. Better looking for a couple with a bi wife. I hope you know this is not a hook up site.

Most of the “unicorns” there are actually guys looking to collect pictures. Ask for a video chat with your wife, and they vanish like a fart in a hurricane.

Hiya all, My first gangbang happen about 6 months after our first real swing, it happen 2 weeks after my 35th b-day. I really wanted to give it a go after watching a few of them at our local club. A month before it happen I told my husband I think I am ready to take the next step into swinging and we agree to it. So we made the request on the request board at are local swingers club. Also I added I was open to anal and DP in my first gangbang. Both of us were talking about how big I wanted. I wanted something simple, nothing too big, We finger 6 was a good number to start thing off. Since it was my husband first one as well to take part, we ask guys who were experience in them as well, so to help me and my husband of the do's and don'ts of being in a gangbang. During the whole time , I thought it was gonna be a lot harder then I thought it was, to my surprise it was kinda easy and loads of fun. I went with the flow. To the people that replied here sorry for stealing your words but, I too felt there were times during that night where I thought I couldn't take any more but I keep pushing myself. After a quick shower in the club, me and my husband went home. During the car ride back home I had a mix of emotions. I felt a sense of calmness and peace. I was really proud of myself. Felt like a badass pornstar with a big smile on my face. Once we got home me and my husband went for another round just us 2. Since then we try doing a a few gangbang every year. My record is 10 guys soon after my 40th B-Day.

You may consider a transactional situation for your first time, it’s easier to set up, no strings attached and if it doesn’t work out like you hope you can simply never call her again. My suggestion is let your wife pick the girl and for your first time it should be all about your wife. Make your wife ask you to join in and let her call the shots. Make sure the girl you pick is experienced with woman. Don’t be cheap on your first time, a good experienced girl may cost you up front but the payoff can be huge. Good luck.

There's a very good reason single women in the L/S are called unicorns...finding a unicorn is usually easier. As already suggested, you are probably better off signing up for one of the swinging 'dating' sites and looking for another couple to get started. Finding a good match, even with another couple, is difficult enough, but at least it is 'doable'.

Interesting how this is often a conclusion to spouses/partners having sex with other people - reclaiming and closer bonding. Done right, being nonmonogamous is good for a marriage. (Sorry for turning a gangbang into something romantic.)

Davidia, On the other hand looking at rules to see if they are serving you well, or if each, individually, is even necessary, is probably a good practice on a regular basis.

These types of arrangements can be very fun and rewarding, we've been there. With that said, make sure it's someone you trust to follow through on the reciprocation. When we were first exploring the idea, we ran across stories about many variations on this problem.

I beg to differ. It's not like it permanently changes her, like if she chopped off a finger. What might happen is that she gets some pleasure from it - and is grateful to you. But that's the wrong perspective. The question is does SHE like getting her tits sucked by someone else? Particularly if she is wildly enjoying herself. Afterwards, you get the credit for that.

Unless she is the rare exception, didn't your wife fuck guys before she met you? Maybe even a little overlap between the time you guys first started fucking and when she gave up her previous sex partner? How did you live with that image in your mind? Maybe as a first step to condition yourself to the reality of the world that people, including women, including your wife, want multiple sex partners even after they get married, you two need to talk about her sexual past. Start with just asking her who (other than you) she fucked the most. Digest that thought. Days, weeks or months later ask her who she enjoyed the most (other than you), have her describe the experiences, what she really liked about her favorite sex partners. Eventually, you will not only get used to it, but also come to like the thoughts of her with another guy and take joy in the thought of her being pleased by someone else. Then slowly move on from there.

While not everyone will have the same experience, I think fucking my wife after she has been banged by another guy is HOT! Don't look at it with jealousy. She is just enjoying being pleasured. She is not in love with the guy, she loves you. She's getting fucked. It's sex. She's still going home with you.

We dipped our toes into the LS a bit (a few threesomes) and I am glad they were strangers