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Swinging , like Polyamory is a term that has been diluted in meaning almost to the point of irrelevance. Couplers, is a best fit with the historical meaning of Polyamory, which at a minimum implied a stable relationship with more than two persons involved. ( Now it CAN be as little as a life revolving around one night stands, in the eyes of some) Swinging likewise WAS a lifestyle originally involving couple/couple exchanges or threesomes with two of the people in a married relationship. Everything else was just single people hooking up or cheating. This forum accepts more current views on each f these under the term Nonmonogamy or LS . (Remember co-opting that from our gay brothers and sisters?) These more encompassing applications are a classic example of a larger umbrella making for less precision. We sometimes toss terms around without bothering to pay attention to what they mean. For instance "soft swap". While there seems to be a consensus that it does not allow for intercourse, there is less clarity on just what it does encompass. There is a pretty broad spectrum. It extends from just watching another couple pet, to orgasms, for all, by all, involving whips and ropes. Just no intercourse. In this light, worrying about whether or not couplers is a "REAL" swinger is irrelevant. Her observations regarding jealousy, possessiveness, transparency, honesty along with the complexities and possibilities of multiple adult pairings, does add some color and dimension to this discussion.

Questions for the ladies and would like to hear the men respond also. 1. Would you or have you had your man cum on your tits then lick the cum off your tits? 2. Would you like your swinger partner to cum on your tits then watch your man lick his cum off your tits? My wife loves me to cum on her tits then lick the cum off her tits and she loves me to cum in her mouth then kiss me. We both find this a big turn on.

One concern that I've heard many times from swingers (well, I guess I'm really talking about male swingers) who are considering visiting a nudist or clothing-optional venue is that they will not be able to suppress an erection when they are around all those naked females. This issue is on the FAQ of lots of nudist and clothing-optional resort Web sites, and they always seem to mention that the solution is just taking a dip in a cool swimming pool! I have a hunch that this is more a problem in the minds of those who are concerned about going to a nudist resort than it is an actual common occurrence. But I'm interested to know about everybody's firsthand and second-hand experiences. So, who has actually seen this problem "in the flesh" at a nudist or clothing-optional resort? Who has had this happen to them or their partner? Has it caused embarrassment/humiliation/mortification, or was it a "no problem" reaction from those who witnessed the flag-raising? Was a dip in the pool actually the solution?

Wondering if anyone here had an all male threesome and how you liked (or not) the experience? I'm curious as a male couple contacted me on a website and we've been chatting a bit.

I thought sex was the reason we went to H.S.?

Well it has all come true and much much more over the many years. Even more fun to be in the middle of it all with the guys.

Not a woman here either, but answering for her. She likes the inside of her thighs lightly caressed during oral. Helping hold her legs open while receiving some extra light stimulation. Depending on her mood, maybe mix that up with a finger in her pussy or playing with, not in, her ass.

Love to give it.Love to rim her ass and give her no warning that it's coming, to see their reaction. I have called a filthy bastard but they never wanted me to stop . While I am rimming them I rub their clit on a reach around. What really surprised me was that the women claimed that they had never been licked on the asshole before, and none has ever offered to lick mine, but I don't care, I would rather give.

I've never encountered a sticking-straight-out erection at the nude spas I visit in Europe, but have seen a few penises that were a bit bloated. It doesn't bother me either way, it's not what someone is thinking or what his dick is doing involuntarily, it's how he acts.

She took care of plenty of us virgins and she still visits me when I need her.

When we go out less is more granted it has to be in the right setting. Low cut shirts with or without a bra. I love being on display and the attention both positive and negative. Men seem to love it, wives and girlfriends do the stink eye. Haters going to hate I say.

I have rimmed an old GF ass before I climb in a start fucking her in the ass! My fantasy is if the woman/GF/Wife dose anal prep/anal enema, I would love to fuck her in the ass and then rim her gapping hole as she squirts in my mouth.

I like whatever she feels sexiest in. If she feels sexy, then she's more into sex. If she isn't comfortable, then she doesn't feel sexy, and the it isn't fun. I may have my ideas of what I like in my mind, but as long as she feels sexy, then I am game for anything she wants to wear (almost)

In 1969, I was in Europe and lucky enough to be at the Isle of Wight Music Festival. It was England's answer to Woodstock. Many of the same artists were featured. Some friends, including myself, went to the beach where we found a waterfall coming off the rocky cliff. We all showered. Air-drying afterwards, we watched a fellow who would approach a nude lady walking along the beach and ask her if she'd care to have sex in the sand. Most didn't answer, but pushed beyond him and continued on their way. One, however, stopped, looked him in the eye for a moment. Then she stepped into his arms and delivered an enormous kiss. She stepped back from the encounter and said, "No, thank you," and went on her way, leaving his penis waving at the horizon. This has nothing to do with the question, but I thought I'd share the experience.

My wife and I have been nudists for 40 years. We have seen it all. There are some guys who just can't keep it down no matter what. But the majority of men soon learn how to keep their erections down even in most erotic occations that might spring up. But there is just one thing I have seen that is so common among men, leaking precum. That is so much impossible to stop. Even with the life long nudist men. But I have found women love to see it. We have nude dances and I try not to get it on the women but most love feeling it on them. In some places erections and precum are looked at as rude and nonexcusible. Other places it's seen normal natural function of the male, so no big deal.

I'm not well suited to answer, since I'm a girl and we go to clothing optional places where swinging is allowed. If someone gets an erection in my vicinity, I'm flattered. I haven't seen anyone do anything but ignore it or take advantage of it, when it's happened at resorts we've been at. This question brought back so many great memories! I can tell you for certain, that pool water does not curb erections.

There is a gay B&B close to my place that hosts "Bi-Married Friday". For $20 the place is open from 11 to 3. The parking lot is packed on Fridays. They recently started doing every other Saturday as well and last week I saw an ad for Wednesday. There appears to be no shortage of married bi guys looking for an orgy. I hinted to the wife about the place but her reaction was really negative so I haven't joined them. Sounds like a blast to me!

I'm horny for an all married male bi party where I suck & fuck a group of married, bi, masculine men

And everyone is bi? Males and females? Or just the males? I can do the bi thing if that is what it takes but I am way more into the bi males thing and the sharing with hubby if we can get him motivated enough.

I have done that at bi parties. It is lots of fun

Oh MY how I'd love to sitting in a comfy chair naked, fingers and toys going at it, while two men took my husband's holes... OOOOHHHHHHH I am so turned on now, thanks a lot Jackdav!

Go for it, you never know till you try. Would be sad to look back years later still wondering what you missed. You may love it or decide it is just not your thing.

Reading this topic again, I'm now horny for another MMM :-) Three masculine guys sucking, jacking, and fucking is the best.

I would love to be part of a spit-roast once...the guy in the middle.

I've had several MMM experiences and probably wouldn't do another. One thing that happened each time was one guy was always a quick shot. We all know that after that, more sex doesn't sound as good as a sandwich. The experiences were mostly just an MM with a MMM appetizer. Literally lol

Did it once w/a gay couple and it was very fun. Both were non-jealous, respectful and a truly committed couple looking for extra spice. My favorite position while we played was bottoming for one while performing oral on the other. After he finished topping me, I took the 2nd one and then one of them finished me off orally. I've always wanted an all male orgy and have yet to experience that dream. I want to be the center of attention and take turns with about 8-10 that are in a circle.