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I had sex with a twenty-four-year-old divorced woman with one 14-year-old daughter. After a long continuous thrusting, she suddenly tensed, jerked, and her eyes widened dramatically. She sucked in a deep breath of air and formed a panic face with a deep throaty screech as if in pain. She instantly kicked me off and shoved away from me about 2 feet. I was confused and worried I had hurt her somehow. I ask if she was ok. She was staring up at the ceiling feeling her pussy with one hand and her stomach with the other while her chest was heaving for air as if she had run a 5-mile race. I asked her if I had hurt her. She said no. She said that was the most wonderful feeling. I have never felt it before. I thought for a moment. I asked her was it on the outside or inside. She said inside all the way to my breasts. God, it felt so good. It sounded like an orgasm. I asked her if she had ever had an orgasm. She wasn't sure. She got all excited and with big giggle she said let's do it again, I loved it. So, I remounted her and off I went gently thrusting her. Soon, she started to stiffen, and a huge grin stretched her face. Oh, shit she swore. It's coming again. She didn't kick me away that time. Instead, she acted like most women do having a terrific orgasm. She had been married 14 years and no orgasm. She said that when sex with her ex-husband started to feel good, he was finished. Sounded like he just used her for a cum dump, and no oral sex either. So, I began giving her all kinds of sexual advice and instructions on sex, even kinky sex. Damn, she became one hell of a lover. She developed some tricks of her own. I still get hard and tingly all over from remembering them. FANTASTIC!!!!

This thread reminds me of dreams that I've had where I'm the only naked one in the room. Both disturbing and exciting.

Me, a voyeur. My wife is an exhibitionist big time. She loves showing her body in public. Things she gets away with. Loves showing those naked boobs anywhere.

I'm amazed this question even comes up. A lady is a lady regardless of race, creed or looks. The requirements is that they enjoy sex and are comfortable in their bodies and with themselves.

Menopause has been a blessing and a curse for us in that it took away one of the fears of sex, pregnancy, which went along with dryness. So far for me menopause has not reduced my desire to have sex, it may have had the opposite effect for me. The dryness was a gradual occurrence going from being very lubricated to the point of pain during sex. Innocent me knew about lubricants I just didn’t know how or where to apply it. Now I have a launcher that was suggested on here. The beauty of asking without embarrassing conversations. At our age Rocky and I are playing with couples on both sides of menopause where I am not the only woman having dryness something some women are more willing to open up about. Some are taking hormones, HRT, others are using different forms of lubricants and finally I am opening up to have the talk. I didn’t complain to my GYN, a mistake, as she sees this on a day to day problem. I don’t know what the future will bring right now my desire is still strong.

All you can do is engage and be charming. But don't go having sex in public where it's not condoned.

For us as she went through menopause it all slowed down. She still tried very hard to give me time but many times it was obvious that she wasn’t really in to it, just something she did for me. She would attend parties and events and time with our friends but her drive and interest came to a stop. Once the life of the party she just didn’t have interest any more. She also lost much of her self confidence and became very critical of herself. When our last club location shut down she said she really didn’t want to attend any more and thought we should just move on. We still have many great friends and attachments that we still maintain and enjoy time with but primarily social.

I've mentioned this in prior posts, we're in the lifestyle to enhance our sex life. Together our sex life is amazing. Bringing a new dynamic (another male, another female, couple, etc) is to experience things we cannot do alone. Partnering up and going to separate rooms doesn't achieve our objective of enhancing our sex life. It is merely having sex with someone else, which isn't of interest.

Not telling on my wife, but women we met in menopause have a problem with vaginal dryness. There are other threads on here with good suggestions. It is a widespread problem. Probably explains many swinging dropouts.

Sure, by the third fuck I am usually spent and nothing comes out, I blow smoke. I am 62 and when a woman that get that 3rd fuck out of me I am usually dry. I tell the gals that they can suck me off the 3rd time and not get a drop of semen.

I opened this post to see if CFNM is a railroad. Swingers on a train.

That sounds amazing. We have also hosted events where we hang sheets up and guys stand behind them. The sheets have holes so the guys can show off their cocks. The ladies sample them with their hands and mouths and then choose who they want to fuck.

I've never had an orgasm without ejaculation but one time my wife called me and I didn't come.

Yeah, I think probably nearly every guy does to some extent. Some maybe more, some maybe less, but when you get turned on, definitely some pre-cum. In my experience, some women find that extra hot, so instead of a problem, it might actually be a positive turn-on.

The sight and sound of us giving and receiving pleasure, with each other present is a HUGE turn on for us. Can't imagine any other way of playing.

Our reasons are similar to others expressed above. It is mainly because swinging is, for us, a shared sexual adventure. We really consider ourselves as doing it as a couple. We like to see the other pleasure and be pleasured. As well, we are more into group play that only swapping so I guess that would certainly draw us to same room.

We swing for the shared experience. So same room allows us to revel in that. D

Wow, I think the general concensus around here would be that there isn't enough single black females in the lifestyle! I wouldn't listen to those you've talked to, I don't think they really know what they are talking about. Mr. WS

We live in CA, so it might be different in GA but there are plenty of couples who will play with black females/couples/males. There are surely going to be people that turn you down because you are black but there will also be some that think you're especially sexy because you're dark skin. Good company is good company, regardless of skin color.

Menopause definitely slowed swinging to a crawl. My wife hit menopause the same time as the covid lockdowns. We had been looking forward to returning to pre-covid lifestyle activity but now i don't think we'll ever get back. We played four times in 2022 down from about 12-14 times in 2018.