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The first night I spent with the woman who eventually became my second wife when we went to bed she kept her panties on. I recall she let me finger her, but the panties weren’t coming off. She asked if I would like to cum in her mouth, which sounded pretty good to me. She gave good head and I ejaculated in her mouth. In the middle of the night we started kissing and fondling and she got me off orally again. On our second date she stripped her panties off right away and my cock was in her pussy in a flash. After we’d been dating for maybe a month she asked for anal — one of her girlfriends preferred it and she was curious. It turned out she liked it too. So, we had a nice, well-rounded sex life. A couple of months later I was going to have some clinical supervision (I was- a doctoral student in clinical psychology and we had met when I was one of her supervisees) and she said there was something she needed to tell me about the guy (and I’m paraphrasing here after 40 years). "I gave him a blowjob once. I didn’t fuck him, but I did suck him off. He knows you and I are involved and I didn’t want you to be the odd person out, the only one who didn’t know the score." For my first wife and a lot of women I’d dated, a blowjob was a much bigger deal than intercourse, and a lot of them didn’t want the guy to cum in their mouth. Those women, who would suck but not take the semen, would pull their mouth away and then finish their partner (that would be me…) of with a couple of strokes with their hand. Thinking back to our first date I told my relatively new girlfriend that I was surprised that she would suck a guy and swallow but not fuck him. "Oh, I will blow a guy when I don’t want to have sex with him. And it’s really easy. I can tell when a guy is just about to cum and I make sure the head of his cock is all the way in the back of my mouth. The semen just goes right down my throat. It’s like swallowing snot." I suppose it shouldn’t have, but I found that last sentence a bit deflating. It took the specialness out of a good blow and swallow. She could reach orgasm through intercourse, but she really liked getting eaten. I don’t think I ever solicited oral from her again during the seven years we were together, but in addition to vaginal and anal intercourse I licked her pussy a lot.

We had a double-date with a couple we hadn't seen since pre-pandemic last NYE. Technically, we "swapped" and were each other's dates as soon as we got to the restaurant, but it must have confused the waiter because the mixed dynamics were visible. It was a really fun evening and a good way to jump back into it activities.

I don’t understand liking her gagging. Gagging means she can’t breathe and not something I would want to see someone I love going through. Do you enjoy being choked, I know some men do, not any I know. Some men like to be demeaned I just never understood.

Thank you for the reply. I have the tendency to be over analytical. After a little bit, it was fine. I think the shock was the biggest thing, haha. Happy New Year!

That’s called starting the year with a Bang.

There was a time early on when hubby and I held hands as we both were having intercourse with someone else. It was powerful and romantic. At least for me as a woman, it's because (theoretically) a baby may be created. That's a big deal.

The simple answer is that what happens is *entirely* up to you. Even in the swinging world, “No” still means no.

Do you give your entries a rating system?? (this one was five dicks up!)

My husband described it as he likes seeing me play the slut. He likes it when I do all the dirty stuff with another guy cause then he can spend his day imagining I am out there taking whatever I want sexually. He imagines I am so horny I couldn't control myself. If I met a guy I wanted my inner slut would do anything to take him. Of course its totally in his head, I can control my vagina just fine. But he loves the imagery so I give it too him. I play the slutty unfaithful wife that is a succubus and needs sex to survive.

No I hate being choked and I don't like choking my GF either although she loves to be choked. I am not even a big fan of facefucking myself. I enjoy watching her get facefucked more than I enjoy facefucking her myself. But my GF loves getting facefucked. I'm not 100% sure why. She is very submissive so maybe that plays into it but she says she enjoys it and a lot of guys enjoy fucking her face so who am I to stop it? I've posted on the whole facefucking thing before. It's grown in popularity to where it has almost become commonplace. I think some of this is due to the porn today. It seems to be everywhere. I've had the conversation with my GF before as to how she can like getting facefucked, choked, slapped, etc so much and she just shrugs it off as saying it's fun and that what seems like it might be painful or uncomfortable actually isn't when it's in a sexual setting for her. She always tells people if you yank her hair in the street she'll flip out but if you do it when you're fucking her doggystyle she'll get turned on. She enjoys that stuff much more than I do. She has pulled my hair so hard before that I've told her to stop. So yeah, we are very different.

I like watching her flirt with other guys for their cocks. I like watching her drop to her knees. I like seeing her lips wrapped around it sucking it. I like seeing the expression on the guy's face. If he's facefucking her I like to hear the sound of her gagging and see her eyes become watery. And I like to see another guy shoot his load all over her face (or sometimes in her mouth and see her swallow). I think that about covers it.

In joining the LS she found out that she likes putting on a show. And she really likes giving blow jobs. The first time in a club we had sex so many times in so many rooms I couldn't walk straight for a week. It really turns her on and I get turned on seeing how hot it gets her. As mentioned above the look on guys faces as they get a back breaking, eyes rolling back in your head blow job...... priceless.?

