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5 pointsMy wife and I went to a Lifestyle get-together last weekend. When we got there, we mingled and as it turned out, my wife meet a couple. She was sitting next to them having drinks, laughing, and having a good time. I walked over she introduced me. I sat next to his wife, and we were all enjoying the evening. The other wife and I got up to get some drinks and we chatted at the bar. "It looks like my wife has taking a liking to your husband," I said. "Yes, they both are," she replied. I asked, "Do you think you guys would like to come over to our house and we could continue the party there?" She politely made it very clear she was not interested in having sex tonight. I said, "OK, thanks for the heads up." As we sat there at the bar a friend come over to say hello. She got up excused herself and returned to the table with her husband and my wife. As the evening progressed my wife came over to me at the bar and told me she invited them to come home with us. I was a bit confused but said sure. We all left together, my wife in his car, and his wife in my car. Our conversation during the drive was very nice and easy, and I thought she had changed her mind. In the club, I could see my wife was very excited to be with her new friend. We got to our house and sat around and had some drinks. All seemed to be good. However, when we decide to go upstairs, his wife restated she was not interested in playing tonight. My wife and I left them in the room to talk, and when we came back, he apologized and said sharing tonight is not going to happen. I felt bad for my wife who was starry eyed at this guy. He was telling her she looked like a women who was beautiful and fun, and he was very much looking forward to being with her tonight but maybe some other time. My wife and I went in the kitchen to get some drinks for everyone, and I explained to her that the other wife had told me she was not interested in the bar. "I thought she changed her mind, but I guess not," I explained. "I see you want this guy. I don’t want you to be disappointed, I see and feel the attraction you two have. When we go back into the room why don’t you ask him if he wants to see the view from our bedroom? That is our usual break the ice move to get things started. I think this was his game plan all along to be with you even though she was not participating. But I’m OK with it for your pleasure." I saw how hot she was for him. So I thought to myself don’t screw this up for her, she should get to enjoy the moment. He jumped at the request, and they were off. I sat with his wife and said, "Are you ok with them going upstairs because I don’t think they care about the view?". She did not say anything but also did not object to what was going to happen. As it goes, my wife had a great experience, so they were up there for an hour. I am sure they enjoyed each other. When they came down my wife gave me a sweet kiss. We sat for a while then all politely said goodbye. The next weekend we went to a party at our friends' house. It was a vanilla evening but a number of friends were there. We had played with the host couple once before, but tonight was not that type of party. The next morning my wife realized she left her purse at Tim and Jean's house. She asked me to go and pick it up. I said I would on the way back from my bike ride. On the way back I detoured and stopped at the house. Jean answered the door and asked me in. She asked if I would like a cup of coffee, I said sure. I asked where Tim was, and she said he had left early this morning for an overnight ski trip with some of his buddies. We were in the kitchen and Jean was filling the coffee cups. I was looking at her in her robe as she delivered the hot coffee. We sipped the coffee and chatted but my thoughts while looking at this beautiful woman, came out of my mouth, “Are you wearing anything under that robe?” She smiled and got up and brought her cup to the sink. She walked back to the table where I was sitting and said, "You will have to find out for yourself." I was stunned thinking she was kidding. She said again, "All it takes to find out is to pull the robe's belt and open the robe." She stood in front of me as I sat in the chair. I pulled the robe belt and opened slowly opened the robe. She was naked and moved her chair in front of me and opened the robe and leaned forward and kissed me deep. She moved my head down into her crotch and I got on my knees and went at it not believing what was happening. She was enjoying the moment, she moaned she was coming and squeezed her legs around my head. When she released my head from the grasp of her legs she took my hand and brought me into her bedroom. She sat on the bed as I undressed. I rubbed her legs gently and picked them up high and spread them apart, she fell back, and I penetrated that wet beautiful tasting pussy. I pounded her over and over and when I stopped I got on the bed. I laid on my back and she put my hard cock in her mouth and started sucking me and would not stop until I came, and she told me how good I taste. We laid there for a few minutes not speaking and I was ready again and I turned her on her side and lifted one leg over my shoulder and began pounding her again. We went on for awhile and she had another orgasm and told me to cum inside her. She got on top and pounded me and made me explode inside her. We laid there together for a while, eyes closed resting, when her phone rang. It was Tim, he made it to the mountains and just checking in. I was feeling bad for what just happened, but it was a great experience. She repeated out loud what Tim asked - "What are you doing?" Jean replied - "Well, Allan stopped over to pick up Susan’s purse she left over here last night. I invited him in and we had a cup of coffee. I was in my robe and one thing led to another and I had Allan’s face in my crotch. Then we took it to the bedroom, and we had a giant orgasmic experience. I will tell you all about it when you get home. Are you OK with this? Good, I will tell Allan. Have fun skiing.” So, in discussing this with Jane I said I was shocked at what she just told Tim. She said, “We are always honest with each other. It will be so hot when he returns home, I will be in for another great time. So, I am also going to be honest with you. You wife left the purse here on purpose. She asked me if I would give you some great sex because you were a sweetheart last weekend. You worked it out so she could be with the gentleman she picked up at the club and she felt that you missed out, so she came up with this idea. But please understand, I was looking forward to it and it was a fantastic morning fuck with a good friend. Tim was not aware of this, but I will work it out with him when I explain the story. Susan said she the four of us can get together, or she will get with Tim alone if he prefers and you are OK with it. You have a great caring wife Allan. Please tell her thanks for including me in this scheme.”
