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We find that wearing one of these works pretty well in that regard:

Guy here, I don't assume anything when it comes to sex. I like the woman on top and me on the bottom, never liked 69 on your sides. Actually, I like 69 as foreplay to intercourse so I don't want to cum during 69. 69 is great for me during the refactory period, if you want to go a second round, 69 is the best way to get me up. I have said it before in other threads that 69 is my favorite position.

My participation in gangbangs as you have described them — one woman and a lineup of men serially taking turns with her — is limited to one instance. I reckon there are examples where a woman is essentially being degraded for her male partner’s enjoyment, and perhaps to satisfy her own masochistic desires. But that wasn’t my experience. In my case the woman was being attended by a couple of guys alongside her on the bed. They made sure she was staying hydrated and that after each "banger" finished she was ready for another round. By my observation she was enjoying herself (and I assume her husband was.) I don’t know how many men she entertained that night at the club; when my FWB and I wandered into the bedroom where this was happening there was already a line of about five ahead of me and when I finished there were five more guys waiting their turn. From my own perspective a gangbang should be about addressing the desires primarily of the recipient and secondarily of her regular partner. I realize that at parties men may sometimes want to "save themselves up" so their libido isn’t depleted too early in the evening. That said, and assuming the event is about addressing the woman’s fantasy of "satisfying" a large group of men and thereby reinforcing her sense of sexual empowerment, I think it is almost rude for the men visiting her not to orgasm. And lastly, it’s also rude for them to take their participation as an opportunity to demonstrate to those who are spectating (or receiving) how long they can last while pounding the recipient’s pussy. The point is to run up her numbers, not injure for. Get in, get off and get out — this isn’t primarily about you. As a side note, one of my wife’s college roommates and her husband were swingers bin San Francisco in the 1970s. She and I often spoke about sexual matters. She once boasted to me that in one day she had had 25 men. I didn’t ask her for the details at the time. Later she and my wife had a falling out, so my curiosity about the specifics of that episode will likely never be satisfied.

What I tasted was pussy juice. We were in a 69 position with her on top when she real orgasmy lifting herself off my mouth and reached between her legs then it happened squirting on my face. I immediately pulled her down on my mouth again getting a totally wet face.

Squirting. Never experienced it and only thought it was a fake thing.

That's a good policy. But as a woman, if I let a guy into my mouth, pussy, or bum I assume that he's going to ejaculate. Orgasm is the goal after all. If it's in my mouth, I swallow unless I'm going to pass to another girl, which we sometimes do. That's my preference as well. Oral has its place both before and after the main event, but I prefer to mutually orgasm p-in-v.

Male here. I like 69 as a warm up, not a conclusion. As to swallowing, I ask the partner. If there is enthusiasm, ok. Hesitation is a no. 95% of the time, I ejaculate during intercourse with a condom.

What I liked about our club was the pre-party social hour culminating in everyone having an opportunity to voice what they would like to participate in once we all stripped down for action. There was almost always at least one of the Ladies who announced that she wanted to fuck all the guys.

My wife and I spent a week in Costa Rica at a resort last fall. We had always talked about it. We met a guy who was there in business and stuck up a nice rapport. By the end of the week things had progressed. We ended up going back to our bungalow own afternoon for a couple of drinks with him. My wife always wears things or g-strings on trips. When we went inside she freshener up and came out wearing a new g-string and crop topped sweatshirt. She made us drinks and sat next to us on the couch. The sexual tension was unbelievable. Before we knew it, she was making out with both of us. the next thing we knew, we had her completely naked and she was on her knees blowing both of us vigorously. We spent the entire afternoon doing pretty much everything possible. Surprisingly , it came so natural. The grand finale was her mounting him and me entering her for a DP. I’ve never seen my wife cum so hard and so much. She was squirting uncontrollably. We haven’t done it again but under the right circumstances most definitely will.

