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I will try to explain who I am and how we frequently play. I rarely play a passive role in meeting men or swinging with others. Michael loves that I am aggressive when meeting new men and I enjoy taking control of situations. Surely I enjoy being sexually satisfied it’s just that the sex act of fucking is not the only satisfying aspect of sex. He knows what I enjoy and he enjoys letting me enjoy and regardless of what I do with a man he is always there to continue and finish my satisfaction. My aggression when meeting a stranger which 99% males is getting quickly to the main point, getting to see what he has. My main focus is orally pleasing and less being pleased. Most men are very willing to let me enjoy and will take a lay back and enjoy approach. If a man wants to fuck I look at it as how I failed to please him. With this couple I became completely passive by their request. I have since compared it to a day at a spa, being pampered having my needs attended to. They undressed me and led me to a soaking tub to relax before sponge bathing me. I was touched in sexual ways and tried to give back and was stopped from doing it. Afterwards I was given a four hand massage, very relaxing and sensual. As much as I wanted to participate they insisted I just receive. They had toys and used many methods to bring me to many points of excitement and relaxation. What they did was the opposite of most of my swinging history has shown me. You asked how did it make me feel, it at first made me uncomfortable which then turned into something great.

That is a great point. We have met women with partners who look for different things. Most women looking for a first bisexual play are not sure what they want or how they will respond. I have found most need to be guided or eased into a safe play style. Most will kiss and touch above the waist freely and then freeze with below touching. Many are at first submissive and slow to go forward.

I am fine. Not bad feelings. I love my husband. I post this know Michael will read as we share everything and we don’t hide posts or feelings. No negativity only an adventure. Here goes. Friends that are swingers introduced us to new friends who were friends of their friends. Most new people we meet are normally found this way. I could see the attraction first physically and they were both similar to us 10 years ago. Swing experienced with couples and parties they never had a threesome alone. They said they only played with women in a group setting and never found a single woman. I’m not 100% sure why they needed to experience this at this time, the conversation continued. At some point Mike joked that I could help. The talk became more serious in a fun way. I was not pushed. I was not forced. There are others in our group who I would say are more attractive in my eyes. I did relent and became a Unicorn for a day. Who would think I could be a unicorn at this point in my life. Mike wants to find us a Unicorn now.

How did that make you feel? I could see it being anything from you feeling very powerful inserting yourself into the intimacy of married couple, to being a submissive play thing for them.

These types of arrangements can be very fun and rewarding, we've been there. With that said, make sure it's someone you trust to follow through on the reciprocation. When we were first exploring the idea, we ran across stories about many variations on this problem.

Maybe you can ask if they will reciprocate and join you and your husband for a 3some. We had one of our new lady friends join us for some fun. It was both fun and challenging for me to share my attention and erection with both ladies.

Doesn't sound real it sounds like it was wishful thoughts from you head. I agree BS story!