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Swinging , like Polyamory is a term that has been diluted in meaning almost to the point of irrelevance. Couplers, is a best fit with the historical meaning of Polyamory, which at a minimum implied a stable relationship with more than two persons involved. ( Now it CAN be as little as a life revolving around one night stands, in the eyes of some) Swinging likewise WAS a lifestyle originally involving couple/couple exchanges or threesomes with two of the people in a married relationship. Everything else was just single people hooking up or cheating. This forum accepts more current views on each f these under the term Nonmonogamy or LS . (Remember co-opting that from our gay brothers and sisters?) These more encompassing applications are a classic example of a larger umbrella making for less precision. We sometimes toss terms around without bothering to pay attention to what they mean. For instance "soft swap". While there seems to be a consensus that it does not allow for intercourse, there is less clarity on just what it does encompass. There is a pretty broad spectrum. It extends from just watching another couple pet, to orgasms, for all, by all, involving whips and ropes. Just no intercourse. In this light, worrying about whether or not couplers is a "REAL" swinger is irrelevant. Her observations regarding jealousy, possessiveness, transparency, honesty along with the complexities and possibilities of multiple adult pairings, does add some color and dimension to this discussion.

I like exploring and being explored and appreciate some feedback but not into pain, pinching and squeezing.

I always experienced that women smell less as they get older especially after menopause and I hate that. I love women's natural smell, it turns me on. I think it bothers you more than your men.

You know what they say about opinions What woman writes that? And you forgot to say how you like those sperm swimming up you 😛

Nope, no squeezing please. In fact, any sort of touch on my balls in and of itself doesn't do much for me. When it is a positive is more a mind thing rather than a physical thing. For example, if what she is doing with your balls shows that her mind is really focused on what she is doing and she is really into it enjoying it, then that's a plus. Doesn't really have anything to do with the balls themselves though, other they are just geographically convenient

No squeezing for me. Cupping, stroking, licking... yes.

Fondle or rub, yes. Squeeze, no. Be careful down there.

We are the same. For me it's about trust. Everything a man wants to do with me requires me letting him be in my body. If I'm letting a person be inside me, I'd like to know him. Or I'd need to know a bottle of tequila very intimately. That works too lol. I didn't always have this rule but I do now.

I never thought or had reason to think I had a scent or aroma. I have always had a full bush and when I started posing for photos I would hear that I smelled lovely... Wasn't sure if it was my perfume or otherwise but never thought about it more. One shoot I did there was an instance where I was posed open legs for a few photographers. As the shoot went on someone came into the room and they literately said "Wow"! I found out as the shoot went on that as more went out of the room and came back in they were saying they could smell (my pussy) as they came back in. No one made is sound bad but that is when I realized I had a scent or aroma. That was years ago and have posed countless times since and have always been told it was very good for all involved. I assume men enjoy my aroma and it's noticeable but not overwhelming.

I like feeling a woman's pubic hair against my face when I'm eating her.

I shaved a couple times, I like pubic hair I like the look of it

I really don't understand the shaving thing. I can understanding trimming, just so you look neat, but the whole shaved bare thing isn't a turn on for me. If anything, I think it's a little creepy.

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