I think it goes back to the old adage, when asked what a perfect woman was one man said, "a perfect woman would be a cook in the kitchen, a lady in the parlor, and a whore in the bedroom?" Then the other man replied, "My perfect woman is a whore in the kitchen, a whore in the parlor, and a whore in the bedroom. Men may enjoy the prestige of a proper wife but behind closed doors they want a wife that truly has an insatiable sexual appetite. They want us to give into our sluttiest desires, and what is more slutty than tasting another man's cock, and sucking it dry.

It's very visual, quite easy to see. And, for some men, perhaps it's less threatening. If my wife wants to suck a guy, and she often does, it's fine by me. I like to look at the way she's handling it as it's in her mouth, the look on the guy's face as she's giving him oral sex. If she chooses to let him come in her mouth, it's funny the emotions on his face as he lets go. On the other hand, if she'd rather do other things, that's fine by me as well.

I don't know about other guys, but I like the way it looks. I think a woman sucking a man looks very sexy... and I can't really appreciate it the same way when the man is me, because the sensations of being blown distract from the visual impact. I love watching the show... which works perfectly for me because my wife loves putting on a show.

I have a message written on a roofing tile out by my hot tub. I got it in New Orleans and it's my favorite decoration. It says; "A true friend is someone who sees through your act, yet still enjoys the show."

My wife and I went for dinner at our friends place (another couple), and jumped into the hot tube after we ate. The 2 girls started talking about how hot it would be to watch us 2 men together, and asked if we would try. We agreed that we would try and made our way back into the house. We started with each others wives until we were naked and ready to go. His wife whispered in my ear that she wanted me to suck his cock with her, so I agreed and the rest his history. I LOVED it and so did our wives. We gave each other head and followed with anal for both of us. Ever since then, I have played with a few men in the lifestyle and really enjoy it. Although I don't announce to everyone that I'm bisexual, I thought I would at least tell my best friend. I was a bit nervous telling him as he was straight since I've known him. I told him that I was bisexual and he told me that he curious about playing with another guy but didn't have the courage to ever say something about it. I told my wife that he was curious about being with another man, and she was happy to let me experience that with him. To this day we play regularly and he loves it just as much as I do!! On the other hand, some people are really uncomfortable with the thought. You just have to be yourself with others and if they don't like you for who you are, there not worth the friendship.

First time I kissed another girl was when i had my first FMF threesome. I fancied a guy in high school who knew I wanted him as my boyfriend, we were just fuck buddies at first and then he said he will be my boyfriend if we can have threesome with my best friend. We had sex with me and her in missionary, that's when i kissed her while he was behind me going in and out taking us in turns. Neither of us was on birth control so he had to use a condom. My first experience with two men was when I was an escort. A male client had booked me for an overnight with his male friend, both had with them recent STD certificates to prove they were clean. Both were taking me in turns, DP'ing, all three of us were kissing one another, every time they came it was in my vagina, the other guy would go down on me to lick it out then come up to kiss me or the other guy. It was really strange for me as I'd never experienced anything like that before.

Happened to me during a threesome with a married couple. She had been riding me cowgirl style and he was behind her as we were going to DP. At some point I slipped out of her and he held me for a moment before taking me in his mouth. It felt great and was happy to carry on, he did it for a moment or two before guiding me back into her. We then DP'ed. Later while we were relaxing, he was semi hard I lent over to stroke him which he responded too and I then sucked him off. Have done it a number of times mainly when in a mmf or mfmf.

My first experience came when we were playing with another couple. We were relaxing after the first round when the other guy asked if he could touch me. I thought about it for a moment and then said go ahead. He reached down and began to stroke my cock. It felt good and got even better when he started licking and sucking me. I plucked up my courage and began to stroke him. Before we knew it we were in a 69 together with our wives lending encouragement. It was a very erotic scene and one I have repeated many times since.

Very well said! I'll have to share this with my yahoo group of guys. We've got three of us who are experienced and two who are very curious.

My first experience came in a meeting with another couple. His wife was sucking me and my wife was sucking him. I was watching my wife closely, as I love to watch sucking cock live. She then asked me to join her in sucking his cock. I did. It was amazing, it was hot! It aroused my wife, it aroused his wife. What she was doing sucking my cock, I tried on his cock. Worked really, really well. When his first spurt hit my tongue, my first spurt hit her tongue. It was spiritual while raw and primal at the same time. You may be surprised at how many men are willing to be sucked by another male in a threesome/foursome situation, even if they aren't willing to suck. You may also be surprised at how much negativity such bi-curiosity can inspire both on this board and in real meetings with real people. So be forewarned. We try not to meet biphobes, or more accurately, omniphobes. For bisexuality is more an omnisexuality while both homo and hetero sexuality is not. So we tend to be frank about our omnisexuality when hoping to meet singles or couples. We suggest you also be frank, and frank about your inexperience too.