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At some point, the age numbers become less relevant. They are even less relevant within a couple that has chosen to go through life as a couple. Let's agree that it might be awkward for some when the other couple is the age of one's parents or one's children. Otherwise, we look at the persons and not their driver licenses.

This is my husband and I have a good read on what he likes and when. I am satisfied if he is satisfied. He satisfies me plenty without being in me.

You are a woman with a thing for bigger penis’s so you are in luck! On just about any dating site that allows it all you will see from guys is pictures of their penis so it will be easy to size them up.

Not sure what the problem would be with couples with big age differences, but I know it clearly is for some! I think people sometimes assume when there is a big age difference in a couple that it must be a gold digger situation or something. Maybe they think there is no way they could be a legit couple that are in love. As a couple that has a 13 year age difference ourselves her being 38 and myself being 51 I can say that it is definitely not a money thing, because when we meet I had just came out of a 16 year marriage and had nothing, but myself and two daughters to take care of. As for us being a legit couple I don’t know anyone closer and more connected then we are. Personally we don’t really give a shit if people reject us or judge us, because of the age gape. They are more then welcome to look elsewhere. As a 51 year old man I look younger and am in better shape then many of the guys that are 10 to 15 years younger then me so if they want to pass on us just because of my age go ahead. Truth is she would be passing on many of them anyways, because looks and attitude do matter to us way more then age ever will.

Deb and I are adjusting to meeting strangers on swing sites. From finding people from our past, seeing people we know from other places to not feeling it when meeting the first time. I get excited just knowing Deb is looking at profiles, what catches her eye and wonder why she passes over some. I wonder why she gives a thumbs down on some of my suggestions, some are just a feeling she gets. The day after Thanksgiving she was looking and asked me to take a look. I will emphasize that if you post make sure your picture is a great one, clothed and together, especially if you want to catch the eye of a woman. I feel creepy saying looks count, it does for us. It’s what makes Deb stop and look. My eyes go to the female while Debbie looks at the couple. Post was an attractive male, fit and I would label Mediterranean, female all American and my guess younger. One of the pictures was a wedding photo, another a beach picture, another taken very casual. No red flags on the profile I gave Deb a thumbs up to contact them. I think it is better for the women to have first contact as it shakes out fakes. An hour later a response from him but Debbie was emphatic that she needed to hear from the wife before any more is said. I figured that would end it. My surprise she was contacted with a phone number to call. Debbie called and got the details. There is a 20+ year difference in age. He’s an attorney, second marriage, she is a school teacher that met him on a vacation three years ago. They are married almost two years.

Just thinking that it’s Debbie that found the posting and she is looking at them as a couple. My thoughts ran to me having sex with a younger woman while it may be Debbie’s desire to be with someone younger. I know all of her searches were filtered to include bisexual females, a new preference for Deb and an added excitement for me. Just doing more thinking, maybe I am a voyeur wanting to watch Debbie enjoying as much as me participating. Just a year ago I was secretly happy her first partner, our friend, didn’t make her orgasm the first time, but when she finally did I was way more happy. One of the things I am enjoying is posting and thinking. As I post it makes me think about what we want and what I want, now I’m thinking what Deb wants. I should just ask her more questions, that’s always fun.

Debbie reminded me it was a year ago we started our open mindedness. Wow. Then it was friends, was that easier or harder and did that lead us into temptation. The age thing is bothering me more, Debbie less. She was the one who found them and made the contact. She just saw an attractive pair, read the intro and figured I would like them too. Now as stated 20 years has context. Thinking back to my school years my teachers who I thought were older were most likely 20 years older. If the weather isn’t horrible Deb is meeting Mrs. Teacher after work to talk and see if there is any connection. I am leaving it to Deb because I may look at age more and connection less. I would ask stupid questions instead of lady talk. What is also bothering me is I am focusing on me and a younger woman instead of Deb and a physically attractive man of our age. More so I should focus on a couple.

Very true if you are 60-40. The older you get the less the disparity becomes. We have been with younger play couples. Our first couple, and I use that tag cautiously, were younger with the young lady more than legal age but younger than I am now comfortable with, she was the way more mature of the two. We have become friends with her over the years and no longer look at her as young. According to posts by the OP the age difference they are now asking about may fall into the realm of a weird age spread. Does a couple of ~40 have thoughts of younger lady or gentleman 20 years younger? Does being married two years legitimize the relationship?

I'm wondering what everyone uses to find the right person. I've never considered myself a swinger, however I've had an extra through most of my marriage. Luckily my spouse is understanding and doesn't feel threatened as long as it's just about time with something I don't get at home. I'm a nudist woman with a thing for large penises. I've initiated most of my relationships in a nudist setting where I can gauge the attraction to the person as well as the penis before I explore starting a relationship. However, I'm ready to explore other ways to meet the right person. Any recommendations?

Mrs. Angel has been gifted not paid. She has had a number of affairs where men have given her gifts as part of the relationship. Some men don’t understand that she isn’t a prostitute and leave her an envelope, some have given her more traditional gifts like jewelry. The reason I went to this post has to do with a recent gift, a week in a timeshare with me not with him. He knows that I know about the affair they are having and offered her his timeshare to go away with me.

When I first got over my jealousy and wanted hubby to play, I found women from among my friends and acquaintances. (I wanted to control the situation, so I chose the women.) Several of them were from among my church friends. I was surprised that they were willing. One girl who had limited sexual experience and felt somewhat guilty about it, was hesitant until I said to her that I needed help with "my wifely duties." When I put it that way she was good with it. Legitimized it.