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Our first experience was a non-bi mfm with a dude we met on vacation and we loved it so much we joined a swing club soon after. That was also great but after a while we agreed that we liked mfm better so got into hotwifing. We met a guy who initiated my first bi experience - with my wife looking on. If i'm honest she was put off by it, but i explained later that it was all in keeping with pushing our boundaries and trying new things etc... she was cool with male bisexuality after that. When we first started out the norm was str8 hubby and bi wife and that was it. 25 years later it seems swinging has opened up and includes ALOT more m2m action - at least around these parts.

When we play with people our age (65), pretty much every male uses ED meds or needs it.

Newbies are acting out fantasies thinking how exciting it could be without the reality of how hard it is to take that first step. We have learned that when things go too fast the couple are most likely not new. We never rush and use what you call FIB as part of what what we enjoy, for us it is our foreplay as well as fact finding. Not everyone who has every intention to have that first time go through with. We have talked others away if we thought both were not fully committing. Unfortunately some women only do this to please their partner.

We like beginners, as long as they are both into it and not into drama. The excitement of the new.

Several years ago my wife’s and my PCP proactively (we hadn’t asked) warned against her using Viagra (which I use for recreational sex) as a libido enhancer. (Not that she had experienced any issues with her sex drive; even today, in her mid-70s, she likes to get fucked three or four times a week.) Our PCP said there was no evidence of an effect for women, and I’ve since seen similar conclusions in the popular press. I’m aware there are treatments that make intercourse more comfortable for post-menopausal women, but to my knowledge there are no approved drugs that enhance libido. Pharma continues to search for that.

Groucho was the President of Freedonia in the 1933 film Duck Soup. Has anyone seen the clip of Groucho as the host of “You Bet Your Life,” a game show? A female contestant said she had eight children because she enjoyed them. Groucho said he enjoyed his cigar, but he took it out once in awhile. This was in the 1950s or 60s.

Be in the moment. Period. Just be there. Because if you get all like, 'oh I got to do this big thing', it just never works. It iust doesn't work. You've just got to let go. If it happens it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't. Whatever you do is ok, just be truthful, honest, real, and that's all you can ask for.

we had a man join us this weekend. He was openly bisexual and asked if he could join us after chatting at the nude pool all afternoon. He wanted to please both of us so he went down on me while I rode my husbands cock. His oral skills were amazing and had me cumming repeatedly. In return he wanted my husband to himself for a bit. Watching him suck my husbands cock was one of the hottest things I have seen. He wanted more so I watched my husband fuck him. I masturbated hard and had an incredible orgasm with my husband as he pulled out and ejaculated all over him. His cock was perfect so I asked him to finish i me. I offered up my pussy to him. It only took a few strokes and his huge cock emptied inside me. I guess we are hedonists - we don’t get hung up on labels and are all about the pleasure. Fortunately we have friends that are into the same with no judgement or weirdness.

My first was with a couple that started off as a hotwife/threesome but rapidly progressed to the husband being a sub cuckold. We had planned my first sleepover with them which started with me fucking her while he watched and after I blew my load in her pussy he wanted to eat her but she was kinda uncomfortable with it. She cleaned my cock and as soon as she was done he kissed her before she could react, and said she tasted good. We went out for drinks and dinner and on the drive back she got in the back seat and after sucking and fucking I left another load in her pussy. We got back to their place and did a few rounds of shots and were nicely buzzed and naked messing around. He asked me if I had cum in her pussy and the second I said yes he went down on her while I kinda sat on her face with my cock in her mouth. After a few mins he got on top of her in missionary while she was still sucking me and he put his head by hers. For a while she alternated sucking me and kissing him and then he asked me permission to suck my cock. She moaned when she heard him and I said yes and they both started sucking me while kissing each other. The dominance was HOT and we had many evenings of him sucking me ready, cleaning me up etc

I guess my first experience started at a gangbang party I arranged for a couple I met online. The husband contacted me and asked if I had a few friends that would be interested in playing with his wife. I contacted a few guys and gave them the details. We arrived at the hotel and the wife was dressed sexy and ready to go. After a couple of drinks, the wife hopped on the bed and signaled that she was ready to start playing. One after another we took turns with her. Lots of sloppy seconds and thirds that night. Just as the last guy moved off the bed the husband dove in head first and started cleaning his wife up. At the time, there was so much adrenaline flowing I don't think anyone stopped to consider whether or not what we had just done was bi or not but it happened and we were all cool with it. The same couple contacted me again a few months later with a similar request. Except this time, the husband asked me to come over early before the other guys arrived. He said he and the wife had smoked a joint and wanted to get really freaky tonight. I headed over there and we started drinking and smoking. Out of nowhere, the wife told me to have a seat and ordered her husband to get on his knees and suck my cock. She came over, grabbed him by the neck, and pushed his mouth further down on my cock. Next she kneeled down and started to help him with the task. Once again, my adrenaline was flowing and I didn't dare ask them to stop. Plus the look in her eyes was one of pure lust. Later that night we did another gangbang and I remember that was the first time I saw her squirt. After my experience with that couple and seeing how turned on his wife was I have been hooked on couples that share cock ever since.

