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  1. 2 points
    This is an old thread that I've never seen before, and I'm surprised how many people think that nonmonogamy must be symmetric between the couple. We certainly didn't start that way, nor end up that way. We are just one data point, but we started with me having a husband and boyfriend while they were monogamous. After several years, with my encouragement, hubby played with a number of women while boyfriend was monogamous with me and I stuck with him and hubby. Although we have now settled into a poly family with two other women (with us women having a shared, married boyfriend whose wife knows), there has been non symmetric playing along the way. There are reasons why swinging is naturally asymmetric - men have a higher sex drive (usually) but women can absorb much more sex. You never hear of a male gangbang. Men usually like to watch their wife having sex with another man more than the reverse. Women are more likely to be bi. As long as it's consensual, go for it.
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    I think this arrangement has become more popular. I think you see this more and more with the whole cuckold explosion. I am allowed to have sex with other women but our arrangement certainly feels more "one-sided" simply because of the volume of men my GF has. It's really not even comparable. But it doesn't bother me in the least, I actually enjoy it this way. My GF has an extremely high sex drive and likes to explore lots of different sexual things, some of which I like to be a part of and participate and others that I don't want to have anything to do with. But fortunately there is always a line of guys willing to fulfill those things for her. And I really enjoy watching, hearing the stories, seeing the pictures and videos, etc. I think it makes the sex between us better.
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    How do you feel about couples that "swing" where the wife is the only one that plays with other people? My wife and I have an arrangement that she can sleep with other women as long as I am there and watching, even if the other woman is married and me and the other guy watch. We have also talked about, but have not done this yet, her sleeping with another guy and I would watch/have a MFM with my wife. My wife is not comfortable with me sleeping with other women at this point, and honestly I am completely fine with that. I feel we both get A LOT of excitement out of this arrangement. Her for obvious reasons, and me because I get to watch my wife and experience my deepest fantasies! Once again we have not invited another male into our bedroom yet, but I think we both feel we would be willing to try now to see how we feel about it. I have heard arguments that this is "one-sided" and will lead to disaster for our marriage! That the only way we should proceed is if my wife is willing to allow me to fuck other women as well. I don't feel that this is one-sided though, I feel that I am very much included in the activities and my wife is doing this for me. Any thoughts?
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    I don’t know much about gangbangs or how they work but isn’t that just a woman having one on one with multiple men where one finishes and another jumps on not one woman with two men at the same time. From what I’ve read Gangbangs are more a man’s fantasy and not many women want it.
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    Hi Ray. I think you've already received some great insight, but would like to share my thoughts as well. I think "lifestyle" is the key word there. Your chosen lifestyle at any given point in time is not the same as your life. Things ebb and flow throughout people's lives, and what was super important to them at one point may not be as some future point for many different reasons. It sounds like what is more important to her is having you in her life, not leading the lifestyle she did several years ago, and even then, that was just a lifestyle at most, maybe even more a hobby. Swinger couples aren't immune from divorce. We know this first hand from what some very close swinger friends have gone through. Swinging, their hobby/lifestyle, had nothing to do with it. It had been a part of their marriage for many years. Other factors in their lives did have something to do with it, same factors that play into the lives of all married couples. There is so much more to life and marriage than sex. I think a very common misconception is that is not true for swingers, but it totally is. I don't find it odd at all that she would happily give up swinging for the sake of your relationship and never even give it a second thought.
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    Choose someone that you trust who she doesn't know. The thrill with some safety. Hey, we all have our kinks, swinging can satisfy them. There is a man and a woman in our group who are into BDSM stuff and their spouses definitely are not, and won't even watch. They are a perfect match for that kink and find satisfaction in each other, then - back to their spouses.
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    These desires can't be easily categorized. Perhaps a mix of all three. This is the obsession of not only my wife and I, but also the others in our group. That's why our group is tested and closed. We all think it feels much better and no worries about the ejaculation.
