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A plane should be no closer than 500 ft away from people. And, 500 ft would be very close in a single engine plane. How well do you see tits that are 500 ft away? Sorry, not that big of a thrill. A drone is both closer and has optics / recording capability. Huge invasion of privacy.

It is absolutely different. Everything that feels good to a man happens inside our bodies. Then add to that if they refuse to wear protection, and refuse to pull out we face the consequences of potential unwanted pregnancy. Men can get their dick wet and walk away, while we potentially have to deal with the consequences. Then finally there is the issue of if we decided to stop because the man is hurting us or doing something we are not comfortable with we always have the fear that the man will just hold us down and do what he wanted anyways. Ever have a man decide to choke you during sex, well I have and that is scary as shit. We do not all have that fantasy. Ever seen a well endowed guy decide to fuck her throat for a just little too long. I've had that one too, we can't breath so that's scary. We also do not all love anal sex, yet I've had five men decide to do it anyways. If you're not ready for it a dick in your bum really hurts. Or you could just try to kill us. They say a man fears being rejected by a woman, while women fear being killed by a man. So yes, sex takes trust for a woman and yes it is different. .

On our 1st visit to Desire, we were at the check in desk sipping welcoming champagne and Mrs Doc saw several nude couples walk through near the gift shop. She said, "look honey, they're naked". I nodded and smiled and went back to the check in process. When I looked back at my wife, not 2 minutes later, she was behind me wearing only a smile. It was the start to a great week during which we realized that she packed waaaaaaay too much clothing!

We had a similar experience. We went, were welcomed, given the option (it was a clothing optional destination) and found ourselves among 200 people not so different --so we thought-- as the ones we had just left at the airport -- just that they were naked. What was different? They looked us in the eye, engaged us in conversation, and went out of their way to make us feel like we members of a community. Ten minutes for us. When everyone else is naked, the "bathing suit" suddenly seems unnecessary. Such are the power of cultural norms.

Such stories remind us of how comfortable we are in our own skins. Such aerial reconnaissance reminds us of how fortunate we are to enjoy casual nudity, and how awful it must be to work at being an aerial "peeping Tom". We visited Cap d'Agde last month. There were--best estimate--about 10,000 nude people on the beach. Generally, Americans are remarkable for their discomfort with nudity.

Our neighbor 3 houses up has a drone that he's flown around the neighborhood. Friday, when everyone was out getting ready for the hurricane, he made a comment to Mrs Doc which led her to believe that he knows she never wears a suit in our pool. Guess he didn't have his drone the last time we had "company"! He's kinda creepy but in the end, what's the point of caring? Short of shooting the damned thing down (I was tempted) there's not much we can do about it.

Men can't get pregnant?

Amy and I just finished discussing following a visit from swinger friends. Amy said a sex must be different for a woman since all cocks are different. She enjoys my shorter length in a different manner to which she enjoys 9 inches from Steve. It takes longer to get ready for his bigger cock and lasts longer when things get comfortable. Apparently Vicky said she likes a shorter cock inside her so there's lots of room to play inside her pussy. Steve never hits her G spot with the head of his cock and always finishes deep-deep inside her. Vicky ,ikes the feeling of cum inside all of her pussy. Amy said she likes cum deep inside her because she lovesthe feeling of it trickling out.

My SO enjoys watching me being pounded by another man (PIV) than being facefucked or me doing bj on another. So when we swing with others, I minimize that visual when he is around. When playing alone with another, it is more unrestrained. 🙂

I know what you mean, but believe things are changing. During the time I have been nonmonogamous, my situation has gone from totally hiding it to (while not being totally open about my poly family) not denying what has become common knowledge. People ask about my family and I'll discuss our children, etc. but no one probes our sex life. The short of it is that people (co-workers, running partners, coffee shop friends, teachers) both men and women, especially the young, want to discuss their intimate relationships, as if my family arrangement gives me particularly deep insight. A few men have asked for emotional advice, not sexual. The women, however, have been all over the place, crying about their love interest, asking about birth control, disappointed by or bragging about sex. As my posts show, I have an opinion on just about everything and I give it along with a variety of options and alternatives.