First time was in a 4some with my wife at a swing club. We had settled into a room and were playing with ourselves. Then an attractive older woman knocked on the door and asked to join. Soon as we said yes she dived right between my wife's legs and started eating her out. Which was an indescribably hot first for us as well. After she made my wife cum she started going down on me and went straight to fingering my ass while she blew me. I murmured to her that I bet she's great with a strap-on which lit her up with a devious grin. Then her husband joined as well, which to be honest we never realized we were agreeing to a package deal. He was a tall built prison guard. Things progressed to an outright full swap with us fucking each other's wives. In between rounds there was a little chit chat where he mentioned they were open-minded. When the action heated back up again I was having an internal debate about whether I should go for it and make a move on the husband. His wife was blowing him and I just went for it. Started licking and sucking his cock with her. It felt so strange having that warm hard yet soft cock between my lips. A mixture of what I expected and not. But I was really enjoying it. I mentioned to her that it was my first time and she smiled and fed my his cock. He said it was his first time as well. My wife watched and made out with him as I blew him. His wife got behind me and stuck some fingers up my ass then held her hand against herself and mimed fucking me, clearly enjoying this like it had been a long fantasy of hers. He then said he wanted to fuck my wife again so I slipped a condom on him and guided his cock into my wife as she lowered herself onto him. Then put a condom on myself and fucked his wife. We both came and collapsed in a heap of bodies. Not long after another girl asked to join! We started playing with her but not long after her girlfriend came in and scolded her for leaving her to the creepy single guys out there, which ended that session as quickly as it started. But hey, technically a 5some? We exchanged numbers with the couple at the end of the night but never met up with them again. My wife is only really interested in one night stands in the swinging world. After I felt, I don't know, some sort of pride in myself for finally trying it. Also wondered why I waited so long(mid 20s). Now 15 or so years later have only sucked three other cocks, and been fucked by a nice thick BBC. We don't swing often. Once every few years sorta deal. We have fun with strap-ons and realistic dildos on odd occasion. But I'm finding at around the 5 year mark I just have a need for another cock. I become a bit obsessed with it and just need to vent that energy. Which is right about now... Wife also wants to try a gang bang, so I'm sure we can work that out as a two birds one stone situation. Looking forward to that next experience. We're going to be visiting family in Ohio in July but staying in an airbnb for the week. May well happen there.

I don't really spend much time on sites anymore because I have circles of friends that I've developed over the years. SLS is probably your best bet in terms of quantity. You'll just have to meet people to find the right quality for you.

If it's a random hook up, most of the time you won't get asked anything in great detail. As said above, the best plan in almost all circumstances is to tell part of the truth. This way if you later develop a FWB relationship you won't have to explain why you said you were an astronaut when you actually work in an office. We live in a small town so if asked where we live, we say around the biggest town in the area (in our case, we live in the foothills outside of Sacramento). We both work for the state government (which has a morals clause so that's all we say about that). If after time we are still seeing each other and getting more FWBity its just normal to start getting into more detail, but only once a moderate amount of trust has been built up. No matter what, saying 'I would rather not say' is still an acceptable answer in most cases.

I agree with previous posts - I had been straight as an arrow all my life. I then began playing with couples - the second one I played with the hubby was bi. As we did our threesome he went down on me first and then later on in the evening I returned the favor! It was all new to me - but I have to say that feel of his cock was great - so hard yet so velvety -and the taste was just great. When he came in my mouth I was a bit apprehensive but his wife and I shared it - I have been hooked on cocksucking ever since especially during MMF!

The first time I tasted a cock I was amazed at how different it felt than I imagined it would. It was fun, interesting, but most of all, it was powerfully sexual. Male sexual. There was the same pleasure giving sexual, just as when you go down on a woman and she has an orgasm, the same feeling of the pleasure of giving pleasure. Yet different in that it was familiar. I knew exactly what it felt like to have my cock sucked, and now I was sucking one. Perhaps because of that I was more in tune with what it was feeling to him. The simple feel of it was amazing, hard yet velvety soft, pulsating, a hard, throbbing energy rather than the softer, wetter feeling of a woman. Tasting my first male orgasm was as amazing. I could feel the same spurts I've ejaculated into mouths ejaculating into my mouth. The sexual energy is intense. I found it far more sexual than I imagined. I don't find men attractive in the all encompassing way I find women. But oral sex with a man, especially in a three or foursome, is very powerful sexually. The women in my experience simply love watching and being a part of it. I can't imagine going through life without experiencing this.