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3 pointsSome on this board are aware that I trained at the doctoral level as a clinical psychologist prior to pursuing a very different career. I agree with the comments made in this thread thread that singles and/or couples who are in therapy (other than, in my opinion, for strictly behavioral matters like quitting smoking) should be candid with their therapists about all aspects of their lives, even if they don’t necessarily seem relevant to the presenting issue when beginning therapy. That said, not every person who hangs out a shingle as a therapist is as open-minded as you might wish. Even if they don’t see their own blind spots they may, outside their awareness, have blind spots. And while they should be getting supervision on all their cases to help them see those blind spots, that isn’t always the case. There are more therapists out there — particularly but not only in the case of pastoral counseling — who might say (and think) they are accepting of a client’s unconventional sexual/affectional life, but see it as a problematic aspect in the relationship. All else being equal (and of course that’s not always the case) I think it’s wise to choose a therapist who specifically states in their public-facing communications that they work with clients whose sexuality is outside the mainstream. Failing that, as others here have suggested, bring the subject up in your initial meeting with the therapist. And ask about their values around consensual non-monogamy. You can find lifestyle-friendly therapist through Google searches. It took me about 30 seconds to find an example: https://www.bethfirestein.com/alternative-lifestyles/
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2 pointsYep, wonderful how it works that way. Even when hubby has already cum and ejaculated in another woman, having watched (or even just knowing what happened with your spouse) makes us both ready to go again. Tasting her as I suck him back up and the sight and sounds of sloppy seconds is intense.
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2 pointsMy girlfriend really likes inside her. Even during mfm threesome she prefers myself and the other guy to cum in her.
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2 pointsI also prefer it inside, especially my mouth as I can then kiss my lover (or lovers) and share the cum. I got my hubby to go with my fantasy, and now we share his yummy cum, but also my other lovers'. We both like fine wine and cum. Laura Laura and Dave
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1 pointMichael and I continue to see a therapist both together and separately. Over the years we have both become more open to telling her what experiences and feelings we have with others and the reasons we enjoy others. I will never know what he tells her in his private sessions though I am very open in our joint meetings. We have told her that we post some of our experiences on a swingers site, it’s more me posting, Michael doesn’t post anymore. She asked if I embellish my posts because many post on sites about fantasies more than realities. I think I post real feelings as best as I can but I know what she means that posting has an excitement factor like reliving an event. Others will post something they wished they did almost as if they did it. Michael and I were very hesitant to open up to our therapist our alternative lifestyle thoughts when we first met her. I opened up first in my private meetings and then only in a broad way with no specific acts. I didn’t think she would understand what we were doing or how she would judge me. Therapy was to take away my odd feelings which ended up adding to my thinking my actions were odd. Once getting over my fears of opening up my deep thoughts it has freed up anxiety of enjoying. I think I have a healthier outlook now that I have freed myself of worrying what others think and what a therapist thinks. Our joint sessions are now very freeing allowing me to express my feelings to Michael and understanding his feelings. How open are others? Do others discuss true feelings to a partner? Are you honest to a therapist?
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1 pointTelling a doctor is not that easy for me. My original OB/GYN delivered my children years ago who has since retired just like many of our other doctors. I never found going to him a pleasant thing not for any real reason. His replacement was a female who has also retired. A few years ago a younger female doctor who is very sweet and thorough is also an Orthodox Jewish mother. I have no doubts of her capabilities or knowledge I just have an unreasonable shyness discussing my sex life with her.