Petra, I didn’t resent my then girlfriend positioning my cock so my semen went straight down her throat, I’d just misperceived what was going on, and that she just found her comparison of my semen to snot off-putting. She was still "mechanically" great at sucking cock. To your point, in another recent thread I wrote about my FWB relationship with a woman who gave me my first really great blowjobs and helped me learn to give a woman proper head. She found intercourse painful (which I attributed to abuse she’d suffered by her father) and preferred giving and receiving oral. Her favorite was 69 and like you, she savored her partner’s semen. She told me that the taste of each of her regular partners’ semen was different, which was something that had never even occurred to me — I wasn’t familiar at that point with even the aroma of anyone’s semen but my own.

I'd be flattered if someone went through the effort to see me naked.

Most of our time over the holidays is taken up with the kids. The sex we have is mostly threesomes at home with the other two of us entertaining the children. Later it's remix and repeat. Unlike a traditional couples marriage, we get variety and we get the opportunity.

We had a nice cuddle/fuck/cuddle late this afternoon and just finished a light supper. We will likely be asleep well before midnight and we are far enough out in the countryside I don’t expect there will be fireworks to awaken us. We did reminisce about a large semi-wild New Year’s Eve party 50 years ago tonight at my home — while married to our first spouses. The best man from my first wedding caught my then wife making out with her boyfriend, unaware that we had a casually open marriage. (I’m glad we aren’t at our apartment in Manhattan tonight, even though it’s three miles north of Times Square I expect there will be a lot of noise.)

The simple answer is that what happens is *entirely* up to you. Even in the swinging world, “No” still means no.

That is a funny story @cplnuswing! I know we're not the only ones here who go to Gunnison Beach in NJ. When we started there smartphones were not yet a thing and there was a no-photography rule that ppl generally abided by. You really didn't have to worry about anyone sneaking pics of you. These days not only is everyone taking pics with their phones but drones buzz around overhead as well. It's obnoxious! We still go, but big hats and shades are pretty much mandatory if you want to protect your privacy.

I *think* it was Jerry Seinfeld who said that while women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place! 😂

I had only had women doctors. My husband had only had men. In college he had his first female doctor, he was so embarrassed he sounds like a few of you. As the exam progressed he grew, when she probed him he got rock hard. I laughed. He said it wasn't funny, she was very attractive. I laughed harder. He said it was even worse when he begin to leak. I sat there with my mouth open, "No Way!" Instead of torturing him I reminded him of my first male doctor. It turned me on so much I asked him to leave the room several times. I overheard the nurse talking about aroused I was. That made matters more challenging with the whole doctor/nurse fantasies most of us have. Not my best medical exams. After several other appointments they begin scheduling a female doctor for me.

If your hubby is aware and on board -yes you can swing on your own - called ‘hot wife’. If he is not aware, not on board there is a different word for that… And, yes clubs welcome unaccompanied women with open arms. The clubs are not concerned with your marital status.

I so very much love to watch the Mrs. suck and swallow another man. she has been told that she has a very special touch, at first she was not into it but now loves it, and goes after it like a hungry kitten after cream. It is so very hot and I love her so much more for sharing this with me. We have a rule that the man always has to kiss her deeply after.

It was very hot watching my partners suck a man to completion. Kim was my favorite to watch she encouraged guys to fuck her mouth. Then hold her tight as they shot in her mouth. For me watching the guys wife holding his cock as my partner sucked was incredible.

With how obsessed America is about nudity, it really is amazing with how uptight and afraid Americans are about getting nude. First visit to a nudist resort we were told that 15 minutes after being around nudists we wouldn't notice that they were nude and we would feel out of place if we were still wearing clothes...actually it took about 20 minutes.

We hear a lot on another site that anal is a special thing just for the two of them. I'm not sure what makes anal so sacred. Actually, although it will never be my favorite, I've had better anal experiences with play partners than with PB. I'm not sure if it's technique or equipment (and smaller does not necessarily equal more comfortable, for some reason), but with some it's just been more satisfying than with others. That being said, I would never ask for it, but have allowed some to do, if they've asked pretty pretty please...lol.