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As a guy just tell me. I don't need to know the reason... Just what you need for pleasure. If it hurts you I don't want to do it. I certainly don't want to be ramming it in and have you yell in pain. That would be devastating to know I hurt you and a real downer.

A man having a big dick needs not to stick it all the way in. A woman having a deep vaginal canal has no problem enjoying a short dick. Well, you asked.

That’s why he calls me Linda even if I never saw the movie. He also says she had nothing on me.

I don’t know why you are surprised by age differences in couples. Throughout history older men have been attracted to younger women and some women have found security in older men. Then there are Cougars, women who search out younger men and the men who are willing to satisfy the cougars. My husband knows my sexual preferences because we talk and he is happy to find partners to satisfy my wants. If we are with friends that are swingers, those that we will be more than sexual outlets for we look for age equivalent people. If we are looking for a one time no attachment play I prefer a younger partner. Fortunately younger men still find me attractive enough for a no strings attached quicky. I think it is easier for me to find a younger man vs. Mike finding a younger woman unless we meet a younger couple.

Just thinking that it’s Debbie that found the posting and she is looking at them as a couple. My thoughts ran to me having sex with a younger woman while it may be Debbie’s desire to be with someone younger. I know all of her searches were filtered to include bisexual females, a new preference for Deb and an added excitement for me. Just doing more thinking, maybe I am a voyeur wanting to watch Debbie enjoying as much as me participating. Just a year ago I was secretly happy her first partner, our friend, didn’t make her orgasm the first time, but when she finally did I was way more happy. One of the things I am enjoying is posting and thinking. As I post it makes me think about what we want and what I want, now I’m thinking what Deb wants. I should just ask her more questions, that’s always fun.

Your last line is something I agree with!

I was surprised one time when I seemed to be poking something inside her with the head of my penis. I don't consider myself to have porn star cock. It was just one of those things. I learned from many experiences that women come in all shapes and sizes down there just like us guys. In my experiences, in general, small skinny women had the loosest vaginas and the heavier "BBW's" had the tightest vaginas. ? It was only that one experience that I seemed to be "bottoming out".

louisvillemojo : Something that might help. There are inflatable vibrators that inflate from an air bulb and they can be used to stretch you and warm you up. Start small and work your way up to bigger and they are soft. They can be pumped up fairly large. Use the lube to start and if you can have an orgasm during the foreplay the tissues should be warmed up enough to go at it full speed. Starting out cold is kind of like a runner starting out cold and not warming up first. Doing the warms up first should eliminate the need for warnings during doubles play. Search for inflatable dildoes.

I had a hysterectomy at age 30 (I'm 31 now). There was a problem with my cuff (translation: The new 'end' of the vagina they make since they took the cervix that used to be the end) and they had to repair it by cutting it open and sewing it back together. This made my vagina shorter. My husband is a good size man (7-8 inch) and sometimes sex can be painful. Normally, when a women becomes aroused the vagina lengthens as the cervix pulls back. So while not aroused a doc can easily stick his 3 inch finger in and feel the cervix, but while aroused, he would need something much longer to get to the back. (Of course, this is USUALLY, some women can be different). Well my cervix isn't there anymore, just a stitched wall that hurts when he hits it, so we have had to find somethings that help. Being well lubricated and aroused is the most important. Even with a 'fixed' ending, my vagina will still expand a bit. When he first puts it in, we find it helps a lot to hold still and not move while I 'adjust' to him. I feel like a virgin again and it can be annoying stopping for a sec every time, but it helps stretch it so much it's worth it for both of us. The longer we have sex the better. Meaning that the first 5 min it is tighter/more shallow, then it gets deeper and looser (hate that term but it's the truth) as we go. So while we might start in missionary to allow a more shallow penetration, after we get going for awhile we can then move into doggy without pain as I stretch out. I hate that it's more shallow now. Like I used to pull him towards me wanting more and now I catch myself pushing against him so he don't hit too hard or deep. I miss the no holds bared type of sex we used to have, and I bet hubby misses it too If anyone has any other suggestions, I too would love to hear them! This has been a one of the factors in our play too because I am scared it will be a issue if we bring in another guy. Do I explain it first? How the heck can I explain all that and talk about my hysterectomy without turning him off? Do I just throw out that I have a shallow vag and leave it at that?

She was fully aroused, so I think that was probably her maximum depth. I'm not big, but I don't think I could get even halfway in. It took a few hits to figure that out, but I just backed off and used what was available. We both arrived at the desired destination