Not teaching but have ushered a number of men, women and couples into new experiences and activity. Most all were well into there late 30s, 40s and older. We learned early on that it was very important that if it was a couple their new experience should be with their SO. We experienced several situations that if the husband or wife did something that they never did for each other it was hurtful. The worst was when in the open room, with a number of people all engaging in various sexual group style sex a woman taking her husband doggy style and sucking on a random available cock, in the heat of the moment finished him off in her mouth and swallowed. Not unusual really. Her husband went off. Yelling did you just swallow his cum…..and launched off on an angry nasty tirade at his wife leaving his wife shocked and crying in the room while he stormed off and then left in the car. The whole party pretty much stopped at that point and many of the women trying to console her. In the many years of marriage she never once had her husband Finish in her mouth let alone swallow his cum. He eventually came back that evening apologized to all that were still at the party and took his wife home. After a few months they were back at the party as a couple joining in again……and she routinely swallowed her husband…and a select few other men. most often firsts with couples and singles, new experiences: 1. Oral to orgasm (new discovery…so that is what an orgasm feels like, first time) 2. Women, single or married having a real full orgasm (currently writing a experience story with “Pam” and all her firsts this past yearly) 3. Multiple partners 4. Group sex 5. Different positions 6. Sex for fun 7. Discovering like breasts, cocks come in all sizes, shapes and color. 8. Women discover their natural capacity for multiple sex partners during one play session…finish with one, move on to another. 9. Women, men and couples learning that sex, sexual freedom…..for women is natural. 10. It’s great to enjoy toys for a better….longer lasting sex play/role play experience. (I regularly used larger real like dildos filling woman up while I performed oral or a vibrator used while having penetrative sex. We experience a mid thirties couple where she never made her husband cum….seeing him cum. Only had him cum inside her. And she would announce “ok I’m ready now…..wtf? To be fair there culture limited them severely, emigrated to USA, but became two crazy swingers very active and creative over a year attending our parties. They would see something being done or something new being done to them and would go home and practice. Lol. From time to time they would call and ask advice…or how to. It even still amazes me how many women (around our age group) performed sex as more of an obligation….something expected…..and the huge realization that sex should be fun, exciting and orgasmic for them too. They are not there to just provide sex. But have the open freedom to enjoy themselves as well…..and how they can enjoy themselves. This was normal for many of the over 40 over 50 year old women no longer in a relationship trying swinging to have sex in their life. Not training or teaching……just providing experiences….learning how to enjoy themselves.

I don't see why it'd be creepy to consider that "looks count". We're here for sexual chemistry and that's part of the formula - though not the only ingredient, by far. I don't know how valuable my input is here, but I'll say that Mrs. E and I have a notable age difference in the other direction. We both lift, do yoga, and keep up on cardio. We eat (reasonably) well. We take care of our skin and watch our weight. The reality is that most people in the general population, even young people, are not taking very good care of themselves, and regardless of age, if you make an effort and dress up a bit, you should probably feel more confident than you think you should. We're not forming romantic bonds here, and with that out of the dynamic, age norms probably skew the opposite of what you'd expect from vanilla gender stereotypes. Since we started experimenting, I've been with women from almost 20 years younger to almost 20 years older and always had fun. Mrs. E usually prefers to dive in with a few years older down to much younger. She's certainly made a few MILF fantasies come true. We both agree that under 21 is too young, but get hit up by grad students regularly enough. (Admittedly, her more than me, but a guy can't take that personally.) When Mrs. E used to stress about the potential fallout of our early play, my go-to phrase was "it's just cum". If the couple likes each other and likes you, and you can see it being a fun experience free of unwanted drama, what's the use of overthinking this? Please share this wisdom, I think many of us could use it. More than once we've joked that the interaction would probably be met with less confusion if there *was* money involved.

My GF would rather be facefucked than just give a blowjob. She finds blowjobs boring and facefucking exciting. This has become extremely common among the younger generations maybe due to porn.

That's the time and situation where your pussy is available for him to do so.