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1 pointI have a very hip therapist. I like to think I can tell her anything. We sometimes visit with her together. I wish I could tell her that we are swingers, but so far I just tell her that I have those desires, as well as bisexual fantasies.
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1 pointNot really. If one is not on bc pill, there are new ways to predict fertility (kit, apps, etc) and avoid those days as an extra layer of protection.
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1 pointAs far as professional revelation.... MD of course it is a relevant fact. If I had a therapist of course I would. What is the point of seeing a therapist and intentionally hiding something with powerful emotional and spiritual ramifications? Dermatologist , no. Lawyer probably not unless it became pertinent. Non professional? One person outside of the LS. Who has instructions to "clean" our bedroom if we both suddenly pass. Wife's BFF whose tenure is older than mine.
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1 pointDuring swing play, he can cum inside me but with a condom. Or he can cum outside, anywhere on me. For my SO and bf, they can cum inside on safe days. And of course, in mouth or bum.
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1 pointSecond the casual but nice. For clubs, I usually go with a nice pair of stylish jeans and a button up shirt pair with sharp shoes and belt. When things heat up, nothing at all
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1 pointCasual but nice is usually the dress code for men. As things heat up, things usually are removed.
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1 pointToothbrush and toothpaste. Your favorite adult beverage if the club is BYOB. And with COVID still around, hand sanitizer and wipes.
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1 pointAs a woman I prefer to feel his orgasm and ejaculation. The pulsing of his prostate, the pumping of his semen. In my vagina (where God intended it), in my mouth, in my bum (where He doesn't). If I haven't cum yet (or even if I have) it puts me over the top.
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1 point^^^ This. I've had the good fortune to have sex with my wife many times after one of her (long term; only they get to go bareback) boyfriends has just cum inside of her. I absolutely leave penetrating her feeling her so sloppy with another man's cum and completely open, receptive, and very warm. It's quite intense! I've never been able to do that after two (or more) men have cum in her, but I'd love to try.
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1 pointI love it when hubby goes balls deep and pushes as hard as he can and I feel his cock pump deep in my vagina. When I ride him, I love feeling his cock pump like that deep in me. Then I lift up and sit on his face and mouth so he can swallow everything I push out and then lick me clean of his cum mess.
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1 pointI never understood why either the guy or gal would want to cum on the women's face, must be a porn thing. Call me old fashioned, but I prefer to cum in her pussy, bareback! And as far as using condoms, I think women don't want to use condoms as much as the men, I have had women tell me that either they are allergic to latex or it rubbs their pussy raw.
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1 pointI agree with Erika, we gals like to have the warm sensation of cum, but bareback only with those guys we know and trust. I have had up to nine different guys from our club fill my pussy and ass, and I like my hubby to clean me out and share with me. That's love and lust together.
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1 pointWhen I am with a close friend or my husband, I go bareback. At these times, I prefer the intimacy of being pumped with my partner's semen. If I am with a few close friends in one night, I feel incredibly sexy knowing that sperm from many men are finding their way to my uterus. I usually use condoms with playmates whom I do not know well. Even with a condom, it excites me to know that they are thrusting and coming deep inside me.
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1 pointIt depends on if I am using a condom or bareback with my partner. Bareback inside and as deep as possible, if using a condom then anywhere else, after I remove the condom.
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1 pointChiccouplexx, I know that my hubby loves my gulps too when I have more than one or two guys with me. I love his 'gulps' when he is with a lady who squirts and I get to watch. Laura
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1 pointI prefer it in me. First choice in my vagina, second in my mouth (I swallow), third in my bum. Outside is ok and somewhat interesting, especially if the guy produces a lot of semen, but I like the feel of his dick pulsing and the flow of his cum.
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1 pointI find that I really love feeling a man cum inside. I'm pretty tight and sensitive so feeling him swell and then explode with heat is amazing. Personally I hate it on the face. My husband did it once and I felt so disgusting I cried and we didn't have sex for like two days. Though in contrast I love when he decides to cum on my little breasts, he's a heavy enough cummer he pretty much covers them. I've only recently had a man cum in my asshole. I'd done a little anal but my husband had always pulled out and either gone back to my pussy or my breasts. One of my new guys came really deep in my anus and it actually felt really good.