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    It's incredible how swinging can supercharge your life! My wife Becky was excited about being with our friends Brandon and Kristen again, so we invited them for dinner and drinks. We both were expecting a fantastic night! That afternoon, while I was resting, Becky came into the bedroom, stripped naked, climbed into bed, and cuddled up. I put my hand between her legs, and her juices flowed like a river. As I played with her clit she began to moan and, within a minute, started to cum. I was surprised as she usually takes a while before she comes. I lowered my head to her pussy and inhaled the sweet scent that only comes from one place. I wanted to immediately suck her pussy, but I refrained, knowing she was sensitive after an orgasm. However, I lay looking at her swollen lips and the juices flowing to the crack in her ass. "Do you need a shave for tonight?" I asked. "Of course," she replied, "I want it smooth for Brandon and Kristen." Since I had shaved her only a few days before, the growth was not long. While she keeps the hair around her pussy completely shaved, there is a small triangle of hair that remains above her clit. I got the shaving cream and razor and began 'the job.' I finished in a few minutes, got the massage oil, and put a few drops on her pussy. After she shaves, she likes me to rub the oil into her skin for about ten minutes. She claims that it prevents any itching and razor bumps. While this might be so, she also enjoys the pleasure. "What time did they say they were coming over?" I inquired. "About 6:30," Becky replied, "but I hope it is sooner." By 6:15, we had both showered. I elected to wear shorts without any underwear and a fitted t-shirt. Becky was undecided and tried on several outfits. She finally decided on a short cotton dress that flared from the waist and ended about mid-thigh. "That looks very sexy," I said, "I haven't seen you in that before." "Bought it for an occasion like this. What do you think?" Becky asked, making a spin that caused the dress to raise, revealing she did not have panties on. "I am sure our guest will enjoy it," I said. "How do you want to start things?" "I do not have a definite plan, but I propose to show some pussy to both of them," she responded. "We will discuss the first thing that comes up." "Something is already coming up just looking at you," I said. "You better save that for later," Becky laughed. Soon, Kristen and Brandon arrived. We greeted each other with kisses and hugs. Kristen took the opportunity to stick her tongue into my mouth and give me the 'that's only for starters' look. She wore a short top, no bra, and a skirt that stopped above her knee. We had arranged the furniture so that they faced each other. Becky sat on the couch and invited Brandon to sit next to her, and Kristen and I occupied the chairs facing them. The men were drinking beers, and the wives chose wine. The conversation was generally about the children, work, etc. Each time my wife would lean forward to take a sip of her wine, she would settle back, showing more leg to Brandon and letting Kristen get a peep of her pussy. After about two hours and everyone feeling no pain, Brandon finally placed his hand on my wife's thigh. With that, she stretched back on the couch, opening her legs and giving Kristen and me a full view of her cunt. Looking over at Kristen to see her reaction, I realized she was in a similar position. Brandon and my wife were looking at her pussy. Obviously, she had not worn panties either. From my position, I could not see Kristen's pussy clearly. I asked if anyone wanted a drink and got up. All could see the bulge in my pants as I headed to the kitchen. Since only Brandon and I wanted drinks, I returned quickly and sat on the couch next to my wife. Brandon had one hand over her shoulder, massaging a breast, and the other inside her thigh, heading for her pussy. I lowered the strap of Becky's dress, exposing her left breast, and Brandon removed his hand from her shoulders and exposed her other breast. By now, her dress had risen almost to her waist, and Brandon and I could clearly see her pussy. Kristen was sitting opposite, staring at Becky's coochie with a smile. "Care to join us?" my wife purred. "My pussy needs a warm mouth." Kristen immediately stood up, unzipped her skirt, and let it fall. She removed her top and kneeled between my wife's legs, licking the flowing juice. Paul started to suck one breast and then the other. Becky's head was back, eyes closed, and moaning in ecstasy. I joined Kristen on the floor and began to play with her small breasts. Her nipples were already hard and sticking out. I squeezed one between my thumb and forefinger, to which Kristen responded with a moan. I lay between her legs, and she lowered her pussy to my waiting mouth. Her juices flowed, and I alternated between licking up the liquid and sucking her clit. My wife's moans got louder. "Kristen, you suck so well. Oh shit, that feels so good. Suck my clit like that. Oh yes, Oh yes, I am cumming. Yes, Yes, Yes." Becky pushed her hips forward, pulling Kristen's face hard into her dripping vagina. When Becky's orgasm finally faded, Kristen removed her lips from Becky's womanhood. She rested her head on my wife's leg and could now pay