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For years my husband did stay hard or hard enough to not withdraw. My first swap lover stayed hard after a very long sensual first sex act. I have thought many times of that first time, my first time having sex with a new friend we met on a cruise, the first time having sex outside of marriage. I don’t refer to that first time as having sex, we made love. I gave my body to him and he was great. We did everything lovers would do. I was very receptive to enjoying and I was brought to heights many times before he ejaculated in me. I was about to roll over to catch my breath when he stopped me, still in me, holding me close and then slowly started again. I will never forget.

We might scout around and check out activity separately but when it comes time to participate we want to be together, that includes watching and masterbating each other.

Do you give your entries a rating system?? (this one was five dicks up!)

We had decided early on that we should keep track for many reasons who we met. We started by keeping our own real names and any identifying facts very secretive. We set up a special email, never gave out phone numbers or addresses and either met at neutral meeting places. We had a fear of people knowing I was bi and we were having sex with strangers. After meeting anonymously, we knew more about others, we thought what happens if they need to contact us for any number of reasons or we needed to contact them. It became my job to keep track, keep a journal. It started with just names and contact info and if we had a picture to attach. We then extended the entries to and special notes which then led to more of a narrative of what happened each time we met. The real fun was my notes didn’t always sound like the way he saw it. We kept expanding details, what could we remember. We even went as far as journaling physical attributes. We do have a type we look to but even that has gotten wider. We didn’t want facial hair at first, now we have expanded. At one point we searched out redheads, don’t be fooled by pictures. Breast size is hard to hide. We kept adding to journal categories, orgasms, easy or hard to make a woman orgasm or no orgasm. Men’s orgasms too, to soon and then we adding notes of copious, men who had major amounts. We know who was shy, exhibitionist, who was dominated in a relationship. We even added notes on sounds made. We are now even grading meetings, not every meeting is worth repeating. Are we being over obsessive in our journaling, I think it has added another fun thing we do and going back over those we met is like going through family vacation pictures. Things we would like to do again and things we did period. Do others keep track or just remember the few they met?

We haven’t been with many others because we enjoy the ones we first swapped with. There are more that we have been with, some memorable, some forgettable. I don’t know if I want to remember every detail, just the memorable times. I still refer to our first, my first as my Other Lover. The first time with a woman I just wanted to forget, it wasn’t something I needed to do or wanted to do. Years later I have labeled her My Lesbian Lover. I wish I journaled that first time with them as memories fade or change as we age.

Neither exhibitionist nor voyeur, I enjoy playing separately in different rooms. Being watched changes what I am doing while watching is not the most enjoyable. As I become more active I am less neurotic about being watched and more comfortable seeing others having sex.

My thinking only men enjoy torturing a woman like this no matter how magical a vagina is. We all know that babies go through there and it expands to accommodate. I also know it is painful to have a baby without drugs that a man can never know the feeling. Normal sized toys, normal sized men, a few fingers are pleasurable, a fist doesn’t belong there.

Vaginas are magic.

I've mentioned this in prior posts, we're in the lifestyle to enhance our sex life. Together our sex life is amazing. Bringing a new dynamic (another male, another female, couple, etc) is to experience things we cannot do alone. Partnering up and going to separate rooms doesn't achieve our objective of enhancing our sex life. It is merely having sex with someone else, which isn't of interest.

Safety reasons for my gal, separate rooms doesn't bother me but my SO wants in the same room due to men that has a hard time understanding the meaning of NO! I enjoy the same room so I can watch or be watched, such a turn on!

Hysterical. We have our own way of rating that is more inline with what our intentions were when meeting them. As strange as it may be sexual prowess is not a top concern. Two characteristics stand out on first meeting, ease of conversation and friendliness. We are aware both of these are difficult to rate for those who never met others specifically for sex. Appearance is also important in a clean well kept way not in a beauty way. From a sex side we have notes of how our meeting progressed. Most of our meetings are based on the woman’s wants of exploration so our comments are more woman based and how she reacts and gives back and our remarks might offend others reading. I won’t say that dicks aren’t rated and part of the overall rating, of course the men are important and every woman appreciates great sex.

Mostly just watching and looking at my beautiful naked wife. She likes to watch.

I have read notes my wife keeps on our shared computer with her knowledge. Some notes are very brief, others can be very graphic bordering on pornography. At first I didn’t know who, what or where she was meeting, we both were open that we did meet others, keeping secretive the details. Then we had an honest talk and expanded to playing together as well as alone. I don’t keep a diary that I could share , I did give her my password to emails. I also made a picture file that she has the password to. Reading and sharing is extremely sexy even if I question the why she meets some of the men she does. She has questioned my choices, that’s when I answer for both of us. Sex.

Michael could never experience things the same way because he is doing different things. He can’t know the feeling I get with a man the same way I will never know the feeling of putting a penis in a woman. Michael is very good at noticing my reactions when he watches. He knows when I get excited or disappointed. I don’t remember sounds I make giving a bj or that I at times reach between my legs when a man comes. It’s two views of the same act.

It is interesting how two people experiencing the same thing will come away with different memories of the event! I've remembered my wife doing things while swinging and she has no recollection of it, and vice versa. "I did that? Really?"

For us new play equals new partners. We normally don’t form a relationship with those we meet. I know this sounds slutty, we enjoy meeting new people who are new to the lifestyle. Some that we meet lean on us instead of branching out. Not that we have a mission, it’s more we try to make the entry into the lifestyle less worrisome, no pressure. We have kept it touch with some of our playmates, not many. Anyone reading this that we met can write to us asking our journal entry on them. Just be sure for the honesty if you want it.

Hmmm I wonder how others would rate us. We only started in swinging LS and can tell you everything about everyone we met. I can’t imagine losing track with too many meet-ups, Possibly you can share on here parts of your journal. Don’t you have homework after sex with others? . For us part of the fun is reliving what we just did, I think journaling or blogging would extend the fun.

Our rule of thumb has always been plus/minus 10 years of our age. However, the hottest night we had ever was about 4 years ago with a couple who were both 25 years younger than us. It IS a rule of thumb, just not carved in stone!

Exhibitionist. When I know people are watching, even peripherally, my arousal level goes off the charts.

OK, now let's see somebody ejaculate without having an orgasm.

We're the minority voters. It doesn't stop us from doing anything. We look at it the same way hotcouplegns does: It's natural. Not gross. But that's just us. We haven't "played" with anyone else while she was but wouldn't be opposed as long as we knew they weren't bothered by it. Bringing that up, in discussion isn't something we do though. So guess it'll probably stay just us.

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