It was never a requirement or rule. We are both very sexually active especially with each other. We never had any type of play session that we didn’t finish another round with each other. Not reclaiming to us, sounds to assertive for us. We usually, when asked called it reconnect.
Still at our age we finish each day, in bed, entwined…..sexually and emotionally releasing to each other….then drifting off to sleep together.
Still just reconnecting after a day of…..whatever.