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So true. By that gauge there may even be a shortage of single males in the LS. @bbarnsworth offers solid advice. As the husband in a couple who partakes of single males (more then half of lifestyle couples do) I'll add this: Most single men in the lifestyle have almost zero success yet some do very, very well. Why? Looks are important so is charm and attitude of course. If those things check out you might get an interview. Also, and this is where a lot of guys go wrong, couples looking for single males will likely find you. You don't even need to contact them directly. Couples get sick of being bombarded by single males so let your online profile do the talking bc couples will be looking at it. Good work gets rewarded by more work and the lifestyle community is a very social community so word gets around. And please remember that a lot of lifestyle couples work around kid's schedules so be respectful of their time and don't flake out. Be there when and where agreed upon because when you have kids you work hard to get free nights.

It is interesting how things have changed for me/us in thirteen years. Now that there are five of us adults, three women, two men, and our children living together as a family, many people know. We don't discuss our sex lives with others any more than a vanilla couple would, but with us women all having children with both guys, it's easy to figure out. BTW, my sister didn't remain monogamous for very long - she is a serial adulteress. Her husband finds out, they fight, split up, and make up. It's become a predictable pattern.

We keep our private lives private. We have not told anyone in our family about our "hobby". And we have only told 1 person outside the lifestyle about it. The main reason we told him was to cover our tracks on the outside chance something happens to both of us at once. We don't want our families or children to find out by going through our computers after we are gone. We know they will go through them, as we have photos, personal info they will need on the computers. So we looked for a friend that could 1) deal with our hobby without freaking out or change how he relates to us. 2) could keep his mouth shut 3) Was computer savvy enough to cover our tracks. 4) Our family knew and trusted. So we confided in him, it was a very interesting conversation. Anyway, who have you told? Why? How did it go?

For me, it was 10th grade. Didn't last very long. Only got to enjoy it for about a minute before her brother discovered us and all hell broke lose.

Aren’t we passed this type of question?

Maybe because we are younger and raised in a liberal NY family, I have friends of all races and religions. I dated Black guys and a Hispanic. Heck I even dated an Italian lol. I will say the majority of my school friends were white, I’m not sure of the percentage of non whites vs whites at school. I think there were more white girls dating black guys vs black girls dating white guys. Currently our parties contain a mix yet predominantly white. I am sure some of the white guys steer clear, yet I don’t find that many that do. For the most part most of my friends are color blind. Do my girlfriends talk about the black guys? Yes. It makes me uncomfortable because the talk is more stereotypes and size. It’s not racist at all.

That's a strange question on SO many levels. ???

My wife and I went for dinner at our friends place (another couple), and jumped into the hot tube after we ate. The 2 girls started talking about how hot it would be to watch us 2 men together, and asked if we would try. We agreed that we would try and made our way back into the house. We started with each others wives until we were naked and ready to go. His wife whispered in my ear that she wanted me to suck his cock with her, so I agreed and the rest his history. I LOVED it and so did our wives. We gave each other head and followed with anal for both of us. Ever since then, I have played with a few men in the lifestyle and really enjoy it. Although I don't announce to everyone that I'm bisexual, I thought I would at least tell my best friend. I was a bit nervous telling him as he was straight since I've known him. I told him that I was bisexual and he told me that he curious about playing with another guy but didn't have the courage to ever say something about it. I told my wife that he was curious about being with another man, and she was happy to let me experience that with him. To this day we play regularly and he loves it just as much as I do!! On the other hand, some people are really uncomfortable with the thought. You just have to be yourself with others and if they don't like you for who you are, there not worth the friendship.

First time I kissed another girl was when i had my first FMF threesome. I fancied a guy in high school who knew I wanted him as my boyfriend, we were just fuck buddies at first and then he said he will be my boyfriend if we can have threesome with my best friend. We had sex with me and her in missionary, that's when i kissed her while he was behind me going in and out taking us in turns. Neither of us was on birth control so he had to use a condom. My first experience with two men was when I was an escort. A male client had booked me for an overnight with his male friend, both had with them recent STD certificates to prove they were clean. Both were taking me in turns, DP'ing, all three of us were kissing one another, every time they came it was in my vagina, the other guy would go down on me to lick it out then come up to kiss me or the other guy. It was really strange for me as I'd never experienced anything like that before.

I'm from Alabama and we now live in Florida, and I've never had a problem in the lifestyle. Almost the opposite has been the case.....there's lots of couples that will seek you out because they've never been with a black person before. Now, I understand that there are places that you may not want to go: for example, to some of the clubs in Mississippi that are for whites only, but for the most part, I don't think you'll have a problem....I know I don't. Pepper

I remember after school in about first or second grade, a female classmate was pulling her pants down on the way home from school and flashing the guys. I noticed a group of guys on the wrong side of the street grouped up and laughing hysterically. They were all laughing and pointing at her butt, but I was more interested in her pussy. Years later, the experience made me sad, wondering what in her home life led her to do such a thing in 1967.