some attention to her coochie, which I was devouring. "Suck her hard," Brandon said. "She likes her cunt sucked hard, don't you love?" "Yes, I love my clit sucked hard," she responded. I sucked and licked as both my wife and Brandon encouraged her. "Cum baby, let yourself go, come for us." Their urging only turned her on more, and she began her orgasm. "Suck my clit as I like it. Hard, harder, fuck, fuck." She pushed my head into her cunt and began buckling like a wild animal. Her orgasm subsided as I gently licked the juice that flowed from her. I looked up and realized that Brandon and I were still fully clothed while the girls were completely naked. Both of us had raging hard-ons, and we had entirely stripped in no time. My wife told Brandon, "Let's go to the bedroom where it is more comfortable, and I will see if I can get that hard thing soft." They left, leaving Kristen and me in each other's arms. I rolled over on top of her and inserted my cock into her pussy. It slipped in easily, and I stayed in her without moving, just feeling her pussy squeezing and releasing my cock. "Is there anything special you want me to do?" Kristen asked. "Make love to me is all I require," I said, and with that, we began to kiss. The kiss must have lasted five minutes as I played with one breast. Slowly I started to move inside her, and she responded by rotating her hips in a circle. I wanted this moment to last forever, but my cock had different ideas. Not wanting to cum, I removed my cock from her and lowered my body to suck her breast. "What is the matter?" she inquired. "I want you to cum in me. I want to feel your cum in me". With that, I reinserted my cock, and for the first time for the night, we really began to fuck. "I am cumming!" Kristen announced and started to bite my shoulder. My own began as she was coming down from her orgasm, and I came and came until she drained every last drop of semen from me. As my cock softened, it slipped out of her. "We need to do this more often," she said. "I like making love to you and fucking you." "I wonder what those two are up to?" I said. "I have not heard any sounds from them." "Let's see," Kristen said, and we went to look for them. We found them both lying on the bed, and Brandon appeared asleep. My wife's pussy was visibly leaking cum. Seeing us, she smiled and asked, "Have you two come to join us?" "We have invited our friends for dinner and have not fed them yet," I laughed. "We must be the first couple who serve dessert before the meal. I will warm the meal while you and Kristen get cleaned up." In about ten minutes, everyone was in the kitchen. The girls had dressed, and Brandon and I had put on our shorts. We discussed having sex with each other's spouses during dinner and agreed to keep it among ourselves. After dinner, we went to the bedroom. Kristen begged me to fuck her in the ass. She lay on her back and raised her legs in the air, opening her back door and pussy. I rubbed my cock over her pussy to wet it while gently working a finger into her butt to loosen her up. When she was ready, I placed the head of my cock at the entrance and gently pushed it in. Slowly I pushed until my entire cock was in her ass. She lay there looking at me and telling me how much she loved my cock. She lowered her hand to her pussy, inserted two fingers to get them wet, and started to rub her clit. As I moved slowly in her, it was a sight to see my cock slipping in and out of her ass, her pussy open and flowing juice as she rubbed her clit. My wife leaned over and took one of Kristen's nipples between her fingers. She whispered in her ear as she lightly pulled and tugged on the hard nipple. I don't know what she said, but I suspect it was things that only women can communicate to each other on a deeper level. The two females stared into each other's eyes. Whatever they were sharing, it was intense. "Cum in my ass," Kristen begged, "fuck my ass!" The intensity in her voice sent me over the edge, and my cock started shooting more cum than I thought I had in me. I love my wife very much and could not live without her. However, Kristen has brought out feelings that send butterflies in my stomach when we have sex. Becky understands this, as do Kristen and Brandon. In fact, we all feel this way, which is what makes our swinging relationship such a great one!
  10. 1 point
    This is how the usual disaster happens. Husband wants to swing. Wife says no. Husband convinces wife to have an MFM or do something solo hoping that she will come around to letting him play later. Wife really enjoys the extra cock but still doesn't want him to play. Husband gets mad and tells wife they are done. Wife has a hissy fit. Drama. The other type is husband and wife decide to have an "open" marriage. Wife finds a boytoy by the weekend. Husband is still pulling his pud three months later. Husband wants to call it quits. Wife is in love with boytoy. Drama. Now if you are more a "hot wife" type than a swinger, sure it might work out for you. We have just seen a number of "totally fine" guys in one sided relationships who are not totally fine later, so the warning is more of a blanket statement. Maybe for you its going to be fine. Personally I think anything "unequal" is bad in marriage.
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